There’s no question modern American women are experiencing a mass delusion of unwarranted high self-esteem, attention whoring syndrome, and entitlement. The relevance for the inveterate player who must wade through this American Woman… Fuck Yeah! muck is, “How do I handle the entitlement complexes of girls gone egotastically wild?”.
Glad you asked! For most of you, the first signs that you are dealing with an entitlement whore will be the text-based shit test, aka the “shit text”. Why will this be the first sign? Because a lot of girls who cannot adequately project their fantastic degree of entitlement under pressure in face-to-face interaction will find the nerve and the creative juice to stroke their egos later in the carefully crafted follow-up text.
A perfect example of this is explained below, in an RSD video featuring a PUA named Todd. Normally, these CH posts that reference various industry leaders in pick-up cause the comments section to erupt in nerdy internecine player war, which drives away better commenters. Therefore, it would do all of us a world of good if everyone so disposed would kindly refrain from polluting the comments with the drama of family squabbles. Leave that sort of stuff for the ladies.
Watch the first video here. It’s good. (The second video dealing with the mentality of abundance is worthwhile as well.)
If you get a shit text, you’re on the right track. As Todd correctly notes, any response is a positive indication of interest. (“Fuck off” might be an exception to this rule.)
At 4:09, you will hear what is probably the most well-known (and well-hated) entitlement whore shit text.
“Can you keep me from getting bored?”
Now before you listen to the video any further, try to figure out how you would reply if you received the above shit text from a girl. Take a few minutes if need be.
Got something in mind? Ok, now let’s hear how Todd replied.
“No.”
He waits a little while, then:
“Actually, yes I can. But if you can’t keep yourself entertained we’re not going to get along anyway, so it doesn’t matter.”
Personally, I would have stopped at “No.”, but the extended version is just as good. You’ll note in Todd’s second reply that he has essentially disqualified the girl as a potential date if she doesn’t step up and improve her attitude. The lesson here should be obvious: Don’t dance to an entitlement whore’s tune. Throw it back in her face. Demand that she entertain you. Deny her the satisfaction of your approval seeking behavior. Remind her in not so subtle terms that the question isn’t how much value you add to her life, but how much value she adds to yours.
In short, challenge her. Chicks dig men who make them work for the wang.
The CH archives are filled with excellent examples of alpha male text game, so peruse at your leisure. More good replies to the above shit text would be:
– “Sure! How does juggling chainsaws and reciting Shakespeare from memory sound? Will that do the trick?” [Agree and amplify]
(And then when she responds to that, you say, “Wow just wow, you’re easily amused.”)
– “Just how empty is your life?” [Direct challenge]
– “No problem. I’ve got a few pop-up children’s books in the attic.” [Funny insult. Will work better on harsh tankgrrls.]
– “I can do magic tricks. I’ll make your ego disappear.”
– “that’s what netflix is for.”
– “does this work on most men?”
And the infamously unpunctuated fan favorite,
– “gay”
The important point is not the exact wording of your reply. It’s the attitude that is epitomized by the reply. Any of those replies above work, because they are infused with the proper aloof and carefree alpha male attitude.
You want to know what replies without the alpha attitude look like?
– “I’ll try.”
– “Well, there’s this really cool gallery I can take you to.”
– “Give me a chance and get to know me. I think you’ll be impressed.”
– “We have to go on a date first and find out.”
– “I love you!”
How do you imagine a hot chick who thinks the solar system is vagiocentric will respond to replies like that? That’s right… radio silence. Tingle Flux Capacitor: Deactivated.
As Todd stated, you pass the shit test first, and then you can proceed to moving the girl toward a date. Your frame of mind should be, “What a dork she is”, not “How do I answer the right way so that we can meet up asap and I can get laid?” In other words, like an alpha male, you LIVE IN THE MOMENT.
The video is worth watching in full. Todd hits on the four archetypical text responses you will get from a girl:
1. The shit text
Handling discussed above.
2. The logical question
This is the normal, shy girl reponse. She likes you, but isn’t witty or conceited enough to pull off the shit text. Key here is to avoid entrapment in a logic loop. The conversation will quickly go dry if you take her logical questions seriously. Answer playfully, and quickly guide the conversation to more fruitful topics. You have to show a little personality here, because she won’t do it for you.
3. The overt compliment
AKA beta bait. Whatever you do, don’t chomp down! You will have smoked yourself out as a desperate, undersexed beta eager to lap up her flattery and promises of sexytime. Avoid getting caught up in a volley of innuendo and double entendres. Just calmly offer a place and time to meet. Save the routine-breaking sexy texts for girls you are already fucking.
4. Silence
The worst response. She either doesn’t remember you or isn’t interested. Possibly, though, she just isn’t interested enough. Better still, she might be dating around so much that she lost track of you. Todd recommends sending “value offering” messages, and to keep them “fun and flippant”. Since you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain, it makes sense to offer some value — an expectation of good times, excitement injected into to her dull life — to a girl who’s investment in you is near zero. In a way, this is a form of “chick bait”. If you seem like a fun guy different from all the rest, it’s the rare girl who can resist your lure. This is because most girls are not interesting in themselves, and require the company of interesting men to spice up their lives with newness and novelty.
No.
Use that word whenever possible with women. She’ll give you plenty of chances.
“Can you keep me from getting bored?”
