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I’m finally dating someone who’s not an asshole. And I’m bored.

Everything you’ve ever read at the Chateau is here confirmed by a woman suffering the burden of dating a nice guy. (Man’s fault)

Via Empa Froga III:

JB quips,

She’s almost red pilled herself.

Rule of thumb: If you’re a beta provider with weak Game, stay away from girls in the “settle down” phase of their lives who have a history of dating assholes. YOU ARE PREY

Another reader,

Alpha widowhood is a bitch. She is just craving the drama that this beta can’t give her. For his sake I hope she does break it off, else she will be cheating on him within the first year of marriage.

“I am finally dating someone who is kind, and smart, and likeable and attractive, and great, and the sex is awesome.”

But….

“He’s emotionally available…”

He’s like a woman.

“…and actually likes me.”

I have been pumped and dumped and treated like a pret a-piledrive for so long I get creeped out by men who don’t see how worthless I am as a long term partner.

“We have hobbies in common”

Try-hard.

“I don’t have to earn his affection.”

Which means he’s not worth earning.

“I don’t have to play guessing games to figure out what he’s thinking or what he needs.”

If my rationalization hamster isn’t spinning, my vagina isn’t sideways grinning.

“I hate this.”

So give me the right to vote and Ill take out my existential femaleness on my nation.

“I keep almost breaking it off…”

Instead, I’ll just cheat on him for the duration.

“…but I keep not because I think it would be great if I can make it work.”

I will never logic myself into feeling giney tingles.

“It makes me feel like I am permanently broken.”

This self-awareness thingie…it hurts. Only an asshole can make me forget my womanly soul was created below.

***

We men and women are not at the wheel of our fates. Ancient desires drive us around, and we can try to grab hold of the steering wheel and control the direction of our lives, but the harder we pull against the natural momentum of our corporeal vehicle the closer we get to blowing out a tire, grinding the brakes down to the nub, and cracking the engine block.

A man can promise fidelity and service to a good woman, but if her tits, ass, face, and curves don’t excite him then every day will be a losing battle waged against an ancient desire.

A woman can promise loyalty and love to a good man, but if his personality, attitude, temperament, and masculinity don’t excite her then every day will be a losing battle waged against an ancient desire.

The closer we abide the natural momentum of our hindbrain vehicles, the happier our lives. The more we fight our hindbrains, the unhappier we are, and liable to take out our frustrations on everyone around us, including ourselves, in seemingly random acts of self-destructiveness and cruelty.

The woman who fights her natural, God-given desire for a charmingly mysterious asshole who is proficient in the gine art of Dread Game is a woman destined to relationship failure. She can play the part of dutiful, socially approved girlfriend for a while, but the compulsion caged deep within never stops throbbing, begging for release in the embrace of ZFG arms she has to fight to keep wrapped around her.

She will do the same to her country, if she is bored. Just substitute “America” for “a great guy”.

I wish I liked America more. But I don’t. America’s emotionally available and actually likes me. We have purposes in common. I don’t have to earn America’s affection. I don’t have to play guessing games to figure out what America’s thinking or what America needs. And it’s BORING.

Unfortunately, I think I’d rather be miserable than bored, so I’m welcoming as many filthy, depraved, rapey, aggressively stupid and unpredictable refugees into my country as I can to make my life exciting again.

There’s a lesson there for America’s beta males, if they’re willing to see it.

88 Responses to “Women Would Rather Be Miserable Than Bored”

  1. Sorcerygod [www.future.code.blog] says:

    Heartiste, your writing ability is unparalleled. Don’t fret if you don’t get more comments like this one by me — the assumption of hundreds of readers that Your Word is The Word is clarity enough that you’re a Great Writer.

    Somehow you manage to balance density of information perfectly with readability.

    Somehow you make it interesting, always, even if the topic would be hard for another writer to wrestle with.

    The fact that you’re not in THE MSM is a travesty and a horror and shows how corrupt and stupid that body is. I am hoping to start an alt-right media corporation and perhaps someday we will work hand-in-hand. Yours, Sors.

