Where pretty lies perish.
Posted in Dating, Rules of Manhood, The Big City Life on Oct 17th, 2007
I have two or three favorite bars/lounges I like to take dates. I’d prefer to be more creative but logistics are just as important as venue atmosphere, so I always wind up asking girls to meet me at the same few bars. I live in an area densely packed with nightlife locations so it’s easy to arrange dates within … Read more
Clarification: *By younger, I mean 5+ years younger than me and legal. Pervs.*By older, I mean closer to my age (not more than 4 years younger) and up. YoungerMet a girl for a date at a county park. She had arrived first and was sitting on a swing. I pushed the swing before either of us exchanged any words. … Read more
Posted in Dating, Rules of Manhood on Oct 5th, 2007
I’m surprised guys still struggle with the question of who pays on dates. It seems to be a perennial issue that never gets satisfactorily resolved. There’s a simple solution that skirts the problem entirely — don’t take her on traditional dates that cost more than a few bucks. This isn’t so much about saving money as it is … Read more
Posted in Dating, Girls, Inner Beauty, Psy Ops on Oct 3rd, 2007
Here is a comparison of two girls I briefly dated. Girl A occasionally tossed out five dollar words like “antinomian” never spoke about her job in detail or hinted that she liked it talked more than once about the school she attended and about her father’s accomplishments i paid for her drinks noticed my brand of watch … Read more
Posted in Dating, Self-aggrandizement, The Big City Life on Sep 25th, 2007
In the quest to uncover any hidden patterns in my dating experiences that might help me streamline operations, I’ve done a back of the cocktail napkin calculation of the total number of girls I’ve dated that led to intimate relations, assorted by which days I first met those girls. I wanted to see if some days were better for meeting a slutty sexually … Read more
During downtimes when I was too tired to go out and meet women I experimented with internet dating. I found love from just a few custom tailored emails. My friends think I hit the dating equivalent of the lotto.
In the movies and in the popular imagination, persistence pays off. The guy who chases and won’t take no for an answer eventually wins the love of the girl. In real life, persistence is just a nice word for creepiness. Guys who pursue women with great ardor are always losing the girl to guys who don’t answer her phone calls right away and keep … Read more
Posted in Dating, The Good Life on Aug 20th, 2007
Late summer afternoons, when I was a young teenager full of innocence, suburban angst, and sappy love poems, I would bike past a certain house to catch a glimpse of the girl who, by dint of having never been corrupted by actual bedsharing, would remain a lifelong figure of purity to me. Being my first lust … Read more
Posted in Dating, Game, Psy Ops, Rules of Manhood on Aug 10th, 2007
I don’t use tricks during dates like having my cell phone ring with an “emergency” call, saying I’m going to the bathroom and then escaping through the window, or telling my date “I think I’m falling in love with you” to give me an out in case it’s not going well. It’s incompatible with being a man who doesn’t … Read more
In this Esquire article (with a very disturbing photo at the top), the author recounts his experience trying to set up his drop-dead gorgeous babysitter on a date. For some inexplicable reason, she can’t seem to find a man on her own, so her host dad decides to help her out by impersonating her on … Read more
