Girl sidles up next to you at the bar to browse the tap selection. You, after binge reading CH: “I see the way you’re looking at me. Might want to tone it down a bit, I don’t date amateurs.”
Girl: “I wasn’t looking at you.”
You: “Win-win.”
What does a woman want? A man who’s rejected her.
Clear the way for Preemptive Rejection Game! From PBR Streetgang,
Can’t decide whether to shit or go blind with the options – I’m going on a campaign of rejecting women from the get-go. Gonna respond to even passing glances with ‘I’m not available’ – reject, reject, reject – my new modus operandi.
“Can I pet your dog” – You’re not my type
“Would you like your receipt” – Stop hitting on me
“Press the button for 5th floor” – I’m dating someone
“Good Morning…” – Too bad, I’m gay .. Try that guyI was all in for ‘Approach Week’ – but their behavior recently has me fed up – her comes ‘Rejection Week’ – And I’m not feeling the lease bit anxious about it.
This is all upside if your approach game isn’t working for you. Sure, you might lose a few girls who’ll call your bluff, but overall your number of hits should go up because girls find it tough to resist a man who resists them.
Preemptive Rejection falls under the umbrella category of Disqualification Game and is an extreme version of the Assume the Sale tactic. You go about your day assuming all women want your D, but they have no chance to get it. You are disqualifying girls from being worthy of your consideration, while collaterally implying they want you. It’s courtship script flipping on steroids.
The best thing about Preemptive Rejection Game is that it’s just damned funny if your timing and delivery are right. Most girls will laugh, a little anxiously, not knowing whether you’re serious or joking around, because it’s something they never hear from most men. Humor can take a totally cold open from Zero to Curious in ten seconds flat. Even faster if the humor is deadpan.
>> girls find it tough to resist a man who resists them.
Girls find it tough to resist A VERY HIGH VALUE MAN who resists them
If you’re not THAT GUY ^… girls have zero problem “resisting” you.
I like the tactic… for maybe 10% of guys it will work as described. Another 5-10% will make it work as a form of comedy (value = comedy and surprise, in that case). Everyone else… value deficit will make them look like bitter, uncalibrated weirdos.
The VALUE gets left out of this kind of lesson every time. No value… this won’t work, at all.
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bornWithASilverSpoonInHisMouth.com
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You could discount any game tactic with this argument. I’ve punched above my weight by assuming the sale in similar ways.
The tactic illustrates your value.
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Not at all. Women are stupid and the need for game proves it. They mate for perceived physical ruthlessness when they have no true idea as to what that is and overlook far better men from society’s stand point, as well as their own self interest, than they actually mate with. Game is merely pushing their buttons to get them to overlook the coal and see the gold for what it is.
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“overlook far better men”
I have long been toying with the idea that that’s possibly the single moast important factor in choosing a m@te [with whom to have 0ffspring]: Are her instincts strong enough to SENSE the goodness & decency in you [to include your wrath-of-G0d paleoconnery], without the need for artificial Game bu11shit or materialistic DHVs or any of that nonsense.
The M0ther of Your Ch!ldren needs to have outstanding instincts, which includes an Amygdala that is much more powerful than her Insula.
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CO, they still need to think you’re a catch worthy of them and won’t get that sense if you grovel for them or even show honest affection too soon. If men were more equally masculine, what you describe would be the norm again. Read Plutarch’s biography of Lycurgus to see what I mean. It used to be that way in the US too until the 60s because good men were still real men.
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and you still need to keep the hamster in line afterwards
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dog.com: what will it take to make you realize that you’re not wanted here?
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Sorry, dog, I was drunk and irritated. But your advertising is still pathetic.
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My take: If the man is not obviously high-value, and he sexually rejects her, she’ll take it as a face-value rejection and move on.
If the man is not obviously high-value but accidentally brushes her off (e.g., by forgetting who she is), she’ll still be receptive to him — even if she gets mad at him for a while — and is in fact likely to fall harder for him than she would if he had been interested in her all along.
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I had a turnaround of an initial rejection. A girl refused my offer to dance, patronizingly smiling and saying, “Sorry.” (Her subtext was that I was trying to bat out of my league.) Me, with an amused mastery smile: “Ok.” (My subtext was that she was being silly, though amusing, and that she wasn’t out of my league.) She: “I’m with my guys.” Me, with a patronizing smile: “That’s fine.” Five seconds later, she said she’d dance with me, but I refused her, saying that I already had a partner (who had agreed to dance with me during that five secs). She wasn’t pleased and took her gaggle of betas and left the bar while I danced with my new partner.