The truth of the matter is that bored [or easily bore-able] people are themselves the most boring people of all, but that’s too much to type in a text message [and probably too profound of a thought for this stupid entitled Obama-voting ho to grok], so, instead, you could just reply,
“Boring.”
This is the universal secret super-power key to the universe… the word “no”.
I use this word as much as I can.
Have the universe restate itself and its needs on your terms and according to your calendar. End of.
∞
Tits.
BIG tits
I like ‘no’. Also like ‘Wear a hot dress and high heels…’
I think getting a chick to dress for you is an important foundation of something
exchick yea the dresses in my closet hanging got no one to wear them for
he he he
“wear a thong” is always a good response.
Esp. as a non sequitor:
Her: “Huh?”
Me:” Oh, I wasn’t paying attention, just giving you advice for when you come over.”
Her: “lol.
Me: “Make it a pink one.”
Her: “Maybe I will/so what else should I wear/etc.”
sounds like a good one
I’m stealing “wear a thong”… espeeeeeeecially as an all-purpose non sequitur. Thanks whorefinder.
SO long as you give me proper attribution when you say it, I won’t sue.
RAPE!
I just used it… no attribution. So basically I just raped you with my fingers, aka Steubenville Rape.
You could reply “Yes. Go put on your hottest outfit.” Then lead her through a bunch of increasingly sexy activities.
Here’s what I always use!!!
Her: What are we going to do? or Where are we going?
Me: Awwwww…. Trying to figure out what shoes to wear?!?!
Her: How did you know?
Me: Heels!!!
Me: Don’t worry about where we’re going. Just look HOT so we match!
I seriously have been saying this for years now and it always gets the job done!!!
– “I love you!”
””””
lol
that actually might work or not
I did ask a chick at club to marry me lol but ahh
yea she always did remember me at the very least and every time she saw me with another chick she sequestered herself with a friend talking bout me
it def made me stand out in her life
I don’t know her or anything though he he he
I was fucking around
– “Sure! How does juggling chainsaws and reciting Shakespeare from memory sound? Will that do the trick?” [Agree and amplify]
(And then when she responds to that, you say, “Wow just wow, you’re easily amused.”)
”””””””’
lol
how do you handle this shit test
dude comes out with a tire iron
tells you if anyone got between him and his woman hed tear their throat out
umm
take MMA classes. seriously. i took about a year and a half b/c i was bored with the gym. better shape, better game, and while unassuming (155 lbs and look like a 17 year old) i can choke a mofo out.
yea I was checking into mma recently he he he
I kind of been wanting to get in a fight lately
haven’t been in a real one in a long time its always just show
until someone gets shot I guess is only prob nowadays
at the club with new chick and chick was crying outside my chick knew her and ran over was comforting her all kinds of chick around her
guess dude she was with 12 years got shot by a dude that was in the club
who did it and suposedly said i’m a man now
she like how the fuck he not in jail
but I guess why go through life worrying bout getting shot if it happens it happens
I know why dude scared though cause of all the shit I got in house marking territory the headbands jeans dresses socks thongs shoes
this chick left her necklace and her id
hung the necklace off the highest point in the house off a lamp
when they leave a id its on
he he he
ex chick my playboy bunny lingerie still there that she put there
i’m like yea I left your challenge up till some chick takes it down
he he he
MMA can’t hurt and is good advice up until the point where you get jumped by a group and/or weapons are involved. I’ve witnessed a shooting and have many other war stories growing up in a majority NAM city. Self-defense is fine but acting like a tough guy is how you end up in the hospital or worse.
gunslingergregi, you are highly uneducated, lack class, and still struggle with the ability to transfer whatever worthless thought your little brain manages to procure into a coherent sentence
please refrain from vandalizing this place any further
Fuck off Gregi is a poet
Is he black?
i don’t think so, but i don’t know. everyone here is a bunch of words on a screen.
dude, what I meant was…
nevermind.
http://oi49.tinypic.com/vymhr8.jpg
@thwack i don’t get into the racial politics here, broj. that’s for you, Eliot, and regardless, it isn’t hard to grasp that you were making a tongue-in-cheek joke regarding “highly uneducated, lack class, and still struggle…” and the fact that many of our denizens would use such language to describe you and your kin. more importantly, it wasn’t that funny, sorry.
yeahokcool
everyone here is a bunch of words on a screen.
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Indeed, thats why you can “see”. See what?
See what you lookin at.
Neo : Is that…
Cypher : The Matrix? Yeah.
Neo : Do you always look at it encoded?
Cypher : Well, you have to. The image translators work for the
construct program. But there’s way too much information to
decode the Matrix. You get used to it…I, I don’t even see
the code. All _I_ see is…blond, brunette, red-head…
#2. Ahhh. Enlightening. I’ve found that quite annoying in the past–hey, I asked a real, non-bitchy question, and instead I get back something like “lol whatever” or “OK, Perfesser, wanna take off your mortarboard for a minute?”
Dude, I wanted to know if you liked Tarantino movies because I’m having friends over for a marathon and wanted to see if you’d like an invite.
I always just figured that the flippant response to a genuine question indicated that he was Just Not That Into Me, and would stop answering. Is it possible, based on #2, that they were just trying to run Game?
Its possible you’re one of the few women who think logically.
Digit ratio……and CLOWN RAPE!
whatever choices you have made in your life….that was funny
p.s. remember that game is about a bunch of logically-minded men learning how to deal with a species whose words and actions are contradictory, irrational, and illogical.
