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single moms, the shit that keeps on giving… and taking!

133 Responses to “There Are Single Moms, And Then There’s Everyone Else”

  1. Hepp says:

    More like “There’s the low IQ, and everyone else.” The only group there that is exclusively low IQ is single mothers. Doesn’t mean that being a single mother is what causes it.

    • Arbiter says:

      Indeed. And that is what CH wants to show. They are praised for “raising a child on their own, so amazing, they are so strong!” They lift up being a single mother as a badge of honor on Facebook or whenever they stick their noses in a discussion, and you are never allowed to treat that as anything other than shiny and great. He wants to show the reality about what that group is like.

      • Arbiter says:

        Leftist response: “But how can you blame the victim!” If someone douses herself with gasoline and jumps in a fire, I will point out that she is making bad life choices.

    • jack says:

      but the low IQ can still have cohesive family units in a sane traditional culture, pushing those stupid moms back towards the mean.

      we of course, do not have a sane traditional culture.

    • Zombie Shane says:

      > “The only group there that is exclusively low IQ is single mothers.”

      DO NOT KID YOURSELF.

      There are extremely highly-edumakated high-IQ idiot White womynz trying to raise children on their own now.

      This fucking Civilizational train wreck is so God-damned depressing that I don’t even feel like thinking about it right now.

      • ivanhoseph77 says:

        Take a break from the Manosphere, pop culture, and news sources (msm or otherwise), and reading anything other than James Herriot or A Confederacy of Dunces. Seriously, just shut it off for a while.

        Leave the abstract shit alone. (Philosophy, large scale political ideas, ideological blog battles, etc, etc) and focus on your own immediate personal life. Get in the now for a while. It will clear your head immensely.

        You can’t spend everyday obsessing over this stuff or it will poison your outlook and infect other areas of your life.

      • gunslingergregi says:

        agreed ivan

      • gunslingergregi says:

        my older sister almost perfect score sat missed by two points or something yea no kids so uhh yea

      • LP says:

        I think the “single mother’s by choice” need their own separate category in the sense that they are a newly emerging group and, as you say, a very different demographic.

        21 year old Shawanda raising 4 kids in bed sty with 4 different baby daddies is not the same as 45 year old Stephanie having her first child, solo, via IVF. But there are likely implications with respect to the latter which have yet to be discovered.

      • CH says:

        in the long run, a single momhood social norm means the end of prosperous civilization. this goes whether single mommery is primarily caused by genes or by environment.

      • Pijama Wearing Ninja says:

        Yes, but those single mothers often raise the child with the biological father without marrying or marrying him after the birth of the child. All the girls I know that got knocked up out of wedlock did this. The smart women who try to raise children on their own are an aberration from a statistical standpoint.

      • Agree with Ivan. I need to knock up a nice white girl and have nice babies but currently my sister just popped out her second kid (1st blond hair blue eyed littler Norwegian looking guy) with her nice white husband. That gives me some hope. Suggesting to her to have a third. Plenty of happy white couples on my facebook feed popping out babies too.

      • Zombie Shane says:

        I got so depressed after that article which Heartiste wrote about the boy in Santa Barbara – when his father said “I have one son”, referring to a child by the second mother – that I had to walk away for a while.

        That one really touched a nerve with me.

        Just like this single mother masochistic-suicidal bullshit.

        We are all witness to the intentional deliberate purposeful destruction of the greatest civilization ever known to mankind.

        Right before our very eyes.

        If this shit doesn’t shake you to your very foundations, then God have mercy on your soul.

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  3. tantalus says:

    You need to take ethnicity into account as well. How much of the single mum effect is really a, shall we say, genetic high time preference correlation?

  4. Ted Cunterblast says:

    This isn’t shocking. Single moms will put up with untold levels of violence as long as they can exercise their right to be single and a slut.

  5. crowhill says:

    Can you please give the source for that chart?

  6. bike bubba says:

    I am reminded of warning my brother when he moved in with his then girlfriend, now wife, that doing so put him in a high risk group–that according to Focus on the Family, the rate of domestic violence was 3x higher. If this data is representative (source?), then I’m afraid that I was wrong. The violence rate among single mothers with boyfriends is actually 10x higher than that of married couples.

