A graphic produced by some dumb feminist associated with the dumb feminist Twitter hashtag campaign #WhyIStayed is amusingly, if unsurprisingly, self-contradicting pabulum that works well if read with the opposite meaning intended.
Duluth, Minnesota. Fuckin’ ground zero for empty-headed shrill feminist white girls.
If you didn’t know, #WhyIStayed was a de-clawed internet cat swarm that defensively erupted after video of Ray Rice knocking out his adoring now-wife in an elevator emerged. The #WhyIStayed message, if one could call it that, was “Don’t blame women for anything, ever, that goes wrong in their lives.” Really, how else do you interpret thousands of women offering thousands of lame excuses for why they stayed with their sexily abusive alpha male lovers?
There must be an equivalent hashtag called #WhyIHadNoTroubleLeavingMyBoringBetaMaleBoyfriend. There’s not? Oh too bad.
Anyhow, if you sift through this dung pile of feminist ego assuaging butthurt you find a few curious nuggets of anti-feminist truth about relationships and how to keep them going.
“not take her concerns seriously” — women love love love when a man charmingly patronizes them.
“say she caused it” — it may be unethical, but then why does it work so well?
“use jealousy to justify actions” — chicks do dig occasional flashes of jealousy, as long as it’s obvious the man is expressing them with complete control over his emotions.
“make her feel bad and guilty” — reframing.
“play mind games” — that’s one way to provoke a vaginal gusher.
“smash things” — occasional bursts of anger, when justified, are cues of sexy male dominance and they do turn on women.
“make her do illegal things” — the ghost of Bonnie chortled.
“threaten to leave her” — dread game.
“make her ask for money” — because throwing money at women really makes them fall more in love. /sarcasm
“give her an allowance” — if women have no agency in abusive relationships, shouldn’t they be treated like children for their own protection?
“not let her know about or have access to family money” — chicks dig mysterious men. by the way, this PSA is starting to read like an action plan for fleecing wealthy beta males.
“take her money” — aka make a woman feel like she’s invested in you. she’ll try harder to make it work.
“be the one to define men’s and women’s roles” — chicks dig a leader. and they also dig benevolently sexist men!
“make all the big decisions” — because letting women make big decisions works out real well when they’re trying to decide whether to leave an abusive alpha male.
“treat her like a servant” — 50 Shades of Gray has sold millions of copies. To women.
“act like the master of the castle” — this has got to be a feminist secret wish list.
Another day, another drubbing. Thank you feminists, for revealing the holes in your hearts your beboobed beta male lackeys cannot fill!
This (hair) pie chart raises an interesting question. We know that when a man actually does all those things, his girl is at peace. So who created this wonder of qualitative analysis? Answer: a female who either hasn’t had those things done to her — hasn’t had alpha commitment, or one who overshot her station and got dumped by an alpha.
This is just another confirmation that feminism is a shit test.
> “feminism is a shit test” Within a vacuum, yes, but meaningless without acknowledging concurrent relentless YKW war against masculinity. Betas and Gammas already broken-souled. NFL Alphas next.
thanks for the singular post shane… makes reading lots easier
NFL players are no longer alpha. You can’t get any more beta than playing football while wearing pink. The NFL is having great difficulty nowadays maintaining its alpha frame, hence the Feminist shit testing.
Feminism isn’t a shit test. it’s the female version of the Dark Triad – power, domination, control. The attempt to crush men out of envy and hate.
Feminism == artificial construct of YKW to begin destroying first Gammas [circa 1970s/1980s] then Betas [circa 1990s/2000s, cf “Seinfeld” and “Friends”]. Now with Gammas and Betas broken, YKW begin final all-out war to destroy last remaining Alpha vestiges of USA masculinity [cf NFL and NRA], and with final destruction of masculinity, obliterate Western Civ and Xtianity once and for all.