Bitches be crazy, yo (as our sub-human boys would say).
You know, I’m starting to get it. The more “field report” stuff you guys post on here, the more I’m starting to realize that bitches do indeed be crazy. I just don’t have a lot of experience with them, is the problem. Most of my friends are LDRs too, as are my few female colleagues.
Case in point: Took me ages to figure out what you guys meant by “shit test,” and when I finally got it, I thought, “Well, that’s stupid. What’s the point? Either you’d like to get to know him better or you don’t. Why’s he got to jump through hoops for you to figure that out? And if he nicely offers to buy you a drink, why does that lower his value in your eyes?”
Since you are a girl, putting your effort into being hot, will pay off much more for you, than putting your effort into learning text game, or understanding guys.
Effort into being hot is understanding guys.
Manjaw. I can take care of my body, dress femininely, wear my hair long and be careful with my makeup to the point that I’m not a blight upon the landscape, but “hot” is just really not in the cards.
Unfortunately, it is this way for a lot of women. The sad fact of the bell-curve is that only a small portion of the population is truly hot, with the majority falling somewhere in that 4-6 region. *shrug*
So I’m trying to take care of the other things within my control…like understanding guys…and I also find this stuff fascinating.
Suck my dick, play with my balls, make me a sandwich sometimes, and don’t talk so much.
Dave Chapelle
(Paraphrased)
Even if you have a slight case of manjaw, being thin and feminine will do wonders for you compared to other girls.
I respect your honesty and self-knowledge. I would say, keep doing what you’re doing. Mostly, stay thin. That is in your control. And marry sooner rather than later, since age is crucial for women.
I predict good things are coming for you.
True, but sometimes always trying to lot hot can be boring for smart girls.
Yes, and having a job, being solvent, and having some modicum of ambition can be boring for some guys. Both the girls bored by making an effort to look hot and the guys bored by putting effort forth in life will be duly penalized by disinterest by anyone worthwhile from the opposite sex.
INTJ chick……they are like the 3% that will jack you up. They always have little dogs because they need something to nurture but a baby isn’t “logical”
Boom! Tilikum brings the science. How did you know I’m INTJ? Seriously.
Only I don’t have a dog; I spend too much time on the road to properly care for one. I have two cats instead.
Classic INTJ response – perfectly logical but misses the point entirely.
What Southern Man said. Tilikum says something hilarious, and RD explains why she doesn’t have a dog.
Don’t feel bad, though, RD–I used to do exactly the same thing. Until I realized it wasn’t getting me laid. (It won’t be as big an impediment for you.)
Case in point: Took me ages to figure out what you guys meant by “shit test,” and when I finally got it, I thought, “Well, that’s stupid. What’s the point? Either you’d like to get to know him better or you don’t. Why’s he got to jump through hoops for you to figure that out? And if he nicely offers to buy you a drink, why does that lower his value in your eyes?”
—Clown Rape Girl, if society were only filled with women like you, we wouldn’t be collapsing.
CLOWN RAPE!
If I said, “How far can you get that flower to spray, whorefinder?” would that be a shit test?
How about if I asked you to honk your nose for me, just a little?
“That;s just what we call pillow talk, baby.”
“First you want to kill me. Now you want to kiss me. Blow.”
“Hey, She-Bitch: let’s go.”
“You found me beautiful, once.”
“Baby, you got real ugly.”
“Good. Bad. I’m the one with the gun.”
(BTW, to my horror, in the Boomstick Director’s Cut, they changed that line to, “I’m not that good.” Boo, hiss.)
“This is my BOOMSTICK!”
“The twelve-gauge double-barreled Remington. S-Mart’s top of the line. You can find this in the sporting goods department. That’s right, this sweet baby was made in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Retails for about a hundred and nine, ninety five. It’s got a walnut stock, cobalt blue steel, and a hair trigger. That’s right. Shop smart. Shop S-Mart.”
(I admit I had to Google that one to get it right.)
Ash makes everything better.
Hail to the king, Baby!
“Dude, I wanted to know if you liked Tarantino movies because I’m having friends over for a marathon and wanted to see if you’d like an invite.”
Q for you. When you were planning to invite him over for a marathon with your friends:
1) Had you fucked him yet?
And 2) had you decided fully whether you wanted to fuck him yet? (ie – were you hoping under the invite that it would lead to you and him fucking that night, or him romantically seducing you or however you want to put it lol)
There’s an important game-related point in this that I’d like to make, based on your answers.
Well, WordPress just ate my last reply; I hope it doesn’t eat this one.
1. No.
2. Not 100% decided but potentially interested.
lol, ya I figured both of those responses.
Not going to address what he was trying to do with his response because fuck it who knows, dude might be a game genius or a retard, and I’m not real concerned with girl-probs.
But for the guys reading I wanted to point out how girls think and why, if you haven’t fucked her yet, you NEVER want to go do whatever it is she invites you to do.
What happens is guys want to get the lay, and the girl invites them over, or out to a bar she’ll be at, or to wherever she works (like a shooter-girl working at the club that night), or to some event she’s going to, etc. If she’s super hot or a shooter-girl at a club etc. she might even txt him all this flirty “baby come see me tonight I miss youuu” shit.
Now understandably the guy logically thinks “sweet, she WANTS to see me, she WANTS me to come, I’m totally gonna’ get to bang her!!” and he runs off to wherever she is.