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“I’m with my guys…” took her gaggle of betas and left the bar…
Yikes. Sounds like you dodged a bu11et there.
That’s some psychological pathology which you do not want in your life.
#onlyGood4ana1
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BUNS -/-> OVEN
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What’s this obsession with anal around here ? Not what nature intended.
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These kikeafied ass-fuckers ’round chere are gonna have to learn the hard way.
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Yeah, yeah, I know… that what she said.
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It’s a joke you idiot.
The idea [an abstract thingamabob which transpires in some folks’ brains, although apparently not in others’] is that you don’t want your bloodlines mixing with teh crazy.
And we’re talking bad crazy here, not good crazy.
A b!tch with a posse of dudes is crazy on steroids.
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Jokes are supposed to be funny… don’t give legs to this sort of thing, even in jest, because many years ago it may have started as a jest, and now it’s considered part of normal sexual repertoire, even by normies.
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G0d d@mn it, GE, you’ve been in a foul mood for about a month now.
Da fuq is da problem – is Mrs GE going through men0pause?
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No back is so tender as one’s own, eh?
I think the record shows I’ve been my usual hale and well-met self… the jests have not diminished in number or quality.
And since you brought my family into it… $71.50.
You fairy.
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Sounds kind of butthurt tbh might be therapeutic for a short periods of time only
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If you are visiting a place that you won’t visit again any time soon, rip an audible fart near a hottie. You could be an in elevator, in Starbucks, at a bar. You will have impacted her psyche for all eternity and she’ll never forget you. Trust me, it’s hilarious and very liberating to care not what the thot thinketh.
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Narcissist and Machiavellian thou are not. Psychopath, thou hast fraught.
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*wrought
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I gotta believe there are other ways to make an… (ahem) indelible impression.
What if there’s a gheyboi in the area? He may mistake it for a mating call.
You South Park generation dweebs and your toilet humour.
(((shakin’ mah haid)))
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My grandpa did this. He would let one rip no matter where he was. Not one give a fuck. No embarrasment. He didn’t do it a lot either. First ZFG guy I witnessed.
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Guy I knew in my military days, last name Gross, was bantering with a thot who was one of those girls who liked to try to rough-house with the boys (not being self-aware enough to realize we handled her with kid-gloves). She tried to get into some “playful” wrestling with him, so he twisted around, pressed his buttocks up against her thigh, and ripped a clearly audible one. She immediately let go and screamed “I felt it vibrate my leg!”, giggling uncontrollably the way thots do when they’re turned on. A couple of nearby thot-witnesses, aghast, let out an OMG YOR DISGUSTING! In response, my buddy puffed out his chest and proudly proclaimed, “No! I’m GROSS”. I don’t remember which thot he banged that night, but it was one of them.
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I literally cannot post pics here anymore, due to mod. CH, if that’s you, just let me know. I’ll go quietly.
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Same. Almost every time it fails, once or twice the links post but no pic.
Jewtube not a problem at all however.
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Something really weird is going on with The St@ck lately.
It’s bouncing everything off into St@ck Purgatory.
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Welcome to the sneaky world of algos(algorithms).
Pretty sure it´s the first stirring of wordpress.com launching sneaky censorship as per (((orders))).
Time to move closing in.
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AH. It’s not just me. I’ve done lovingly crafted original memes and they have gone into the ether.
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Exactly! And it’s like it’s now preemptive. Formerly, the page would reload and you’d see your comment awaiting m0d. But now, just … nothing, until hours or days later .. and it still says you’re awaiting m0d.
With what’s going on in all the “privately owned” corporations lately, I imagine it’s WP throttling this blog.
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[…] Source: Heartiste […]
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[…] I think it’s hysterically good game… for a very small group of high value guys that can …. […]
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O/T: Donald Trump Jnr is a (somewhat) younger, hotter, tighter, fan. Never heard of this Aubrey O’Day. Not my type at all, but looks decent enough, I suppose.
https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/who-is-aubrey-oday-5-things-to-know-about-donald-trump-jr-s-mistress/
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Iirc she was on a reality show with Sean combs way back. White girl tryin to be something else was the impression I got.
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The Making the Band 3 alum exclusively told Us in December 2008 that when it comes to dating, gender isn’t a factor for her. “At this point in my life, I wouldn’t say one way or another what my preference is sexually,” O’Day explained to Us at the time.