JEWSPN Commentatoress: We Need to Reprogram How We Raise Men http://www.breitbart.com/Breitbart-TV/2014/09/14/ESPN-Commentator-We-Need-to-Reprogram-How-We-Raise-Men
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These “ladies” make a pretty strong case for why women shouldn’t be considered adults.
So all the reasons to leave a husband are at the same time things that keep her put. That’s like saying the reason you got hit by someone in the street is the reason you didn’t hit back. Or the fact that you got mud on your car is the reason you didn’t wash your car. Or the fact that you are in bad shape is the reason you don’t work out.
No, it’s a list of reasons to break up. The same list can’t be used as an excuse for why a woman DOESN’T break up. That’s just, like CH says, a way to claim that women are not responsible for their own decisions, ever.
With the vast majority of relationships ended by women it doesn’t seem like there are too many obstacles in the way, so claiming they can’t leave is BS. But that’s leftism: the useful idiots are promised that they don’t have to take responsibility for anything.
> “all the reasons to leave a husband” Combine this thread with previous thread [Self-Acknowledgement] to TEACH your wife why you have spine of stainless steel. ‘Baby, studies have shown that women want their men to be jerks. That women lose respect for their men if their men are pushovers. Etc.’
“feminist secret wish list.”
Yes, this definitely reads like a wish list, a handy chart for aspiring alphas.
Aspiring alphas ? This black guy murdered white single mom & her son: does he look like “alpha” ? His behavior ? I doubt. Just incredibly stupid white females & feral blacks.
http://www.dreamindemon.com/community/threads/17yo-mike-mohney-dies-trying-to-protect-mom-kim-from-her-ex-terry-froman.72578/
All mudsharks must be executed or at least exiled to Aleutian Islands. But no option of exile for YKW who promoted mudsharkery in books, movies, TV, advertising, etc.
or at least exiled to Aleutian Islands.
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Hmmmm…?
Can somebody teach me how to swim?
Kosher dietary guidelines for great white shark to devour YKW in blackface pretending to be chimpanzee?
Kosher dietary guidelines for great white shark to devour YKW in blackface pretending to be chimpanzee?
Just make sure not to eat the yarmulke. Dirty, unsanitary things.
That extra bone in your ankle is going to hinder the buoyancy, thwack ol’ boy.
It sounds like a quite accurate description of abusive men to me. It really does exist you know…
I don’t think this should be used against men in general though, like feminists often end up doing. And I think a similar guide should be made for abusive women. They exist too, and they’re not to be forgotten.
@Frate – Just add a leading “S” everywhere the word “he” appears in the chart. AKA – “she”. And yes, it works both ways.
They insist upon not being forgotten!
Women use what is called “social aggression,” which is just a fancy term for abuse. In girl world, its okay to bully and yell and scold and nag other women because they’re just trying to help you, don’t cha know? And its okay to threaten and extort and harass men because things didn’t turn out as they wanted and it sure wasn’t any fault of their own.
Social Aggression is not just a fancy term for abuse – it’s a Politically Correct (and Socially Correct) word for abuse. One which it is easier to swallow and seems “nicer”.
Like how “naked selfies” are the rude form of “nude selfies” (which are just r).
Yes, it does exist but how common is it?
I’m willing to bet that for every woman in such a relationship, there is an equivalent man experiencing the female version of that pie chart.
One difference being that men are expected to put up, shut up and man up.
COTW… balls-ass obvious, but still… COTW.
pretty sure it is much much much higher for men
they got to put up with that shit in relationships
but then when the relationship is over
they get bullied by men with guns to pay the bitch they are not even with
how come no bitches talking about that I mean that is real actual quantifiable abuse
then guy gets put in jail if he don’t pay the chick he
is not even in a relationship with
so
no I don’t believe it would be even close to equal just like it never is
Hell is the Impossibility of Reason.
The effort put into that chart. Now i understand the phrase “social justice warrior.” At first i was like “wait, why call them warriors when there is no war involved?”
Then it became clear that they feed their ego on feeling like they are on a mission. I can empathize with that base desire to have meaning in life. When you got it so easy that you spend zero time on chores,caring for children, or obtaining resources, god forbid producing something of value, i can see the mind wandering to self destruction.
