Where pretty lies perish.
Posted in Biomechanics is God, Game on Apr 9th, 2010
The third most frequent email request I receive from readers is advice for how to date younger women. (The second most common email request is of the type “Hey I was a beta with this girl I like. What could I have done better?”. The first is “Meet me this Thursday.”) I’ve written a few … Read more
Posted in Closing the Deal, Game, Girls, The Good Life on Apr 2nd, 2010
9pm on a weekday night. I leaned like a pillar of masculine detachment against the edge of the bar, blessing the peasantry with my royal aloofness. I sipped a gin and tonic, surprised with myself for agreeing with a buddy to go out on a slow night for some drinks. I doubly surprised myself for … Read more
Posted in Game, Love, Pretty Lies on Apr 1st, 2010
Sometimes ignorance really is bliss. Of the last 25 out of 30 girls I’ve slept with, I’ve used the following game tactics on all of them in almost the same order and at the same point in time of the pickup: indirect opener, usually situational if cockblock was present, one neg to cb asking if … Read more
Posted in Game on Mar 29th, 2010
“You’re very brave to come over to talk with me.” “Your flirting is charming.” “As we’re sitting here talking I can tell you seem really happy.” “Wow! Don’t get too excited.” [Note: Not to be used sarcastically. That would be signaling lower value.] “Hmm. Your hands are shaking.” [Doesn’t matter if they’re not shaking. Use … Read more
Do you think you have what it takes to bend the world to your whim? Are you… alpha enough? Reader RF raps the wrought iron lion knocker on the heavy oak door seeking admittance to the Chateau: Night of the meeting, running game Riossy likely would approve of (though there’s always room for improvement), I … Read more
20% of my lays were through social circle entrustments. That is, a significant minority of women I’ve banged were introduced to me, or I to them, through mutual friends, usually at house parties or mixed group gatherings at bars. Social circle game is a powerful force, most in evident during the college years, but always … Read more
Posted in Game on Mar 23rd, 2010
A reader emails: Dear Chateau, I am a 32 year old quasi-alpha who is looking to make up for lost time. Due to my history and upbringing, I have had few successful relationships with women. I am returning to college to finish my degree. Could you make some suggestions so my time in college is more … Read more
Posted in Game, Relationships on Mar 22nd, 2010
One time, like a stink bomb dropped in the middle of a spring meadow, your girlfriend called you a rude name, and not in jest. The insult itself was nothing that would scandalize polite company. On the scale from “dummy” to “motherfucker” it was closer to the former. It was a rambunctious conversation between just … Read more
Posted in Game on Mar 17th, 2010
A very effective game technique that works on all kinds of girls, from lawyers to strippers, is the beta switch. This involves pretending to act like a romantic, sappy beta, then when she’s on the verge of confusion, disappointment and disgust, switching quickly back into alpha mode. The beta switch technique is best when used … Read more
Posted in Game, Girls, Reader Mailbag on Mar 16th, 2010
I recently received an email from an early 20s girl who just moved to a big city and wanted advice on how to avoid becoming a bitter, cock hopping lawyer chick in pursuit of the elusive commitment-oriented alpha boyfriend. Like most women, she is interested in marriage and kids with a man who also tingles … Read more
