If you see a girl you find attractive flirting with another man, don’t assume she’s out of your reach. Not all female flirting is the same. I’ve noticed that women will flirt to satisfy three emotional compulsions:
- To directly signal sexual availability to a man she really likes. This is authentic flirting, and it’s easy to discern because the girl won’t break eye contact with the object of her flirtation. An aroused girl who is happy to be swept up by a man’s attention will flirt hardcore with him, because she won’t want him to miss her interest and have him decide to break away under the false assumption she’s not open to her seduction by him. Authentic flirtation is, in this scenario, used by women to increase sexual tension, and help drive the courtship toward a culminating bang, but only if the man is capable/alpha/experienced enough to deduce her intention and successfully parry her flirting.
- To release sexual tension. This is different from Flirting case #1, even if it sounds superficially similar. A girl who’s all wound up with sexual tension will seek a man (or men) into whom she can dissipate her stored sexual energy if her preferred mate choice isn’t available. This urge to release sexual tension will manifest as flirting when it isn’t resolved through actual sex or making out. Despite sensational press releases to the contrary, most women have an instinct to protect their precious eggs and guard against indulging wanton sexual escape. For a woman, flirting serves this purpose as both tension reliever and firewall against cumming down with Sudden Meaty Intrusion Syndrome. The man who is the recipient of this kind of female flirting doesn’t necessarily have to be on the girl’s radar as a potential lover; extraverted BPD girls are particularly prone to flirting with men for whom they have no sexual desire. Any earport in a tingle storm will do. NB: Beta males should be wary of this kind of flirty girl, because they are often exploited as earports and likely to misconstrue the girl’s harmless flirting as real sexual intention.
- To coax a third party man to bust a move. In this instance, the one under consideration here and practiced by the girls to whom I refer as Flirt Fatales, the flirting is a means to an entirely unexpected end: inviting a different man than the one with whom she is flirting to come over and meet her. The Flirt Fatale’s objective is to incite jealousy in the man she truly desires, and she does this by openly (and often sloppily) flirting with another man in the hopes that it will trigger the “hurry up and conquer” instinct in the man who is her primary interest. You can easily identify the Flirt Fatale by how she’ll frequently break eye contact with the pawn she’s flirting with to cast darting, sidelong glances at the rest of the room, or directly at you. NB: A man who suspects he is the true target of a girl’s flirtation with a beta prop should be ready to pounce after the girl is finished cockteasing her sounding board. I like to go in and open with the line, “Looks like your flirting didn’t work on that guy.” This is both a disqualification of her as a primary target of your affection and a cheeky challenge to her feminine allure.
In sum, if you see a girl flirting with another man, and she’s in your vicinity, check for darting eyes that betray her real purpose. If her eyes are locked on the flirtee, don’t bother. If her eyes sweep the veldt for your predatory gaze, prepare to approach once she’s detached from her pawn.
The neophyte to the world of women may ask, “why won’t the Flirt Fatale just go up to the man she really wants and flirt with him instead of going through this convoluted proxy beta?”
Sure, women do that. But not always. Not even very often. The reason Flirt Fatales like to play this game is because they want to maintain the illusion of their feminine allure, and that illusion creaks under the strain of any active moves she makes to capture the attention of a man she wants. Directly flirting with a man, to these women, is like giving too much of their game away. She relinquishes power with every aggressive move that betrays the essence of her feminine soul; an essence which is vulnerability and submission to a powerful man who takes what he wants. So she plays these flirty games with the unwitting aid of third party beta dupes to preserve her self-perception of passive sexual power which overwhelms desirable men to throw caution to the wind and risk her rejection on a direct approach that hasn’t been green-lighted by any overt flirtatious invitation she could easily send their way.
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It almost goes without saying, but another psychological need of the Flirt Fatale is to satisfy her urge to play the “let’s you and him fight” game of male social dominance that helps her identify which men are strong enough to enjoy her chute fruit. Inciting jealousy through manipulative flirting with a proxy beta pawn gives her the giddy high of watching a second man enter the field of battle to oust the first man for her romantic favor.