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    • Sentient says:

      Saucy Queer done gone gay again…

      🐆 and spots…

      Liked by 2 people

    • Mr.Troll says:

      Stfu retard. Your sarcasm isn’t funny. CH publicly humiliated you last year and you’re still crying about it like a little bitch as if anyone here cares.

      Liked by 1 person

    • John James R. says:

      Sorcery God,

      You just keep going back and forth between Inner Hajnal and Outer Hajnal. Pick a side

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    • TLM says:

      You weren’t so gay back when you were still CEO LickADick.

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    • Winter says:

      Makes me think of Sweden. The cunts there got so bored they flushed the country. But the ones who then got gang raped by the vibrants no doubt regret it and also had the added horror of finding out that the people who rule them and encouraged them to be stupid don’t give a shit. I expect they discovered that when they want to tell their horror story no paper or station will tell it.
      The amazing thing is the women of Sweden in general must be aware of the reality of this vibrancy but they still keep voting for it. Rather hell than boredom seems to be the thing with them.

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  2. trav the nigger whisperer says:

    My colored ladies go all night and wear my ju jitsu trained ass out! Emotional availability? My niggers be forget dat boolshit and gibs it to me,nigga!

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  3. Hackett To Bits says:

    She sounds like a real snatch, …er, catch…

    Liked by 1 person

  4. jeangray07 says:

    I can usually tell when a friend’s marriage or relationship is on its downward slope.

    When she says he’s her “best friend”.

    Liked by 5 people

    • Bunz -> 0ven.

      B!rthing & Suckling & Nurturing & Raising & Disciplining ch!ldren provides her all the insanity which her hindbrain craves.

      And then cum the grandch!ldren, and the cycle of insanity repeats itself…

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    • If you and your bitch aren’t fighting you aren’t fucking.

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      • Cracker says:

        nah
        a girl should nake your dick hard, not your life

        Liked by 2 people

      • Reinald Vallejo says:

        A woman *must not make your life hard.

        Liked by 1 person

      • John James R. says:

        Naw. Snarling, make-up sex is a Jewlywood trope; the adversarial couple that features a feisty ballbreaker girl and the cocky stud who’s met his match and gets put in his place. Then the make-up sex, all for the camera. All bullshit too, unless it’s a couple just trying to mimic Jewlywood for awhile (and that happens A LOT in relationships). If the girl can get you to fight a lot then she’s exposing weakness and will soon move on. If you’re fighting a lot then you’ve lost frame and you are ‘fucks given’ as opposed to ‘zero fucks given’. The more fucks you give the less fucks you get.

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      • Reinald Vallejo says:

        Uses an argument to state that argument is ineffective in achieving ends. Fails to see the leap in logic.

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      • John James R. says:

        Way oversensitive to a contrary opinion on a thread. Uses word salad to win back cognitive balance.

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      • Reinald Vallejo says:

        You’re still arguing.

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      • John James R. says:

        Thanks for all the cool pics of your face. We really give a shit about that great face. Keep ’em coming. We need more Reinald face. Great stuff.

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  5. Captain Obvious says:

    CH: “I will never logic myself into feeling giney tingles.”

    PSYCHOLOGY >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> REASON

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    • Captain Obvious says:

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    • Reinald Vallejo says:

      Something that emo 90s chick texted me when the subject of our age difference came up> Considering I’m still looking at teenage emo boys….. yes this is a concern. Although Ironman was looking reeeaaaallll good with that grey in his hair in Endgame

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  6. fleezer says:

    “I am finally dating someone who is kind, and smart, and likeable and attractive, and great, and the sex is awesome.”

    bs. if any of that were true the order would go:

    “I am finally dating someone who is attractive and the sex is awesome”

    keyword: dating

    translation: i got alpha fux commitment for the first time and i will do anything to keep it

    she ain’t trying to keep shit. she’s trying to lose it

    kind: yuck. really means spineless

    smart: yuck. really means clueless and exploitable

    likeable: yuck. really means pussy

    attractive: as marketable drone. really means abides by current social contract like good worker

    great: lol what

    sex: this is what she calls it when it’s contractual. getting fucked is what women do

    bj on demand really is the test

    anything other than she drops to her knees and you got a problem there somewhere

    every guy who has a job but doesn’t get blowjobs on demand should go on strike during the same week of summer

    that would be interesting as fuck

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  7. hans says:

    NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAAAT!!!

