😆 “sweet and steady” is a shiv in the heart of niceguys.
You gotta marvel at how often the extremely anti-feminist sexual market theories of The Wall and Beta Bux are confirmed by blithely unaware liberal news organs.
Explanation for new CH readers:
The Wall is the point in a woman’s life when she is sexually worthless to the vast majority of men with options. As The Wall approaches, a woman’s sexual market value (SMV, i.e., her youth and beauty), exponentially decays to zero. Most women will have hit The Wall by age 50.
Beta Bux is one part of a woman’s dual mating strategy (the other part being “Alpha Fux”) to acquire, if possible, both the genetic contributions of sexy alpha males and the resource contributions of boring but dependable beta males. The fact that most women will not be able to fulfill their mating duality directives does not mean that these competing desires don’t exist within them, or that given the right contexts and sufficient deniability they won’t make a go at it.
Now that you know this about women, the above Twat makes sense. An urban, socially disconnected, cock carousel riding city slutter woke up to the reality of her disappearing looks on her 32nd birthday, and like magic she suddenly noticed that dull niceguy in her office who would make a fine steady paycheck to foot the bills for her future dreams of a family consisting of two SUVs, three cats, five iPads, and 1.2 kids.
I wonder if the yeoman efforts of humble outposts like CH to catalog and publicize the dark but necessary nature of women to an audience of dumbfounded beta males will ever have an impact on the willingness of these men to accept the aging slut’s terms of engagement? Will we have a WAKE UP BETA MALE moment equally as vital and timely as the coming WAKE UP WHITE MAN cultural cataclysm now reverberating its way through the West?
lzozllzozoldlozozoz
“da professional womenz ode”
alpha fucks and beta bucks
dat is how we roll
da butthexting cockass we fucks and sucks
and in our anuthes it doth deosul
alpha fucks and beta bucks
it is da way of da fed
to transfer assetss to dose who butthext
cuckold dose who pay for our bread
beta bucks and alpha fucks
it’s what day teach us we;’re entitled too
da assetts from betas we plucks
after da alphas desol us through our hole for poo
lzozozlzzolzlzlzlz
cuckold da betas cockhold da alphas
datsz what day taught us in mba grad school
as da feiisnsits see no truth nor justice in their laws
and say da great books for menz was all fools.
yes, yes, i did very good on my gmats
dey bernenakifed my soul away, left me with cats
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[CH: a classic for the ages.]
The new Desiderata. One can picture the GBFM cloistered in an alpine monastery – quill pen scratching across a parchment scroll as the divine inspiration flow – attendant monks waiting to decorate each lzozoz with a fluer de lis and artistic illustrations of a carousel cock.
“feiisnsits” == ???
Not quite Dante’s Divine Comedy, but what this age deserves.
Someone send this ode to Everywoman’s Favorite Jewish Aunt Sheryl Sandberg to read at her next Lean In conference….
I casually dated a 32 y/o a few months back who was actually pretty awesome but ended up cutting it off before I got attached. I didn’t have the heart to tell her it would have been different if she was 26. (The new girl from the previous post is 26)
Funny thing is they worded the article just so to appeal to similar spinsters, a story of romance!
Heh.
Anyone heard about that Charlotte Proudman femcunt? I expect an amusing CH write-up.
[CH: too many of these types to keep up. what’s there to say, besides the usual: a thin-skinned, bitter, manjawed lawyercunt harpy pissed off that the only tepid, benign romantic attention she can seem to get is from much older married men takes it out on every man alive and demands that the world change to assuage her butthurt femcunt ego. she’s probably a borderline psychopath too.]
The web is exploding.
Haha. She changed her name to “Proudman” to sound Jewish!
its amusing that in stories like this, dongles, that elevator chick, etc. the girl is never very hot, just marginal at best. It’s a good warning to dudes who approach: Approach the hottest girls. Even if you get rejected, they won’t make a scene about it just to get attention.
This could be a very very important point – clues on how to sniff out this insanity from a distance and steer a very wide berth around it.
Yes byootiful girls are experienced at fielding attention and reject men with grace and a minimum of social violence. My rat’s nest appearance terrifies mediocre gurlz with the he thought that I might actually be all they can get!
Yeh yeh hehe !!!They flail with indignation . But I like that sort of thing.
Yes, I anxiously await the vivisection. She’s mad that her suitor is twice her age and has a daughter her age. To both points I reply: Yeah, and?
CH’s wisdom must have finally got through to my thick head. As soon as I read tho story this morning I posted this comment in the Telegraph…
GENDER TRUTH 101
Any man with the slightest knowledge of how attraction works in the female psyche, knows that this woman wasn’t really upset with this Man’s indication of interest in her, but because he weakly, hedged his bets by qualifying that interest with the precursor…”I know this isn’t PC but”. And in so doing, sub-communicated his fear. And a frightened Man, is da facto, weak. And there is nothing that turns women off of a man quicker than weakness. In fact, a frightened Man is to a woman, what a drowning person is to another drowning person… At best useless at worse dangerous.
So here’s a diamond bullet of wisdom, mark it well:
A WOMAN WILL FORGIVE A MAN ANYTHING ECCEPT WEAKNESS!
But just as “Male Weakness” is cryptonite to a woman’s attraction triggers, “Male Boldness” is pure cat nip. So be bold men. Be bold.
Oh, and never ever ever apologise. Ever! Women take apologies as just another sign of weakness. By all means apologise to your male friends but never to a woman. It won’t help. If you get cornered, do a Clinton…. ” mistakes have been made” speech. But don’t apologise. Ever!
> “Oh, and never ever ever apologise. Ever!” ——— No matter how bad your situation is, the apology only makes it worse. NEVER APOLOGIZE.
Never apologize? Nah I have a surfeit of power (my smell) and it is simply noblesse oblige to be nice to mortals who mistake me for earthbound grinders.
As Uncle Nietzsche said, the superior man can afford to be nice.
Why, I’m so fucking lucky in my exquisite enlightenment, I have no business being a blunt, Beady-eyed “winner take all ” pseudo Alpha.
Eeeew. Tacky.
Next thing you know you’ll be ranting about “the Tribe” like Dregs Elliot. Real elite THAT makes you look. Heh heh. Heh heh.