The “social justice warriors” were the people H.L. Mencken despised. They exploit “causes” to make themselves look important and to have an excuse to hate those who have succeeded in society. If you can’t make more money, then you can proclaim that you have a “moral conscience” and that those who go to work and then go home to build a family do not.
The “warriors” are the ones who love elections. They LOVE elections. While the correct attitude is to see them at best as a necessary evil, something that has to be taken care of before you go back to doing productive things. The “warriors” live for elections, referendums and campaigns. They dream of walking down the street, stopping traffic (they hate people who can afford cars) together with the mass of people they walk together with. They dream of “taking over” public spaces, forcing others to walk around them. It’s about nothing more than that. Making themselves feel important. Because they were too dumb and too lazy to study something useful in school.
“abuse pets” … hmmm …
is that like “spreading her legs for fido”?
I wondered about this too. Comes from left field. Must be projection from the sick, addled minds of feminists.
No. It means drunkenly stomping on her kid’s baby turtles.
man’s income = “family income”
woman’s income = “her money”
This graphic is pimp game in a nutshell. Some of it is without a doubt unethical, most of it is great advise if you desire a long lasting loving relationship.
his money = our money
her vagina = her vagina
Apparently “her money” isn’t classed as “family income”.
As they say in Yorkshire “What’s thine’s mine and what’s mine’s me own”.
New post up: Implied Soft Dread in the Song of Solomon.
Translation of above chart: any criticism or attempts to reign in the behavior of St. Woman is now defined as “abuse.” Follow this and you’re sure to wind up in a mess.
And what’s with “abuses pets?” More of their pervy “50 Shades” fantasies?
“Use emotional abuse”
Like going out one a nice day and buying just one ice cream. For yourself. She pouts. So you two sit on a park bench and tell her you’ll feed her your ice cream if she begs like a dog. Tell her she has to wag her tail.
“50 Shades of Gray has sold millions of copies….”
We can be more precise for rhetorical effect: “50 Shades of Gray has sold over 100 million copies….”
NAWALT…
LZLZOZLZOZLZOZLZOZLZOZLZOZLZOZLZOZLZOZLZOZLOZLZOLZOLZO
holy shit
I guess i’ll have to read the fucking thing
no bitch I know has a copy though they live that shit in real lol
Since women have the power of the state behind them in feminized countries, I’d say the men need to have even more control over their wives. All in the name of “equality.”
“threaten to leave her”
Chick logic at its finest: “I wouldn’t leave my abusive boyfriend bbb…bbecause he threatened to leave me first!”
I was in Duluth a week ago and the girls I saw there were generally pretty hot and feminine compared to urban North Carolina where I live. They were not very “diverse” but I never heard anyone complain.
Must be a vocal minority that’s putting out this game advice disguised as feminist propoganda.
Try the college district in St Paul instead…
found out a little gem that might helps some people out while i was dealing with my girlfriend; the gist of it i was one the phone with her, she’s a little bigger(read: j00cy), and i mentioned that i stay in shape to keep her on her toes. she’s self conscious about her weight(it’s bay-bay-makin body type with hips and a FAT ass + thigh gap for imagination sake) and she’s a SG(sensitive girl). after i hung up, she texted me saying “i’m upset with you” i don’t reply back for a bit(hamster dynamite) she texts again “can you respond so i know you care.” i say “upset?” she says what i said was really mean. i say i take health importantly(kinda defending myself, but that’s what you do in LTR relationships, right?) she replies with “you don’t have to put that kind of pressure on me” i reply “alright babe.” then she calls me out on my shit — “i doubt that’s all you have to say” and then i blow her up with a grip of text messages in a row justifying myself and why i find health important, explaining how i have scars on my back(which she’s never noticed), and how i get weird when i get touched because of that and i’m HELLA ticklish; all-in-all it was kinda beta in a sense and i felt like damn that was stupid saying my feelings so out of nowhere i throw in the(unknowingly) hamster dynamite:
“i don’t expect you to understand”
BOOM*
7 text messages from her in a row reading:
“why not?”
