Reader MrJohn writes:
I didn’t know where else to talk to someone about this thing I’ve witnessed, so why not here. Valentine is really a great holiday to spot the betas of the world. Here’s a beta from Sweden. All seen on Facebook. The girl (24) and the guy (about 28) has been dating for about a half year. The past months she’s openly called him ‘hubby’ on FB, although they are not engaged. She’s pretty much unemployed and has definitely gained a lot of weight lately. I don’t wanna post pictures of her, but she’s a solid 6. He looks a bit feminine, bordering on gay with his facial expressions. He works his ass off to please her. The typical Swedish guy I guess.
Looking at her page, she has been posting almost every hour of the valentines evening. And at mid-night she’s summing up the evening: (Yeah updating Facebook before giving him sex or any other trivial activity)
“Last pics to summarise our night
saw this movie here, got 15 roses of my favourite colours, three course dinner and finished the day with slow dance in our living room. I have such a wonderful man. Thank you (name). Love you with all my heart and hopefully 80 more years of this to come <3″
– attached are photos of them together in restaurants, with roses and all that.
I feel sick somehow. Am I just too sensitive? Perhaps this is the way to do valentines?
What has sickened you, gentleman reader, is the phenomenon of the beta female engaged in the act of relationship whoring.
You are right to retch, for beta female relationship whoring (BFRW, sounded out “Beef Raw”) is among the most transparent of ego-stroking ploys utilized by undesirable or marginally desirable women. You really want to call them out but, hey, polite society and all. That’s why we have this blog; so you can say what’s on your mind with the kind of freedom that nowadays only naive, small children or cantankerous old farts get to enjoy.
Women of questionable sexual worth who have “snagged” men of higher value, however precariously, are frequently susceptible to feeling urges to advertise on the flimsiest pretexts the undying love their loosely committed boyfriends have for them.
The reason the beta female feels this urge is because such overblown advertising of her relationship strength (as defined by the extent to which the man caught up in her shenanigans lavishes her with gifts and paeans to her awesomeness) serves multiple evolutionary purposes:
1. It signals her fidelity to her one-foot-in-one-foot-out boyfriend. Many men will settle for women less pretty than their ideal if those women compensate by offering implied (paternity) guarantees of present and future faithfulness.
2. It warns away female poachers. If her boyfriend is moveable product, there is a good chance he will bolt at the first sign of interest from a hotter girl. Women love taken men, but their predilection to act on that evil female instinct may be suppressed if the girlfriend of the desired man can fool her hotter competition into thinking he only has eyes for her.
3. It stroketh thine ego. A girl with a well-lubed ego is a happier girl who will be a more congenial girlfriend. (Congeniality nullified if happy ego results in ice cream aided fattitude.)
4. It is social oxytocin (or proxy oxytocin). The hormonally-charged bonding that naturally occurs in the early stages of a relationship can be synthesized quicker by ruses to project the relationship to a point in the future when it would presumably be stronger and more committed. Players use a modification of this strategy to speed up the time to sex, called time compression, time distortion, or future pacing.
5. If the girl is a bit prettier than average, say a 6 or 7, and on the wall side of 25, the beta female relationship whoring strategy could just as easily function for her as a self-regulating mechanism which “tricks” her into feeling stronger love for her boyfriend than she might in actuality feel, thus hindering any impulse she might have to trade up and risk a sure thing. Women have a more powerful “trading up” urge than do men, and this instinct can get them in trouble if they don’t have the self-discipline to know when they have a good thing and act accordingly.
Relationship whoring is essentially a technique employed by lower quality females for discouraging the competition and for encouraging the fence-sitting boyfriend to discard his fantasy of scouring the field for a hotter replacement. It can also serve to push a woman closer to a beta boyfriend so that she does not ruin herself on a perpetual hunt for commitment from an elusive alpha male.