But what ACTUALLY happens like 90% of the time, if you go meet up with a girl on her terms/ground, before you’ve actually stuck your P in her V?
You get to her place to watch Tarantino movies and she has like 4 friends there. 1 is a Mother Hen who hates your ass because she liked the girl’s ex more than you. 1 is a socially awkward penguin who doesn’t know when to take a hint and leave you two alone for some privacy. The other 2 are Orbiter White Knight chodes who have been in her friend-zone for years but are both hoping tonight’s the night they finally get her and they sure as shit aren’t having any of this new guy so they linger and don’t leave and try to out-wait you to be alone with her, and she’s either oblivious or pretends to be oblivious to their crushes on her.
AWESOME LOGISTICS. lol. The end result is you waste your day watching movies you’re only watching because you wanted to bang her, and you’re stuck hanging with people who don’t want you to fuck her or don’t realize you’re trying to fuck her, and you end up going home with your dick in your hand because you have shit to do the next morning and can’t out-wait the Orbiters all night.
And then you’re annoyed with the girl for inviting you over but then making it extremely difficult to fuck her. You think “wtf??? I thought she wanted to fuck me?! Why would she invite those stupid guys over? Why wouldn’t she tell her friends it’s time for them to go home so we can be alone? (she can’t do this, of course, it sets off her ASD) Why was her ex-boyfriend there and she was fucking FLIRTING with him in front of me?! wtf??”
Another scenario is her inviting you out to the bar she’s at. So you think “sweet, a girl inviting me to drink with her at the bar, she totally wants to fuck me!” and you cancel your plans with your friends and hop in a cab to the other side of the city to some shitty bar she said she’s at.
Of course, when you get there, there are 4 other dudes. 2 of them are randoms her friends flirted with to get free drinks, and the other 2 are Orbiters she txted the same time she txted you…of course she wants YOU, she doesn’t WANT those Orbiters…but they’re going to make sure they’re driving her home White Knight style later in the night. And her ASD will be too far through the roof to tell them “go away guys I want to suck this new guy’s dick”.
On top of that, she’s a regular at that bar so all the staff and everyone there knows her. And despite loving the attention she might try to make time for you, but the other guys there don’t want to give her time with you…even if they aren’t her Orbiters, they’re her “friends” and don’t know you and automatically don’t trust you because you can befriend a few of them but not the whole fucking bar of regulars.
End of the night, your buddies are txting “how’d it go?” and you’re alone in a booth txting “fuuuck can’t get rid of these stupid guys!!” while they’re buying her drinks and flirting with her in front of you because they don’t give a fuck about befriending you, they have more history with her than you do and have been after her for longer than you’ve known her. You cab it all the way back home solo and annoyed with her.
The next day she’s completely oblivious to why you would be annoyed. And on top of it, she gives you shit for leaving without saying goodbye like you’re the asshole lol (meanwhile in reality she was surrounded by 4 Orbiters and flirting with them for 20 min when you finally got bored enough to say “fuck this” and walk out).
This is SUCH a frequent thing that happens, it’s ridiculous.
It’s different AFTER you’ve fucked. Once you’ve fucked, you’re a fuckbuddy not an Orbiter. Then you can go in and just grab her and make out with her and be like “fuck all these other guys” and they can’t do anything about it because you’ve had your dick in her and know you will again later that night.
That’s why my questions were “Had you fucked him yet?” and “Had you decided you wanted to yet?”
Because Rappaccini hadn’t fucked him yet, but was “potentially interested”, she invites him over to hang with a bunch of her friends which in her mind is a friendly invite and she doesn’t think “how exactly is he going to fuck me with these logistics I’m setting up?” or “how is this meet-up conducive at ALL to building attraction between us?” She just figures it’ll “just happen” because to girls it “just happens”.
Basically girls do the equivalent of “I really need to borrow your toaster, can you bring it over? btw I just installed an electric fence, 5 guard dogs, a spike pit, and my doorbell is electrified! What? You mean that’s going to be a problem? I don’t understand why it would be a problem!!”
Often she legitimately has the best of intentions…like she IS into the guy and DOES hope they’ll sleep together, but then she shits out a bunch of obstacles to that happening and is oblivious to why it doesn’t happen…and then ends up losing attraction for the guy because he wasn’t able to make it happen lol
You might think this behavior is insane. And you are correct.
But it DOES make sense. Because remember, she’s screening you for Provider potential. So what’s a good way to find out more about you without having to have sex with you first? Invite you out to a situation where it’s impossible to fuck her. She gets more face time with you and can sub-consciously do more screening and have you invest more, and she doesn’t have to fuck you because there’s no way you’ll overcome all the obstacles she sub-consciously set up.
Anyway, so my point is: never ever ever go meet up with a girl on her terms before you’ve fucked her. You are 1000x better off flaking on her or replying to her gay invite with nonsense etc. and then inviting her out on your terms (to meet up with you at your bar where you’re socially proofed, to come over to your house where you won’t invite anyone else over or anyone you invite over you’ll happily tell to GTFO when it’s time to fuck her, etc.).
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This also translates into another area where girls basically cockblock themselves: Letting the girl lead the interaction.
When a girl is leading the conversation, she’ll ask questions that are based around screening you as a provider and setting a commitment frame, because that’s what girls generally want.
