Self-Acknowledgement Game — the art of verbalizing the technique and timeline of your seduction to a woman as it’s happening — has a storied pedigree here at the Chateau. A skilled practitioner can perform miracles with Self-Acknowledgement Game, because it’s at once flirty, edgy, jerkish, charming, and all while maintaining just enough running narrative emotional distance to avoid triggering a girl’s anti-slut defense or bitch shield.
Commenter Thoroughbred writes,
In the category of taking social risks, I’ve been using an opener for awhile now that works like dynamite because it’s so straightforward: “Hi… Wanna flirt and talk about sex?” At a minimum it gets a laugh just about every time, and most of the time it gets an enthusiastic “Sure!”.
The reason “Hi. Wanna flirt and talk about sex?” is so potent an opener is not because it’s direct, but rather because, despite the apparent directness of the message, it’s obviously humorous and therefore ambiguous in intent. And you know how chicks dig that tantalizing ambiguity.
I will say, though, that self-acknowledgement game probably works best if you’ve first gotten some minimal signal from a woman to approach. Otherwise, cold approaching inattentive girls with this line will come across more like an apocalypse opener.
And I wouldn’t try it on mixed groups. SAG is better for weeknight, one-on-one situations.
Thoroughbred continues with another anecdote that is more representative of cocky, preemptive disqualification game.
Tried another one recently that was pushing the limit and I was amazed at how well it worked. I had a good buzz on with just a bit of psilocybin in my system which always brings out the caveman in me for some reason. Don’t know if I would have tried this stone cold sober, but I’ll be damned if it didn’t work.
Sitting talking to a friend at the bar and a drunk 8 sits down next to me. We’re minding our own business, she’s loud and obnoxious. I’m taking up maximum space at the bar (actually have my feet up on the bar and leaning back on the bar stool) and giving her no attention. Catch her eye and she says “You’re a typical douchebag player aren’t you?”
Me: “That’s Mr. Douchebag to you.”
Her: “That’s what I thought. You don’t even deny it.”
Me (with a smirk): “Nope… And you obviously have no manners. I know your type. Rich little daddy’s girl who always got everything she ever wanted. You need to be disciplined.”
Her (Contemptuously): “Oh really… Who’s going to discipline me? You?
Me (Leaning in and whispering in her ear): “I’m out of your league sweetheart, but if you’d really like, I’d be happy to bend you over my knee and spank that pale little ass of yours until it leaves big red hand prints.” Her mouth drops open.
I turn around and start talking to my friend again and feel a tap on my shoulder. Turn back to her and she says “Will you dance with me?”
I couldn’t believe it.
The progression of male incredulity about female sexual nature:
Stage 1: “I don’t believe it.”
Stage 2: “I couldn’t believe it!”
Stage 3: “I’m beginning to believe it.”
Stage Player: “Wasn’t it always obvious?”
Reminds me of a natural I went to high school with. This guy banged probably every 9+ in the school I never really understood how he did it.
I remember a particular evening, he and I went to a party. We’d been drinking beforehand and he was ready for some action and apparently horny. Upon entering said party he commenced to stick his tongue down the throat of EVERY SINGLE girl in the place, none missed and no words spoken. Wasn’t a half hour into the night when he was nailing one or em in the car.
The fact that the guy probably had somewhat of a good relationship with each of them kinda sends this story back to reality.
What would even be the point of game, every advice given to guys who can’t get laid would just be to shove your tongue into a girls’ mouth…and then have her push you away, and proceed to be ostracized for life from every person in the room.
[…] Self-Acknowledgement Game […]
I self acknowledge but one thing to the ladies…..
care to guess what it is?
….
You secretly have a crush on PA?
That you want to race them
Love it – will have to give a whirl this weekend.
One I’ve been doing justforfun in stores/bars recently is to say “Spank you” instead of “thank you” – usually good for a reaction of some sort.
Last night at a dive bar this loud (but hot/drunk) chick and I had a good time.
Chick: “You’re pretty full of yourself, aren’t you?” (at top volume)
Egotist: “Later tonight you’re going to be pretty full of me too!”