If you doubt the efficacy of this strategy, here’s a thought experiment. Tell me, as a man, given two women of equal facial and body attractiveness, would you find it harder to dump or cheat on a woman who was emotionally distant and giving little indication she was interested in an LTR, or harder to dump or cheat on a woman who professed your mutual love to the world and tacitly confessed her utter devotion to you?
I mean, unlike me, assume you are a non-sociopath in the above thought experiment.
You may ask why one does not nearly as often witness this vile practice of BFRW from hot girls, or from very ugly girls.
Well, in the first case, hot girls have more options. They are thus less likely within any given relationship to feel as urgent a need to restrict their own choices by advertising their status as taken women. They are also less apt to feel insecurity about their boyfriends’ levels of commitment, (men are way more willing to stick around and invest if the lady is a champ), and they are less afraid of competition. (The threat of competition that would arise by dating a desirable alpha male is counteracted by the reduced threat of competition from being better looking than most of her female peers.)
In the second case, uglier girls (4s and under) don’t resort so much to the BFRW strategy because they don’t generally date men who are of sufficient sexual market value to entice female interlopers. The ugly girl is with a low value man, and nobody wants either of them, least of all themselves, despite the alacrity to which they resign themselves to their moribund romantic fate.
Middling girls are the ones who most benefit from BEEF RAW. Facebook is filled with 5s, 6s and 7s promoting pics of their candlelit Valentines dinners with herbish boyfriends looking for all the world like they’d rather be gunning down starships in an MMO.
What’s especially revealing about the BFRW subculture is that a man can indirectly appraise his own SMV by his inclusion or absence from BFRW antics. If your girlfriend has posted pics of you and her in all manner of romantic obsequiousness, you are probably a beta male with just enough SMV to avoid involuntary celibacy. If, in contrast, your girlfriend admirably restrains herself from the lure of online attention whoring and shouting your abject devotion to the heart of the world, you are probably an alpha male dating a good-looking lady of character. Hang up your player vestments, because…….. hahaha, who am I kidding!? You were gaming in your mama’s womb (stealing her resources) and you’ll be gaming till your last breath leaves you.
So, no, reader, this is not the way to do Valentine’s Day, unless you are a beta who doesn’t mind putting up with suffocating female crap and scaring away hotter girls who might be future conquests. Just get her a Skittles bag, enjoy her everlasting love, and be happy you aren’t getting pushed off-course your program to maintain relationship limbo in perpetuity.
I took inspiration from Skittles man this year. My main fling took me out to dinner and I gave her a chocolate bar.
this valentines day I just . . We just went out, bought my daughter some stuff, it’s. Roses? nah,, to be honest I feel kinda disturbed because I realized that I never gave her anything that can be considered sweet, the last time I gave her a rose, a candy rose (costs around less than a buck),. . and it’s funny how women complain among themselves and their friends how thrifty am I wth her , although the tone that they imply is like they are actually bragging about how I never gave her anything of any monetary value at all, women. . funny species indeed
Skittles man, an instant classic.
“least of all themselves.” Vicious. Even for you. And only one day after VDay. Good show.
Sure they act all warm and cuddly in the courtship phase…but if he is naive enough to marry her all those lovey dovey proclamations and sexy time go out the window.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2279244/Broke-Brendan-Fraser-fights-reduce-alimony-child-support-payments-ex-wife.html
“Times are hard: ‘Broke’ Brendan Fraser fights to reduce alimony and child support payments to ex-wife
The ‘broke’ actor, who made his name in The Mummy films, has pleaded with Connecticut court to reduce his annual payments of $900,000 (£562,500), claiming that he can no longer afford them.”
Comments: “She deserves $1m/year for doing absolutely nothing. If he wants to retire, or do minimal work and live off $100k/year? Not an option. He must make $2m/year before tax simply to provide for her.”
“For the rest of his life, he has to make $2m/year simply to avoid going to jail. It’s like that movie “Speed” but with money.”
thats insane
Fuck!
I’d like to know the statistics of divorced women who don’t work and simply collect alimony/child support from their ex-husbands. Considering the divorce rate, I’m betting the numbers are pretty scary!