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Scenario #2 first happened to me back in 1996 BC…above average (i.e., whyte) Latina at work, teasing the lesser beta of our group in that manner.
Me, right in front of everybody: “A – – – -, are you flirting again?”
(lesser beta turns bright red)
She: “Hey! LOL”
Plenty of IOIs after that.
It wasn’t my first impression on her, so it surprised her. It’s the sort of thing that gets you out of a dull workaday dynamic.
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an old one, but always good
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Thanks for this. The distinction between the types of flirtatiousness has, for me, eluded articulation until now.
I hope the kids find the Chateau. Yesterday, Steve Harvey has a segment where his son dispensed the opposite of these sentiments and all Chateau knowledge on his show to a group of fatherless schoolboys. Godspeed.
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I really enjoy that feeling, taking a woman from a try hard man. Makes one feel like the larger, stronger bull moose with 60inch antlers coming into the clearing and chasing the eager but smaller bull away from a female, often with mere prescence alone.
Interestingly, cow moose have a special mating call that signals she wants a better mate (“save me from this beta!”) She’ll sometimes use it to find a bigger male if a small young bull starts hanging around during rut.
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Reading this and looking back, I’m certain that on a few occasions I was the object of the flirt fatale’s desire but took her flirting with the other guy the wrong way.
As it goes without say: lift!. Lift heavy ass weights till they aren’t heavy anymore and add more weight.
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Always assume it’s about you…even if you’re wrong..60% of the time you will either be right or your (false) assumptions and resultant action will seduce her anyway.
Women are great actors. Seen it so many times when I see a girl with a guy and we lock eyes, she goes from boredom and disinterest with her guy into total infatuation with him. And her guy ahs no idea what just happened.
In short always be a cunt and act like you shit good bars!
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Will do!
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This. 1 x 1 = 1. 1 × 0 = 0. Always assume the positive.
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“Any earport in a tingle storm will do.”
Strikingly good line. In line with this train of thought, it seems to me that women are also curious about their powers, especially when they’re at university age entering the real world of their sexuality and relationship-forming.
In high school, naturally, they may only have had one or two boyfriends, and quite possibly not ideal ones by her standards. Jump up to university, and the opportunity to find out how cute they are — or which guys respond to which cues — would be irresistible to some extroverted females. So take that as Flirt #4, if you will.
Little story: In University, this girl and I fooled around and we split. She tried to flirt with another male student, but I was so offended by this I dropped all possibility of re-hooking up. So her stupid scheming backfired. Tip for scheming flirts: Factor in the true personality of the man you’re trying to play. He may be stronger than your manipulations.
— xwarper.wordpress.com
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No one believes your bullshit, you weirdo. You sound like Elliott Rodgers. Such a gentleman.
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I had a conversation about flirting with my sister. This came up. Women at their core want to find out who the better man is. They would by default go with the winner of “you and him fight”. However men are not all on board with this idea. Such games are anti-civilization, and the costs are high. If men refuse, and choose to work out their differences in a more civilized and subtle way, women have to gain the information about men in a more covert fashion. So we get shit-tests, status seeking, etc.
Women are literally anti-civilizational. Their instincts if left unchecked (ala modern women), will bring out the most violent aspects of men. Men despite their capability for violence and destruction are not on average destructive. Women, if left to their devices would have us living in grass huts.
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Good comment, basically civilization amounts to men collectively calling out all women’s shit tests at once.
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You beat me to it, Jack. Women are indeed anti-civilization on the micro level (hypergamy, lusting after bad boys) and the macro (driving corporations and countries into the ground).
I’ve witnessed thousands of times women make the most terrible and reckless of decisions concerning every aspect of life. Everything from leaving windows open while the furnace is on, to leaving lights on, to costly gym memberships that go unused, to racking up credit card debt over impulsive purchases, to hooking up with the most reprehensible of louche characters.
À la = t
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Every fucking time.