“why wouldn’t i understand?”
“i do”
*i hold frame not replying to let the dynamite have aftershock value*
“thank you for sharing it with me”
“? :(”
i reply back with “i have nothing to say. that’s my deepest ‘secret’ i have.” (maybe this was beta? it’s relating to my back-scars)
she says:
“well i’m honored that you trust me enough with it”
“i do understand and i love you”
*i don’t reply*
(morning text from her)
“are you ok?”
script reversed, pussy wet, all is well in the world. conversations and flirting continued normally next day like nothing happened — mentally engraving myself in her mind: check. text messages + n00dz randomly: check.
she’s french BTW, and the first time(on cue with CH foreign girl guide) i used my female penetrator on her, she did NOT fall in love, and had side dudes — and is currently in chicago for 3 months for film school. her room has posters hung up i gave her(leaving my mark) from my room and a picture i drew her saying “hav fun in ChiKagO”(i got the idea from the latest post of drawing like a kid) and the bottoms says “PS i stayed up pasted my bed time making this” she was mad at first because i hyped it up saying it was confessing my feelings and how much she means to me etc etc, but later she sends me a picture of it hanging right above her head where she sleeps at night. i have had no bad signs from her so i’m continuing it
this relationship has been fun
Women, and people in general, get lied to and they enjoy it. They respond more fondly toward lies than sincerity, and will lash out at you for pointing this out.
When it comes to either men or women, nothing kills a relationship or friendship faster than honesty.
they like the lies cause they know they can catch you in the lie
then have something to hold over your head
or the regret of lying will make you change your treatment of them
their is nothing to hold over the head of an honest person
no regrets
the wages of lies is hell on earth
I’ve seen it
the truth at least gets you moments of paradise
Much Thanks CH
It’s posts like these that turn the Femi-Matrix Vag monologues into decipherable ideas we can use.
A buddy of mine is into online dating. He had a mom of 3 that openly flaunted that “one man” can’t satisfy her. I told him to go alpha and insist that if she dated him it would be exclusive.
She then admitted (to this internet stranger no less) she was playing with 3 men. I told him to write that it was a perfect way to rear kids in this world to see their mom cavorting with 3 men at the same time.
Mom of the year nomination.
Obviously he’s not interested in her anymore. But it makes me wonder for all the guys who don’t get in the face of these not-ladies. Were the 3 guys she’s allowing to plow her heavily sow field all thinking “they are the one and only”?
After conversing with some feminists yesterday, they have helped me to realize I am in an abusive relationship. In order to help other women determine if they are too, I have constructed this helpful “10 Reasons You May Be in an Abusive Relationship” list. Please feel free to send it to all your female acquaintances so we can stop the following terrible abuses:
1. Has your partner taken you out and paid for dinner at least once in the past week? If not, you may be in an abusive relationship.
2. Has your partner compromised his integrity in order to satisfy your feminist family matriarch? If not, you may be in an abusive relationship.
3. When your partner proposed, did he get down on one knee to show his deference to your higher sexual market value? If not, you may be in an abusive relationship.
4. Does your partner work over one hundred hours a week to keep you in the latest fashions, newest cars, and biggest houses? If not, you may be in an abusive relationship.
5. Does your partner encourage you to stay in shape and eat healthily? If so, you may be in an abusive relationship.
6. Does your partner require you to be responsible for your own actions and expect you to act like an adult? If so, you may be in an abusive relationship.
7. Do you find yourself singing as you go about your chores…wait a minute. You’re not doing chores, are you?!?! If so, you are DEFINITELY in an abusive relationship.
8. If you have trouble holding back how happy you are because it annoys other people, you may be in an abusive relationship.
9. Is your partner a millionaire? If not, you may be in an abusive relationship.
10. And, finally, does your partner have reasonable expectations for himself, you, and your relationship? If so, you may be in an abusive relationship.