The London Evening Standard had the story as its lead item on Thursday. I noticed three things: (1) the journalist was female; (2) Proudman waited until she saw who the message was from before classifying it as harassing; and (3) she has a 30-year old student (PhD., in all fairness) as her “partner.”
She’s a professional feminist who was trolling for some outrage – she asked the guy for a linkedin link. Five minutes on Google might have helped him find this:
http://leftfootforward.org/2015/02/why-i-want-feminism-and-not-equality-and-why-they-are-not-the-same-thing/
Yes, but being nice and apologising are not necessarily the same thing, particularly in the upside down world of the female mind.
Personally I tend towards P G Wodehouse’s advice; “It is a good rule in life never to apologise. The right sort of people do not want apologies, and the wrong sort take a mean advantage of them.”
The “wrong sort” Wodehouse is referring to, in the context of the story under discussion, is a viciously vindictive fem-Lawyer with a penchant for shallow attention whoring at the expense of a decent man’s Marriage and Reputation.
( As for Greg Elliot’s views on the “Tribe’s” infiltration and subversion of US Politics in order to prop up an otherwise insignificant Middle East State at the expense of America’s reputation and standing in the world. I am proud to inform you, that it is a view I happen to wholeheartedly endorse, regardless of the tactical shaming pejorative to which you allude! )
@Anonymous (Mat?)
“As Uncle Nietzsche said, the superior man can afford to be nice.”
Yes, but being nice and apologising are not necessarily the same thing, particularly in the upside down world of the female mind.
Personally I tend towards P G Wodehouse’s advice; “It is a good rule in life never to apologise. The right sort of people do not want apologies, and the wrong sort take a mean advantage of them.”
The “wrong sort” Wodehouse is referring to, in the context of the story under discussion, is a viciously vindictive fem-Lawyer with a penchant for shallow attention whoring at the expense of a decent man’s Marriage and Reputation.
( As for Greg Elliot’s views on the “Tribe’s” infiltration and subversion of US Politics in order to prop up an otherwise insignificant Middle East State at the expense of America’s reputation and standing in the world. I am proud to inform you, that it is a view I happen to wholeheartedly endorse, regardless of the tactical shaming pejorative to which you allude! )
Speaking of Beta, this man is no Beta!
Washington Post – 1 hour ago
GOP presidential frontrunner Donald Trump announced via Twitter on Friday that he is now the sole owner of the Miss USA and Miss Universe beauty pageants.
[…] By CH […]
Not sure it matters much but @nytvows is a parody account.
[CH: i had a feeling that blurb was too pitch perfect to be true. ah well, in effective parody there is much truth.
fyi, readers, if you’re going to send in articles and twats, please be sure of the provenance before doing so.]
> “a family consisting of two SUVs, three cats, five iPads, and 1.2 kids” ——— It doesn’t matter if the original was a parody. This one phrase – iPads [5], cats [3], SUVs [2], and biological children [1.2], in descending order – that completely made my day. Heck, maybe my entire year. CH just nailed the demographics and life-priorities of the Left, right down to the all-consuming iPhag addiction.
in all fairness, i went to the nyt page to see the actual vows pages and 32 would have been the youngest woman out of the 5 or 6 i looked at… totally serious.
A tiny percentage of men are starting to wake up to, comprehend and even accept women’s contrived strategy in life and concealed (but obvious to astute men) agendas to accomplish a wedding and kids with men they are emotionally indifferent with. This view can be proven by both statistics and day to day (or year on year) observation of fewer couples you know who are getting married. But because this percentage increase of men becoming clued up is so negligible, and as the average man is still as desperate as ever for sex, love and avoidance of lonliness, women will be in the driving seat for decades still to come.
[CH: well, as a fact of nature and innate sex differences, women will necessarily and always be in the driving seat, but men can learn to take a little more control of the car and occasionally steer it in a direction more favorable to their goals and destinations.]
There will always be a plethora of men thirsty enough to drink from a poisoned well.
There’s actually a huge surge of people here in the UK, a majority, who don’t want any migrants
This is proven by a poll done, which said that if a referendum were to happen – 83% would vote for the UK would leave the EU
But polls mean shit. So who knows
That’s why they took your guns away
Do you actually believe that gun ownership is illegal in the UK because I thought it was only slackjawed cornball Americans that believed that.
tspark:
Well, given how the UK throws people in jail for shooting home intruders — home intruders! — do you blame us?
Hand guns were band in the UK and now only police and criminals carry them. Lots of private citizens myself included own firearms and they are legally held. The last person I recall being jailed for use of a legally held firearm against another person was Tony Martin, who shot a burglar in.the back as he was running away from the scene, sometime back in the nineties.
Hand guns are illegal in the UK and now only the police and criminals carry them. Lots of UK citizens myself included own firearms and they are legally held. The last time I recall someone being jailed for using a legally held firearm was when Tony Martin shot a burglar in the back while he was running away from the property. Blame you for what? Believing something that is incorrect or being a slackjawed cornball?
Laws regarding self defense are basically the same everywhere. At their heart – it always comes down to being in reasonable fear of death or great bodily harm to yourself or others.
Even in Texas, shooting someone who was non-threateningly leaving your property with your stuff would get you proscecuted – full stop.
The only real areas of difference have to do with certain types of property invasion and theft that are defined in the law – in some western states anyway – as representing a life threatening action per se. Like trying to steal supplies necessary for life out in the wilderness (like a horse) or forcing into a home that is known to be occupied (which implies an intent to confront and illegally attack the family that lives there.).
Thanks Rum. Its sensible folk like you that help others to realise that not all Americans are staggeringly ill informed about the rest of the world.
Tspark: Yeah, that was it, the Tony Martin incident. It was blasted all over e-mails and alternative news media over here as evidence that it’s illegal to defend yourself in Britain. If things aren’t actually that bad, that’s good news.
The critical piece of evidence that got Tony Martin Jailed was, having had his property targeted several times by the same lowlife pikey family, he was heard to say in his local boozer “The next time those scum break into my house I’ll fucking kill them” loudly and more than once. From that a shitfuck lawyer was able to prove intent and the judge had no choice other than to direct the jury to a guilty verdict because the thieving little bastards were running away when he shot one of them in the back. That case was very high profile but I don’t think there’s been one exactly like it since. Its a common enough misconception the Europeans and Brits cannot legally own firearms but I guarantee that you would be surprised and impressed by some of our private armouries. I believe the correct expression to use at this point would be “y’all take care now friends”
Fraternal regards from across the pond.
