Where pretty lies perish.
Posted in Game, Relationships on Aug 11th, 2009
Reader PA left a comment describing how he once held his woman’s hand “against the grain” as they walked — that is, his hand was behind her hand. He said she did not like the unnatural feel of it. In the interest of corroborating this peculiar observation, I did the same with one of my … Read more
Posted in Game, Relationships on Aug 10th, 2009
Around the four month mark you’re going to start taking your girlfriend on weekend trips, unless you are a beta, in which case you will be planning romantic weekends before you’ve even kissed her. Romantic (read: nonstop bedroom pounding) getaways include bed and breakfasts in the mountains, oceanview hotels or beach house rentals, horseback riding, … Read more
Posted in Hitting The Wall, Relationships, Rules of Manhood on Jul 21st, 2009
A lot of guys fret about meeting their girlfriends’ parents, but it’s important to do so for reasons having nothing to do with making a good impression. Your girlfriend will never catch onto the real reason you went with her to visit her parents: To collect vital information on how badly and how quickly your … Read more
Posted in Alpha, Game, Relationships on Jun 17th, 2009
Your ability to quickly identify and avoid social miscues, and to capitalize on power vacuums within shifting social arrangements, is more valuable to your success with women than your net worth or job status. Thought experiment: You’ve been dating a girl for a couple of months, which means you should have been banging her for 7.5 weeks. … Read more
Posted in Dating, Game, Relationships on Jun 12th, 2009
The range of answers by the commenters to yesterday’s post about how to handle an inconsiderate woman you’ve been dating for six weeks when she flies out of town on a mystery trip and leaves you in the dark were wide and varied, enough for me to choose representative samples of the worst and the best. … Read more
Posted in Dating, Game, Relationships on Jun 11th, 2009
Pulled from a friend’s real life events! You’ve been dating a woman for about six weeks. The sex has been great and you enjoy her company. Recently, she accepted into her furrow your unsheathed manhood. Things are heating up. She has showered you with adequate flattery and cooed sweet talk in your ear. (No L word … Read more
Posted in Love, Pretty Lies, Relationships on May 20th, 2009
There are times when we men can’t help but gush our feelings of love for our woman. It’s Ok. Passionately pouring out your heart is not inherently un-alpha. But there is a right way and a wrong way to do it. For instance, right ways: “I love you more than you will ever know.” “I … Read more
Posted in Relationships on May 14th, 2009
Install a high-powered fan in your bathroom to drown out the sounds of your woman crapping in the morning. *plop plop*! Let her do the talking 80% of the time and the action 20% of the time. Tease her 99 out of 100 verbal interactions. Walk right up to the point of offending her, and stop short … Read more
Posted in Game, Relationships on Apr 14th, 2009
I’ve been getting a lot of emails recently from readers who want to know how to square game with relationships. As has been discussed here before, game never ends. It is refined to suit the circumstances. In the beginning stages, your game portfolio is heavy on attraction and excitement stocks. Later, it diversifies into comfort … Read more
Posted in Game, Love, Relationships on Mar 16th, 2009
I get a lot of emails from readers wondering how to “handle” when a woman says she loves you. The question is odd to me, because a woman who is truly in love with you will not suddenly run away if you deviate from the alpha script for half a second. Once you’ve captured a … Read more