I was shocked at the reaction. Not from her, but the applause of 3 other guys at the bar who couldn’t help but overhear.
Good one.
That WAS pretty good.
For more everyday situations, here is a response I gave to a chick a couple of days ago. Talking in a small group, one girl says this flirty/mock worshipful “PA is very impressive” in response to some trivial thing another girl complimented me on. I said “I get that a lot.” This is a good stock phrase for when a chick in a mixed group shit tests you with mock praise.
Spot on mate!
Cue Yul Brenner as Ramses talking to Nefertiri from The Ten Commandments:
“You will be my wife. You will come to me whenever I call you, and I will enjoy that very much. Whether you enjoy it or not is your own affair… but I think you will.”
Damn.
Off topic, I just got a message from a girl I have been seeing on and off.
“Are you sleeping?” she asked.
No, I’m awake, I replied.
“I’m in town with my cousin”. She lives right outside town. At this point I wonder if she wants to come over to my place.
Have fun! I simply reply.
“We were going dancing”, she writes. Were going? Are going?
I don’t reply. She’s not coming over, and you shouldn’t indulge a girl when she just wants to show her friend that she has a guy to text with, or when she is bored. I am seeing her next Wednesday – we decided that today, so no need for further contact.
Although girls do love the texting just to feel close to a guy. You can reply briefly to make them feel that closeness and to assure them that yes, the deal is still on. But no more than that. They’ll drag it out if they can, and too much electronic contact kills the spark.
If she gets pissed because I don’t reply, so be it. Better that she gets pissed than that she is the first to stop the conversation.
In my beta days however I would have thought, “The more we talk the closer we will be!” One of the best pieces of beginners’ advice in the manosphere is to help guys realize that electronic contact should be limited.
Could have replied, “Sleeping with your …or just in general?” Been interesting to see the response. As YaReally says, “Sexualize everything as quickly as possible.”
“sleeping with YOU” I meant.
Yes, I was thinking of what kind of cocky reply I could give her, but then I gave up. Tired, and still had to finish some work. I just finished now, it’s been a long day.
Her: Are you sleeping
MB: (5 hrs later) Yes
When a girl calls someone a douchebag – it is code for “he’s hot but I hate to admit it.”
Lately, I’ve taken to doing this thing at work. Not because any of the women I work with are even remotely worth sleeping with, but because I’m amused by it. Often, for whatever reason, people will have a question for me and then see me and forget what they wanted to ask. Generally, this results in one of those generic statement, “I had something I wanted to ask you but…”
I have begun to reply in every instance to both men and women, “Eh. It’s because I’m so pretty.” About half the time now, the women respond with, “Yes, yes you are.” Or, “Yes, that must be it.”
The apocalypse opener works. Just say, “We should hook up.” She’ll try to qualify it with something like “for drinks?” Say, “that sounds fun too.”
At business conferences, I often use “I’m gonna network you so hard” or “let’s network each other so hard”
Play just fuckin play …get out of ur head ..it’s nice out here
I wonder if this line would work on Tinder.
Some of the lines I’ve been using on Tinder to good effect:
“you look interesting…”
“i was going to ask how tall are but judging from pic x I can verify you are fun-sized” (thanks CH)
“wow imagine the looks we’d get.”
“I’m ticking boxes aren’t I..”
“too bad you’re a blonde/brunette etc otherwise I’d be flirting with you.”
“selfie in the bathroom/gym/bedroom….never seen that before”
90% of chicks that message first say “hi, how was your week/weekend/day” and they’re used to guys answering them literally, so I don’t.
Saying something funny/cocky/mild neg about their photo sometimes works also.
Also, when I get a chick’s number, I make up a funny nickname for them based on our brief conversation ie “Nicole Fashion Police” and then I screenshot it in my address book and send it to them with “this is what I have you saved in my phone as.” Seems to get a good response and then you can segue straight into catching up.
After a while I had that many matches I just started giving out my number. 100% of the chicks I’ve given my number to after some witty banter, have texted me. I think if you can manage it this way, the results are far better. When they’re the ones initiating, I find the ASD is always much lower. (There deserves to be a discussion on this. How chicks instinctively lower their own ASD when they’re the ones pursuing.)