    (thankfully, as far as I know, my brother and his wife did not fall prey to this statistic)

    And yes, this may scale with IQ and/or race and ethnicity, but the factot that comes to mind for me is the “renter’s mentality”; the tendency to treat things that you “own” better than things that you rent. Marriage is, to a degree, ownership, and hence husbands are less likely to abuse their mates than are mere boyfriends.

  7. Greg Eliot says:

    Curious about the significant decline… are the laws (the actual police) cracking down harder these days, or does the plethora of social media and cameras tend to make men more circumspect before (ahem) administering correction?

    • anonYmous says:

      hook up culture – guys can leave chx that button push for greener pastures.

    • It is also interesting that – again, as usual – facts say the exact opposite of what feminists are telling us.

    • Wilson says:

      Bastardy has gone mainstream, it’s not just confined to completely dysfunctional losers. And these women are getting knocked up at an older age by older men, and bitch-slapping just isn’t worth it if you might throw out your back

    • Hugh G. Rection says:

      Less people living in relationships perhaps?

  8. tteclod says:

    Some thoughts, just visualizing the data.

    Something happened about ’98-’01 that brought married with children in line with married w/o children. After a steep drop, the single mother violence rate levels off about the same time, then falls again to a minimum around ’05. The “one female adult” violence rate appears to be trending down, overall, while “other” seems pretty flat – I assume that excludes single man and single father homes since the chart is about violence against females. Considering single moms as a class, and seeing these rates, one wonders, is the status the problem, or are there factors that create the status and thereby predispose women who appear to attract violence to also become single moms. Is there a way to filter out that noise from the dataset?

    As an aside, I’m home with my sick boy today on account of his absent mother and sister. Another day when little work gets done and no significant income gets earned, but at least I get some nap time before the overtime that necessarily follows. And since it’s just me and the boy at home, our (non-)violence won’t get reported at socially significant.

    • Zombie Shane says:

      > “is the status the problem, or are there factors that create the status and thereby predispose women who appear to attract violence to also become single moms.”

      One horrifying possibility here – up until the mid-90s, single motherhood was exclusively a Chimpanzee & Armadillo problem, but then the amoral insanity of the Clinton years unleashed a tidal wave of White womynz who were going it alone and becoming single mothers, and it was simply the massive new White presence in the data which forced the rate to plummet.

      • tteclod says:

        Zombie Shane, for some reason your comment reminds me of a post by another blogger about the depravity of Marion Zimmer Bradley. I just discovered she named the Society for Creative Anachronism. SWPL defined.

        http://deirdre.net/marion-zimmer-bradley-its-worse-than-i-knew/

        One of the memes extant among us is, “The infertility of SWPL hipsters is a feature, not a bug.” I think there is some merit to this idea that some of the worst women (and men) don’t have many children, and when they do, such women invariably leave a wake of damaged progeny, few of which fully recover. It is our responsiblity as men, as the Patriarchy, I suppose, that we endeavor to identify these people and see to it that they don’t breed, and, failing that, that their children obtain relief, but not the parents.

        That, or we let the whole lot starve. I often wonder which is more humane.

      • Zombie Shane says:

        > “That, or we let the whole lot starve. I often wonder which is more humane.”

        Apparently that’s what they used to do in Ireland.

        Until rather recently, in fact:

        http://www.irishcentral.com/news/Death-records-for-796-children-at-Tuam-home-published-in-full.html

        There’s a really disturbing theory developing [still not debunked] which holds that all of those un-baptized un-buried children were dumped in a septic tank on the property.

  9. Amy says:

    I wonder why it’s dropped so much?

    [CH: across-the-board secular decline in all crime categories. also, you’ll note that the decline appears to have stopped and maybe even begun reversing. Peter Turchin would have something to say about all this.]

    • K says:

      Amy, is this you on the photograph? Because if it is, I think you are a very very beautiful girl, you are a ten <3 I love your style

      • The Burninator says:

        Amy, is this you on the photograph? Because if it is, I think you are a very very beautiful girl, you are a ten <3 I love your style

        Does this strategy get you laid from the internet much, bro?

      • CH says:

        she’s not a bro. she’s a troll. but if she was a bro, the answer would be no.

      • The Burninator says:

        Sound like you spotted her like a pro. Comments to her probably should go, especially now that we all know. With a hey and a hi and a hey diddly ho.