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  8. Corinth Arkadin says:

    Another bravura poast.

    I almost shit my shorts when I was done reading it.

    At work.

    Wearing white.

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  9. Life is just too easy for modern man. People are spoiled, lazy, and entitled. When life is a struggle just to subsist, there is no time for boredom. That bitch needs to go backpacking in Morocco.

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    • Craig says:

      or bicycling through Turkey.

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    • Oswald Spengler says:

      “Life is just too easy for modern man.”

      Read the novel “A Canticle for Leibowitz.” People have become so restless, so dissatisfied with prosperity, comfort, and ease thay they’ll blow civilization back to the Dark Ages and their descendants will have to struggle to get it all back.

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      • Reinald Vallejo says:

        So what’s the downside?

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      • John James R. says:

        Entering a dark age devoid of civilization in which the r-selected already have access to weapons invented by the k-selected, to use on the k-selected. Also, the k-selected will be totally preoccupied with trying to build back what’s been lost while the r-selected will be right in their element.

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      • Reinald Vallejo says:

        Again, I repeat myself. What is the downside?

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    • Oswald Spengler says:

      “Entering a dark age devoid of civilization in which the r-selected already have access to weapons invented by the k-selected, to use on the k-selected. Also, the k-selected will be totally preoccupied with trying to build back what’s been lost while the r-selected will be right in their element.”

      http://www.tcm.com/mediaroom/video/429672/Fail-Safe-Movie-Clip-Convicts-And-File-Clerks.html

      Who would survive? That’s an interesting question. I would predict…convicts and file clerks. The worst convicts. Those deep down in solitary confinement. And the most ordinary file clerks. Probably for large insurance companies, because they would be in fire-proof rooms, protected by tons of the best insulator in the world: paper. And imagine what will happen. The small group of vicious criminals will fight the army of file clerks for the remaining means of life. The convicts will know violence, but the file clerks will know organization. Who do you think’ll win?!”

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  10. ‘We men and women are not at the wheel of our fates. Ancient desires drive us around, and we can try to grab hold of the steering wheel and control the direction of our lives, but the harder we pull against the natural momentum of our corporeal vehicle the closer we get to blowing out a tire, grinding the brakes down to the nub, and cracking the engine block.’
    You have fkn nailed it again CH!
    This is why Male dominated societies thrive and female dominated societies ultimately die.
    Because regardless of how well qualified or ‘intelligent’ women supposedly are. The daily battle with their instincts and innate psychological traits renders them ultimately useless.
    Weak men have got us to this point in history, weak men who have empowered children in adult bodies and it is weak men who will ultimately bring about the destruction in the West/Anglosphere. Unless we take away women’s power. Ancient Rome is a warning for the world. This is history rhymn’ and repeating. Because the black pill of black pills is that women are not as good as men. Not as intelligent, capable, innovative, rational, merciful or strong (physically or emotionally). Men are better than women, period. And the sooner the world realises this, the better off we will all be.

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    • >>>>> “Men are better than women, period.”

      Except for the pesky little fact that men cannot b!rth ch!ldren nor can men l@ctate for ch!ldren.

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    • Sam J. says:

      “…Ancient Rome is a warning for the world…”

      You forgot Sparta. What happened to them? They ran out of Men. An earthquake, a plague lowered their numbers from a small base. They didn’t have the numbers of Men they needed and they were defeated. Their Men went through the harshest most grueling training ever known. The Men held their own to the very end but the Women had one job. One little thing they had to do to make the nation survive. Have children and they didnn’t do it.