Caught on tape: Dem official says he’s ‘glad’ Scalise got shot
http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2017/06/23/caught-on-tape-dem-official-says-hes-glad-scalise-got-shot.html
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(((Tyler Newbetaman)))
Woman kicked out of pool for wearing a one-piece swimsuit, fiancé claims
http://www.foxnews.com/lifestyle/2017/06/23/woman-kicked-out-pool-for-wearing-one-piece-swimsuit-fianc-claims.html
Agitprop
When will it stop?
(((They))) still don’t get it.
This shit is so 2014.
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(((Cux news)))
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oh. before reading the article i wondered where this awesome swimming pool that required women to wear bikinis or nothing at all was.
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poor nancy
http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2017/06/23/pelosi-confronts-dem-backlash-from-young-and-restless.html
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(((Phil Montag)))
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Philly,
Listen to (((Noam))). He’s smarter than you are. If this shit kicks off for real, you won’t even believe how much better our side will be at this violence thing.
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A really hot blonde pulled #3 on me at a party. I walked away like a chump. She caught up with me later on that night and asked if I left the convo because I felt jealous. I shrugged it off. She was basically giving me a second chance and I still couldn’t close the deal.
Ugh
This blog can be a kick in the balls.
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Obliviousness is okay if you happen to run into her again. And if you do, be cheerful and mischievous.
But yeah, ideally you should’ve started playing with her without acting butthurt.
Her: Did you leave because you were jealous?
You: Nah… I just noticed the weird potted cacti in the kitchen. Have you ever had a potted cactus before? I think Steve is a bit too obsessed with Arizona, myself. (IOW, reframe with humor. Women love random whimsical rides.)
[CH: i recommend something quippy. girls respond best to short and sweet. well-crafted ripostes can leave girls floating away like wood sprites. my suggestion:
her: did you leave because you were jealous?
you: *looking as genuinely puzzled as you can* jealous of what?]
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“her: did you leave because you were jealous?
you: *looking as genuinely puzzled as you can* jealous of what?]”
That would be my go-to if I couldn’t think of anything else, actually.
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Divine Son of Kike, you’re gay, so why does it matter to you? Unless you’ve reformed yourself?
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Here’s what I’ve noticed:
The first type of flirting, the kind where she’s making it obvious, seems most likely to happen if she has already known you for a while and she has tried other more subtle ways of getting your attention (maybe even including Flirt Fatale) and you remained oblivious, but never actually rejected her.
The second “releasing sexual tension” type of flirting is most likely to happen if the girl has either just met you, or your gut tells you she has never been interested in you before. There’s a certain fakeness about it which newbs should be able to pick up on.
The Flirt Fatale, in contrast, is more likely to be in the early stages of her knowing you. I suspect it is a sort of shit test, which you can pass either by teasing and flirting with her, or by being oblivious and assuming she’s the flirtee’s girlfriend. You fail by orbiting her or acting butthurt.
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I’ve notice when I’m fucking a m@rried ho doggie style, i pull her hair, she wants to be called “naughty cowgirl”, then she cums real hard on my dick.
talk about flirting!
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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4633618/Crowds-gather-acts-Glastonbury-stage.html
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Not one is wife material.
Thanks Jew feminism.
🐿🐿
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that’s what women around here look like at summer festivals too.
dressed like streetwalkers or slobby unflattering clothes that should only be worn to do chores or go camping. no in between.
would it kill them to put on a nice dress and feminine shoes?
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I first noticed the arrival of high-waisted shorts for young women in the summer of 2011, and I was horrified. “First skinny jeans, and now this? Are you PURPOSEFULLY trying to hide feminine beauty?
Look what we’ve lost:
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i get what you’re saying jurist. the shorts in the first pic are great to look at.
but with the current epidemic of slutty or slovenly clothing choices by our nation’s women, the well tailored and high waisted shorts are actually an improvement over the too low/too short/too casual jean shorts in the first pic.
don’t get me wrong, i love seeing them on girls but no man should be okay with his woman or daughter wearing things like that in public. some areas of the body should only be exposed behind closed doors.