      • K says:

        @The Burninator,

        ”Does this strategy get you laid from the internet much, bro?”

        I’m a girl. Just wanted to give her a compliment.. She has beautiful hair, eyes, face, makeup.. she’s perfect <3 totally my type, love the way she looks, i think it’s really elegant and cute..

      • Amy says:

        @K (Maya?) thanks sweetie but college experimentation aside, I’m not bisexual. I think little spoon is though. Lol

      • Jay in DC says:

        K— Your type? I await the hot lesbo action video. Please put up the URL when completed.

      • K says:

        ”K— Your type?”

        lol, i wanted to say that she has the style i love, so elegant and romantic..

      • Pluviophile says:

        K … You might consider placing saran wrap over her before you taste her lest you catch something incurable of African origin.

      • Tilikum says:

        ah hell, i totally forgot Amy was a coalburner.

      • Anon says:

        Eeeeeew. Unclean.

      • What does <3 mean?

      • College experimentation?

        Amy please elaborate, provide details…

        in the name of science of course

      • gunslingergregi says:

        Amy

        @K (Maya?) thanks sweetie but college experimentation aside, I’m not bisexual. I think little spoon is though. Lol
        ””””””””

        its actually amazing how much of an influence the media has
        use it to your advantage remember repitition

      • Amy says:

        “ah hell, i totally forgot Amy was a coalburner.”

        Um, that’s because I’m not.

        I’ve never even dated a black man, much less had sex with one, but Pluviophile (and the various troll aliases he uses) has developed an unhealthy obsession with my sex life, in which he persistently fantasizes about me with his black imaginary friend Nigel. I think this says a lot more about Pluviophile’s proclivities than my own, but feel free to draw your own psychosexual conclusions.

      • princessjuliet says:

        @K : dude can’t you tell its photoshop -.-”

      • Pijama Wearing Ninja says:

        Actually the sole purpose of this blog is for us to masturbate in unison to Amy’s tiny thumbnail. We just keep it on the down low. CH’s posts are merely a ruse to keep her commenting.

      • gunslingergregi says:

        Amy

        “ah hell, i totally forgot Amy was a coalburner.”

        Um, that’s because I’m not.

        I’ve never even dated a black man, much less had sex with one, but Pluviophile (and the various troll aliases he uses) has developed an unhealthy obsession with my sex life, in which he persistently fantasizes about me with his black imaginary friend Nigel. I think this says a lot more about Pluviophile’s proclivities than my own, but feel free to draw your own psychosexual conclusions.
        ”””””””””””

        and tilicum has said it multiple times I guess trying to neg you or some shit
        wtf were ya doing tili?

      • wolfie65 says:

        First guess: Amy likes Shakira.

      • thwack says:

        Actually the sole purpose of this blog is for us to masturbate in unison to Amy’s tiny thumbnail.
        ——————————————————————————————

        Personally I’m still jacking off to Little Spoon’s spandex booty shot; good thing I saved it.

      • Pluviophile says:

        in which he persistently fantasizes about me

        You tingled writing that.

    • The Burninator says:

      Widespread public adoption of the carry of firearms probably has something to do with the over the board drop in violent crime since the mid 1990′s.

      That probably doesn’t account for *this* that much, but it might be something of a factor (or not, probably not).

      • Hugh G. Rection says:

        I think it’s abortion. Most of the would be criminals aren’t being born because the high risk groups have more abortions.

    • Zombie Shane says:

      Amy, June 17, 2014 at 2:24 pm: “college experimentation aside, I’m not bisexual”

      Amy, June 17, 2014 at 8:07 pm: “Pluviophile (and the various troll aliases he uses) has developed an unhealthy obsession with my sex life”

      Amy, look, I know you’re a chick, and the concept of intellectual consistency is pretty much utterly foreign to your sex, but dadgummit, can you not see the mixed messages which you are sending here?

      Either be a prude.

      Or be a slut.

      But don’t try simultaneously to have it both ways.

      • Amy says:

        Lol. ZS, you and Yareally are just opposite sides of the same silly coin. There are few absolutes in life. Imagine a bell curve with you “good girls are pure as driven snow” on one end and Yareally “good girls are DTF anyone at any time in the most disgusting ways possible” on the other. Guess what? Most girls are in the middle area, some are close to your side and some are close to his, but few are firmly at the ends.