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  11. ‘We men and women are not at the wheel of our fates. Ancient desires drive us around, and we can try to grab hold of the steering wheel and control the direction of our lives, but the harder we pull against the natural momentum of our corporeal vehicle the closer we get to blowing out a tire, grinding the brakes down to the nub, and cracking the engine block.’
    You have fkn nailed it again CH!
    This is why Male dominated societies thrive and female dominated societies ultimately die.
    Because regardless of how well qualified or ‘intelligent’ women supposedly are. The daily battle with their instincts and innate psychological traits renders them ultimately useless.
    Weak men have got us to this point in history, weak men who have empowered children in adult bodies and it is weak men who will ultimately bring about the destruction in the West/Anglosphere. Unless we take away women’s power. Ancient Rome is a warning for the world. This is history rhymn’ and repeating. Because the black pill of black pills is that women are not as good as men. Not as intelligent, capable, innovative, rational, merciful or strong (physically or emotionally). Men are better than women, period. And the sooner the world realises this, the better off we will all be.

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  12. Johnny Redux says:

    God damn, how broken are people to be like this?

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    • Johnny Redux says:

      She answered her own question: She IS broken. She is a disaster to any decent man who gets the least bit involved with her.

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  13. Brendan says:

    This is why Biden shouldn’t apologize for Anita Hill or hair sniffing/groping. The usual suspects will whine and moan, but deep down they’ll dig his “fuck off” attitude.

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  14. cortesar says:

    cucktisans have a message for you

    The message to post-Christian neo-pagan alt-right citizens is fittingly Augustinian: ‘get out while you still can’ https://t.co/MS3qYCt0Lo

    — Catholic Herald (@CatholicHerald) May 3, 2019

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    • cortesar says:

      alt-right got a message for cuckstians

      get up, you will hurt your knees faggots

      #WednesdayWisdom #sellout The pope is funding the caravans coming to the U S! Is anybody wondering where he got the money? Try the foreign terrorist leaders he’s been bowing before & kissing their feet? pic.twitter.com/PObpJKv8kD

      — Kcrumpler63 (@kcrumpler63) May 2, 2019

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      • John James R. says:

        His ass-in-air footlicking is just real-time sexual fetishery. Nothing could be more obvious. He is totally sick.

        “Inside every Christian is a Jew.”

        –Pope Francis. Hmm….

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      • pelayo1683 says:

        Not a Christian.

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      • Scanman says:

        “Inside every Christian is a Jew.”

        –Pope Francis. Hmm….

        Lots of self-hating Jews in the orthodox and trad sects, I guess.

        Interesting inversion of supercessionism the high verbal IQ special people have scripted for their guy in white.

        Forever obfuscating, twisting, subverting, inverting…

        They take doing the work of their father very seriously. Serious people.

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  15. Pill says:

    I had to break things off with a sweet Korean girl. truth is, it was getting boring. She was too nice, and a bit dull. She loved me, and complimented me. Yet, she told me I was cute, and handsome, and that my terrible haircut looked good anyway. That shit gets tiresome. Its appreciated to a point, but when i guy throws down the compliments at a women too often, she gets bored and turned away. #metoo I’m not craving a bitch with bipolar attitudes, but a little sas in a woman is what I needed to keep things interesting. In my case, since my woman was too sweet, it made me dull. I felt like anything might hurt her feelings. awwwwww.

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  16. tteclod says:

    “I dated assholes for a long time. 9 years was the last one.”

    NINE YEARS!

    The way I figure it, she’s been riding the carousel 18 years. That makes her 36. At best, she’s a consolation prize for the desperate man who couldn’t find a gal before age 50. If that’d been ONE NINE YEAR RELATIONSHIP she’s still spent all her youth and beauty by age 30 and now expects sparks to fly.

    Unless she can cook, she’s got nothing to offer any man under age 40.

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    • Glengarry says:

      “Unless she can cook, she’s got nothing to offer any man under age 40.”

      Lol, yeah fat chance. But even if she can cook, takeout might still be the superior solution.

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    • “That makes her 36”

      That’s the low ball estimate. I would think 40+ is a reasonable assumption (how many other assholes and how long? We can only guess).

      “Unless she can cook, she’s got nothing to offer any man under age 40.”

