Damian called me for some advice. Damian: So Mirabelle* [ed: no real names used] cancelled for Friday and said something came up, but she’d be OK with getting together on Sunday. Another girl playing hard to get. Any sage advice Senor StuffAMuff? Me: You’ve been on one date and you’re already scheduling a weekend night? And … Read more
Category Archive for 'Game'
A Test Of Your Game: The Judging
Posted in Game, Relationships on Dec 21st, 2009
Way back in November I posed the following scenario. What do you do when your girl keeps mentioning the name of another man she’s known since high school and for whom you suspect she nurses some latent sexual attraction? 363 comments suggests this sort of scenario is not that uncommon. Most readers’ responses would fall … Read more
A Test Of Your Game
Posted in Dating, Game, The Big City Life on Dec 8th, 2009
Tonight, you are meeting a woman at a bar. This bar is in DC and it serves the best beer in the city. (It’s not Brickskeller. Those of you who live here will know which bar I’m talking about.) The woman is someone you’ve been dating for a few months. Expectations have been established. Not … Read more
Time for another round of alpha assessment, where readers send in their examples of game they’ve run and hope to be judged worthy of alphatude. Case #1 Submitted by bills217: This chick is my next door neighbor – I met her and got her number, but she will not text me back, no matter what … Read more
A Common Mistake Men Make
Posted in Game on Dec 4th, 2009
Needling a woman to be more upbeat. “Why so sad? Be happy. How about a smile!” “Hey, it’s not that bad, come on!” “Let’s see a smile. Don’t look so down.” “Where’s your holiday spirit?” Why do you show you care about a woman’s emotional state before you’ve banged her? Remember, your reality first. Her … Read more
The Easiest Way To Revive A Flagging Relationship
Posted in Game, Psy Ops, Relationships, Self-aggrandizement on Nov 23rd, 2009
Beta backsliding is a fact of life. Even the hardest alphas will occasionally show flashes of humanity that rev their women’s shit testing engines. Most of these moments are brief and dismissible, but woe to the man who can’t recognize his embetafying ineptitude; he will slowly lose dominant control of his relationships until one day … Read more
It’s been a while since I tested my readers’ game skills. Let’s see how you do in the following hypothetical scenario. You’ve been dating a girl for a few months. Things are going swimmingly. The sex is hot, the time together is easy and carefree, and the affection is genuine. Pat yourself on the back, … Read more
Natural Game Is Dead
Posted in Culture, Game, Pretty Lies, Self-aggrandizement, Tool Time on Nov 17th, 2009
Has there been too much emphasis by the seduction community on teaching “natural game”? Are we headed down a road where everything we’ve learned about women’s motives and desires becomes clouded over by ideological status jockeying, as a retrograde belief among pickup instructors and authors of game books takes hold that the only true game … Read more
Discovering A Girl’s Soul With One Simple Question
Posted in Game, Girls, Relationships on Nov 16th, 2009
I’ve written before on the practical importance of screening girls for their worthiness as long term sex partners and as a sly game tactic for making yourself seem choosier to a woman you are trying to pick up. I will now share with you a question I ask girls I have been dating for a … Read more
Cousin Banging
Posted in Game, Reader Mailbag, Rules of Manhood on Nov 12th, 2009
Reader “Billy Ray Cyrus” emailed me: I want to bang my cousin. Why? Same reason mounteneers [sic] want to climb Everest. Fortunately, she’s about my age (21) and on the loose side. Would I game her the same way as any other girl? Godspeed, Billy I’ve never been sexually attracted to any of my female … Read more