        Why this is hard for either of you to accept is beyond me.

      • YaReally says:

        @Amy
        “at any time”

        Not at any time. Under the right circumstances. The “time” is actually rare as fuck, because most guys don’t know how to create it. A chick who sees her man as higher value won’t cheat with a guy who’s lower value to her than him. There are plenty of times/situs where the girl won’t cheat.

        But if you can create the right circumstances, she will. You literally just said “college experimentation aside”. You did something slutty that you would tell us other girls won’t do or that you wouldn’t do now, except that in that moment you had the right circumstances (“this is college, no judgement!”) and have backwards rationalized it away as “it was just college experimentation lololol” chalking it under the category of “it doesn’t count”.

        Your problem is your girl logic tells you “well since I’m not currently presented with the same circumstances and I’m not in the same headspace I was at the time now, then it’s impossible and must be for other girls too because my solipsistic nature tells me that everyone feels like me”. That’s retarded and illogical. You’re just basing your conclusions on your girly emotions. Your logic is inconsistent and your hamster spins too fast to understand that.

        “Why this is hard for either of you to accept is beyond me.”

        Because your logic is stupid and inconsistent and contradicts what anyone can see when they go out and learn to hit on girls lol

        But keep at it I guess. I mean, your opinion as a woman on what women think/feel must carry more weight. I got knocked out by Mike Tyson once so let me teach you guys how to box instead of Mike, while that fish over there teaches you how fish think instead of the fisherman that’s catching them all. I’m really only replying because my name was in your comment.

      • Amy says:

        Lol. You’re the one with the hamster, killer. Look at all those paragraphs trying to convince me that it’s all so perfectly absolute.

        I’ll make it super easy. Tell us, do you ever get rejected? Because if you do (and of course you do), then you prove my point. Despite your epic charm, not every chick can be gamed into blowing you in a club bathroom or letting you pee on her face. It’s irrelevant how many times it’s happened to you. Read what I wrote about the bell curve again and google “selection bias”. It’s really not that complex.

  10. the alpha male says:

    what about lesbians? They beat the shit out of each other.

    • Greg Eliot says:

      I’m guessing there’s a portion of that in the single mothers… but note how “one female only” and “other composition” are in the place and show positions, still higher than married couples.

    • anonYmous says:

      heh

    • Steve H says:

      Keep an eye on fledgling lesbian divorce rates. Already high after just a few years of legal sanction. Headed from ‘high’ to ‘astronomical’.

    • Rudolph says:

      That’s probably under “other household composition.” Which is one of the higher ones.

  11. Charlie Don't Surf says:

    What the hell is “Other Household Composition” … Cat-fighting lesbians?

  12. Rick Derris says:

    Remember, according to Jizzabel, every single mom is entitled to a guy who makes $250k per year and who looks like Vinny Chase, but men are just potential rapists.

  13. elmer says:

    Off-topic but how did you miss this one?

    ‘Duke Porn Star’: I Lost My Financial Aid

    http://time.com/author/miriam-weeks

    • Amy says:

      She’s right about the economics of government subsidization in higher ed, though.

      Ironic, since she doesn’t need a Duke B.A. to be a porn actress. Maybe she should shut up and drop out, and give her seat to a respectable student who needs the education.

      • Kate says:

        porn actress, B.A.

      • Greg Eliot says:

        I thought she already graduated… cum lotsa cockas.

        LLZOZLZOZLZOZLZOZLZOZLZOZLZOZLZOZLZOZLZO

      • Hugh G. Rection says:

        The thing is she would have gotten a scholarship at another college, so all those complaints are pretty much moot.

        Womens studies is not education. But you can’t be a porn actress forever, and blowing the money you made at the start of your career on a useless degree makes no economic sense.

    • aspergeryone says:

      Somehow, I don’t believe she actually wrote this, of if she did, it was heavily edited.

      • Judging by the famous porn video she appeared in – before it was heavily edited ( I saw it about 2 weeks before this story exploded and went viral )- where the guy making the movie has a conversation with her for about 10 or 15 minutes.

        She can not have possibly written such an article herself, in the video she talked like a mentally slow person and she was not articulate at all, had no opinions or anything intelligent or informed to say about anything.