The media in the US does a disgraceful job of presenting the realities of gun-ownership in this country. The average person, therefore, has no clue as to the existence of several salient facts:
2/3 of “gun-violence” is old white guys offing themselves, 95% of the rest occurs in the context of the interaction of felons. The normal, law-abiding citizen encounters gun violence only as over-hyped media blathering.
The big city with the lowest murder rate in the entire country is in Texas.
In most states, holders of concealed handgun carry permits commit lower rates of crime than the police themselves. Indeed, the requirements for one are stricter than for joining the police. IOWs, lots of cops would not qualify for a civilian license.
More people are killed every year by un-armed assault than by AR 15s (for years now the most popular type of long gun in America).
High-end civilian type AR 15s are among the most accurate, precision rifles ever made. Some are sold with a written guarantee of grouping under 1 minute of angle dispersion out to 100 meters. This fact might be related to the foregoing fact.
Rant off.
Regards
50? You’re being uncharacteristically generous.
[CH: sexual worthlessness is a terminal event horizon.]
Don’t forget wife goggles 🙂
That would demand they get married and stay married for decades. A tall order nowadays.
Technically speaking, “sexual worthlessness” is precisely menopause. To engage in “sex” means that a child is born nine months later. So she has SEXUAL worth if and only if she can still give you your own children [which also implies that she doesn’t cuckold you]. Ergo neither pre-menarche little girls nor post-menopausal old hags are even capable of having any SEXUAL worth.
What we Real Speakers need to emphasize, to young men, and to even younger women, is that even though she might not experience actual menopause until the age of 45, it’s also the case that her fertility will often drop off a cliff at the age of only 35. So already when a young man is 32, he needs to be dating women no older than about 25, and those 25-yo women, in turn, need to be thinking about marrying immediately, while they still have some quality fertility within themselves.
Try telling that to niggers
The Wall can be 50 if you’re in a rich, urbane area where women have money to afford the upkeep. But if you’re in Tattoohood, it can be as early as 23. In middle America suburbia, it’s usually as soon as a woman has kids — whenever that is.
The movies and porn industry go on about MILF this MILF that. What they don’t tell you is the MILFs are the outliers, not the average woman.
[CH: yeah, that was implied. the wall will clean up most stragglers by age 50, but plenty of women hit it before that age. maybe 1 in 10,000 women will manage the feat of evading the wall post-50, but not for much longer past that.]
Very true. At a UMC fundraiser recently, main demo 45 to 55 YO’s. And while many of these women were very fit, had long hair and spent a lot of time and money on themselves – no doubt they were a very attractive lot – it was the stray 35YO second wives that really stood out. Now the 23 yos at the bars are an order of magnitude difference yet again.
So surrounded by “hot” middle aged women, i found myslef genuinly physically unattracted to any of them. I dont like the implications of this btw.
“her future dreams of a family consisting of two SUVs, three cats, five iPads, and 1.2 kids.”
This is one of the year’s best twists of the shiv. It sums up the atomized society well.
Agreed.
[…] The Wall Meets Beta Bux […]
The wife never really noticed the rippling, tanned muscles of the pool boy at their resort hotel — not until the ring was on her finger and the honeymoon was 2 days old.
You may think the @NYTvows tweet is a twist of the shiv, but the typical nice guy beta will actually gain comfort from it (“Shows that I can get a decent woman once she hits her thirties”)
[CH: and then most beta males quickly realize to their great regret the reality of rapidly depreciating female assets.]
A possible Biological link to AF/BB female mating
http://www.returnofkings.com/70425/research-suggests-that-a-womans-body-incorporates-dna-from-the-semen-of-her-casual-sex-partners
So if your sweetie has been riding the Alpha Carousel until 32… she’s not just looking for support she is really just looking for a sperm drone.
And the two shall become one flesh…. Or 50.
Always blows me away how modern science (TM) ends up validating the technical content of prose written thousands of years before the flushing toilet was invented.
…and the two shall become one flesh…. Or 50.
The Age of Microchimerism!
http://www.nytimes.com/2015/09/15/science/a-pregnancy-souvenir-cells-that-are-not-your-own.html?_r=0
I thought the same thing after having read that article. People so obsessed with proof finally got it.
This study explains alot… I may be reading a little to much into it but hear me out. It demonstrates that a virgin is much more valuable at passing on your DNA without the interference from other interlopers. High notch count females are a extreme risk due to the fact that god knows how much other DNA is being passed on from the mother along with your’s. Finally, men of all races (non cucks) despise race/tribe mixing, who the fuck wants to raise a kid with DNA from the opposing tribe? Seems like science/CH wins another one…
There’s one huge problem with that: a woman’s eggs are pre-formed when she’s born. So while her _body_ cells may incorporate genetic material from her fetus when she’s pregnant (including failed pregnancies), thereby adding some genes from the father to her own, her _eggs_ remain entirely her genome.
Not true.
“Will we have a WAKE UP BETA MALE moment …?”
It’s called “the marriage strike.”
“dull niceguy in her office who would make a fine steady paycheck”
Over the years – I’ve had countless opportunities to be “That Guy”.
Couldn’t put my finger on it at the time(s) – but something always seemed amiss..
Back then, this behavior was described as “seeking a meal-ticket”.
Many were divorced with a kid or three.
My default demeanor (aloof asshole) only seemed to make the problem worse!
Somewhat similar case. There’s a 24 y.o. single mom who was a knockout a few years ago, and she had a soft spot for me. She even proclaimed me to be “sooo hot” under her breath once. However, I made no indication of being willing to take her and her spawn on, even stating once that I would like to have my own genetic kids. After I hung out with her one evening, she updated her Facebook status, something about needing money more than love. Women are coldly practical + Wall Meets Beta Bux, example #244,152.
One of her co-workers, a little manlet with obvious gamma tendencies, eventually became her boyfriend a few weeks later, and has been gushing about her and her daughter every so often since then. Wrote a long mushy puke-a-rama note on her wall for her birthday. I’m friends with both of them on Facebook, so this stuff shows up on my news feed. I can’t help but chortle to myself at how this guy has bought a pig in a poke and thinks it the most wonderful thing.