Whoooo boy. (((shakin’ mah haid)))
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Five kids with a model and banging retarded Barbie dolls on the side. I know who I’m voting for in 2028.
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Muh dik?
And we say women shouldn’t be given the vote because of the half-assed reasons they come up with when deciding which way to throw their support.
This is why we lose.
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This is one of those things I might vote for him in spite of, not because of.
It certainly gives off a strong reek of “muh d1kking.” If his current w1fe is utterly intolerable, it might be ‘sorta’ understandable. But if she was that bad, would he have stuck around long enough to produce five k1ds? And if it’s purely physical — are you a Whyte man or not, Trumpling?
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Five kids with a model and banging retarded Barbie dolls on the side.
DJT Jr., what were you doing putting all those GORGEOUS white man’s family pix on Instagram and then banging a SUPER retarded Barbie?
I know who I’m voting for in 2028.
Barron?
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Paul Nehlen, obviously.
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Paul Nehlen with running mate Arthur Jones FTW
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from the looks of it his ex ex (gunslinger heh) did Don Jr a favor
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In a suit, alone in an elevator, riding up from a below-ground parking garage in a high-rise office building, when a really cute woman, much younger than I, gets on. When she goes to push the button for her floor, I say, in an exasperated voice, “please, don’t push the button for every floor. I hate when women do that.” She looks at me, startled, and says “that happens to you often? Why would they do that?” I shrug, grimace, and say “I dunno. I guess they just want to spend as much time with me as possible or something.” I’m not even looking at her; I’ve got my eyes fixed on the floor numbers, as if I can’t wait to get out of there. She pauses, and then, staring straight at me, hits ONE more button for a floor we haven’t got often to yet, that’s below the ones that she and I have punched in already.
I heave a sigh and look at her, and say “oh, here we go…”.
We’re going out for coffee an hour later after I’d finished my business meeting. On that date, and many subsequent ones, I kept on telling her not to do things that any man would want a woman to do (escalating from “look, don’t cancel your plans for tomorrow night and demand we go out” on that first coffee date to some really depraved stuff on later ones) – and she went right ahead and did them immediately.
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“Gotten to,” not “got often to.” WTF phone?
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Nice
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WTF kinda name is “Mahdi”?
Are you a streetsh!tter?
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We already had this conversation a while back, CO. That would be like me saying “What kind of name is Captain Obvious? Are you an actual member of the military?”
I do understand, though, why you didn’t choose the moniker of “Captain Irony.”
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So remind me Mr Forgettable – are you a streetsh!tter?
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I have a stupid name, too, but at least it doesn’t conjure images of jihadi streetsh!tters.
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This from “Jaded Jurist?” Go fuck yourself, lawyer.
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I’m replying for others, not the street-sh!tter:
Every regular commenter on this blog, save for a handful of famously gauche outliers, is jaded. Duh.
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Nice…
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Another thing I’ve done, when I’m introducing myself to an attractive woman, is to say, while I’m shaking her hand, “My name’s [Mahdi{. You are?” She says her name, and I say, brusquely but smiling slightly, while still holding her hand, “hi [name], it’s a pleasure for you to meet me.”
Their reaction is usually along the lines of “it’s nice to meet y- wait, what did you say?” And I’m nodding and saying something like “see? We’re in agreement already. I didn’t notice you until a second ago. How long have you been eyeing me?”
The worst I’ve ever gotten to the “it’s a pleasure for you to meet me” gambit was an amused “no it isn’t,” to which I replied “you’ve had a complete change of heart ALREADY? Are you ALWAYS this mercurial? You must be exhausting.” And the game was still on.
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I do this too. Pleasure to meet me.
Try it while extending just an index finger.
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Wrong finger.
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As in a handshake autist…
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I like to use the long form. “Nice to meet me” is like something your grandpa would say. “It’s a pleasure for you to meet me” is a little more formal, especially when delivered in complete deadpan by a man in a suit.
Tone is very important too – delivering a “nice to meet me” flippantly makes you come off as Ace Ventura, Pet Detective. Going over the top with formality, done deadpan, like “Truly, it is an extraordinary pleasure for you to meet me,” by a serious guy in a suit, is intriguing.
Not criticizing; just reflecting on what’s worked for me.
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Damn I never even thought about using it when first meeting. I’ll have to toss that in the bag, many thanks.