I find myself unsure of how to proceed at this point. I love my husband. But, he didn’t put the potholder back in the drawer today. I just don’t know how much more of this I can take.
Hah, good one.
One thing I have learned is that anything can be demonized. You can cherrypick things that someone does, or a party or organization or a people does, and use that for demonization. Leftist media do it all the time. Any man in any relationship can be made to look abusive.
If CH walked on water the feminists would write, “Misogynist can’t swim!”
That is not to say that there aren’t negative entities. But very often, they are not the ones picked out for criticism. Very often, they are the ones doing the criticizing, since the best people prefer to just go to work, go home, and raise a family.
Truth.
But, he didn’t put the potholder back in the drawer today.
Did he have a chance to clean it up.
I just don’t know how much more of this I can take.
Hopefully another five inches.
Lolz
Hi Katarina, your emotional center must be asleep again, lol. Lots of linear thinking here.
11. “Is your partner a man? If so, you may be in an abusive relationship.”
I have a lot of posts on my active blog which you might not have seen. Lately I’ve been offering a religious defense of Game, using the Song of Solomon, against attacks from the orthosphere.
Yes! Yes! I want more items for my list! 🙂
(I checked out your post. I’m afraid I’m in the “a Godly woman doesn’t need Game” mindset. I think it lets women off the hook to say dread is necessary. Dread of dread ought to be enough!)
7. Do you find yourself singing as you go about your chores…””””””””””’
that is one of the hottest things in the world
There once was an old maid from Duluth
Who wept when she thought of her youth
When she thinks of the chances
She had at the dances
And once in a telephone booth
– Stephen King
The things they hate are the things they are attracted to.
And Freud couldn’t answer this question…”What does a women want?”
Chicks are so dumb, it’s hilarious.
“Because I couldn’t get out of Josef’s basement”
#WhyIStayed
“Because I’m buried under the patio”
#WhyIStayed
“cause he said to leave cause he thought he was gonna kill me”
#WhyIStayed
true story
They should rename that graphic. I would call it the pimp’s wheel to success
Do the opposite of the entire chart. This is basically like a child posting their wish list on the fridge with stuff like “Stay up past midnight. Eat candy every meal. Don’t do homework. No more chores.” Who would take it seriously?
So we’re not abusive to men? The Female Abuser pie chart–if anyone had the guts to create one–would have the bulleted items in the pie slots replaced with
–won’t put out yet expects you never to look askance or masturbate
–gets fat, mean, and SUPER lazy, threatens with financial ruin if you want out
–constantly complains about you to anyone who will listen
–de-balling you in front of others (whispering to a total stranger that you have ED, hemorrhoids, or other embarrassing condition)
–withholds love for the smallest infractions (another reader mentioned husband’s forgetting to put the potholder back in the drawer…that IDIOT!!!)
–medical excuses for being vicious 24/7 (PMS/PMDD, had a baby 11 yrs ago, thyroid trouble)
–blaming you for not giving her the life she “deserves” (which, incidentally, is CRAZY unrealistic, like “never wanting to build a house out of solid 24K gold”)
–blaming you for things you could not possibly have done (making her fat, forcing her to talk to her friend on the phone while driving thereby causing the resultant crash)
You get the picture. I won’t waste any more of your time. I’m guessing none of the above happens to any readers of this site (thank God real guys still exist somewhere). At least abusive men provide occasional delicious, worthwhile experiences.
P.S. The abuse chart above does indeed include things we love about you, you bastards…you demanding, controlling, strong-arming, irresistible bastards.
You should have made an equally preposterous list as they did though. E.g. the question ‘do I look fat?’ = abuse. lol
If you ever need a list of truths that offend feminists, look for one of those bingo charts they keep making.
Like sarcasm, reducing painful realities to a game is their way of mentally coping with arguments they can’t deal with.
“by the way, this PSA is starting to read like an action plan for fleecing wealthy beta males.”