Tinder can be a monumental game changer for you if you’re good looking but slightly introverted.
@Having a Bad Day Took your advice with positive results.
Months ago, I started using the following line with great success both online and when gaming in person:
“Have you ever had a foreign lover?” This is in the context of living in Asia.
I used to say “boyfriend or lover?” but that ended up with me mixing messages over the provider/lover dynamic. Now I say “lover”. The response doesn’t matter. They will say yes or no. But the assumption in that question is that if she proceeds with me it’s sexual.
I ran into the 20’s theatre student girl I’ve been gaming at a club the other night. It was by chance she was there we hadn’t been in touch for a while after she’d flaked on me. I then pulled her out to go for drinks. We’re chatting, and I tell her: “I’m eye fucking you now”. Her eyes widen. “You’re eye fucking ME now”.
I go for the kiss and she responds. Then she says “Stupid question: do you like me?”
Me: No….
Her: I mean do you like me just sexually?
Here is where I seized on what I picked up from Krauser and have employed to great success.
Me, staring into her eyes: Im a man you’re a woman. I want to fuck you. Too many guys hide their sexual desires and it confuses the woman and it’s frankly dishonest.
She stared at me for a momen, then said
“I can’t fuck you tonight because I have to go home and be up early blah blah blah”
Me: I did’t say I would fuck you tonight, just that I will fuck you.
Major make out. She then arranges to come over Monday to cook with me.
I have started becoming more bold with girls and they respond very positively. But the key to this is to use the game models: Mystery Method of Krauser’s Date model. Once you establish early your dominance and confidence, this approach comes off as congruent with the confidence you’ve displayed.
” I did’t say I would fuck you tonight, just that I will fuck you.”
Money…
Sounds like a great turn of events Wala. Some good stuff here.. That assume the sale line, reminds of that scene from Girls… someone posted it somewhere.
@Sentient The surge has been the result of a better understanding of how r-selected vs k-selected works in practice.
By sexualizing the interaction at the appropriate moments during the interaction, you can escalate as though it’s normal.
Walk up to a girl and say “wanna fuck?” is idiotic.
But around 5 months ago I met this 31 year old cute girl. We met for drinks. She was quiet but I knew it was on when she ordered a Bailey’s and I said “That’s gay..have a beer”. She said Ok. Then we went to another place for beers. I went for the make out. It was on.
I banged her that night. Then another night. After that she wasn’t up for it.
You have to understand the escalation models and get confident with them. After that it’s a situation of getting better at recognizing IOI’s.
Not every girl is going to go for it. Whether it’s a reflection of your game depends on how tight your game is in general.
A few others I met online and just invited to my place. They initially balked (hamster in overdrive) but when I made clear: “I’m a man you’re a woman…” they got it. Then it was a question of whether they were comfortable with the idea. It requires confidence to pull it off and a knowledge of how to smash her frame.
But in every case the girls were actually nice girls, they weren’t shitty, they flaked out of a fear not anger or spite. When you understand that, you don’t get mad, you just make it clear in a fun way that they owe you. If they don’t make it up some way, it’s no real loss because I have more on rotation.
Very good posts, walawala. Hmm, so it works through online dating too? I have to ask: are you goodlooking?
@wala
[thumbs up]…lol…
31 year old russian woman demands her 53 year old lover abandon his family. he refuses. she jumps out the 13th story and survives.
http://rt.com/news/187284-woman-jumped-roof-alive/
storey*
Did it help her figure?
low dose of mushrooms seems like it could be potent for nights out. I’ve experienced that talkative effect from them before, and they seem to improve my acuity overall. I’ve tried cannabis before but it has mixed results, sometimes it leaves me too blazed to function. Any thoughts?
Set and Setting
Look it up
Exactly. And keep the dose super low. You don’t want to watch the trees breathing, you just want that third eye to open up a bit so you can look into their souls and accurately read them.
A quarter gram to start. Be in a good mood. Not tired.