That’s how it works. If you have a good paycheck and seem to seem to be decent enough the single mothers come out of the woodwork. They have a kid or three and make 25 grand a year or so if they aren’t on welfare and are suddenly they are interested in men they wouldn’t have even said hello to before.
I know a guy whose sister in law bragged that she was planning her divorce before she even married her victim…
I suggest that CH spend some time investigating the complexities of the microbiome with respect to the AF/BB model.
The act of “becoming one flesh” is usually relegated to the sidelines as a spiritual concept but in reality its a simple biological fact.that everyone has a specific microbiome profile. Everyone has about ten trillion cells that make up their bodies, but there are about one hundred trillion cells living in that same body that are microbes. The human genome has about twenty-one thousand genes, but the microbes living in the body have around eight million genes that interact with the body, turn genes on and off, tinker with the immune system and stuff like that. The microbes in the body are part of who the person is.”
When a woman spreads her legs for a guy she isn’t just getting his semen, she’s getting a big dose of his microbiome and as time passes they literally become one flesh as their microbiome profiles merge. The microbiome affects who you are, how you think and how you feel. It has a huge impact on things like digestion, allergies, diabetes, obesity, bowel disorders and even psychiatric stuff like schizophrenia and depression. Researchers are just getting started looking at this stuff.
(Not to put to sharp a point on it… but there’s a good scientific reason for not sticking your dick in crazy… because it rubs off and becomes part of you. It works the other way too. The sluts who hook up with the bad boys are getting a dose of their microbiome profile… absorbing crazy one microbe at a time. The dark tryads, the psychopaths, the aspy-alphas, all of them. We don’t even know the questions to ask in terms of to what degree the microbiome profile effects psychopathy, sociopathy and the cluster-B problems, but there’s plenty of evidence to suggest something is there.)
One aspect of alpha fux is when several women are sharing the same guy, there is a shared exchange of the microbiome with each other as well as him and over time they all develop a similar profile. So, if he’s sticking his dick in crazy he’s going to be transmitting crazy to every woman he screws after that. Think about it. Why are more and more women so screwed up? Maybe there’s more here than meets the eye.
The microbiome has an impact on emotions and the way you think about things. It goes even further, though, when we consider single mothers.. When a woman get pregnant, fetal cells will invade her body. These are almost always stem cells and they’ll go to any part of her body that needs help and set to work repairing it. But, fetal cells are half her DNA and half his DNA. That means the father of that baby will literally become a part of her with every baby she has because those cells don’t go away. His DNA will be with her for the rest of her life along with his microbiome.
Do you really want a woman like that? Again, science hasn’t even begun to investigate the extent of what is happening here.
Doctors used to think that semen was just the delivery vehicle for the sperm, but now they know better. Semen is now considered the most complex fluid the body produces, more complex than blood. It’s loaded with enzymes and prostaglandins that female bodies don’t produce. The vagina, cervix and uterus will absorb it. This is one reason why women are biologically attracted to being raw-dogged, because to use condoms is to rob them of things they need. Literally.
The woman about to hit the wall that’s a former carousel rider looking to change lanes has polluted herself in a very microbial way as much as she can and a man that settles for something like that is taking on a case of “damaged goods” in ways that science is only just now beginning to investigate.
Three of my friends married girls like that.
Makes me want to take a long shower haha
This comment wins the prize!
All of this also explains the odd phenomenon of those girls we all knew in the college dorms who blew half the hall their freshman year. They started as wide-eyed cuties, and left for the summer jaded, angry chain-smoking harpies. I always assumed there was a bigger reason for their changed demeanor. There’s nothing like a stomach full of bad boy semen to change a woman.
Also, what does this say about porn stars and hookers who get hundreds if not thousands of semen samples throughout their lives?
Multiple personality disorder.
Yeah, I read that too.
http://www.returnofkings.com/70425/research-suggests-that-a-womans-body-incorporates-dna-from-the-semen-of-her-casual-sex-partners
Since when did anyone ever want your opinion, dicknose?
Faggot Within rape!
Telegony has been a theory since Aristotle…
Voodoo.
Slavish thinkers fall for every “study.” Rarely do you contemplate the legitimacy or the method of the “research” so long as Daddy Science is telling you how to think. You call Biomechanics “god,” but you really should just call him your Daddy.
The alpha thinker demands the evidence of his eyes and his experience before making a decision on truth; he is not a slavering dupe who gets tingles over the credentials of soft-science diploma mills and their “amazing” reports.
Millennials gazing at their navels and doing google searches would yield more wisdom.
Matt
>Comment by “The Faggot Within”
That’s so gross. These girls I see are really just walking splooge sponges that have so much dude DNA in them you don’t know what the hell is going to pop out if they have a child. Maybe Chuck’s DNA will outshine Rob, Tom, Mike, Scooter, Austin, Skyler, and Phil. Even though it’s tecnically Rick’s. I’m starting to wonder of the MGTOW dudes are onto something.
So, if a girl eats a lot of sushi, she will end with a lot of fish genes and have babies with gills and a big floppy tail?
Like… A Mermaid!!!.
That’s very interesting,
The question is, do microbes survive the digestive system?
Because if they do, there are a lot of girls out there packed to the eyeballs with my microbes!
Here is a great example of science as religion. Instead of speaking straightforwardly about mutual affinity and natural bonding, the commenter feels he has to dress up his otherwise valid observation in the language of pseudoscience to give it the patina of legitimacy.
“Biomechanics is God”: You are retarding yourselves. You need poets and philosophers, but you create a nerd herd. You create men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. (Lewis)
“Be alpha in every way except thinking” ends in schizophrenic pick-up dorks, who populate this site more than ever, and crucially, who fail to connect the micro lessons to the macro. You can’t tell men to be free while tying them down to “a network of small complicated rules, minute and uniform, through which the most original minds and the most energetic characters cannot penetrate, to rise above the crowd” (Tocqueville). Especially when those small and complicated rules are imaginary, inconsistent, contradictory, and conjured by amateur scientific theorists shining a turd to high gloss with the site’s preferred laboratory language of correctness. Put down the biomechanics and pick up the biographies.
