Where pretty lies perish.
Posted in Dating, Girls, Inner Beauty, Relationships on Jun 22nd, 2012
There are many “tells” women have that, unbeknownst to them, signal to the men they are dating their worthiness as long-term investments. The tell number could very well be in the thousands, and, yes ladies, we men are attuned to all of them, in greater or lesser perspicacity, and with conscious awareness or, more often … Read more
Posted in Guy Rules, Love, Relationships, Self-aggrandizement, The Id Monster on Jun 7th, 2012
Beware the blessings of gratification. The relationship. The long-term relationship. The Holy Grail for some. Purgatory for others. Serene limbo for most. The relationship — aka marriage, when in its most loathsome permutation — is supposed to be the culmination of romantic transcendence. It moves lovers beyond lust into the realm of silent covalent bond. … Read more
Posted in Game, Girls, Guy Rules, Inner Beauty, Relationships on Jun 1st, 2012
To praise, or not to praise? “seeking truth” asks: The transition from sleeping often with women of assorted beauty and quality, over the past 8 years, to recently establishing a longer-term serious relationship with what I consider quite a valuable women is an interesting dilemma. Clearly there are long-term issues to excessively praising a woman, … Read more
Posted in Biomechanics is God, Relationships, The Pleasure Principle, Ugly Truths on May 31st, 2012
A reader quizzically wonders about something I asserted: I was reading the post about men’s smarts and their value. You made a comment about women not wanting a guy hotter than themselves. I understand what you meant, but wondered how far you could carry that logic. That is, women do not want a man who … Read more
Posted in Dating, Game, Guy Rules, Relationships on Mar 29th, 2012
Reader DiavoloBello needs advice: Not sure if the relationship game thread is still going, can somebody help? My girl talks about guys she has dated in the past too much for my taste. It’s annoying. And I’m battling beta insecurity, to be honest. She still texts a guy she used to date that she still … Read more
Posted in Game, Girls, Psy Ops, Relationships, Status Is King, Ugly Truths on Mar 29th, 2012
When privy to the secretive, gated world of women, you learn that the idea of relationship leverage — aka “having hand” — is as well-known and accepted among women as it is among pickup artists and naturals. Women are no innocent angels, passively idling their time like pretty mannequins until a good man sweeps them … Read more
Posted in Biomechanics is God, Game, Relationships, Ugly Truths on Mar 26th, 2012
Game has a reputation among ignoramuses as a player’s handbook for picking up sluts in bars and clubs, but of course these willfully stupid haters are wrong. Not only is game universally attractive to all women, like T&A on a woman is attractive to men, but game as a concept and a strategy is critical to maintaining … Read more
Posted in Girls, Guy Rules, Psy Ops, Relationships on Dec 21st, 2011
Not every insult (veiled or blatant), punchy challenge, or arch criticism by a woman is a shit test as the term is commonly understood — a subconsciously guided female examination of a man’s grace under pressure that helps her assess his alphaness. There are other reasons a woman might be critical of a man she … Read more
Posted in Game, Hope and Change, Relationships on Dec 13th, 2011
It’s not often Le Chateau gets emails like this one about gaming your mom. For those denialists of the human condition who completely misunderstand and fervently believe that game only works on bar sluts, behold its power to improve relationships with overbearing mothers. This is a long reader-submitted story, but it’s worth your time. I … Read more
Posted in Hungry Hungry Hippos, Marriage Is For Chumps, Relationships, The Good Life, Ugly Truths on Oct 24th, 2011
Digging through the archives of the Chateau Heartiste library, we find a post about the hazards of LTRs and marriage. Now you can’t do anything without her, and she you. In the beginning, this is a necessary process to build the level of trust and bonding that distinguishes the LTR from any run of the … Read more