        She was on the view or some women show and all her replies sounded rehearsed, like stuff she had memorized.

      • CH says:

        i agree. she didn’t write that article. it’s too coherent. someone’s trolling the Time reading audience. would love to know who’s ghostwriting for that dumb bitch.

    • Cortesar says:

      how about
      Senior Fellatio Specialist

    • ballocaust says:

      “… a less prestigious school or decades of crushing debt, a few hours of work on a porn set revealed itself to be the best way to avoid getting screwed.”

  14. eofahapi. says:

    Interesting study to do. But I do not understand graphs well. Does this mean single mothers are the ones being beaten?

    I am confused. Who is beating them if they are single? How is it partner violence if they are single?

    Also, is this a America chart, or worldwide? Thank you. 🙂 .

  15. Jay Fink says:

    Single moms have more primitive tastes in men. Most only feel attraction towards violent men with low impulse control. Because of the generous welfare state they can keep indulging their base tastes (and have more babies) with different brutes.

    • Amy says:

      Maybe. But violent men with poor impulse control also tend to gravitate to single moms, figuring (correctly) they’re more likely to tolerate bad behavior, for economic reasons as well as psychological ones.

      • CH says:

        whatever the cause, single mommery is bad for a prosperous society, and a sane culture works hard to decrease the numbers of single moms rather than valorize their feral “””lifestyle”””.

      • anononnoooo says:

        *violent men with poor impulse control*
        um, raycisss!

      • Greg Eliot says:

        Bloody Vikings!

      • gunslingergregi says:

        everyone who fucks is violent

      • gunslingergregi says:

        actually lot of the violent relationships are those couple who have been together since young and all the poison from each others fuck ups builds up over time
        and they both violent

      • There are just as many violent women with poor impulse control as there are men.

        At least half of domestic violence is instigated by women.

        The data supporting this is harder to find, especially in this crazy age of pretty lies, but it is out there.

      • blindman says:

        @ Canadian Friend

        i’d venture to say that physical aggression from women is far more common than any collected data would indicate. possibly more common than abuse inflicted by men.

        men are more capable of causing serious damage obviously but aggression from women is fairly common. face slapping, throwing projectiles, hitting upside the head, throwing drinks in someone’s face, slashing tires, keying cars, etc. all aggressive behaviors that i’ve witnessed being done by women. i have never seen a man do any of those things. not even once.

        those actions would be unacceptable and quickly reported if men were doing those things to women but they are basically ignored or laughed about when it’s happening to a man.

        i think abuse against men is probably much more common than any of us realize but it is grossly under reported because men don’t want the stigma and embarrassment.

    • Maybe they are single because they have explosive temper, and no man wants to marry a woman who is always starting fights (verbal or physical).

      while the women with nicer personalities have no problem finding a man who will marry them

      Just a theory…

      • blindman says:

        sounds about right to me

      • Simon Corso says:

        The simplest answer is usually the correct one.

      • cryo says:

        “Maybe they are single because they have explosive temper, and no man wants to marry a woman who is always starting fights (verbal or physical).”

        This is it. I dated a single mom in my early twenties. Worst mistake of my life, it ended with us literally throwing punches at one another.

      • Nicole says:

        Truth.

        One does not need to be the prettiest woman in the world to get and keep a man, “Just don’t be a bitch.”

        Problem is, find a man nowadays. For a decent woman, the worst struggle in the dating game today is fending off the posers and psychos who want to monopolize one’s attention, not lack of men willing to commit. Almost every man (at least in my observation) is willing to commit…just not all of them deserve a decent woman.

        I would suspect though, that a fair proportion of single mothers are not really single. The man just doesn’t make paperwork, and not for reasons of principle, just unwillingness to invest. A guy who wants to keep a woman locked down, and makes babies with her, but won’t invest, is a special kind of monstrous on the same level as a woman who gets pregnant to trap a man. He makes babies with her to keep her trapped.

  16. Anon says:

    Feminists will argue that the reason they’re single is because of domestic abuse in the first place. But we all know the reason. Single mothers fuck shitty men and make shitty decisions.

  17. tspark156 says:

    The overall trend is downward which is consistent with the general decline in violent behaviour society wide. The current uptick in violence in single mom households is probably all CHs doing😈

    • Buffalo Bill says:

      It’s George Bush’s fault.
      He caused Katrina, which caused the throbbiest of the heart throbs to scatter from Nola to Detroit, Newark, Philly, etc where they immediately plopped into the gushy laps of the nearest fat white chicks, who prefer men who beat them.