      No, that’s not enough.

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    • Mr Meaner says:

      She sounds late 20s to me.

      The way she refers to Chad i doubt it was exclusive, not for the whole time anyway. I’d wager the nine years were an on again, off again thing as part of Chad’s harem, at best.

      A chick in her late 30s or 40s wouldn’t still be thirsting for an arsehole like this, she’d be accepting the nice guy’s sperm.

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      • Oleaginous Outrager says:

        “She sounds late 20s to me.”

        Her last relationship was 9 years. Do you think it was also her first?

        “A chick in her late 30s or 40s wouldn’t still be thirsting for an arsehole like this, she’d be accepting the nice guy’s sperm.”

        You’ve learned nothing here, have you?

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      • tteclod says:

        “A chick in her late 30s or 40s wouldn’t still be thirsting for an arsehole like this…”

        Don’t attribute logic to something which lacks it.

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    • baked georgia says:

      today it’s hard to difference a teenager to a women almost approaching 40.

      I’ve mean, when it comes to their brain, not the looks hehehe

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      • Mr Meaner says:

        Oleaginous Outrager,

        She talks about her 30th birthday coming up here. Second comment down

        You can apologize any time.

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  17. X says:

    “I wish I liked him more… I keep almost breaking it off, but I keep not because I think it would be great if I can make it work.”

    Translation: the guy’s got money.

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  18. Craig says:

    So the lesson is; #repealthe19th, #keepthePimpHandstrong, #keepherPHbalanced, #strongenoughforamanbutmadeforwomen

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  19. Al Du Clur says:

    CH, great post especially substituting America for the guy. Women’s desire to be miserable over bored is also why we get safe spaces, front hole hat marches and hate speech laws. To get interested in politics, women need to make dramatic like a crazed ch1c flick or soap opera. They would rather be traumatized by speech them have to do something boring like research a topic and have a rational debate.

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  20. pelayo1683 says:

    He needs to act towards her like God does to us men. She needs to struggle, she needs periods of darkness, quietude and insecurity… in order for her to learn trust and commitment, patience whilst suffering in fear.

    By being emotionally “available,” he denies her the chance to learn to walk on her own, like a helicopter parent. He denies the drama God wishes her to have in order to teach her. She need periods of pain and vexation. He is not her hero, only God can be. Let her tread water on her own sometimes.

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-morning-offering/id464224799?i=1000437149469

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    • plumpjack says:

      it begins with the man being emotionally dependent on the woman. he projects his neediness onto her, and she then follows his lead. she doesn’t actually need or want that support. she wants to be led.

      can you imagine how pathetic it would be if God needed to feel needed by mankind?

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        >>>>> “God needed to feel needed by mankind”

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      • Democritus says:

        @Captain Obvious

        Oh no, Captain O, did you have to go back there? I know there was the temptation to punch that line; but, Captain, you were into METAL in the 90’s, right? Joan Osborne!? What, man?

        I think it’s taken all of those twenty years to finally purge that sonic misbirth of a song out of our collective unconscious; but now it might as well be the lead track off the retrospective album of our time: Birth of the Poz.

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      • Big Ramifications says:

        Was a great ditty for drunk sing-a-long banter, ie. changing the words…. Slow and rhymey.

        FYI the person on the phone @3:09 would often have a bone.

        // low hanging fruit

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    • vfm#7634 says:

      Dread Game. If the BF is able to attract youngerhottertighter women, he’d be an idi0t not to take advantage of the opportunity. If his current GF leaves anyway, no prob, youngerhottertighter is on deck.

      Although… if he’s “emotionally available”, and “kind”, and she doesn’t have to “earn his affection”, it’s likely youngerhottertighter isn’t in fact an option in his case.

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  21. turboprop555 says:

    “I keep almost breaking it off…”

    Translation:

    “I keep sneaking out to fuck a nigger that is unemployed and never takes his boots off when we fuck. But eventually I have to go back home because, like, who’s gonna put gas in my car so I can fuck this nigger?”

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  22. Musashi says:

    Nice Dazed and Confused reference!

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