Commenter LauraByNight wrote on yesterday’s post: This seems to suggest that a good strategy for finding quality girls is to avoid looking in bars and clubs, and maybe to avoid spending most of your time in places full of high-powered, high-strung women. I realize that this could be difficult for some men, depending on their … Read more
Category Archive for 'Dating'
Reader Mailbag
Posted in Dating, Game, Relationships, The Good Life on Jul 21st, 2008
I often get emails from readers asking me for advice on game, dating, or relationships (along with sexual proposals from female readers). I’m less than conscientious keeping up with these email requests so instead I’ll answer some of them on the blog. Email #1 Hey! I’ve been reading the posts on your blog, very good advice … Read more
Handholding Daytime Dates
Posted in Beta, Dating, The Big City Life, Tool Time on Jul 2nd, 2008
Daytime dates are risky. Besides the sex-killing sobriety, a girl can learn a lot more about you when the sun is up and you’re outside strolling around for hours revealing more of yourself than you would be inclined to at night in a dimly-lit lounge with music to distract her. An actual Bhutanese man so … Read more
Boyfriend Destroyer?
Posted in Dating, Girls, Rules of Manhood, Tool Time on Jul 1st, 2008
What do you do if you’re being used… and you know it? An awkward scenario in which to find yourself embroiled is to be dating a girl you like, who also likes you and has made that known, but who is deep into a multi-year relationship with another guy that she has told you about, … Read more
Speed Dating Sucks
Posted in Dating, Hitting The Wall, Psy Ops, The Big City Life, Tool Time on May 29th, 2008
I went to a speed dating event here in DC with my date and one of her girlfriends. The idea was that we would have some over-the-top fun with it while practicing our flirting skills on a maximum number of targets in a minimum amount of time in order to keep our game sharp. (Lord … Read more
The Gayest Show On Earth
Posted in Dating, Escape, Ridiculousness on Apr 22nd, 2008
The circus is a great daytime event to take a girl for a third date. It’s thooper dooper gay, because the performers are very happy and always smiling. The spectators are smiling, the clowns are smiling, everyone is gay and joyous. So fabulously gay! The happy smiling gayness puts your date in a positive upbeat mood, even if the … Read more
Preemptive Rejection
Posted in Dating, Psy Ops, Rules of Manhood on Apr 21st, 2008
One thing that comes with dating a lot of women is an improved ability to detect when her level of enthusiasm isn’t matching yours, and when to cut off investment when the profit outlook is poor. Inexperience and lack of diversification causes a lot of men to hold onto a girl’s stock far longer than is wise, … Read more
High Energy Dates
Posted in Dating on Apr 2nd, 2008
There are two different dating strategies to follow depending on your relationship goals. Short term fling Don’t bother putting much imaginative effort into your dates. When you are doubtful of the girl you are dating as relationship material you’re better off minimizing your courtship investment. A “girl you date” as opposed to a “girl you see” … Read more
Going Sexual
Posted in Dating, Game, The Id Monster on Mar 28th, 2008
It’s a good idea to bring sex talk into the conversation with a girl sooner rather than later. Prying her brain wave patterns with thoughts of sexual scenarios while her attention is directed to you will anchor those pleasurable feelings to your presence. She will perceive you as a sexual man with a masculine crotch-centered aura. Timing is important. … Read more
When A Girl Needs An Asshole
Posted in Alpha, Biomechanics is God, Dating, Ridiculousness on Mar 21st, 2008
I met a pretty blonde girl for a first date at one of my favorite lounges (that is to say, the lounge met the requirement of being conveniently located within walking distance of my place). Halfway through the marry, boff, kill game we had the following conversation. Her: Have you seen that VH1 show The Pickup Artist? … Read more