    • Zombie Shane says:

      > “The overall trend is downward which is consistent with the general decline in violent behaviour society wide.”

      It would also be consistent with an initial group of ultra-violent Chimpanzees and very violent Armadillos who were then joined by a tidal wave of not-nearly-so-violent Whites in the 1990s.

      Thereby diluting the impact of the ultra-violent and the very-violent.

      • Carlos Danger says:

        Are these statistics true about declining crime rates or are we fudging the numbers?

      • Greg Eliot says:

        Hadn’t thought about that, but it makes sense. Whites more and more be actin’ n166erish when it comes to sexual mores… but haven’t gone full-bore jungle law yet.

      • gunslingergregi says:

        actually blacks milquetoast sexually whites are the creative ones
        but yea
        even a gangbang take turns all doggie style missionary then done
        jungle law is just always doggie style
        we use improper words for things cause the vocab is not there do to media

      • gunslingergregi says:

        fuck like an animal yea pretty mundane really

      • gunslingergregi says:

        my chick would say fuck like a gregi greg
        we create new vocab all the time and create our own personal language like I do in all my relationships

      • tspark156 says:

        I like the lead poisoning from plumbing and paints etc theory. it might also go someway to explain the upturn in violence during the 80s and 90s, due to the massive increase in that period from the nineteen forties, of petroleum, and the adoption of unleaded fuel in the nineties.

      • Greg Eliot says:

        Oil be rayciss?

  18. ballocaust says:

    melanin effect observed in action?

    Implications of a Rising White Rate: Births to unmarried white mothers went from 1-in-6 births in 1990, to (likely) near 2-in-6 by 2010. (turned out to be 3-10)

    Blacks, the Stablest of All? : Speaking of the Black rate, it seems to have maxed-out at some point before 1990. It showed ~0 net growth 1994-2010.

    http://hailtoyou.wordpress.com/2010/12/30/share-of-births-to-unmarried-mothers-by-race-1990-2010/
    http://www.census.gov/prod/2013pubs/acs-21.pdf

    would explain odd violence dip from 94 to now

    • Maybe the easier access to abortion is another factor.

      Kids indirectly cause a lot of stress.

      Less kids = less stress = less violent conflicts with boyfriends/children/family etc etc

      Less reason for the bad boy who impregnated her to be around thus less occasions and reasons to fight.

      Just a theory…

      • gunslingergregi says:

        kind of funny the educated would call someone white trash but the people they referring to would not kill there own baby
        more irony I guess

      • gunslingergregi says:

        then those same educated people can’t afford to have more than two or not ready for one but yet the poor can have more on a much lower income who is smart and who is dumb

      • gunslingergregi says:

        the supposed bottom of barrel don’t murder their own fucking baby even knowing it will be taken away that chick I know still carried that baby to term and got it taken
        the world is upside down

    • Pijama Wearing Ninja says:

      That violence dip is explained by your war on drugs. It’s not really that complicated and it doesn’t require round about retarded assumptions. Drug users have a higher propensity for violent crime and putting them in prison before they commit said crimes lowers the violent crime rate. Maybe this isn’t popular with autistic libertarians, but it’s how the real world works. Actually, most of it is putting black men in prison. Without abortion and without the war on drugs, your crime rates would have probably went up due to demographics.

  19. gunslingergregi says:

    ya can’t actually believe the stats on that particular item on the agenda cause
    it is selectively enforced

    • gunslingergregi says:

      the nigs that beat a bitch downtown do not have a police record from it
      even if the bitch presses charges

      • gunslingergregi says:

        if you want a dose of real life go to real court a few times you will learn a lot

  20. gunslingergregi says:

    although my bitch was kind of proud she thinks I put a crack in her skull from when she gave me permission to beat her
    i’m like so that’s all it takes to make a bitch in this area yours we were laughing

  21. Mark Minter says:

    I think a lot of you are “jumping the gun” on this data. I take the categories rather literally, “one female adult with children”, and subsequently, go with the whole “single mom” thing in the way it is politically correct. Do not necessarily assume that “single mom” means “never married with children”. It also incorporates divorced women. Inevitably both groups, ‘divorced females with children” and “never married with children”, constitute women in combative, antagonistic relationships with men.