[…] Self-Acknowledgement Game — the art of verbalizing the technique and timeline of your seduction to a woman as it’s happening — has a storied pedigree here at the Chateau. […]
Yoyo so why do girls adjust their clothing around men? Sometimes even covering themselves up like pulling a skirt down
I can think of two possible conclusions
– They’re attracted so it acts as self grooming/antislut shield
– They feel intimidated so adjust themselves to look more presentable to you
– They feel intimidated and don’t want you to approach (I’d still approach for the challenge but for the sakes of throwing a spanner in the works)
They are feeling conscience of there sexuality in you proximity. They may not want to acknowledge this yet in the forebrain. An IOI.
If a girl puts titties in my face I assume she wants me to stare at them.
and thats what I do.
Heh.
Another possibility: They feel creeped out, and don’t want you to approach.
I’m thinking of the time I went to a strip club on a bad inner game day, and I was practically crying on their shoulders, trying to get one of the girls to be my mommy.
It was pathetic.
Anyway, I remember this one chick in particular who got up to go do something and pulled her shirt thing or whatever down to cover her ass as she walked away. She knew I was staring at her ass, and could feel my creepy desperate loser eyes on her, and it made her squirm. She was trying to hide. I even asked her about this. “You were just naked two minutes ago, and now you’re trying to cover your ass? Why be modest now?”
I eventually figured out why. I think it’s the right read of her behavior. I was coming off as a massive creep. I can be flirty fun on a good inner game day, but on a bad one, I come off like the guy who is sizing you up to decide which one of those delicious tasty organ meats I want to eat first. Liver? Kidney pie? Maybe a nice spoonful of fresh brain?
Some guys need to smile more, and I’m one of them. The reaction I get from chicks is night and day different when I’m not looking like a guy trying to figure out where to place the shot when I go on my murder rampage.
I guess. Maybe. I don’t know. Just because she’s smiling doesn’t get you in her pants, and I’ve found a girl or three who didn’t mind talking to an obvious psycho. Talking though. Too much talking, and never any fucking.
Speaking of talking too much….
You’re looking at a nervous tick: they fall back on it because they’ve got to do something with their hands.
Lighting up a cigarette addresses the same need.
You should take it that she’s reacting to your eye being on her.
I’d always take it as a cue to move into conversation range and open her up.
The typical opener would feature a string of obviously true statements — delivered a tad slow — followed by an action statement — such as it’s time to dance, to order a drink, to leave for another joint, to head to your place,… to cough up her number — (’cause you’ve got to go… you’re so pressed for time.)
This last gambit — ‘you’re missing the train’ — is a great way to accelerate events. It’s almost like fly-casting for trout. Pulling the lure away is absolute catnip.
[ Alphas are always pressed for time. The ultimate alpha being a tardy president. (Bill Clinton) He was the absolute master of the departure. Which led to him being always too late for the next venue. ]
[ The fast departure has its own tonic. This was hinted at in “Goodfellas” as our anti-hero explains to his target that he has to tip $20 so that his car is not only watched — but that his wheels are at the ready when they leave the club.
This fast departure is scripted into fiction, too. Witness Keaton’s Batman: he pumps Vicki Vale straight to his jet car which also has ‘parking issues.’
In all period films, the hero tosses the babe onto his steed an races off.
In all of these fictions, the hero NEVER discusses where the babe is being taken. It’s simply time to go — with him.
And, of course, wherever it is — it’s not her place.
Contrast that with your own experiences trying to leave a hot club without an action let-down right at the curb.
It’s a Western tradition: the hot babe expects to be hauled off by her lover to places most interesting — and in a most powerful way.
This latter tick largely explains huge horses and sports cars. In period fiction, the knight ALWAYS picks up the babe with his huge war horse. She, of course, is hauled around like a rag doll.
(Whereas, in reality, no knight used his war horse for anything but fighting — and training to fight. Normally, they rode their ‘compact.’)
Amanjaw Marcunt finds out she’s been wrong her whole life. What does she do? Lashes out at other women:
http://www.salon.com/2014/09/13/7_women_working_tirelessly_to_attack_equal_rights_for_women_partner/#comments
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