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Cracker, I also get what you’re saying. All I meant is that hip-hugging pants look best on women, and accentuate their femininity by showcasing those glorious hips. You’ll notice that in my photo, both shorts show a lot of leg, which is a problem. You’ll also notice that the girl in the lowriders is actually wearing a more modest outfit (at least after she releases her t-shirt) than the girl wearing the top that can never cover her waist.
I, too, am for modest attire for all women (and uniforms for all students, for that matter). I was merely lamenting how much uglier the world seems to be getting by the moment. The link tomjones posted showed a ton of disgusting women, all in high-waisted shorts (obviously trying to hide the pudge, as if that were possible), and I just couldn’t take it anymore.
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Princess Di in the 80s represents the apogee of women’s fashion/manner of dress. She was classy, casual, and fun, and that she didn’t shove her ass, tits/sideboobs in your face nor had skirts with 5″ inseams in no way detracted from her sexiness.
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Princess Di turned out to be nothing but a go-grrl party girl nonetheless, and wound up dating sand n1ggers.
Not sure how old her children were at the time of divorce, but there’s that too.
Check your premises… and your standards.
(((shakin’ mah haid)))
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We’re talking about how women, and she, dressed, Greg. Her personal deportment is another matter. Her mode of dress would be a massive improvement for today’s girlz.
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Looks like half the crowd is comprised of the fagdom that makes up most of England… and the other half over-the-hill party grrl petrie dishes.
Small wonder that no-bones is plastering that bullshit all over the chateau.
His “m@rrided ho” is probably the one with the bow in its hair in the second picture.
(((shakin’ mah haid)))
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Style over substance is why we lose, Les. And holding her up as ANY sort of example for anything is carrying water for tabloid inanity and sub rosa feminism.
You should know this.
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What the hell is this, the fags and ugly girls festival? I did not see a single person in those pics I would even speak to.
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“His “m@rrided ho” is probably the one with the bow in its hair in the second picture.”
I just took that rather weird post as proof that tomjones is off his meds.
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I recommend that you plan carefully and think about what you want in a woman most of all. Simply make an unalloyed wish list and then start looking.Until you do, you will never fid her. I also recommend going to Hungary, Croatia, Serbia, etc. to look. Seek religious women. Not too out there but they should be believers and be able to recite the key prayers.
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Thank you! HIgh-waisted shorts for women, cargo shorts for men, and chunky glasses for everyone are gifts from the synagogue of satan. The unholy trinity. The Dork Triad.
This is what happens when fashion is left up to queenie poofters. The whole world adopts the gay aesthetic, which wants to masculinize women and androgynize men.
Metrosexuals are cultural disease vectors, those insecure bisexual urbanites who uncritically adopt the poz load and infest the heartland with it when they cum home for Thanksgiving.
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Princess Di was a thot pioneer in her own right. This photo scandalized the 1980s for making it fashionable to go without a slip. We’ve come a long way, baby.
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I also recommend going to Hungary, Croatia, Serbia, etc. to look
I recommend that Hungarian, Croat, Serb, etc. men be vigilant about westerners sniffing around for that, which isn’t theirs. It’s an existential matter at this point.
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@ jaded jurist
i agree with you on all points. and i think you are right about the motivation for the high waisted shorts. it’s not for modesty at all, it’s to uglify themselves, or to cover for a not so great body. good points
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I s’pose little thots like Lauren Southron and Pettibone represent substance over style, but I digress.
Would Princess Anne do, or is she similarly tainted.
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/Cg1AWTEWgAAa3zB.jpg:large
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One bite of the elephant at a time… the topic at hand was using Princess Di for anything exemplary.
Although you’ll never see me posting about those other two broads you mentioned, I believe they’ve been somewhat skewered already, here at the chateau… one as a mudshark, the other as a silly little attention whore… so I don’t know why you brought those straw women into this particular side bar.
Likewise, I don’t know too much about Princess Anne, but from that picture, looks like women these days could do a lot worse than follow her example.
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None meet the old school standards of virtue.
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This happens way more often at the gym than anywhere else. Probably because being jacked dont equal Alpha. Theres some Indian girl at the local gym I go to that keeps doing this to.