So her leading the conversation will be full of “So what do you do?” and “How long have you lived here?” and “What’s your background?” and “How many brothers/sisters do you have?” zzzzz…
Is any of that making her gina tingle? No. It’s her logical brain screening you to be a Provider before you’ve even fucked her. The end result? If you fail her screening, you don’t get laid OR another date. If you PASS her screening, even if you PASS it, she places you in the Provider category. And do girls fuck a Provider on the first date? No, they don’t want him to think she’s a slut…they make him wait a few dates and invest in her first (of course they go home and txt a non-Provider like myself or have you drop her at my place lol).
When YOU take charge, you can skip all that bullshit and keep the conversation about sex and spiking her buying temperature and running her through emotions and doing push/pull so you can get her in an aroused excited attracted state where you can actually fuck her. She’s not going to do that to herself when you let her lead.
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So whenever you let the girl lead the conversation, or accept an invite to meet up with her on her terms, you’re basically letting her sabotage her own seduction…a seduction that she actually WANTS lol
And you can’t get mad at girls for this…most of the time (aside from the occasional chick who LIKES to watch guys fight over her) they do it with just complete obliviousness to how they’re cockblocking themselves and you.
Best to just ignore her invites and learn to lead the conversation. A guy who answers all her boring mundane questions and goes out to her favorite bar to meet her is infinitely less likely to get the lay than a guy who ignores her questions/invites and steamrolls over her and then has her meet up with him on his terms.
Thanks for answering the Qs Rapp. I had a feeling this would be a good demonstration of these rules lol
You’re welcome, and thank you.
Fascinating to see how this is processed from the other side, Ya.
You’re right–there’s no malice there. What we’re thinking, consciously, is “I’m actually interested in this guy, but I don’t know him very well yet. I want to get to know him better before I make any decisions I can’t unmake, but all my life training is that those initial stages of getting to know him should happen somewhere ‘public’ or at least ‘in my comfort zone.’ And I should keep it low-key so both of us have a graceful ‘out’ if we decide we don’t like each other that much after all.”
Right exactly, and that makes COMPLETE sense in your mind.
Unfortunately we know that familiarity and comfort and knowing everything about someone, especially before they’ve had sex with you, can do more harm than good in terms of attraction. I mean what else is a Friend Zoned guy but a guy who’s spent a ton of time with you mostly in public places while you got to know everything about him? Compare that or the sexual attraction a wife has for her predictable unmysterious husband 10 years into a marriage, to the tingles from the mysterious bad boy charmer who sweeps you off your feet.
Your goal of “getting to know him” is often in direct competition with his goal of “put my penis inside her”.
Unfortunately only one of those goals tends to lead to an actual relationship…the girl’s goal ends up with another friend-zoned orbiter (and she can’t understand why the spark just wasn’t there after he DLVs himself by not being able to overcome the insane obstacle course she set up for him). The guy’s goal of actually banging before spending a month hanging out with her platonically, ends up with a sexual exciting passionate relationship.
So when a guy voluntarily meets a girl on her terms he should understand that her goal is essentially to friend zone him (logically she thinks she’ll want to fuck him the more she knows him but again we all know that’s not the way it usually works or all these friend-zone orbiters would be up to their ears in pussy) and so he should ignore her invites, flake on them, make up excuses to avoid them, etc. and then counter-offer either then or another day, a meet-up on HIS terms, where it might actually lead to sex which might actually lead to a relationship.
This is why I call it cockblocking yourself, because the end goal if he slept with you would be closer to what you want than if he orbits you lol
I think it’s fascinating. It’s like someone on a diet stocking their fridge with junk food and not being able to connect the dots that its going to sabotage their goal. It’s one of the many little cognitive dissonances that make up a girl’s wiring.
It’s similar to when a girl meets a bad boy, then slowly reforms him into a nice guy, and then is mystified that she’s no longer attracted to him and leaves him for a bad boy, who she again starts to beta…and the end time she’s completely oblivious to how her own attraction switches work and how she’s ultimately fucking herself over lol
Technology really works against us sometimes. Its just so easy to reach out that way instead of waiting until people see each other in person. A lot of promise is destroyed in overtexting or otherwise overcommunicating. Usually, but not always, I like to talk to a guy on the phone once before I go out with him. I have a date on Saturday with someone who I’ve hardly communicated with at all for most of this week after he wrote to me early last week. We’ll see how it goes.
RD, they weren’t necessarily trying consciously to run Game…they may merely have been observant men who’d noticed that talking logically to girls puts them in a state of mind roughly opposite to horniness (not disgust, just left-brained-ness), and most girls have to be broken out of linear thinking to get horny.
I’m surprised and curious that you took it as “Not That Into Me”. You didn’t realize it was flirting? Does having a serious conversation with a guy get you in the mood?
“Will you keep me from getting bored?”
“Only boring people get bored.”
Or, the always useful: “8======>~”
8===============> is truly awesome
(___)====D~~~
“Only boring people get bored.”
Exactly what my husband tells our 6 year old when she complains that she is getting bored.
We are not bringing her up with the idea she is a little princess, so hopefully she won’t be asking silly questions when she grows up.
good for you guys.
I would tell my younger sister to pat her head, rub her stomach, and jump up and down on one leg. All at the same time. She never appreciated it, but at least she came to expect the answer.