“How many great men must go down before we do something about this?”
Bill Burr
If your dating a girl of lower value or close to the wall that knows it and she thinks your alpha, can you go overboard on the aloof and indifferent where after a while they think you just don’t care enough and move on?
Yes.
And would they hold off on putting out for fear your going to leave them? It seems the hotter girls are more comfortable with themselves…
Sorry, I don’t have an answer on that one.
I’m talking about if they make references to how good you look then call themselves ‘big’ or ‘thick’…
Oh. That definitely sounds like someone who is insecure about her looks and her status relative to yours, overall.
No, just the how good I look bit. They do tend to bring up problems about themselves… it could be being fat, but I personally stay away from orcas.
Kate’s right. It happened to me, actually. It’s a useful way to get rid of a clinger.
The key is to not go too far aloof. I have a FWB who is 14 years my junior (I am 50) that just keeps coming back for more. I have to admit though that the sex with her is incredible, as she is a pediatrician here locally and never had any earlier life experience so she is “sowing her wild oats” at 36. We have no issues at all. We see each other once a week. She has no children, and doesn’t want any. My only son is 26 and lives 350 miles away.
Occasionally she gets clingy, and a little ignore time, brings her right back around. She knows I am not the marriageable type, as I have told her it, and she says she isn’t either. She works ungodly hours as well, and just likes to have sex. I am good with that.
Use the aloofness wisely Grasshopper.
the sex with her is incredible… she is a pediatrician… She has no children, and doesn’t want any. My only son is 26 and lives 350 miles away…
JESUS TITTY-FUCKING CHRIST!!!
And you wonder why the White Race is going extinct?!?
Look at this chick:
1) Highly Intelligent – CHECK
2) Self-Motivated – CHECK
3) Self-Reliant – CHECK
4) Fucks Like An Animal – CHECK
Those are precisely the kinds of genes we need to see preserved and replicated in the species as much and as often as possible.
In the Name of all that is Holy, put some buns in that chick’s oven before it’s too late.
God damn it, man, this is serious.
Lol no. Fuck our race. Think of self first and only
proxytocin
Also too, the need for external validation that plagues our spineless generation. The man becomes an interchangeable prop; a useful object tangential to the real purpose of V day– Self Aggrandizement. The woman must show the world that she is valuable enough to be taken out, wined and dined. “Look what Johhny did for me. Im so special. Im so wonderful. My life is happy. Happier than yours. People adore me.”
Alpha of the month?
http://i.imgur.com/H3pPvoo.jpg
Is that all she could afford? I don’t think so.
Getting fat in preparation for the marriage keeps tempters away.
Surely there can be no greater act of devotion.
)))
well, they do that in africa
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Just saw this on Jezebel. Apparently making boyfriends cross dress in your clothes is a thing now. Jesus what happened to men?
http://jezebel.com/5984622/apparently-switching-clothes-with-your-partner-is-now-a-thing
I’ve lost more than one pre-worn dress shirt to a girlfriend, but damn I love the look of a woman naked in them.
I’ve put makeup on each of my boyfriends and/or painted their toenails. The most alpha of them even went out like that to our neighborhood bar and made a big show (joke) of it. Women were hitting on like crazy. If you’re doing it to humiliate your boyfriend that makes you a shitty person. If you’re doing it for shits and giggles and your boyfriend has a sense of humor, I think it’s fine.
well
“Every once in awhile I grab my husband’s pants and think “Ha ha, I’ll put these on and it’ll be funny because they’re man pants and will be huge” but then I can’t even get them over my hips.”
waddya
“My boyfriend is a waif and wears pants that would never fit on one of my legs. Also, I am really tall and women tend to have their height in their legs, so my pants are much longer than his. I an wear his shirts, which fit me pretty well…unless my boobs don’t fit.”
