It’s a common complaint heard from the insufferably self-absorbed and eternally single SWPL chick:
“Why didn’t he call?”
Ladies, I’m here to tell you why that guy didn’t call. You’re not gonna like it. Most likely, he was just using you for an ego boost.
Yeah, some guys don’t call back because they’re afraid they’ll be rejected on a first “formal” date. Or the momentum was lost, and he thinks in your sobriety you’ll be less open to meeting again. We call these guys lesser betas.
Fact is, most men don’t think that way. If a guy gets your number, and he’s interested (i.e., he finds you hot enough to fuck and possibly date) and single, he’s going to call you.
I’ve seen attack bitches burning off the shoulder of Club Orion, and thanks to these experiences I can say pretty confidently that men will often not call back because all they wanted was the instant ego boost of a woman’s sexual interest, usually manifest as a phone number close or a make-out. (For the players, a one night stand that precludes any extra dating investment is their idea of a quick ego fix, not to mention pleasure fix.)
If a man doesn’t call you back, it’s because
a) he’s already dating someone and just wanted to see if he still has the pickup magic, or
b) he’s already dating someone but you aren’t hot enough to risk getting caught cheating, or
c) you were a confidence-building stepping stone to test out his game for use on hotter chicks.
That’s pretty much it.
Exceptions to the above rules exist. Some men won’t call back because they didn’t know how to end the conversation with you when you first met, and felt obligated to ask for your number. This is what true niceguys do when they aren’t interested in you. Jerks will never labor under an obligation to number close girls they don’t feel inspired to fuck. The jerk will simply walk away when he’s tired of your witty banter.
Other men are so crippled with anxiety and self-doubt that they frequently defer to thinking the number close ended on a weak note, and won’t risk calling back when a video game with instant status assuaging leveling is a mere chair roll across the floor.
But mostly, when a man doesn’t call you back it’s because you didn’t meet the threshold of further pursuit, but you did meet the threshold for boosting his ego. So the next time you’re staring at your silent phone, remember to think to yourself “Yes, it’s me, not him. I’m not hot enough for him.” If it helps the awful-tasting medicine go down, try to imagine this cruel woman-baiting by egotistical men as the analogue of you ladies outrageously flirting with beta males you have no intention of fucking for the ego thrill of their courtly supplication.
’ve seen attack bitches burning off the shoulder of Club Orion…
Props on the Blade Runner reference.
Or… the guy wasn’t a dentist, a.k.a. hates trying to pull teeth in order to converse with someone whose responses start with “I…” or are single-word “No/I don’t know/Maybe”
Nah. Most of the time I can’t find the time to groom a new woman even after seaching for her and number closing. Things happen and the “hot period” to call back passes. If I don’t think I’ll have time in the next week to see her, for whatever reason, I won’t call.
I know, I should respect their delicate egos and their unsatisfied libidos, but tough noogies.
usually when i dont call a girl after getting her number it is because i get too busy with work or the current stable so she slips my mind. i hit her up when i come across the number again if i remember what she looks like otherwise i delete it.
You’re forgetting the instance where you’re so high on a mixture of shrooms and PCP that when you met her you thought she was a lizard princess from Mercury and her phone number was the coordinates of the secret alien landing site.
re: Bladerunner – I know, you can’t help it. It’s great stuff.
Most of the posts here boil down to the same message for women: Self-improvement always helps.
OT: just spotted this “karate game”:
Starting at 3.30, lol.
“I’ve seen attack bitches burning off the shoulder of Club Orion,”
That was not one of your best but I had to chuckle. Keep up the good work! I love it.
I’m not sure about this. If a guy asks for your phone number, it’s because he’s interested. If you offer your phone number, without him asking for it, this is more likely to happen.
[heartiste: most of the time, men will call the girls’ numbers they’ve gotten, for the reason you give. what we are talking about here is the smaller subset of cases where men get the number but don’t call.]
I’ve done it.
“If it helps the awful-tasting medicine go down, try to imagine this cruel woman-baiting by egotistical men as the analogue of you ladies outrageously flirting with beta males you have no intention of fucking for the ego thrill of their courtly supplication.”
Nailed it.
Game, set, and match.
Fuck phone numbers. I use girls’ faces as stepping stones. Bazinga!
