Reader walawala points out that one of the men approached for sex by a feminist humorist (contradiction in terms noted) in the “social experiment” video set forth as proof that men are 30% more interested in casual sex than are women had, himself, some serviceable game, which he used on his phony solicitor to amusing effect.
This is what prostitutes do…also she sounds insincere…I’d be creeped out. What this does show is the power of game.
Check out how the third [ed: fourth] guy in the Paul Bunyan shirt starts gaming her: “That’s a very weird proposition…” and flips the script so she’s now qualifying herself.
He appears at 1:10.
I can’t make out what she says to him after he says “and that’s very strange”, but it does sound by the tone of her voice that she is qualifying herself to him. Also notice that she drops her arms down to her sides, which indicates an openness to further conversation, unlike the repulsing crossed-arm pose she maintained with a lot of the men.
So yes, game can work on women, even when those women are feminist agitators on a mission of attention whoring.
The whole spectacle does raise an interesting (if unrealistic) game-centered thought experiment. What would you do if a bangable female stranger walked up to you and solicited you for sex? I mean, no fluff, no guff, just a straight-up proposition out of the gate?
If the girl was truly interested in sex — I have been cold approached a few times in my life by girls saying they wanted sex, once I translated their womanese into recognizable English (e.g., “do you want to leave and have a drink at your place?” –> “do you want to go to your place to fuck?”) — and her query was absolutely sincere (easy to tell), then the only game you need is “sure”, (if that). The less you say, the better, because more words can only increase the chance of jarring her out of her already maximally horny mood. KISS. Keep It Succinct, Stupid.
But, assuming that any girl who cold-twats you is a prankster having some fun, then you’ll need some game if you want a shot at turning her clown act into a love pact.
I can think of three charismatic responses that are better than the groinotypical replies most men would knee-jerk fall back on:
1. Call her bluff.
The black guy right at the beginning of the video goes direct on her (how about that? a black guy dispensing with the subtler arts of seduction!), and peppers it with a strong dose of Agree&Amplify. Go over the top. “Yeah, let’s go. Wait’ll you experience the pleasure of my ribbed condoms. By the way, do I have to stay the full night?” Why does calling her bluff work? It communicates all the right mate cues: “Here’s a man who must be accustomed to women’s sexual favors if he so boldly takes me at my whorish word.”
2. Disqualify her.
This is Paul Bunyan shirt guy’s preferred angle of parry. The advantage of initiating with DQ game is its shock value. That temptress will be thrown on her wobbly heels wondering if she has BO or something.
3. Amuse yourself.
To be flank, I think the Asian-ish guy (appearing at 1:24 in the video) has the best game for this weird situation. “Let me get some gatorade first”, spoken in a measured, steady cadence, anchored (presumably) by a dead-pan expression. Think about it… if you suspect a girl is fucking with you, wouldn’t you want to let her know you’re in on it? Have some fun, turn it around on her, and if she laughs (which she did), you might just make her rethink her reason for approaching you.
Whatever you do, DON’T say “R u srs?” That’s the kind of unconscious blurt that beta males find a comfy verbal fit. When you answer a girl’s sexual interest with “are you serious?” all you’re doing is influencing her perception of you in a negative direction. She’ll think you’re the kind of man who doesn’t get much action if he reflexively assumes a girl coming onto him is a cosmic impossibility.
One other take-home lesson from this video: Very few men have game. I’d put the number at three out of one hundred. With those odds, it’s no wonder game packs more punch per minute of conversation than any other male mate value attribute.
UPDATE
Commenter theasdgamer whips out the heavy semantic artillery and provides a very funny reply to a theoretical girl soliciting him for sex,
Maybe…do you do anal?
It is required.
Asian-ade dude appears at 1:05, not 1:24.
The look on her face when the old guy at 1:40 grabs her…
Poor old guy probably got his hopes up for nothing.
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> “What would you do if a bangable female stranger walked up to you and solicited you for sex?” Okay, I know we aren’t supposed to talk about *** MOAR WHYTE BABEEZ ***, but if you’ve got really tight game, and if you’ve established yourself locally as a mysterious bad boy jerk-face possibly/probably ex-con but definitely cash-economy shady-transactions “WHO IS THAT GUY???” kind of vampire/werewolf uber-playah, then you have got to consider the possibility/probability that she’s about to 0vulate and that she’s searching for the highest quality Alpha seed that she can find.
A good “Assume the Sale” line at that point would be something like: “Okay, but I don’t change diapers; that’s women’s work. And you’re gonna breast feed. No formula.”
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I watched about 4 minutes and so far what strikes me is that she does not look sincere or believable
If she had approached me with that offer I would have been convinced it was a sort of joke or some experiment, neither her tone of voice nor her body language are saying ” I am so horny , I need to be f*cked right now”
She is simply not believable, which is why so many men turned her down ( and many did not believe her )
Agreed. Now if she acted all coy and demurr….hell ya. If the guys had been less logical and more coy…
Once again women demonstrating social adolescence conflate male and female triggers and behaviors.