know
“LMAO, so true. I’m perpetually amazed by how tiny his boxers are when I do our laundry. I also have the perpetual trauma of weighing the same or slightly more than him. When I went on Weight Watchers, he did it with me kinda by default, and lost more weight than I did. I told him that if I’m on a diet, he has to eat donuts when I’m not around.”
jezebel size 18′s can’t fit into bf’s clothes, shameful, chow harder boys
The article about the Somalis fighting against blacks at the Minneapolis high school brings up the pertinent issue. Why are we letting in massive amounts of Muslim immigrants? I’m sure most Muslim-Americans are great people, but Major Hassan and the London Subway bombings don’t portend to a great future of Muslims in the West. Our foreign policy elites are so fixated on Iran and protecting Israel, or buying into the equalist bs that they ignore America’s biggest threat:homegrown terrorists.
Actually, the USA is the least Muslim-infested country in the Western world.
As for the Somalis… you can thank refugee resettlement agencies like LIARS (Lutheran Immigrant Aid and Refugee Services) for that, especially in Minnesota.
Such interesting post. Funny how when gfs starts showing pics with you over dinner and bragging about you is bad and conveys your betaness. Ironic. You would of thought that a girl doing that would be good. Before the days of taking the red pill.
Yeah a bit counter intuitive perhaps. The thing is she wasn’t really bragging about his great character/alphaness or anything, she was bragging about his ability to invest in her.
That red pill is so good.
Seeking advice on how to ask out a girl I’m interested in. We met in Dec when I was working a temp job. (I have a main job other than that too.) She’s 7.5 bubbly personality, funny and friendly. We talked like once or twice, but haven’t seen her in a while. I was going to go back to the office she works at and start small talk and ask her out. What do you guys think? Would it be creepy to ask her out now after like 2 months of not seeing each other? I’m overweight beta who thinks too much when trying or wanting to approach women. All comments welcome. Thanks in advance
It’s good you’re trying to plan an asking for advice, but the Roosh rule probably applies here: If you ask about how to deal with a girl, you’re probably too invested in her to have a chance this time. You can try it, but it will be awkward. The better way in the future is when you realize you’re attracted is find a way to express it more spontaneously in the moment so you show you’re aggressive. Since women are incapable of taking the initiative ( unless you are very desirable) sort of the first hurdle is to prove you can do that part.
Finally the kind of useful post I’ve seen from you elsewhere.–
She’s a 7.5 and you’ve waited 2 months? Move on. Unless you’re actually working at her office, don’t go back.
Dont go back there..sounds like you will just fuck it up…awkward for her and you.. Better to meet her at a coffee shop or somewhere where you “accidentally bump into her”.
Then you can say hi and oh yeah i remember you..blah blah..then ask for her number. meanwhile meet other women.
can a girl who is short/average (5’0”-5’5”) still be a 10 in the 1-10 scale or only tall girls(5’6”+) can be a 10?
Absolutely! I love petite women. In fact, I like them better that tall willowy, runway model types.
yeah, I do think suermodels are too tall and their height isn’t the ideal woman height.
Salma Hayek is 5’2″
Scar Jo is 5’3″
Answer = yes
also, Elisha Cuthbert is somewhere 5’1”-5’4”
No. Girls need to be tall to be a perfect 10. More height of them to love!
ok
Kim Kardashian is 5 feet.
She’s a 10 (minus 10 points because she’s a monkey-fucking trash whore).
she is 5’2”
Aristotle said that a short woman cannot be truly beautiful. Though he was hardly averse to a short boy if you take my meaning and have you ever spent time at a gymnasium? just asking.
On another thread you asked about the difference in fucking short and tall and you might say that the difference is large, and no, R, tall women don’t have miraculous anatomy that makes their cunts magically tight. No matter how many or how few they ride, very tall women are typically capacious.
But there’s another hole that tall women have as well and that is always a close fit, not to mention preferable for all sorts of purposes.