I always used it -after- the fact… you’re both leaving and you say to “glad you got to meet me”. Or, works in the future… “glad you got to see me again”.
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This is powerful medicine. Seems we’re all trying it lately.
My anecdote:
Suited-up after a meeting…I’m 6’4, and in good shape. So the look is very pro and crisp.
I roll to my local “b00bs and beer” franchise for a drink. The new manager is quite attractive.
I’m sitting at the bar catching NCAA highlights.
Her: “You look like you could be the weatherman.”
Me (not looking at her): “I’m the night-shift assistant manager at the convenience store just down the street.”
Her: “Ohhhh, ok. I gotta get back to work so I can leave at 4:00”
Me (still not looking at her):***waves hand as though brushing her aside***
She stuck around chatting in my ear until I left at 5:20.
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CH
Do a post in this… Future is now.
http://www.news.com.au/finance/economy/world-economy/south-african-politician-says-australia-is-a-racist-country-farmers-should-leave-the-keys-when-they-go/news-story/e98607c4fa66d30d9b2731aa30e2a956
““Today we say: ‘Let’s talk like our parents kept on saying to you. Let’s talk about how we are going to expropriate land without compensation.’ Then when we say so, they say we want to kill them.””
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http://www.abc.net.au/news/2018-03-22/dutton-brushes-off-racism-claims-over-white-farmers-offer/9575738
Australia is looking into ways to resettle persecuted white South African farmers.
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“His comments also sparked a diplomatic row with the South African Government, which demanded an apology and strongly refuted claims of “torture and abuse”.”
So, enact legislation to steal peoples land and livelihood because they’re white (not to mention the threats of genocide), then demand an apology when someone else notices. In a sane world we’d ___________ (fill in the blank).
White South Africans are the only refugees.
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“”There’s lots of outrage from some of the crazy lefties at the ABC, The Guardian and The Huffington Post can express concern and draw mean cartoons about me and all the rest of it — they don’t realise how completely dead they are to me,” he said.”
Peter Dutton, Australian Home Affairs Minister, Humanitarian of the Century, Member of the Major7 Shitlord Pantheon.
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Nice to see Dutton sticking to his guns. Mayhaps Australia has found it’s Trump/balls?
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*its…
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now cut off humanitarian aid and you’re just about done with the african problem.
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Please, don’t get my hopes up. It hurts too much.
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Him: Don’t (not looking at her)
Her: don’t what?
Him: wonder (if I’ll ask you out/if I’m a serial killer/if it’s the girth of a coke can/fill in the blank)
Her: why/what?
Him: because later on (in bed/in my dungeon/in a public place/fill in the blank) I might break you…(deadpan, turn and laser eye)
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I’ll say to her: “I’m only into girls that my mother would approve of”
You would have her qualifying herself to you like a god.
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Mentioning your M0m is skating on some very thin ice.
If her brain is slightly larger than a walnut, then her immediate comeback will involve painting you as a M0mma’s B0y.
At which point you’ll have to Agree & Amplify, blah blah blah blah blah blah blah.
Reconciling SDLs with M0ms is like trying to push the wrong ends of two magnets together.
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Unless maybe you’re enough of a Psychopath to lie about the nature of your relationship with your M0m.
I suppose a real s!cko could reply to “M0mma’s boy blah blah blah” with something degenerate like, “Oh just wait until you’re in a threesome with her”, but that’s descending down to Freudian/Reichian levels of Evil.
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It’s like wearing pink… don’t do it unless you’re an obvious apex alpha (heh). Otherwise, it’ll backfire big time.
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I had a rather rotund millennial at the bar mention that I could stand to read a book on etiquette last week.
I asked if there was a section on how to properly ask for a sandwich.
She was not amused and started to moo when I interrupted her to tell her that knowing exactly what not to say is the same as knowing precisely what to say. Both ends of the spectrum are applied for their own reasons.
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Speaking of game, CH, what happened to the test your response contest?
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2018/03/15/a-test-of-your-game-you-got-her-digits-now-what/
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Best thing YT South African farmers could do is sell all their farms, move to Australia and let the googles starve. Even the less dumb googles in Parliament know this. They can’t farm worth shit. The farm tractors will rust and fall into disrepair. Well, it’s back to picking cotton then. But who’s gonna grow it? SA is already pretty close to Somalia, just go ahead and let the googles go full warlord on each other. That’ll thin out the ranks. It’s Mother Nature balancing things out.
A tad politicially incorrect, but Truth tends in that direction.
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