I’ve got a very important post up at men’s magazine The Spearhead for my Friday Night Game weekly series. Excerpt: There are only three things that drain the blood faster from a man’s face than the thought of erectile dysfunction: When your wife serves you divorce papers. When you catch your woman fooling around with […]
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Posted in Game, Relationships on Aug 14th, 2009
The coda to this week’s relationship game posts is a sampling of comments from reader Dave from Hawaii , a guy who kills wild boar with a knife for fun, wherein he discusses his transformation from nagged beta husband of a contemptuous wife to alpha husband of a loving, grateful, gina tingly wife (same woman!), […]
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Posted in Game, Relationships on Aug 13th, 2009
Relationships are merely a continuation of pickup by other means. Just as she must never forget to keep in shape for your pleasure, you must never stop gaming your girl. The day you slip into complacence is the day her love begins to show signs of stress. Relationships may change but the Game remains the […]
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Posted in Game, Relationships on Aug 11th, 2009
Reader PA left a comment describing how he once held his woman’s hand “against the grain” as they walked — that is, his hand was behind her hand. He said she did not like the unnatural feel of it. In the interest of corroborating this peculiar observation, I did the same with one of my […]
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Posted in Game, Relationships on Aug 10th, 2009
Around the four month mark you’re going to start taking your girlfriend on weekend trips, unless you are a beta, in which case you will be planning romantic weekends before you’ve even kissed her. Romantic (read: nonstop bedroom pounding) getaways include bed and breakfasts in the mountains, oceanview hotels or beach house rentals, horseback riding, […]
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A lot of guys fret about meeting their girlfriends’ parents, but it’s important to do so for reasons having nothing to do with making a good impression. Your girlfriend will never catch onto the real reason you went with her to visit her parents: To collect vital information on how badly and how quickly your […]
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I was at a cookout in Rock Creek Park where a bunch of couples were in attendance. They were all nice enough people, average age mid 20s to mid 30s, and the very Moloko Plus of SWPL sanctimony . There were three different varieties of veggie burgers on the grill, and someone had brought “cookies” […]
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Posted in Alpha, Game, Relationships on Jun 17th, 2009
Your ability to quickly identify and avoid social miscues , and to capitalize on power vacuums within shifting social arrangements, is more valuable to your success with women than your net worth or job status. Thought experiment: You’ve been dating a girl for a couple of months, which means you should have been banging her […]
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Posted in Dating, Game, Relationships on Jun 12th, 2009
The range of answers by the commenters to yesterday’s post about how to handle an inconsiderate woman you’ve been dating for six weeks when she flies out of town on a mystery trip and leaves you in the dark were wide and varied, enough for me to choose representative samples of the worst and the […]
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Posted in Dating, Game, Relationships on Jun 11th, 2009
Pulled from a friend’s real life events! You’ve been dating a woman for about six weeks. The sex has been great and you enjoy her company. Recently, she accepted into her furrow your unsheathed manhood. Things are heating up. She has showered you with adequate flattery and cooed sweet talk in your ear. (No L […]
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