All this shows is some fucked up yin/yang fucks things up.
I noticed the same thing.
Just dumb.
CH:
He says ” thats a weird proposition and thats very strange’
The best one was the late middle aged guy who says he injured his back the day before and she says ” That’s OK, I’ll do all the work…”, and he says ” Ohh, you’re a doll…”.
Dude thought he had just hit the jackpot.
Asian guy should have added cleats, mouthguard & a football helmet to his list just for the lulz.
Every Asian guy turned her down.
I wonder how many black guys said yes
and were edited out of that video…because racism…
There’s a reason for the stereotypes about Asian dudes, and why so many of their women go after whitey.
[CH: the biggest obstacle facing asian men (a-a men at any rate) in the dating market isn’t their looks. it’s their lack of social savviness.]
“Pussy or ass?”
#GatoradeMeBitch
At 0:50, the guy in the fraternity muscle shirt scoped her out before rejecting her. You can see his head move up and down before outing her with ‘uhhhh, gf’. They should have gotten a hotter chick, and perhaps she shouldn’t have dressed like a homeless person. Not sure what she was going for except the lulz.
“You want to have sex with me?”
“No.”
“No?”
“No. (Look her over) You’re not my type.”
“What’s your type?”
“Not-whore. And skinny. Have a nice day.”
Or
“You want to have sex with me?”
“Eh…sure. But it’s going to be quick and I’m going to finish on your face. I have a lot to do today.”
“you want to have sex with me?”
You: “what’s in it or me?”
Her: “Do you want to have sex with me?”
Me: “Again?”
There’s something about this reply that makes me want to declare the thread over… we have a WINNAH!
Just thought of a great Hail Mary play after you get rejected.
“You’re right, you’re not my type.” A&A with script-flipping.
“To be flank”
Heh.
‘Turn reft! Watch out for blick warr!’
Funny tease… along the lines of the hair pull…
Bull5h1t on plaid dude. Total gamma. Look at his subcomms.
If some broad did that on the street, I’d be in total WTF non-playful mode with a big smile and ask her what?…then shift to playful once I got my bearings back.
Maybe ask her if she’s on drugs..ecstasy…pot…etc. Bear in mind that I get a lot of interest without trying
hardjust from my facial looks, being trim, dance ability, and frame.Now if I get approached I’ll reply, “Maybe…do you do anal?”
All of these responses miss a key point: show that you notice that she’s insincere. The trick is to do it without coming off like you don’t have confidence.
What would you say as a man who regularly has women interested in sex right off the bat but also notices the incongruity in this case? Assume attraction, but call her bluff on comfort with a smirk that says “I know you’re bullshitting, but that you also want it”.
Step in. Hold eye contact. Raise the sexual tension through the roof. Make her tell you why she wants to fuck you. Tell her to be specific. “I’m impressed that you’re comfortable taking a guy like me back to fuck you right off the bat. Especially with what I’m likely to do to you”. Make her agree. Amplify it like a football coach saying “I can’t hear you!”
In other words, *force* her to give up her hand. The further she wants to take it, the closer to being ready to fuck you she must become. If she’s not going to sign on the dotted line, she’ll have to fold at some point, and as soon as the incongruity becomes blatant, you call her on it.
At this point you have shown confidence in your own value, willingness and ability to create sexual tension, and importantly, also calibration/social skills. Where to go after that is left as an exercise for the reader.
Well, call me paternalistic and antiquated, but I think my reply would have been in the style of the Bard:
“Fie, woman! Get thee to a nunnery!”
… with the appropriately Puritanical stern look of imminent Perdition.
Either that or “I know you are, but what am I” followed by a razz-berry.
Not gonna lie for ya. Greg, you are traditionalist and antiquated. And boring. If you’re gonna be judgmental, at least be playfully judgmental.
Alas… yet another… aw, ferget it.
On a side note, y’all sound a bit judgmental yerself.
There ya go, forsooth, Greg was a bit playful…guilty as charged, Judge Greg Dredd…hopefully gotcha tinking….
Yeah, he’s like a really bad amateur comic at open-mic night who won’t give up the mic.
Wait for antiquated, awkward comeback in 3…2…1…
I gots ta know, gamer… how’s it feel to have Strapon on yer side?
Strapon?
I see the gamer hasn’t been keeping up with doings, here at the chateau.
Of the various xWithin barbs he’s been stuck with, StraponWithin seems to have stuck… as the most appropriate.
I can’t recall if it was CH himself or Canadian Friend who originated that one.
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If the “doings” are back and forth baiting, I can’t be bothered.
Well I can understand being above it all and that… but in this case, it wasn’t just two guys… it was pretty much a consensus.
And since you’re so above it all, next time don’t bother trying to Cathedral shame me with chick insults like “boring” and “judgmental”.
You fairy.
Well, I won’t be holding hands with you in the shower.
(Greg be very careful if you drop the bar of soap…)
It was me.
I gave him the name “the strap on within”.