4. Chick bait.
-Let’s say she bites a little, get’s a little flirty and not much more. I end the convo should I retext in a couple of a days or GFTOW?
Also Ize thinks badzzz grammarz is key for getting eventual butthexzzz.
the gbfm text:
‘lotsa cockas 4 u’
The “gay” response has proven its value time and time again against shit texts, no matter how little it makes sense as a response. I passed a “flake” shit test with “gay” before…texted nothing else. after a while she texted a longer explanation of the flake, that it was a work related function, she had to be there, etc. My response…”even gayer”
Sounds a wee bit butthurt.
How about “lol”?
∞
Heartiste,
The mate value study (Back & Penke) that you tweeted earlier contains some really solid data. The graphs on sociosexuality & agreeableness vs. actually chosen are pretty amazing—the difference between men & women could not be more stark, and are more confirmations, as if any more are needed, for game (“applied charismatic sociosexuality”) & the CH outlook on intersexual relations.
“Can you keep me from getting bored?”
—-Everyone knows the correct way to keep an entitlement whore from being bored.
RAPE!
Because nothing gives a feminazi a lifetime of writing material like the five minutes she was face down in a back alley by a guy with a clown mask on.calling her a whore.
I prefer the “If you where a mini-dress, yes” type of response to the “Will you keep me from getting bored” question
“rape isn’t boring”
I couldn’t like this comment more.
I remember some kid asking the porn star Houston out to the prom. This was after she did the Houston 500—i.e. had nearly 500 guys gangbang her, in what was then the record. She said yes, and they recorded it. What’s more,, afterwards, they had a relationship—i.e. he started banging her. Then they broke up.
Good for him, except the relationship part.
Howard Stern’s TV show followed them to the prom. It was hilarious. I assume that’s what you meant by the recording. All of the senior chicks at the prom were aghast and so were the parents. The kids’ mom didn’t seem to have a clue as to what was going on. If I recall correctly, Stern reported that the kid moved in with her in LA and was nailing her everyday and not doing anything else.
She looks frightening today.
Hating on an attractive woman (especially a slutty woman who will get a lot of short term attention) is a very poor strategy for single women. You are communicating that you’re intimidated by the woman, and are therefore signaling that you are of lower value. Even if the woman is in the right, men enjoy the “she’s jealous” narrative.
Be extra nice to beautiful girls, and butterface sluts with good bodies-especially around other men. Hating on pretty girls makes girls look pathetic.
I’m surprised Stern hasn’t resurrected that TV show in some form. Since he exiled himself to satellite radio, he’s really been miserable not being a part of the weekly celebrity gossip. Surely Spike TV or other basic-cable entity could foot the bill and broadcast some choice bits of his show—hell, I think XM Sirius could use the promotion as well, they should try.
“Will you keep me from getting bored?”
I suspect I am wrong with “Jesus only helps those who help themselves.”
Actually, I think that’s pretty funny.
So, in other words, it won’t work on normal women.
You’re not.
Works best on Christian girls.
“Mostly by fucking.”
I’ve dealt with silence a bunch of times. Key is persistence. Let them cool off for a couple weeks or months if need be (depending on the girl) and then hit her up outta the blue. Don’t contact again too soon or you’l come off as needy. I’ve had girls who I re-initiated contact with months later who all of a sudden wanted to talk to me and meet up. Girls as seasonal creatures. They might be in a/or multiple relationships at the time or think the options they have are better than you. Fortune changes for them all the time. I do have problems with girls who deliberately ignore me and they definitely get cut from LTR potential but they are still good fb prospects.
Shit texts need to be dealt with like the guy says. Just pass it. Don’t try to do more or before you know it you will have lost control and the conversation will go downhill.
the key is to have them hitting you up out of the blue
No, the key is RAPE!
lot of interactons
what you won’t get in general
is the abslolute hottest girls
and you won’t get the girls you are compatable with
””””’
from vid
yea it takes a lot to find the good one anyway that is for you
but yea enjoy your time with the other chicks too
and then they can lead you to hotter chicks as well
and even if you fucking whores they also know regular chicks you could have them hook you up with
“Can you keep me from getting bored?”
god that is the single most boring thing a person can text boring mcbore bore
“Can you keep me from getting bored?”
A1: Only from behind.
A2: With or without cloths?
A3: Can I include your girlfriend?
A4: Yeah, but I have to videotape it so you won’t forget.
“try rubbin ur privates thinkin of me”
“that’s not my job”
“that’s below my paygrade”
“bring hte movies”
Bring the movies works well. Have used it a couple of times since reading it in the CH archives.
The kernel of the best response is in Todd’s too long response:
“It doesn’t matter.”
I love you!
u boring
Remind her in not so subtle terms that the question isn’t how much value you add to her life, but how much value she adds to yours.
In short, challenge her. Chicks dig men who make them work for the wang.
”””””””””””
this is my forte
yea what is a chick doing for me
where do u live?
hell
“Can you keep me from getting bored?”
Not my yob man.
No, and can’t cure cancer either .
Can’t make silk from pigs ear.
Someone’s entitled =O
“Can you keep me from getting bored?”
Your keeping me from getting hard
A big part of my txt game is that I make EVERYTHING sexual as often as possible.
1) Shit Text:
“I’m bored. Entertain me.”
“I’m not sending you dick pics, sorry.”
