A sufficiently robust self-abasement is indistinguishable from depravity. Case in point: this man who is seriously contemplating an agreement with his wife which would sanction her desire to have a “more attractive” baby with another man’s seed and which her openly cuckolded husband would raise as his own under penalty of law and his wife’s death-glare.
Wife [26F] wants to use a sperm donor because she wants attractive kids
I [30M] have been to my wits end with this discussion and I don’t feel comfortable talking to my family or friends about this due to the sensitive and embarrassing nature of the conversation.
So many embarrassing situations can be avoided by being a man.
When talking about children (we want to start soon), she suggested a sperm donor because then the child will (supposedly) have a better chance at a good life. I was incredibly confused and asked her to explain. To which she explained that if the baby had genes of an incredibly attractive and smart man (tried not to be insulted at that) then he/she would live an easier life and be happier. She’s not wrong in that more attractive people live life easy, but its just so hurtful to think that your wife doesn’t think you’re good enough to have children with.
Why did she marry him? Regardless, her (and his) presumption is undercut by the hardships that will befall beautiful bastard sprogs who are abandoned by nonbiological fathers or, at best, resented by those non-fathers until they crack one day and go the full Elliot Rodger/Amanjaw Mancuntte.
Before we got married (been married for 3 years), we mentioned our mutual interest in having kids but this never came up. If I’m being objective, my wife is incredibly smart but not jaw-dropping beautiful
This is why you should ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS commit to a woman for her looks first, and her smarts a distant second.
and though she has a healthy fit body, her face is not perfect.
Butterfaces are cursed to have the bodies that arouse alpha males for a night, but the faces that scare them away for the rest of the days and nights.
She is imperfectly perfect to me but she’s only a solid 6/7. I think her own insecurity might in part play a role since she struggled with not being a beautiful woman in her younger days and said how life is easier to be good looking.
For women especially, it sure is. But life is not easier as a single mommy. Remind her of that. Watch her reaction. Grab the popcorn. And get ready for an evening of sex you haven’t had with her since…ever.
I’m around the same level of attractiveness (I’m 6’0 and kinda on the thinner side but my face is average id say…never had anyone be repulsed) as her and she is attracted to me but she says she just wants our kid to have the best shot at life and lead the best life it can.
This is like the IMAX showing of Alpha Fux, Beta Bux. We’re immersed in it. Blink when you leave the theater to get your sight back.
I don’t know what to do. Its gotten to the point where now I’m starting to consider it,
Second biggest mistake. (First big mistake was marrying her.)
but it would make me feel as though she married me just for the money I can provide in raising this other handsome man’s child.
Whenever there is any doubt, there’s no doubt.
I don’t know what to do or how to reach her that this is not ok.
Try this:
“No”
Then this:
“No, you dumb crazy bitch.”
Then this:
“You don’t have to beg for my pimp hand, you can just ask.”
Finally, if those fail, this:
“There’s the door. Bye.”
Divorce is NOT on the cards; I just want to fix the problem.
Congratulations, you just gave up your only last ditch leverage.
Update: I just casually asked her if she would be ok with using a sperm donor and egg donor and she pretty much shut that down real fast.
How utterly surprising! /s
Nothing pisses off a woman more than an uppity beta going against character and daring to look out for his own interests, but doing so in the most mealy-mouthed, tentative way possible.
She says that at least one of us need to be biologically related to the child and its better if the mother is because the baby grows inside the mother and we could be involved in the pregnancy.
Thanks for the medical report.
This beta male on the cusp of omegadom is sadly representative of so many weak Millennial males who have NO CONCEPTION of the right and proper way to lead, dominate, and romantically possess women.
His pathetic weakness provokes predatory behavior from women.
The only blood women can smell better than their own monthly is the blood of beta chum.
A reader is flabbergasted,
Stuff like this hurts to read, it’s inconceivable to me that someone would tolerate this from his (or supposedly his) woman. How did he even get a woman? Must have been a big bank account.
The man who would tolerate this shit from a woman is the man women would cuckold.
Don’t tolerate it, and women won’t gallingly solicit your acquiescence to your Darwinian annihilation.
My advice to this man is simple, but requires a small measure of dignity, which means it will be ignored or dismissed as “misogyny”.
Do not walk to your nearest divorce lawyer. Run. And do it under cover of night. Plan your legal disentanglement now, while she’s blind to your tactical maneuvers. You want to catch her by surprise, and you want an ironclad divorce settlement that leaves her nothing (luckily no kids are involved….yet) but an empty feeling in the pit of her butterwomb. Secretly record her cuckoldry discussions with you to present as evidence to the court. If all goes well, she’ll be paying you to leave her alone and miserable.
And don’t for a second think this marriage is salvageable. The moment your wifey articulated her desire to shun your seed and profit from your toil was the date-picked stamp on your inevitable divorce. When a woman speaks openly of her hypergamy, you can bet she’s been thinking silently of it for years. A woman in that state of mind is one flimsy excuse away from cheating on you soon enough. Even if she drops her ridiculous demand of you to self-cuck, she’ll simmer with the resentment of a woman who has, for years on end, wanted to jump on interloper dick and get impregnated by a higher quality man. Stay in that marriage only if you eagerly await the day you find the damning sexts on her phone.
Oh, and stop voting for elitist Democrats and cucked Repubs. I can bet you’re the type of sniveling beta boob who votes for politicians who hate your kind.
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