Will has a Game question regarding two common refrains a man might hear from a woman he is boffing or pre-boffing,
2 things I will pay big money for CH
define big. (pesos don’t count)
when a girl asks “what are you looking for” and you have fucked already
“How old are you”
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“What are you looking for?” is classic beta bait. The girl saying it doesn’t want the implied goopy beta romanticism. She wants electricity, which means a reply that defies her expectation. Beta bait is anything a woman says which traps beta males into exposing the soft core of their weepy hearts.
The CH archives are loaded with posts delving into these topics, and in particular the two scenarios Will mentions here. Acceptable replies to a pre-sex “what are you looking for?”:
There is only one way to answer an early game, pre-sex “what are you looking for?” stinky-ass beta bait:
“A delicious ham sandwich.”
Do try and say it with a straight face for maximum amusement.
Answering any other way will only make the bang more difficult to achieve. Why construct unnecessary obstacles to yourself? If she presses the matter, then you will have to get serious with her. But there is a right way and a wrong way to patronize a woman’s shit testing.
Wrong way: Play into her frame.
- “I’m not looking for anything serious right now.”
Why give her an excuse to stop seeing you?
- “I haven’t thought about it. Why do you ask?”
Why give her an excuse to continue harping on the subject?
- “I’m looking for something serious.”
Lying is unnecessary in this situation, as I will demonstrate below. Also, saying this risks turning her off if you miscalculate and she’s *not* looking for something serious.
Right way: Control the conversation.
- “I’m dating around until I find that one woman I really click with. I think anything serious should develop naturally, and not be forced. Don’t you?”
If the girl asks you this after sex, then you will need to employ more tact. Assume she has bonded to you in some meaningful capacity (jizz is lady glue); this means you can easily overplay glib responses that make her sad.
You can start with the ham sandwich joke, but if she asks again, you’ll want to initiate strong eye contact and say through a dreamily contented grin, “We’ll see”. Girls interpret this reply to mean “we’ll see if I’m good enough for him. ooh, exciting!”. Just as good: “I don’t know, but when I find it, you’ll be the first to know”.
If she’s really sincere and earnest in the asking, but you aren’t *there* yet, then assuage her anxiety with a calming “Let’s take this slow. There will be time for heavy talk later.”
If she’s there, and you’re there, and you are confident this isn’t stinky beta bait, then let ‘er rip:
“I’ve already found it”.
Big Quip Energy!
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Part Deuz. “How old are you?”
This is a shit test. Usually, much younger women will ask it of older men. Sometimes, older women ask it of younger men. Not nearly often enough, men ask it of women (they should ask more often to put the girl in the defensive crouch where…all together now…poosy perturbations are born.
As with all female shit tests, the objective is to pass them by not trying to pass them, if you catch my drift. Reworded: don’t play into her frame. Blow it up, or reframe to a conversational path that is more beneficial to you.
The general rule is to never act defensive, or sorry for what you may perceive to be an unbridgeable age gap. Instead, you want to turn the tables, and refute the tacit premise of her question by making her think she ISN’T UP TO YOUR STANDARDS.
This could mean disqualifying her as a prospect, or disqualifying yourself. Ex:
GIRLY: How old are you?
LINDSEY GRAHAM’S FANTASY FUEL: Too young/old for you.
or, assume the sale and then DQ with a set-up to a challenge:
“If you’re flirting, forget it. You’re too young. I like sophisticated women.”
She won’t be able to resist chomping down on the male version of beta bait: waif bait.
It’s also helpful to set the frame early, before she veers into airing her concerns about the age difference:
“I’ve noticed some women are nervous in the company of older men. It’s like they get intimidated and feel they aren’t good enough. You’re not like that, are you?”
More Game goodness: there are “Age Negs“:
Her: How old are you?
You: You first.
Her: 25.
You: Oh oh.
Her: What?
You: I don’t normally date older women. They have too many issues in my experience.This neg is especially effective when the girl is considerably younger than yourself. Imagine a 35 year old guy telling a 22 year old girl she’s too old for him. It quickly reverses the frame in your favor.
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Her: How old are you?
You: Guess.
Her: 28.
You: Close. And you’re… 27.
Her: No, 23.
You: Oh no, really?
Her: Yeah, why?
You: I like to date older women. Everyone knows they’re more mature and classy.Notice I used the term “everyone knows”. It’s a bit jarring in the context of this short conversation, but that doesn’t matter. Girls are very sensitive to groupthink, so my words will have the intended effect — to put her in the role of the one seeking approval.