Typically if we haven’t banged and she’s shy she’ll try to backpeddal with a “lol that’s not what I meant!” response which I’ll just plow over with a “Lies. I read your mind. You’re thinking about me spinning it like a helicopter right now. Perv. Now I have work to do, so quit distracting me.” and usually I can escalate that into getting her to send me titty-pics to try to distract me.
Or she’ll agree and play along sarcastically like “aww how did you know that was my plan all along!” which means she’s DTF in general and I’ll just escalate the same way (“I’m at work quit distracting me with your dirty talk or I’ll have to hide a boner under my desk.” which usually also leads to titty pics), and eventually I’ll just scold her for bugging me and arrange a lay for that night.
Note that in both scenarios I’m steering the conversation toward sex (even in an illogical way) and I’m making her react to me (saying something outlandish, accusing her of being a pervert, etc).
2) The Logical Question:
Don’t let girls ask questions. They’re dumb and boring and kill the flirty sexual vibe. A girl will come on here and say shit like “oh I just really wanted to know if he likes this band” but they don’t understand that that’s as helpful to the sexual vibe as a guy asking her “so…do you like this weather we’re having?”
Girls don’t HAVE to worry about setting a sexual tone to the relationship because they have tits so every guy everywhere will attempt to set a sexual tone. So they can’t wrap their head around the concept of “I wanted to fuck him, then I asked him all these logical questions to get to know him better, and then for some reason I didn’t really feel the spark anymore and now he’s my friend I complain about other guys I’m fucking to” They generally don’t understand that they killed the vibe by asking logical boring questions before they’ve started any kind of sexual relationship with the guy, and that the guy helped kill the vibe by answering those questions.
Of course the chick-response to what I just wrote will usually be something like “well I need to get to know a guy before I’m interested in him because girls need trust comfort and a connection before they can feel comfortable having sex with a guy” which is bullshit to anyone with any decent amount of game who fucks girls without telling them his name or what he does for a living etc (and the chick-response to that will of course be “sure slutty girls don’t care but us high-quality women…..”). Or maybe something like “well I know everything about my husband and I love him so quit teaching guys these silly games” if they didn’t read carefully where I wrote that this is all for before you’ve started a sexual relationship together…after you’ve fucked go ahead and ask boring logical questions and start building a deeper relationship.
ANYWAY, that all said, respond sexually even if you answer her question:
“Do you like BandX?”
“Ya, I have 3 of their songs in my sexxin playlist lol”
“What do you do?”
“Flirt with girls and get into trouble.”
“Lol no I mean for work”
“Oh I wouldn’t call it work, it’s actually pretty fun.”
“God you never give me a straight answer”
“Alright come over tonight and I’ll answer all your questions over breakfast.”
“Omg I’m not staying over all night”
“Oh good then I won’t have to make up a fake early-morning business meeting.”
“You’re terrible!! Lol”
“Terribly good in bed, yes, yes I am.”
Again it’s all sexual and making her react to me. Compare that with:
“What do you do?”
“I’m an Accountant at BoringPlace.”
“Oh that’s nice”
“So what do you do?”
“I’m a–”zzzzzzzz…..
In both cases she asks logical questions that will kill the flirty sexual vibe and gina tingles. But how you respond to it determines wether you get friend zoned or her sucking your dick.
3) The Overt Compliment
Again make it sexual.
“you make me laugh!”
“Enjoy it while you can. After I disappoint you in the sack, you’ll say I make you cry.”
“omg”
“You’ll be saying THAT too. Lol”
“Lol!!!”
“You’re kind of cute”
“I’m funny too, be careful it’s a dangerous combo. One minute you’re laughing and thinking about how cute I am and the next you’re naked and handcuffed to my bed. Don’t worry they’ll be the fuzzy handcuffs.”
“Omg you’re crazy!!”
“Crazy in bed. Now quit thinking about sex, I’m trying to get some work done. We can hang out tonight, you free around 7?”
Again it’s just making it sexual and forcing her to react to you. And like CH says push for the meet-up ASAP cause this is an ioi. Do it casually though, and if she turns you down that’s fine, just keep running your game and push again another time. Not a single fuck should be given.
A lot of the hotter girls will turn you down or flake on you the first time just to see how you handle it (do you get butt-hurt because you’re insecure and desperate or do you not give a fuck because you have other hotter girls you can bang instead of her?).
4) Silence
I just say really offensive sexual shit. Either react to me so I can try turning things around, or delete my number, I’m fine with either one lol.
Julien from RSD had a funny one where he’d try calling a girl and she wouldn’t answer the phone so he’d txt “such a slut.” to get her to react…then he’d call and she’d pick up because now she needed to know why he thought she was a slut, and now that she’s on the phone he just goes “oh I was just kidding. So anyway–” and games from there lol
I think it’s in the 2nd half of his “be shameless” video on youtube if you want to hear it told better.
Anyway again the point is to keep things sexual. He could have said “you’re an idiot” but he implied she’s a slut instead, which is sexual. And again he’s forcing her to react to him.
—
As much as I love stuff like “gay” or the feeling of a dropping s really good ego-scathing burn, or being James Bond cool with one-word replies, etc., a lot of that is more for being able to tell your buddies what “cool” thing you said and get props for it, or to assuage your own dented ego (“I showed THAT bitch”), than it is actually efficient and productive for getting the lay.
