Posted in Girls, Guy Rules, Psy Ops, Relationships on Dec 21st, 2011
Not every insult (veiled or blatant), punchy challenge, or arch criticism by a woman is a shit test as the term is commonly understood — a subconsciously guided female examination of a man’s grace under pressure that helps her assess his alphaness. There are other reasons a woman might be critical of a man she […]
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Posted in Game, Hope and Change, Relationships on Dec 13th, 2011
It’s not often Le Chateau gets emails like this one about gaming your mom. For those denialists of the human condition who completely misunderstand and fervently believe that game only works on bar sluts, behold its power to improve relationships with overbearing mothers. This is a long reader-submitted story, but it’s worth your time. I […]
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Digging through the archives of the Chateau Heartiste library, we find a post about the hazards of LTRs and marriage . Now you can’t do anything without her, and she you. In the beginning, this is a necessary process to build the level of trust and bonding that distinguishes the LTR from any run of […]
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Posted in Girls, Guy Rules, Relationships on Sep 8th, 2011
When you start dating a girl, you will get to meet her friends, sometimes sooner, sometimes later. But usually within the first couple of months you will have been introduced to nearly everyone she knows (locally), especially if she really likes you. Pay close attention to the types of friends she has (if she has […]
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Camelot007 writes: I believe there is no better explanation of what women need than in this excerpt: “And within a committed relationship, the crucial stimulus of being desired decreases considerably, not only because the woman’s partner loses a degree of interest but also, more important, because the woman feels that her partner is trapped, that […]
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Posted in Game, Girls, Relationships on Jul 18th, 2011
In relationships, the neg has to be toned down. A girl in love with you will easily misconstrue negs and teasing in the worst possible light. For example: COCKY YOU: “I like your hair style. There’s beauty in imperfection.” HOT SINGLE GIRL: [open mouthed stare] “Haha, I can’t believe you said that.” *** COCKY YOU: […]
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Posted in Love, Relationships, Ugly Truths on Jul 6th, 2011
It’s no hard sell to convince most people of the benefits of long term relationships. The intimacy, the shared experiences, the knowing winks and nods in crowded rooms, the quasi-telepathic unspoken understanding, and the cosmically unfathomable depth of love that seems to stop time — there is no better feeling in the world than sex […]
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Posted in Game, Guy Rules, Relationships on May 8th, 2011
We already know , thanks to the spiritually enriching wisdom of this blog, that a man should never say ‘I love you’ before his girlfriend has said it. But there’s more. Reader Shark writes: Other things to never say first: “I miss you” “Let’s be exclusive” “I want to have children” These are all right […]
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Posted in Relationships on Apr 24th, 2011
Remember some trivial detail about her and recall it many months later, to her pleasant surprise. “The craziest field trip ever was that picnic last summer at Hyde Park. Poor Terry broke his hand playing frisbee.” “Yeah, I remember you wore a cute blue and yellow ribbon in your hair that day.” *shiny, glowy face* […]
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Two women, to be precise. In a new book called “Stop Calling Him Honey… And Start Having Sex”, the two female authors dispense relationship advice that could have been lifted straight from the Chateau files. (Maybe they have?) For instance, they write that pet names are a surefire way to kill the sexual tension in […]
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