Very short women are like plush toys and pizza dough, good to squeeze.–
“Beauty depends on size as well as symmetry. No very small animal can be beautiful, for looking at it takes so small a portion of time that the impression of it will be confused. Nor can any very large one, for a whole view of it cannot be had at once, and so there will be no unity and completeness. ”
-Aristotle
he isn’t particularly talking about woman, but by his logic, the giant supermodels wouldn’t be beautiul either. He seems to be the kind of guy who would prefer an average height woman….
Most men and women are most attracted to those that are the normal ratio of sexual dimorphism to them. There’s been studies about it. Height-wise this is about a 6 inch difference.
I’m 5’2” and most of the men I’ve dated have been 5’8-9”, for example
Shakira is 4′ 11′. I think she’s pretty damn close to a 10.
I don’t give two hoots about height unless it’s close, equal or taller than my own. Those that are taller, I’ve no interest in – they look like horses and I want to ride them as such. Those around my height or close to look less feminine IMO. 5’0″ – 5’5″ is a wholesome feminine height, I find this height attractive and rate girls up for being in this range. So portable & fuckable, mmm-mmm.
Wanting a bunch of annoying couple pictures is the biggest sign of this. Years ago I was in a rut and was sleeping with a 5. She wanted to take a bunch of stupid photos of us cuddling and crap like that to make her annoying friends jealous. I refused of course.
The was my red pill moment. My lack of enthusiasm seemed alpha to her and my passive-aggressive attempts to get her to dump me had the opposite effect. Eventually I was actively experimenting with toying with her – I took a pretty cousin of mine to a coffee house where I knew her best friend would be studying, that sort of thing.
what kind of you, treating people like shit because they are not ”attractive”. Grow up, how would you feel if she did with you what you did to her?
“Grow up, how would you feel if she did with you what you did to her?”
Girls do this daily man, wake up.
Every man knows how that feels: women/girls do that to beta orbiters, and every man was a beta orbiter for some gal, even if it was only when he was first hitting puberty and trying to understand females for the first time.
(And yes, all women really are like that.)
generalization is ignorance. I wouldn’t do it to a guy just because I don’t find him attractive. You can’t assume every girl is the same.
“If, in contrast, your girlfriend admirably restrains herself from the lure of online attention whoring and shouting your abject devotion to the heart of the world, you are probably an alpha male dating a good-looking lady of character. ”
I never post anything about my boyfriend and myself on facebook because I don’t want his wife to see. He gets pissed off when other people tag us together in photos on fb.
Theoretically, this is a sign that my boyfriend is an alpha male dating a good looking lady of character. That could be true except for that I hit on heartiste yesterday just I like I do everyday.
“I mean, unlike me, assume you are a non-sociopath in the above thought experiment.”
Do you ever work on that issue? I mean, maybe there is no reason for you to because dark triad traits are somehow signs of masculine sex appeal. I, however, do not know what to do about the whole being a sociopath issue. Any suggestion?
lol
@yareally. i’m not sure what you find funny about that, but i, personally, love to see the hamster in action. women have an incredible ability to string together multiple, nonsensical, and completely unrelated points into one train of thought or interweb post. and, to top it all off, they are totally unawares of said internal inconsistencies.
” and, to top it all off, they are totally unawares of said internal inconsistencies.”
I re-read my post and did not find internal inconsistencies. Can you point them out for me? Thanks.
just wtf. hope that helps
Wife woke me up saying “Happy Valentines Day”, my response: “That’s today?”. Sum total of my acknowledgement of that stupid hallmark holiday.
I can’t beleive I used to think it mattered if I cared. I can’t beleive I used to think a lot of things.
“Women have a more powerful “trading up” urge than do men, and this instinct can get them in trouble if they don’t have the self-discipline to know when they have a good thing and act accordingly.”