I never go on a date with a girl till I get a nudie pic in a text. If not forthcoming, I post the number on Craigslist casual encounters for gay men in San Francisco. Pwned!
As a bonus, the bitches can’t get angry that the homos are texting them filthy shit and pics of their faggy penii. Why? Because that’s homophobia! Suck on AIDS, SWPL whores!
I really should stop drinking Mountain Dew.
All hail whorefinder… PUA’s version of Fight Club.
Like Bronan The Barbarian’s Text Message Trolling http://bronanthebarbarian.com/2012/03/21/text-message-trolling-online-love-edition/
I loled.
But I don’t think I’d do that.
You should post them on /soc/ on 4chan. Makes craigslist look like an A-list nightclub
^^A tech spin-off of the old written number in the shitty park bathroom.^^
“For a good time call #. Into double penetration and tit spanks.”
This and the earlier CH post on practical jokes is just the inspiration I have needed lately. Good show gentlemen. Healthy young twat has nowhere to hide near my spectrum.
Basically it means she’s not hot enough to deserve being pursued or you have better fish on your plate. She may be lucky and happen to be there when you have no other girls in your rotation but that’s rare for me. And she’d be dropped as soon as a hot one comes by.
And in order to date a girl and be her boyfriend I have to find her really hot and she has to have a decent sweet and interesting personality.
Very true. I have lined up alternates before. That way if your true target is too stuck up or whatever, she can watch you leave with a woman who knows her place, can put two words together and can form a thought.
“Why did’nt he call”?
Basically a precursor to cue the hamster.
Very true in my case. Would that we could all just know, definitively, how a potential date/significant other/friendly sex partner felt about us.
brade runna
The number one reason: lady, your too heavy.
Once your target sobers up…
It’s time to move on.
Hmm.
used this a few times when a teen, working an amusement park. Basically stuck at a particular ride, and some of the youngsters, this was the only way to get them out of there.
And a few times, it was just to practice or boost the ego. If I’d been more of true alpha, I would have passed the number along to a beta coworker and told them to hook up, that would have been good for a few laughs.
Interesting. I think you’ve got something there, but mostly for betas. Who needs an ego boost? Insecure people do.
[heartiste: need’s got nothin to do with it. alphas love ego boosts as much as the next guy. it’s part of the human condition.]
It depends on the venue, but I usually don’t talk to a woman unless I intend to try her out. A party for instance invites chatting, and they’ll eat up your time. I enjoy talking to women and flirting with them, but I’m not going to waste my time with a dud. Therefore, I’ll eventually call, or I wouldn’t get her number in the first place. And frankly, if you’re doing it right, and it’s the right venue, there won’t need to BE a phone call.
‘So the next time you’re staring at your silent phone, remember to think to yourself “Yes, it’s me, not him. I’m not hot enough for him.”’
Yeah, like that’ll ever happen…
I simply thought i would be then got to thinking about it and decided that I didn’t care.
How interesting; on woman dating up, etc.: http://www.scribd.com/doc/23724929/Sexual-Utopia-in-Power-Devlin
Last month I restarted my game and I’m going for the 100 approaches challenge that Roosh mentioned before going on his hiatus.
Currently I’m on the 48 girl, I”ve met a lot of girls, almost all of them flaking on me (It’s Colombia) except like 3 or 4 with whom I’m currently texting until they have the time to meet me, but I know that doesn’t guarantee nothing so I’m only talking to them to see what happens.
In lots of my approaches I ask for the number, but later on I prefer not to call, maybe as an excuse to get rejected by her. It’s better to reject than to be rejected, riiight?
[heartiste: if you have game and motivation, then your number collection will grow and overlap. it’s inevitable. in that case, what are you gonna do? most men don’t have the time or energy to juggle fifteen dates concurrently, so they filter out those numbers of girls who aren’t that attractive, or who didn’t give adequately strong interest signals, and instead focus on the girls who really lit a fire in their phalluses.]
Colombian girls are flakes, but there should be a good number who dig you just for being American (if you are blue-blond, like me, it’s particularly easy). I got approached all the time when I lived there, but it does vary by city. The mid-sized cities (100,000 to 500,000) are the sweet spots. If your Spanish is good, you should be getting interest. Keep it up, and something will materialize. You need to be aggressive, because they expect that.
Such BS.
Edit, It’s like two months now, almost 1-4 girls per day (daygame), except weekends.
