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Met online? Check.
Beta herbling? Check.
Chubby American woman on the wrong side of 30? Check.
Pretentious SWPL photo? Check.
Rode the cock carousel until age limit was reached? Check.
Two people settling for each other when options have run out? Check.
From this article, a treasure trove of dating tawdriness and romantic bleakness confirming many CH maxims.
I was 30 years old, just out of a long-term relationship and no longer interested in playing the field. It was time to settle down with the right man, get married and start a family. At the urging of several friends (and my worried mother), a strategy was settled upon: I joined Match.com and JDate, a website for Jewish singles.
What followed was a series of bad dates worthy of a romantic comedy: stupid sexual remarks, too much alcohol consumed (by them). A surprising number of men high-fived me, for reasons that remain unclear.
You can read the rest at the link, if you have the stomach for it. Warning: it’s bad. Here’s a taste:
I quickly realized that the popular women seemed to know something I didn’t; they were clearly attracting the sort of smart, attractive professionals who had been ignoring my profile. Being hypercompetitive, I wasn’t about to let some bubblegum-popping blonde steal the neurotic Jewish doctor of my mother’s dreams.
Here’s some advice, ladies, straight from the lords of the Chateau, and you don’t even have to reverse engineer online dating by making dummy JDate profiles and Excel spreadsheets to benefit from this advice:
1. Don’t get fat.
2. Don’t be ugly.
3. Don’t act like a man or a bitter feminist.
3. Don’t wait until you’re over 30, rode hard and tossed away wet, to start looking for a serious partner worthy of marrying.
See how simple that is? 1,2,3,4. Voila, love! But I suppose the simplicity is the problem for you girls. There’s no way to hamsterize the advice into something palatable to your egos.
PS As a bonus, here’s some CH advice for the men:
1. Don’t be a beta.
2. Don’t act like a woman or a manboob.
3. Learn game, bust a move and date the women you really desire before you’re forced to settle for the above.
Yours in Yahweh,