YES. Self-discipline is the only way for women to maintain happiness now that there is no societal pressure to be faithful in our marriages anymore. The big problems here are constant hypergamous threats for the average woman (if she hasn’t let herself go) because the men who will sleep with her are often higher status than the men who will date or marry her. So she may be dating/married to a greater beta – a good guy who treats her well – but when she’s out in the world, men who are more desirable than her husband will hit on her. It might make her wonder if she made a mistake, and think maybe she could trade up and do better. BUT it takes self-discipline to remind herself that Mr. Alpha is just looking for a one-night stand and she looked like an easy target, and in the long run her man at home is much better. Most of the time if she politely turns down Mr. Alpha, he’ll be hitting on another woman 5 minutes later. But lot of women lack this perspective. It’s a priceless gift.
Excellent comment.
I wonder if having a stable family vs an unstable family is better for this sort of discipline. While I do know that stable nuclear families are better all around, I do wonder if they give some girls a false sense of security that all guys are nice like daddy. Sometimes, if one has sufficient observational skills, seeing the damage that some men can do secondhand can lead to better choices in the future.
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CH – Have you ever read the e-book “The Black Flag”? Written by the writer for Solve My Girl Problems in 2011
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Can you make an ex jealous by being seen with a less attractive girl?
An ex-fling recently saw me with a less attractive fling. The difference is tight, maybe 8 vs 7.
The thing is, the current fling was well-dressed, fashion clothes and bag and shoes etc… seemed way more high-class than the ex. And I saw the look of jealousy on the ex’s face.
Now I wonder if girls are really judging their competition according to men’s standards (facial symmetry, thin, curvy, 0.7 whr etc..) or according to status, just like how they’re judging men.
Useful tip: If you want to artificially increase your preselection, and all you have under your hand is a plain jane, try to pimp her up, by making her spend her own money on expensive girl stuff.
Its one thing to be replaced by someone prettier, but to be replaced by someone less pretty is a big insult.
Depends on how much less pretty. I am insanely jealous, jealous even that my husband had other girls before me….but then i saw some of them, and while they are pretty, I am markedly better looking. Jealousy, annihilated, I was filled with glee. “HER!!?? Her!! YAY!!!!!”
If the girls had been prettier than me, it would have made me upset. The fact that he loves me for my personality is great and all, but I am most happy when I am objectified (by him).
….and I saw that sly smirk when someone made the offhand comment that some guy I’d casually dated before him gained 50 lbs.
It’s within this context that I’ll understand where you’re coming from regarding asian girls.
Nevertheless, it may be an indication that one is neither as pretty nor as nice as she thinks she is.
Right!
The only way I’m going to be jealous is if I’m not over a guy. And then I’ll be jealous regardless of my replacement’s looks.
If I am over him, I do relish his less attractive girlfriend with bitter delight. More attractive, I’ll find something wrong with her, even if she’s a 10, and ride with that.
At least I’m aware of the mental gymnastics.
“The ugly girl is with a low value man, and nobody wants either of them, *least of all themselves*, despite the alacrity to which they resign themselves to their moribund romantic fate.”
You have a rotten soul.
But, damn, you’re right.
Rape!
I’m back baby!
CH, your insights are clear, as always! Thanks.
I’d rather go with the skittles program for sure. I need my money to buy things for me.
It occurs to me that what the women is also signalling (especially if she is similar to my one and only Swedish ex-gf) that whereas you may previously have been led to believe that she was a slut who had had more dick than was good for her, that, on the contrary, as all can see, she is a loyal and faithful gf now that she has met Mr Wonderful. I would guess that he will drop her before the month is out, at least that level of clinginess would have me rushing for the exit.
That’s what I’ve observed. It’s a way of signaling to the new man what she thinks a loyal type girl would be like and she’d be right except it’s the behavior of 15 year old girl in love.
http://www.abc.net.au/news/2013-02-15/argentine-woman-marries-sisters-killer/4520262
The power of alpha…
http://antimisandry.com/stupidity/vagina-monologues-rape-isnt-rape-when-woman-does-7175.html#axzz2L58xfp5V
We should start a campaing against this woman.
Isn’t the Pistorius affair some Valentine-fueled partnercide? His girlfriend was on the “net” obsessing over various Valentine Day rituals the day before her untimely death.