Only two reasons i don’t text or call a girl after I get her number:
1.) I’m fucking someone else that I like right now
2.) I didn’t think you were that hot.
But, if you were really hot you can get past problem #1.
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I bet that is the reason 99% of guys don’t call.
Heh. “I’ve seen attack bitches burning off the shoulder of Club Orion.”
Nice Bladerunner allegory.
Why is it that you men find such glee in rejecting women? Generally, we already have a reason to feel bad about something. Today someone I thought was an actual nice guy, illustrated that he has some sort of game. He just lost the right to my smile.
[heartiste: men and women both secretly find glee in rejecting suitors. women may be better at hiding their glee (though that is debatable) but they surely feel damned good walking home after a night out spurning one advance after another.]
… the right to my smile…
I’m a-gonna recheck the Constitution… I was sure that was one of them thar inalienable rights.
Not in my constitution
<– See, you’ve still got it, but you’re on thin ice.
It’s there, Right next to the free Contraceptive clause.
A night out. A night out…nope, never heard of it
Why is it that if I go out and get 10 numbers, and call (or blast text) all 10, I only get 3 responses?
Well…because 7 of the girls the next day decided they didn’t want to talk to me.
Similarly, maybe on a different next day after a different night, I’ll decide I don’t want to talk to the girl whose number I got.
Nothing evil is going on here, Kate.
My grandmother had a really beautiful friend when she was young. This was back in the day when you would have an official Friday night date. This girl would promise two or three men she would go out with them, and then at the last minute pick the one she liked best.
Why is it that you men find such glee in rejecting women?
Because you’re fat.
Whether they call it by that name or not, women in groups and pairs play a game called “Red Baron.” They tally up how many men they’ve “shot down.” Fortunately, these “party girls” are easy to spot. Too much makeup, cheap dresses that don’t show quite enough skin (because they don’t want to “look like a whore” in front of their girlfriends) and they usually laugh like banshees over absolutely nothing. You can play them and bed them, but they are an utter waste of time. Lousy in bed, exhibiting last minute resistance (easily overcome, but why?) or resistance after the fact, which makes them worse than useless. In other words, she’ll blow you, but not on demand the second time. Once you’ve had them, they assert some ridiculous feminist idea about not wanting to seem cheap, long after the wall’s been breached. Usually because they talk to their girlfriends and get the idea in their little pin heads that they want hearts and flowers now. If you’re unfortunate enough to tap one, leave her crying in the proverbial “One-nighter Dumpster.” She should be used to that by now.
Uh, this was a reaction to the glee that women take in shooting down men they deem unworthy for their princess selves. You don’t think it happens? It happens. It used to happen to me, back before I knew why it happened. Believe me, women took great pleasure in thinking up creative new ways to make me feel like shit for getting up the nerve to talk to them.
Every man here got it. Only you seemed to miss it and took it seriously – because it lets you be the Holy Victim again, as required by your belief system.
Was it unlubricated anal that showed you his game, Geisha?
I’m sure he wont be crushed due to having better things on his mind than some chicks smile.
I have a few numbers right now I haven’t called.
Mostly they are not that promising for one reason or another. Or too much work.
Sometimes it is better to be alone than to work on a hot albeit boring woman.
Another reason is that the next day I may not remember the girl’s name (if I was really wasted the night before). To prevent this from happening, I try to put the venue I met the girl at as her last name in my phone. This helps job my memory in the event that I do want to call her.
Heartiste, your minions are growing by the day, when the inevitable collapse comes in the not too distant future the power elite will pinpoint it to you.
Just be wary of time traveling mutant feminists out to nix this multi-verses timeline.
This is true. Except some girls might be indifferent, or act that way. Messes with the head.
O/T
http://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3473649&userid=0&perpage=40&pagenumber=1
“Blackbird Betty”‘s boyfriend: Alpha.
d)Your personality is unfuckable.
My lance won´t joust for women with egos bouncing all over like ping pong balls in maracas. Being as they are (fake and controlling with low self-esteem) , and me seeing right trough it and knowing it I just find it untolerable.
Nothing bad with low self-esteem and expressing it in some way. I actually enjoy making these girls happy.
So, only genuine women get the call and therefore (i) can unsheathe my excalibur.
I don´t glee in making rejections, I used to, but as I see what the market in all its twistedness is, now I hate it.