    The wars over money, custody, child support, anger over visitation, over post-marital relationships between divorcing and divorced parents inevitably lead to more relationship strife and violence than the other relationship statuses.

    Likewise this “never married with children” category can have aspects that also lead to confrontation. This women is imposing children on a man that does not wish a traditional relationship with her and she is going to fuck with this man. She feels she is owed work, time, money, support from this man. If he is engaged with the child, she feels she can fuck with him over visitation if she wants to and if he isn’t engaged then she can fuck with him over that.

    What this data does do is that it flies in the face of the horseshit sold to me in college sociology classes that “domestic violence” is about “those men” wanting to “control” those women, those jealous men that beat their wives in order to keep them subdued. What is going on here is this woman is in the face of the man, be it a husband she is has separated from or some man that she is sticking with a child. She is assaulting, combative, belligerent, and bellicose. And she is quick to provoke him and equally quick to extract retribution by picking up the phone and calling the police. Or she is provoking him and arguments ensue to the point that neighbors call in the police.

    If you superimpose a chart with birth rates over this chart, you will see a falling birthrate corresponding to the drops in the level of incidents reported. Note the drops during the recessions in 2004-2004, and uptick as the economy recovered, 2005-2007, and also easy money second mortgages were available to women, as well as the drop during the Great Recession 2007-2009. The slight rise since 2009 is probably due to some lag in the effect of the recession on family breakup. Men have not really gone back to work, at least during the time frame shown in the data 2009-2010, and women were probably giving them enormous shit over not coming across with the cash.

    This data to me shows one thing. Bitches gonna be bitches. The next CH post after this one asks “who is more manipulative, men or women?”. Girlfriend don’t stop manipulating just cause she got you into a relationship. She got those skillz to manipulate your ass into getting into the back of the police car. She got ways of working you and playing you into putting herself into exactly the position to extract that pound of flesh from you. Get on the adversarial side with your baby mama and she will throw down and the po-pos be all up in your life. You then be meetin’ all sort of new kinds of people, D.A.s, probation officers, other poor fools in the jailhouse, anger management counselors, divorce lawyers. Shit, the list just goes on and on.

  22. Promethean says:

    In Australia; single motherhood has become the unofficial national passtime and national sport.

    • Truth. It’s incredibly hard to find a girl over 25 without kids, and in some areas it’s closer to 20.

      • wolfie65 says:

        Gotcha beat. Around here, if she’s over 16 and even just a little bit cute, she’s almost guaranteed to have at least 1 kid. A high school teacher friend of mine has a girl in his class who’s 13 with 2 kids. At 22, they have 3-5, twice divorced, and are embittered, quickly fattening YouGoGrrrrrllls. Still holding out for Brad Pitt, though.

    • lyudmil says:

      Abortion seems to be the new normal in my corner of the world (Bulgaria – if Europe were a theme park, this would be the house of horrors). More abortions than births and 60% births out of wedlock. Throw in gypsoes at 4.8 kids/mother and a High School graduation rate of 0.5%. Within 20 years this place will be a hole in the ground.

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  24. Markus says:

    Single mothers live together with men that are not the fathers of their child(ren). That is the problem, genetically these children are “in the way” for a new reproduction … the mothers are targeted for that and nothing else.

  25. dont-trust-the-stat says:

    many of those statistics are rather suspect, there are a few authoritative articles that explain that reports of violence and homicide by women against men are suppressed both in scientific research and in the legal system.

    However some depressing statistics are not fully suppressed: in some “advanced” countries children under 1 year of have suffer a homicide rate 4 times higher than women (and men twice as high as women).

    It is easy to imagine which gender is more likely to perform post-birth abortions of so many babies, but this is not mentioned in most statistical reports.

  26. Tam the Bam says:

    So what’s the gray dashed line in the graph then? Lesbians?

  27. Tam the Bam says:

    Lyudmil, don’t worry mate, within 20 years the whole lot of you will be signing on in Dagenham, gippoes and all (they’re here already though, feet under the table, along with all your other crooks on the run).
    Pile in, the more the merrier! Our government’s aim is to beat Singapore in the “highest population density on the planet” stakes.

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