I know!
I can’t concentrate
On a single thing
Unless THIS “blade-runna” thing is resolved!
Famous guy
Crazy Flippa Feet
STILL gets laid.
I tellya:
Game Works!
Two points:
1. The female status heirarchy has a large component on having a man, so she is also trying to build her status with women.
2. The phenomena also occurs with higher status women. Look haw George Clooney’s GFs make sure they are seen in the tabloids. (Depends on relative rank with boyfriend.)
What separates PUAs from the Manosphere:
Manosphere guys cry about “mean” girls and whine about their lack of height or looks or money and sit around feeling sorry for themselves and stroke eachother’s dicks confirming eachother’s limiting beliefs and follow Roosh around the world trying to find the easiest foreign girls they can get in-between their self-pitying rants about how unfair the sexual marketplace is on Manospere blog comment sections.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/357133/forum
This guy is MISSING AN EYE, and he’s just like “hey, I don’t have an eye, anyone got any tips? How can I use this to my advantage to maximize my success rate? Thanks!” like not a single fuck is given lol
Quit being pussies. It’s Saturday and you’re probably more awesome than you realize, go talk to some chicks tonight.
Couldn’t agree more. Getting ready to go to exactly that… Join us, fuckers!
@YaReally. Hey man I posted a Field-Report for Day 5 of my 30 Day Challenge. It is a bit long but would appreciate any feed-back you can give. I posted it in the Seduction Lair NYC over at Reddit.
http://www.reddit.com/r/GothamSeddit/comments/18o75w/field_report_day_5_of_30_day_challenge/
One caveat, girls who are in their first serious relationship(s) will do this regardless of attractiveness. Talk to any girl under 19 or so with a boyfriend she will reference him constantly. Even the very cute ones.
Otherwise, great post.
A girlfriend of mine just texted me about “how was your valentine’s” before launching into an 8 text sequence about hers. This guy’s behavior towards her is very on the fence, and I’ve told her this many times. So I guess his CVS chocolates and the dinner they probably went dutch on is supposed to vindicate her somehow.
Thanks Mr. Pointyface and JironGhrad. I’ll definitely take your advice.
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Eat, Pray, Die.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/9851896/Married-constable-hanged-herself-after-becoming-pregnant-by-college-tutor.html
http://www.foxnews.com/world/2013/02/14/woman-in-argentina-marries-twin-sister-convicted-killer/
“Beef Raw”. Almost spit out my coffee when I saw that.
Interesting post, CH. Something I never really noticed before. But I’m not on FB, either.
Notes from the gun-range.
A sign: “We do not call 911″.
Also, shooting black-powder-loaded rounds from a huge replica of an 1873 Colt .45 that makes clouds of eye-watering smoke will cause all the hotties on the scene to find an excuse to stand close to you.
I have an older friend on Facebook, he is a so beta it makes me sick. He’s so gooey he disgusts me. I want to man-slap him in the face and tell him to wake the f— up.
He posted a picture on Facebook of all the chocolates and teddy bears he bought his wonderful wife, but I noticed one thing; he immediately wrote a comment “luv ya bubs” under the picture, a few people said “that’s so sweet”, but she never liked the picture or wrote a comment in reply despite the fact she lives on Facebook. 25 people liked the picture but she didn’t. What does that tell you?
I know that she only hooked up with my mate because she panicked after turning 30 and wanted to get married as soon as possible (as most 27-33 yr old chicks do).
5 years ago, I’ve seen her around alphas after they were just beginning to date. Her eyes would light up when talking to them and had to be dragged away kicking and screaming when my mate wanted to go home.
He even proposed to her at a sporting event. Yuck.
How he is so blind to his betaness is beyond me.
It’s no surprise that, to date she has refused to have his kid even though the “time is a ticking”. She probably cries herself to sleep every night because of this.
I feel so dirty by his betaness just talking about this. It makes me shiver.