Yes, and with that barb, Canadian Friend reached the glorious pinnacle of his anthill of wit.
Her response is, “Well it is Isla Vista”. This was shot at Isla Vista near the UCSB campus. So she is indeed qualifying herself as Isla Vista is a college town/anything goes/party place.
Thought i recognize that ho…
So check it playas, working on my openers… Got one shit is so slick… You know DDB eyes, fuck that man this is like moon pie eyes…. all whyite Nome sayin?
School’s in:
Me:click click.
HB9 Slut: WTF! [eyes BIG – she feelin me!]
Me: KPOW! KPOW, KPOW KPOW!!!!!
Maybe in the arboretum. Too indirect..
Nah, you treat this socially like an illegitimate tollbooth at the base of a bridge that you built yourself. Say nothing, look straight into her eyes, slowly crack a grin (as you might when your neighbor’s new chihuahua begins to hump your leg), tussle her hair as you would the strange-looking dog, and walk away self-satisfied and amused. She’ll follow you, so make the call. The very fact that she feels comfortable following through with this “experiment” is an attempted slap in the face to each and every American Male – whether you’re immune to it or not.
With the benefit of a prepared response….
You must be friends with what’s her name, but I can’t split the bill for the room this time around. I just filled up my RV.
The thing about prostitutes rang true. This girl is subconsciously testing out the p4p waters.
For her, it’s T-minus one year to either amateur porn or escorting.
Had a raging feminist interject herself into my conversation with my buddies last week at the bar. You name it, she felt strongly about every feminist issue. I simply told her our politics would be like fire and water, but I was courteous and kept steering the convos into social/sexual/fun. Before long, she’s mingled with all of the group and I started a conversation with a hot blonde milf. She comes up to me immediately after and says, “Everyone keeps saying I should come talk to you and you’re so fun.” I said, “What, are you a swinger?” Basically told her my story and I’m just doing my own thing. Before you know it, she’s basically making all kinds of comments about how she can’t hook up with me, which was funny because I had not said a word about doing anything with her specifically, just about my situation and how I wouldn’t mind slipping and falling on some titties somewhere. Girl was crazy, and a lib, but she couldn’t help the tingles around a handsome, fun guy. Haven’t pulled the trigger yet, but just to fuck with her I told her to bounce with me. She ejected at the last minute, but I felt good knowing how easy this shit is when you’ve been blessed enough to stumble onto game, even for a married dude.
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If I was a multi rich CEO I would start a PR campaign showing women pooping. Images of women actually pooping, poop coming out of their buts. You never see this even dark internet porn rarely touches on this. When we see a hot ass we are so programmed to think ‘love to tap that’. We rarely think of women pooping out of it. My PR campaign would bring women’s SMV down a peg or two- they would lose power and may even tilt the scales against the Feminine Imperative.
[CH: ‘2 girls 1 cup’ hasn’t seemed to have put much of a dent in the fap machine.]
“You think you’re hot shit in a champagne glass, but you’re really just cold diarrhea in a dixie cup” -Venture Bros.
can’t remember who wrote the episode of that 70s show but kelso get the line,
“I pretend girls don’t do that.” ignorance is indeed bliss.
@walawala, putin, sentient
Successful number close today, the same waitress I was flirting with a few weeks ago. There wasn’t much game involved, but after I paid I asked her when she got off and invited her to join my plans. She had plans but said she’d be down for “next time.” Her body language suggested that she wasn’t blowing me off.
“That’s cool. Put your number in here and we’ll set it up. I’ll send you a funny text later.” Called and confirmed it was actually her number. Quick and to the point.
Nice!
Hah. But I was hoping for the Leo dicaprio gif.
Ha… Game tactic. be unpredictable…
LMAO Let me get some gatorade first
I’d just reply “It’s complicated” and then run the game as normal.
Top of my head reply —
“Your condom or mine.”
Does she ever explain whether and how she wiggles out of the deal, like with nog 1?
[CH: if i had to bet, she fucked the guy. she seems like that sort of lady.]
Typically a third party interjects- a camera guy or crew and/or a producer of the content. From there they explain the BS and give the participant a T-shirt or something or in this case some grape drank.
Best line hands down was the guy who said… “Ahhmm, that’s a great offer but”…
Anyone notice she was showing ioi with him and said she knows where he lives?
What is considered cheating on a spouse? Flirting, kissing, groping, 3rd base? Penetration?
Don’t bother answering “whatever she finds out”.
lol. for whorefinder, this video would completely cover him for “affirmative consent.” Even has a video.
Yes means yes, right ladies?
But “fuck me in the ass” does NOT mean “fuck me in the ass”, if you’re a female college-aged psychopath.
What a filthy mattress.
“how much?”
Speaking of untrustworthy appearances: http://abcnews.go.com/Health/online-dating-photo-hot-good/story?id=30908540
Her: “Do you want to have sex?”
Me: looks her up and down “Turn around and show me your butt.”
Her: “Do you want to have sex?”
Me: “Ya alright, if you start massaging my cock now I might be hard by the time we get to your place.”