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Halfway thru the first sentence and my immeadiate thought was “dude, i always assume they are trying to get MY attention”
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Halfway thru the first sentence and my immediate thought was “dude, i always assume they are trying to get MY attention”
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goys you all remember (((Barbara)))
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The good news is the Arabz will overrun israel quite soon.
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At which point they would all come here. How is this good news again?
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You smoke too much bret
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Evil witch.
There are only 12 million beautiful Hungarians IN THE WORLD.
3 words
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Jews want to eliminate this.
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Another Barbara.
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The
goyim
Know
👌
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Apparently, still not enough.
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“the goyim know” what exactly?
most goyim watch kim kardashian 24 hours a day
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This is called poetic justice in the Handbook of Sane Living
Jeez caviar leftoids do not lock back in anger,
diversity came to you right at your door step
don’t you feel enreached?
kek*****
Diversity is all well and good until it comes to live in your upper class luxury apartment block. 😂😂😂 https://t.co/31P6JHPBw9
— Tolerant Fellow (@nontolerantman) June 22, 2017
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Seems like all the other commenters are MIA when there’s a game post.
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A combination of …
… been-there, done-that and/or never really had to try THAT hard to get women…
… and more importantly, Rome’s burning, might be a good idea to put down that fiddle.
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game posts won’t save civilization or whitey.
95% of commenters are concerned about the future of whites (they vary from extraordinarily optimistic[greg, vfm] to suicidal [wolfie, lichthof])
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Major_depressive_disorder
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taaauuuuummmmmmm!
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also, nationalism and race matters are pretty open,
For game, when Le Maitre speaks, one listens.
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A reliable IOI is the volume (sound level) of whatever is going on. Girls will suddenly raise their voices enough to “include” you in their activity.
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It’s obvious after a while.
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A bit late… but this sort of thing happened to me twice in the past week. And now it’s obvious to me.
Flirt Fatales will often do something like loudly and playfully give another guy sh!t, upping the volume to catch your attention and hoping you’ll break the ice. Of course, the guy is one they’ve known for a while, whereas she doesn’t know you much. But it’s quite obvious she’s trying to semi “make a scene” to draw you in.
If she was into the guy, she’d do it much more quietly, perhaps by simply flashing him an inviting smile, rather than draw a crowd.
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They usually just come out and tell me if they want my dick or not. Everyone in my life knows I’m a player. Even my girlfriend(s).
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Type 1 is typically pretty hot (7+)and the guy she’s practically fusing herself to is typically at least 6’2.(cue the usual suspects).
You are correct, don’t bother, she sees only him.
Type 2 is just your average flirty girl, you’ll know very quickly if a girl belongs to this category, they will automatically, instinctively flirt with any male of this or a related species.
Type 3’s tend to be in the insecure 5-to-not-quite-7 range who, on the one hand, believe themselves to be 12s Who Deserve Nothing Less ™, on the other hand are quite aware – consciously or subconsciously – that they are not all that and a bag of chips and don’t want to embarrass themselves by b0mb1ng in front of the tallhawt beefcake, so they play coy games, hoping against hope that he’ll glance away from the genuine hottie and towards them.
In other words, your typical
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Beefcake is a word no man should utter…
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Sentient – Insecure much ?
Doubter – It doesn’t. It says ‘…AT LEAST 6’2’…which includes 6’4……
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….how does your analysis change if the dude is 6’4″????
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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4635390/Woman-prison-officer-affair-inmate-jailed.html
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Reblogged this on parallelplace.
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lol jackie. i know its kinda late in the day of life to be catching up on your works, but as the irish girls say, ‘so it is is’. — i see in the above ghost gems from dan to dune. with a delivery that bends into art-of-war cadence and timing. nice work man.
cbiancoblique
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OT:
Liberals: cat ladies of the world. When the cats poop on the carpets, attract vermin, let the house rot, the cat lady is happy–her own destruction is the ultimate proof of her unselfishness. Neighbours that call for the police, the exterminators, the fire fighters are racist, phobic, bigoted party poopers.
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