Matt
like magic she suddenly noticed that dull niceguy in her office
So typical that it’s blase’ to even hear it. The best thing a woman ever said to me was “you’re like an E-ticket ride”. Now for those of you too young to remember – Disney used to have tickets for rides A thru E, with E being the ones that are in most demand and a lot of fun. I’m showing my age here but she was 18 and I was 17 so it was back in the day. But I never forgot it – and have continued to live it. Women eat it up – of course, when they are getting old they look for the boring, dependable guy so they have a fall-back and that is all you are, the fall-back, but when they want hot sex, they look for the “E-ticket guy”.
Of course, as a man you have to set the stage – that is why I’m always doing events with a lot of women – vacations are the best, when women are on “vacation,” nothing counts when they are away from “fall-back guy”. Heck, had one a couple of weeks ago – I see her the next day say, “Hi” and this guy comes up and says, “How do you know my girl-driend?” I smile and say, “Don’t really, just recognized her from one of our shows.” Introduce myself and chat to find he just joined her then I bow out. He was “fall-back guy”… But she spent the first night of her vacation in my bed having fun before she went back to boring…
So never mistake with women, you’re either “Mr E-ticket ride” or “the fall-back guy” – so take your pick on how you want to live your life.
Woulda been funny if ya did a Jackie Gleason:”How do you know my gf?” “Hommina Hommina Hommina…”
Ha ha! Hadn’t heard the term “E-ticket ride” in ages. Thanks, JS, for all the great memories you just triggered.
I think something like a public dowry fund would go a long way. A panel of wisely chosen men would select who would be given money for their wedding and subsequent life. The panel would naturally choose women that were young and hadn’t participated in gang bangs at university. Without a little subsidy, women might otherwise follow a path that leads them to a marriage at 32, divorce at 34, ivf treatments at 38, and cats at 45.
I dont care if someone calls me an asshole, cunt, bitch, dumbass or loser
But if anyone under the age of 40 calls me sweet then I know I am fucking up
I woke up last year when I found this site. All the past entries from that point on really opened up my eyes to what I had always surmised as “something’s wrong.”
As you state, I’m still working on maximizing the strengths and minimizing the weaknesses.
But avoiding the carousel rider when I ordinarily would have gone along with it is the biggest saving grace.
As a single fit & solvent 43 year old, it seems like every time I visit a married friend his wife has invited one of her late 30-something single gal pals to be there too.
Sometimes they’re divorced, sometimes they’re career women. Either way, the desperation, and their attempts to mask it, are obvious. They’re watching their friends get married & having kids & checking off their Life To-Do list & feeling left out. Not to mention a rising panic at the realities of their situation.
A part of me feels sorry for them. They got told a lot of lies about Equality, The Patriarchy, Empowerment, Double Standards, Equality & how much fun it was to be a slave to corporate overlords. They got told these lies so often & from so many “expert” sources it’s understandable that they believed them.
But I don’t feel sorry enough for them to take the bait. Cleaning up other people’s messes is not my responsibility.
Not to mention they rode the cock carousel in their glory times and now that nobody wants them, they are looking for someone to “settle” with…
What happens when she turns 50 and gets menopause and estrogen goes down (unless she gets hormone replacement therapy)? I’m over 50 and so that is why I’m asking. The women over 50 seem like they are better characters than the younger ladies (granted not nearly as sexy as the younger women folk).
For the ladies maybe it’s alpha fux/beta bux/regular human being with saggy tits?
For the men maybe it’s grade A1 horndog (my cock won’t go unhard dammit)/ AFC (think Louis CK)/regular human being with a saggy ass?
Look man, all I’m saying is that you gotta consider the hormones. They kinda rule our lives more than we think. But that doesn’t have to mean we have to see everything as machaivellian pure and simple without anything else going on.
Getting some miles on the old odometer kinda puts things in perspective. You gotta get some trials and tribulations under your belt and then women seem pretty much OK as do men.
I mean no disrespect. I very much enjoy all your writing and appreciate your point of view.
To answer your question. I ask you knowing what you know now why would you ever want a woman over fifty if you are fifty? Especially when you can get women much much younger. I am 53 and I have dated from 18 all the way up to 49. And the older ones are not better chatacters. In fact they are a total wreck.
Not only are their bodies and faces a mess. Their personalities are even more grotesque. They are eaten up with entitlement issues, anger, masculine mannerisms, and they still have the audacity to think they are a catch!?
Younger women are more fun, feminine, willing to listen and learn. And they will respect you and do a lot for you in the sack. But after they turn about 30 watch out they turn into a fucking nightmare and there is nothing you can do about it and why would you want to? Just get another one younger and hotter.
As for you being a regular human being with a saggy ass, you will need to get that shit handled. For your own peace of mind.
From the same site: The couple met via Who’s Still Left, a new dating app for 30-something singles
I’m a 1L at a T-14 law school. I’m a bit older and more worldly wise then my peers here and my cynicism has caused me to make two tragic observations:
1) the demographics at our country’s elite institutions are completely out of whack. At least a third of the students in my class are Asian. Not Asian American. Asian. They have Hong Kong passports. At least half of the “white” students are Jewish. Before I got here I knew that elite academia was lost, but I didn’t realize just how bad it was until I saw it with my own eyes.
2) There are many young ladies here who are extremely attractive, some of them even seem feminine. There are others who are moderately attractive, because they are young. All of them have made the conscious decision to trade the flower of their youth, and their prime child bearing years, in exchange for $150,000-$200,000 worth of debt and a chance to use their grrrl-power to “make the world a better place.” Well, soon they’ll hit the wall, and it won’t be pretty (heh).
Highly doubtful. The same inherent personality characteristics that make a white cuck a cuck, also make a beta who is expected to pay bucks. Dr. Seuss-like rhyming skills aside, I have noticed that the trait itself is the two-sided coin of either ethnomasochism or gendermasochism on one side, and pathological humanitarianism on the other. Obviously gendermasochism is a shitty word and someone needs to come up with a better one to convey the same notion, but you know what I mean. People with that particularly crippling set of dual traits tend to either weed themselves out of the gene pool or, alternately, take red pills like skittles and become professional anti-SJWs. The latter is preferred of course, but it doesn’t affect my life either way so I wish them the best and then move on with my day.