Finally, you can simply evade the question with a sneaky rhetorical trick:
HER: how old are you?
YOU: guess
HER: 32
YOU: wow! you’re good at this.
Then change the subject. She’ll think you’re 32, but you never actually answered her question. All you said was that she was good at guessing your age, which could mean she guessed correctly, plus or minus ten years.
PS Here is a list of effective tactics for overcoming any possible age objections from a girl.
When the rubber hits the road she’s gonna get outta there for younger hotter tighter cause she can. And she’ll enjoy it and play the game exactly how she wants. Checkmate old stinky annoying old men.
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Yea she plays her way then someone finally notices she is dead after three hours and they drop the body in front of a convenience store
Or a bunch of em die in the bathroom so they close the bathroom at night.now
Or find em in stairwells
U go girl
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But yea men got it even worse
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Warning to all the muff divers out there.
– Syphilis Is Attacking People’s Eyeballs, And This Issue Is on The Rise Around The World –
https://www.sciencealert.com/ocular-syphilis-on-the-rise-globally-brazil-study-largest-to-date
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All the better. As a heinous muff diver and pretty good at it, I’ve observed that women have a low opinion of cleanliness down there, especially as they get older, so when you go down on them, they take it as a submissive act.
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yep
i’ve said this many times. going down on a woman is as submissive as it gets. and with what you mentioned, gum disease, mouth and throat cancer risks, etc, men are idiotic for doing it
not to mention the fact that women who insist on it because they can’t get off without it, are sexually dysfunctional physically emotionally or both
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*with what The Herald mentioned…
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Confirm that girls look down on muff divers, maybe more than ever. There’s even guys paying escorts to get to dine at the Y. Go figure that out, I sure can’t.
But. All the data was from four clinics in Brazil. Brazil, one of the larger Petri dishes in the Western hemisphere.
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>>>>> “Brazil, one of the larger Petri dishes in the Western hemisphere.”
Coming soon to a neighborhood near you.
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I was asked once “What are you looking for”.
I said to her “well I was not looking for a girlfriend”.
Her body temperature was higher on the inside.
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Interesting conclusion.
– There’s a Disturbing Link Between Women Posting Sexy Selfies And Income Inequality –
https://www.sciencealert.com/sexy-selfies-on-social-media-are-more-common-when-there-s-income-inequality
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In the right venue, “Old enough to know better, young enough not to care” works good.
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“Everyone knows…”
-Gets the seal of approval from the God Emperor himself
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I love the age game. Easy way to get giggles ‘n tingles.
Her: How old are you?
Me: Old enough to be your grandfather. (I’m early-30’s)
Her: lol no but really
Me: 13.
and onward. Just mess around, unless she really insists, which happens quite a bit, then I’ll tell her.
And if she asks how old I think she is, I usually start comically but not impossibly high.
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Impossibly High Game
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Impossibly High Game the Prequel
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Impossibly High Game III: High School Algebra Teachers attack Chad the Captain of the Lacrosse Team
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^“Grandfather” is good
Always Be Gaming direct interrogation questions with zfg responses:
“How old are you?
A: “Seven in dog years”
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Off topic.
If you can handle the Scottish accent; Prof. Mark Blyth knows his sh*t.
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Bolsonero got stubbed by a leftoid lunatic
I said it many times myself
Leftoids understand one and one language only
A boot straight to their ugly heads, style Pinochet
(Followed by helicopter rides)
I hope he is going to get well
It has been some time we waited for a major political figure to say this
Brazil candidate Jair Bolsonaro: “Pinochet did what had to be done,” he said, “It had to be done violently.” https://t.co/brjYKipeRf
— Vincent Bevins (@Vinncent) September 5, 2018
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Jair Bolsonaro, Brazil’s right wing presidential front-runner, stabbed at rally pic.twitter.com/NXTIVECWil
— Martina Markota (@MartinaMarkota) September 7, 2018
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Lololzzlolzolzz:
” ‘Separate ‘gay blood’ so patients can choose not to have it, says Brazilian politician’
– Brazilian congressman Jair Bolsonaro said patients should be aware if they are receiving blood from homosexuals”
(mirror. co.uk)
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A food themed non-sequitor is my goto answer for pretty much all shit tests
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“what are you looking for?” (pre-sex)
How’s “I don’t know yet” strike you?
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Young (18-22)
How old are you?
Old enough you can call me daddy.
Older (23+)
How old are you?
I wish I had met the 19 year old version of you.
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