I spilt my coffee on my desk from amusement. Thanks CH.
The original, early 1970s Movie, “The Texas Chain-saw Massacre” deserves more careful and scholarly analysis than it has so far been according
Would you settle for a deconstruction of the remake?
:duckface:
In the theme of brilliant game moves that bring the moist looks of indignation from girls, one of my old friends: The “Touchdown”:
When a girl says something (incredibly) stupid, interrupt and ask her if she knows what “touchdown” means.
Ignore her lack of football knowledge, shake your head and proceed to tell her that it has another meaning, as you put your hand on her shoulder with a grin on your face. Ask her if she has ever heard of Down’s syndrome. Tell her that it’s a tradition in your friend circle, that once someone says something not-so-very-smart, you proceed to do a “Touch-Down”. If she doesn’t get it, do another “touchdown”.
Congratulations, you just got a “pass this shit-test and collect tingles” card for the particular girl. From that moment on, anytime she says anything you dislike or throws a shit test at you, all you will have to do is simply place your hand on her shoulder and give her a knowing look, every so often muttering “touchdown” under your breath. No effort, no thinking, just a little touch.
Great move for AMOG friends as well. Great move for everyone in the know.
A lot of this shyt is also very similar to some of the things women pull as well – on their beta boyfriends.
O.T. Anybody ever tried maca powder? I’m more interested in hearing what dudes in their 30s-50s have to say as I’m in my 40s. Just need some energy to help me feel more energy overall. But I’m not trying to get something that gets me all jittery like some mini-thins or coke. And wondering if any sexual side effects. I don’t need any that are bad – good ones I’ll take, but these are side concerns to just wanting overall better energy. Thanks.
try this:
http://www.chaosandpain.com/cannibal-ferox-stim-pre-workout-supplements/
I’d like to get input on Maca before I consider jumping to something else, but thanks.
the really weird about that chart is that it misses the one way to really
really really abuse a bitch
don’t give her the dick
“act like the master of the castle” — this has got to be a feminist secret wish list.””””””’
he he he
The flip side of the bullshit feminist coin.
http://shrink4men.wordpress.com/
Here’s a question to test style aptitude. If you already know the complementary colors theory for pairing your clothing and accessories, what about colours that are mixed with white to produce another color(e.g. pink)? And now a question I’d like to know the answer of: which type of color theory should you use? Subtractive or additive colors?
Something for shit and giggles:
http://lockerdome.com/6170040227613505/6866220603543060
lol@those two being gorgeous. I guess leftards do like cheapening words until they mean nothing.
lights add, paints (which are light filters) subtract .Not sure if that’s what you’re asking about.
If you want something related to fashion, I have nothing to say because I have no f’ing idea.
There she is, Miss America!
http://fox8.com/2014/09/15/new-miss-america-slammed-for-talent-routine/
She has the face of a 4. She sang a song and banged a red plastic cup for her talent. Her platform is to nag us about sexual assault on campus, because she says vaguely that someone came on to her in college and she didn’t have the hots for him..
Did anyone watch this on TV? I didn’t. Is anyone else thinking that these ladies are getting mighty close to cougar status?
For amyone who has helped husbands going through marital hell This is women’s (especially wife’s) playbook:
Intimidation….’you won’t see your kids ever again’
Emotional abuse….ha. Let me count the ways I’ve seen this. Affable in laws buying lies of their princess. Friends who stop talking to you. Her Manipulative lies and one sided stories all believed
Isolation… The people in your social circle who treat you different at first and eventually go radio silent
Use children…. Collateral but acceptable damage so long as she gets her divorce I’ll gotten gains and custody
Use female privilege…’I felt so threatened. ” “he was abusive (subtext – he’s THIS CLOSE to going OJ on me)”. And when chick goes hormonal or menopausal, ” he is insensitive to my body.” If a guy feeling work pressure or “depressed’ it’s ” he’s taking it out on me’
Economic abuse….the financial rape of modern divorce
Yep. Feminist wife divorce playbook indeed