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I tell ya, if you ever want a collection of punchable Libshit faces, NYTimesvows is the place to go (not a parody account; they all link back to NY Times wedding articles).
What a depressing feed. Gays and lesbians all over. Stupid lib faces. Lots and lots of mixed race couples. Plenty of Asian couples (why are you in my country?). Here and there you see some strong looking white couples.
I really loved this charming couple. She has a masters in Islamic studies, he’s an artistic director at a theater. They both look totally out of their minds.
[CH: the crazy is strong in all those eyes.]
These fuckers look like brother and sister.
Which one’s the brother?
I want to knock off the glasses and then punch the presumably male human on the left. Worst case retaliation would be him sniveling in a whiny voice “what did I..I..I do!?” At which point he would apologize, run away and proceed to blog about the incident.
Looks like they’re auditioning to be pajama boy.
Yes she is naughty naughty naughty…. But not for him.
Maybe it is just a bad pic, but if not, and the demeanor I am reading via the pic of this woman is really representative of her usual demeanor, then yikes – that is scary. She is showing her teeth in not a nice way (it looks like she is about to go pitbull at any moment), and there is way too much aggressive disassociation shown in her stare.
Hopefully it is just a bad pic.
I guarantee his haircut is more expensive than hers.
Don’t forget the hyphenated-hyphenated-hyphenated-hyphenated names. If these two actually breed I feed truly sorry for their children. They’re hyphenated names will bring on every sort of taunting and mockery. Deservedly so. Their kid will probably go on to believing their transgender/transpecies and these two will be entirely ok with their child mutilating themselves on a lie.
As for demographics listed on the NYTimesvows feed-I’ve never had so strong an impulse to turn people into slaves as I did upon seeing these people. When America collapses I’m getting into the slavery business and heading to New York to sell these people as slaves.
“The bride, 27, is keeping her name. She has a master’s in Islamic studies from the University of Chicago, where she is seeking a Ph.D. in that subject area.
Her mother is a distinguished professor in ethics and society and a professor of political science at Holy Cross in Worcester, Mass. ”
This goes a looooong way toward explaining everything.
and this of course
“The groom, 28, is the artistic director of the Underscore Theater Company in Chicago and the festival director for the Chicago Musical Theater Festival.”
L O L!
This is why the gym is a good place to view all three major levels of feminine value: young & hot (even if not so attractive, youth in itself can make women hot to a 30+ year old man); Approaching the Wall (29-35); and On the Downward Spiral; and the Untouchables (unseen by any man whose parts still work). Interesting to watch them. I am especially aware of the Approaching the Wall group who still wear their b!tch face walking around the gym, like they did when they were in their prime, not realizing that they just come off as being nasty, wasted, dried up shrews. Who would want to invest in them. Junk stocks.
Sorry…I meant four.
What baffles me is why they still pull that (approaching the wall). They know time is running out. You’d think if they had any sense whatsoever they’d be in full on demure, smiling, flirty-ness mode to attract the best man they still can possibly attract. Insanity coupled with delusion and vanity. The sick thing is, I’ve seen 40+ age group broads pulling this. I just laugh, shake my head, and go game the 20 something’s (or hot 30’s) with a pleasant look on their face. Stay away from the scowl.
Because their hamsters have a longer lifespan than they do.
I think that, because in the massive social media culture, with Twatter, Assbook, etc., these women (who post dozens, if not hundreds, of photos) have many, many betas responding to them, and stroking their inner-hamster, giving them a false sense of worth in the real marketplace in regards to men that actually would want to be with.
A 32 yo is fine for a 50yo man who wants something on the side or looking for occasional company, if she’s cool to be with and especially cooks & cleans.
Just not get married though.
Exactly. I’m 40 and gaming an HB 8 32 yr old. She’s holding her looks like a champ but hell to the no am I marrying that mess. Check this out…She has 2 kids from 2 different dudes from her early 20’s. One of the dad’s was married to another woman at the time and she was banging him anyway and got pregnant. Dude’s wife was also pregnant at the time. Haha…
This is the insanity I hear constantly from women in their late 20’s and 30’s anymore. Freight cars full of bizarre baggage. Why am I wasting time on this? She’s hot but that’s really no excuse, so who knows. Anyway, she still thinks she deserves an Alpha Bux (she hates beta’s) after all this and wants to be the 1950’s wife she says. Question: Why now?? Why not all through your 20’s when you were screwing up your life and your kids? It really is extreme solipsism that they can try and pull this off. It’s endless hamster rationalizing. Bottom line, I’ll hit it and then I’m out like a flash.
It seems to me that a 32 year old would be ok for a guy in his 50s who wants kids. She’s still got a couple of years of reasonable fertility.
Convo tonight with a drunk, sexy lady ( Eskimo-works in finance):
Her:”If you promise not to tell anyone we know, I will say who I want to vote for.”
Me – Donald Trump!
Her: “How did you know!!!”
Me – Are you allergic to latex?
Seriously, the distaff electorate is really falling for Alpha-dawg Donald. It’s been a very long time since a real unapologetic he-man ran for preezy.
“Are you allergic to latex?”
10/10, fucking outstanding line. Going to absorb it into the anals (stop autocorrecting me) of manofmystery2 pickup one-offs.
Today was the 14th anniversary of the Towell-Head attack on this country.
Today,righteous lightening struck a construction crane owned by the Bin Ladin construction company — working in Mecca — and more than a 100 died.
Res ipsa loquitor…
I read Steve Coll’s “The Bin Ladens: An Arabian Family in the American Century” some years back. Fascinating, I recommend it highly. The Bin Laden company has had the concession on the Grand Mosque for forty years. I haven’t seen any closeups but I can’t believe the falling crane could have killed more than a handful of people. More likely the panicked stampede wrought the most execution. Making the Hajj in that place is dangerous. In the high season it seems like there are mass trampling incidents on a weekly basis.
Perhaps the best news I have heard in about 8 years. God works on His own timeline. More to come…..
I wonder if the yeoman efforts of humble outposts like CH to catalog and publicize the dark but necessary nature of women to an audience of dumbfounded beta males will ever have an impact on the willingness of these men to accept the aging slut’s terms of engagement?
Yes, it is there for awakening men to find when they know to ask the question.
Your work is important.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3230220/Boys-taught-dusting-ironing-school-tackle-sexism-say-Euro-politicians.html
“Boys should be taught how to do the dusting and ironing at school to tackle sexism, say Euro politicians”………………………
“The same committee suggested a target be set to get European men to do at least half the housework in Europe’s homes.”
And wtf are the women going to do, chip in with the manual work & maintenance? I bet not.
They’re not even trying to be subtle with their blatant agenda to feminize men.
I lived alone (with only women visiting for a good fuck) after moving out from home, and knew/learned how to cook, dust, wash, iron and the rest, along with masculine activities. I found it’s good to be independent rather than relying on a woman. However doing this all to “tackle sexism” is totally bollocks, and just leads to men being women, and women being second rate men.
Or something much worse, men who have little need of women whatever. One of the key components of a woman’s desirability to men especially past sexual peak is her being able to offer services he isn’t able or willing to do.
If the SJW’s double down on feminism as they always will, they’ll end up with men who can sew, iron, dust, wash and more . This won’t cause shame or even necessarily feminize them and will instead makes the chores unisex
This outcome will mean that women will have one less thing to offer since they no longer have women’s work.
This video is making the rounds. Set up: girl dresses down, acts clingy and disgusting, dude blows her off. Same girl wears hot bikini, drops the glasses and gets sexual, guy responds and she calls him out for it.
Wouldn’t the reframe be: “No…the lesson here is for you women to start dressing like that…” Then instead of getting defensive tell her to run along…
Easier said than done…because if you’re ambushed like this it’s too easy to get defensive.
But it illustrates also the whole idea here of how this nasty girl lured the guy into a compromising situation.
http://www.nikkileigh.tv/nerdy-girl-prank-gone-wrong.html
I love that he called her out for being a bitch
But she continues shaming him while he stays defensive and that’s the narrative of this video.
If he’d handled this the way we prescribe handling shit-tests the best that he could have done was smile with amused mastery, say “Have a great day…” and walk away.
I can now see in this video stuff that I did in the past. At the time I thought I could convince the girl….but now I see how agree and amplify: “Oh yah…I really am into ugly girls I was just being nice by making out and fingering you…”
What if a guy dressed as a homeless guy who was broke and short? Then he came back dressed in a suit and wearing lifts? Same thing.
Walawala – took your tip and tried Cialis recently for a new (first date) bang. It certainly worked – epic 90 min session that was one of the best I’ve ever had (not just because of the Cialis – the woman was a 33 year old married woman and she was just amazing in bed too).
BUT. Unfortunately, I appear to be one of those guys in the 10% or so, who actually suffer from the reported side-effects. Back pain even by the end of the session, crazy headache and some nausea the next morning..I even had to take the day off work.
Probably partly because I took too large a dose (10mg) for someone without a medical issue, but I’m not sure I’ll be trying it again..
only side effect is that chicks instantly go batshit crazy because no one’s banged them that hard and that long…
+1 on the side effects. Take 1/2 a pill
Culum
Left a laser eye response for you in the ME thread.
Someone who knows how, please share the “I wish I was this smooth” video from “Awkward Comedy” twitter. It’s gametastic 🙂
alpha,
that meaning, taken originally from the greek alphabet, through ethology or sociobiology to mean the leader of a pack or group (male or female), beta being second-in-command (saurumon to sauron’s rule) has altered its meaning in the manosphere. Ok words change. But I want to stress, what people call ‘alpha’ today just meant a “man”, in the past. If you did the wrong things, you wouldn’t become beta, but you’d lose man-points. You’d have to turn in your mancard. Women want a man- that’s the law of general attraction. You can do something about this. Individuals want whom they are individually compatible with, in their innate being- racially if that matters, personality wise. This you can’t do anything about except be yourself and wait and keep one eye open. That’s the law of special attraction. You can increase your masculinity though, leadership, etc to be more a man. Don’t become a buffoon, which is easy to do. Know your place in the totem pole. Patience is a real strength quality as is ability to silently observe, as is discipline, that oh so forgotten trait. Even today, those men who are not in the manosphere, busy workin or whatever, they don’t refer to ‘alpha males’ and beta males, but being a man. I think they are healthier in a way. She wants a man. She might want you, she might like you, your quirks and character- don’t ever change that for a woman- but she does want a man. Become one
These women are all the same when it comes to relationships. They’re all happy go lucky cock riders until one of them lands a man and gets a ring, then its a mad race to the altar for all of them. Men like to make their own choices, but women consult with their council. All decisions are usually made by committee. Even if she likes you, if one of her friends says you suck, you’re out. That Spice Girls song everybody hates says it all. If you want to be my lover, you have to get with my friends. If you’re lucky they don’t mean it literally. Sometimes you have to ball some of her friends to get to her. Bring a wingman, some of those bitches are fat. If he owes you, he might take a landwhale for you. Betas make great wingmen for the bad ones. They’ll take anything, and they’re expendable.
The wall is usually thirty or forty depending on the effects of gravity and genes. One day she’s invisible, and can’t get anyone to notice her. That’s the Beta pool there. Sad thing is they even miss some of these.
The WSJ is doing the Onion’s job for them.
what a hysterical site #nytimesvows… Here’s a good one, what are the odds that he is gay? she’s cute though…
and this one… LOL it’s like every other male/female pairing is a gay and a woman…???
every other one…! This has to be propaganda…
That middle one looks like she’s literally holding him tight so he doesn’t run away back to his boyfriend..
I have a friend in sunny california. She has a sunny sincere personality and approaches the wall. Well she got pregnant, had a baby, and gave birth at home, and it was healthy, and took it to the hospital for a test or some thing she deemed beneficial, and they confiscated the baby and called CPS. Now she is awaiting the judgement and return of her child. She is distraught.
The bottom line factor is that while it may suck to be beta male or lost your man points and can’t find happiness and contentment from outside sources (I’m not knocking on you, I love your blog but lets be real) she gave birth to a white baby and wants to raise it right, and the state is deeming her unfit apparently, and separating her from her child at a critical time. People would call this fascist, but the italian fascists never did anything like this. It’s more like the communists. They try to impose their standards of parenting and medicine on a woman. Well, life was not about game to her. She’s not into flirting. A lot of women seem to play games, but really it’s that they don’t know if you can be trusted. The father of her husband was unworthy of trust. He’s a nice enough guy as a guy but unworthy of this trust. But she got excited. That’s the other reason women play games. They have low interest level or are not excited. A third is their attitude, but I think if you can excite a woman, and win her trust, she won’t play games. But this was a success from the scheme of life- she had a child, before menopause. it’s a huge deal for her, and the state wants to interfere, and she’s clueless about lawyers and the process. She needs a man. Yeah, but she has a community. But the CPS funded by us, taxpayers, which is a business in many respects, thinks otherwise. For some people, everything is about money- even your health or lack thereof. Never mind your rights if we can make money, justify our existence, do good. Also ideology- we deem it thus because it fits within our existential worldview, the facts be damned. We will do good- as we see fit and are trained and educated and empowered. So you see, men, this is the world we are entering into. Don’t blow it out of proportion. Don’t seek out these things, but be aware. Be aware women go through these issues. They have their own issues to deal with. Let’s be human, let’s be connected.
CPS just took her baby for no reason? That’s fucked up. Sorry to hear that if there was no good reason. I hope CPS makes this right soon.
I’m not sure if I am following your other points though. I think you seem to be saying with regards to your friend with the new baby, that that example shows that there is a lack of respect for personal autonomy (which naturally must then also include a lack or respect for personal responsibility – because autonomy, or more precisely agency, and responsibility go hand in hand) virus loose in our culture. If that is what you mean I couldn’t agree more. It seems everybody living in our western culture is subject to this one way or another and it breeds distrust. I’ve been reading CH for a little while now, and I would venture that he would make the point that this virus is propagated by the left, and by feminism, and it has spread so bad now that it has infected the right via cuckservativism, and the point of wrong-headed philosophical inflection that these ideologies share is that they believe in the idea of tolerance so deeply that they believe that the correct response to intolerance is “tolerance for the intolerant” (thus giving up some of there own agency, autonomy and responsibility!). There is an aspect of wrong-headed Christian thought that also upholds this view (i.e – this philosophical dead-end has been developing for a very very long time already, but now has gained such ascendancy in the mainstream that it’s pragmatic valuelessness is finally being shown up.)
It is true that tolerance is one of the high virtues of the western cultural system. But the recent mainstream response has been wrong in the face of intolerance. You don’t meet the challenge of intolerance by proving how tolerant you yourself are (that just avoids the real confrontation and therefore breeds intolerance and therefore distrust). A bastion of tolerance must meet the challenge of intolerance by submitting a test of tolerances and excluding those who fail. There is no other way. This is the real way of leading by example and just trying to prove to the other party how tolerant one is, is avoiding the real problem and therefore not leading by example (and also invites the other party to disrespect you because you blatantly disrespect your own agency when you practice such elusiveness and shirk your responsibility to protect your own agency).
I see this problem everywhere. I think feminist solipsistic ideology might just be the sweetspot of the confusion around this issue and therefore one of the first things that should be dealt with, culturally (but by consensus).
Also, it may sound racist, but nevertheless I do agree with CH and others, that at this juncture, we really need to get our own western-cultural-house in order with respect to this problem before we let too much more outside influence in via mass refugee type migrations into western countries (it seems that intolerance is more common outside of western culture). And then when we later decide to allow more immigration perhaps at some time in the future, we need to have devised very good tests as to the applicants ability to appreciate, value and practice this western ideal, otherwise they should not get in. Also let us not fall into the trap of “contempt for the contemptuous”. I think we need to see that probably all peoples do have the aptitude for appreciating tolerance, but it is the conditioning that is mostly at the heart of the problem, and sometimes it takes several generations to address deep-seated social conditioning, even within the bosom of new cultural environs. I think there might possibly also be racial genetic pre-determinants that affect the expression of the aptitude for tolerance (as I think CH has indicated is his view), but I think these genetic trait differences are probably only with respect to what is accentuated and what is not, trait-wise, and so not an insurmountable problem (i.e – all of mankind probably shares the same menu of traits but perhaps there is racial differences as to which are accentuated).
The west needs to continue to lead. We need to re-appreciate the masculine aptitude for overtly confronting problems and taking decisive (and even amoral) action if necessary. The feminists, the SJW’s and the left in general needs to get with this program, or perhaps there won’t be any :”West” left at some point. I think anyone who wouldn’t see that as a tragedy is an idiot.
CH’s website here deals mainly with the distrust apparent between men and women. This man/woman distrust is the place to start. It really seems to be the sweetspot of the problem. I am of the view the ultimately there is a way for men and women to value and respect each as egalitarian compliments. But we are not nearly there yet. The field is still full of misunderstandings. People like CH are helping shed some light on these misunderstandings. HerMan Hesse (good handle!) I get the sense you are saying as much in your comments. Do you agree?
By 50? That’s awfully generous of you Heartiste.
I actually commented on this and the Twitter account actually agreed with me! Confirming their love of the “plan” for un-knowing betas. The account favorited my tweet recently.
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PARODY. The Grey Lady covers White Weddin
Disturbing for betas
New York City girls are predictable. If I walk into the subway train with a pretty girl, all of the girls will look at me with furtive glances. Then, they do things to try to get my attention, like playing with their hair or talking loudly to their friend. If I walk into the subway train alone, they ignore me UNLESS they appear to be 30 years old or older, then, they will glance at me, hoping to get my attention.
I’ve done social experiments where I walk into a train car with a zero-f_cks-given look and I’ve gotten looked at, even eye-f_cked. I’ve walked into the train wearing a suit or nice fitted outfit and gotten stared at. I’ve walked into the train and stood there with an alpha male stance, legs apart, dancing to the music that I’m listening to, enjoying myself, being the alpha on that train, and gotten stared at.
The beautiful thing about living in New York City is that there are a lot of beautiful girls. The ones who get my attention are the ones that have beautiful engines–minds, hearts, soul–as well as a beautiful figure and pretty face, and those that have beautiful, soft, feminine voices. These girls, typically, are from other countries like Czech Republic, Germany, Ukraine, Belarus, Russia, Norway, Finland, Iceland, etc. I’m at the point where I ignore American women because, for the most part, they have so little to offer and, despite this face, they expect the world.