My txt game is retardedly solid, and I don’t even share my A-material here because I don’t want some chick googling it on a whim…but you can absolutely escalate via txt and rapidly create a sexual vibe/relationship with a chick just by tapping away at your phone screen.
Remember: Turn it sexual and force her to react. Do that in your real life approaches too. The guys who get friend zoned don’t make things sexual (either they’re not sexual themselves or they’ve been socially conditioned to believe that girls aren’t sexual and would be offended), and they react to the girl (answering her logical questions, trying to qualify themselves out of a shit-test, supplicating to her requests for entertainment etc).
Oh, one last note. I have a buddy who would approach girls at tables at the bar and with a bored expression on his face and in his body-language he’d say “Girls, I’m bored. Entertain me.” and just stare at them expectantly. It was a really solid opener for his personality lol the girls loved it and it forced them to react/qualify themselves right from the start.
“Oh, one last note. I have a buddy who would approach girls at tables at the bar and with a bored expression on his face and in his body-language he’d say “Girls, I’m bored. Entertain me.” and just stare at them expectantly. It was a really solid opener for his personality lol the girls loved it and it forced them to react/qualify themselves right from the start.”
Flippin’ the script on these broads. That’s some solid game, right there.
i’m using that
I do enjoy your detailed explanations.
Thank you.
Hmmm. OK. Well, that answers my question about what it means when I get silly/terse responses to logical questions: Apparently, it very well may not be an “I’m not into you, so I’m not going to engage with you intellectually.” I may, in fact, be getting “gamed.”
(But no way am I responding to anything, even over text, with “lol.” I just don’t think I can make myself do it. My personal belief is that anytime you write “lol” in earnest, you lose an IQ point. And every time you yell “Woooo!” in a bar, you lose 10.)
No lols? You don’t ever just find something funny? No wonder you like clownrape. It forces you to laugh.
Oh, I find things funny all the time. (Especially CLOWNRAPE.) I have a stick up my ass about the English language, that’s all. I might write “Ha! That’s hilarious,” or “You’re too funny.”
Is that stick feeling good? Inquiring minds want to know.
It’s been there so long I barely notice it anymore. Except for when there’s a strong breeze; then I can plant the posterior end in the ground and spin like a pinwheel. Good times!
Ladies, if you don’t know what to say, respond with a nudie pic.
I’m rarely at a loss for words
I love it when guys give me a case of the stupids 
Clown rape will do that to you.
I’m not a clownrape kinda gal. Its a pleasant sort of helplessness that I enjoy. Like when you know someone is coming for you, but you weren’t really trying all that hard to get away, anyway.
Making an impression on a woman where she stumbles on her words is gold. If you follow it up with a coy touch, and her breath catches in her throat…
Yes, gold.
There you are
You consistently make my day 
It is good to “see” you too Kate.
lol
@yareally just wanted to drop some props. good shit, bro
@YaReally
Just write a book/run a boot camp/start a blog with a paypal link so I can throw money at you already. Christ.
“Shut up and take my money!”
YR,
How would you recommend texting a girl that you’ve slept with, but who lives in another city. Like frequency of texts and content, in order to ensure that she’s still DTF whenever she’s in town?
Gold. Where’s your blog?
YaReally you’re sexy. Nice post
Julien will be here in a few days I’ll give him a spanking when I see him.
“Can you keep me from getting bored.”
zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
holy fucking lol’ed so hard at the ice cream man video in CH’s twitter. Dude is a boss. That interaction has like a dozen little dynamics going on in their facial expressions and body-language. You can tell everything about their relationship and his alpha value from this like 10 second clip.
Beta guys with no game will think he was a jerk and got in trouble when he got home and he should buy her ice cream and apologize.
Red Pill guys know exactly how that guy’s night went. Lol
The 2nd pause they do, that facial expression and body language of like “bitch you HEARD me. Did you think I was joking?” is the one that you want to give when you tell a girl not to do something and she does it anyway to shit-test you. Lol.
Love this clip, and I like that the announcer guys are focused entirely on her reactions and how she feels and how much trouble guy “know” they’re in when their woman looks at them like that etc. it’s a good demonstration of how socially conditioned brainwashing has most of the guys in society reacting to women and worried about appeasing women and not being “in the doghouse”. It wouldn’t even occur to them that that guy could have the mentality of “you said you didn’t want ice cream when I offered so too bad. Next time don’t be retarded. Okay you can have a bit now that you’ve learned your lesson.”
It’s like watching a really small minor Soft Next in action. Beautiful.
Hey is there any way you could break down my latest FR? I only ask because I’m leaving soon for spring break, so I’m not gonna get the chance to ‘sarge’ normally for two weeks, but I really want to make use of every bit of advice I can get to use at this tropical vacation spot.
If you can’t break it down, like anything would be appreciated…some more videos that make whatever points you want to make…etc.
no prob I’ll check it out ASAP!
Remember all those girls are at a vacation spot to get laid lol there’s sunshine and alcohol and shit back home, but there’s also boyfriends and judgemental friends/peers/co-workers, a lack of anonymity, consequences for their actions, etc.
@YaReally @Scray
My bad for hijacking your guys thread but heads up I finished the 30 Day Challenge this past weekend. Scray, it’s easy if you live in a big city like me but you also mentioned you’re in college so I think it’s possible.
It helped a lot. You won’t end up being a rockstar knee-deep in poon but you will definitely level up. I had a fuckton of mini-victories and epiphanies and highly suggest it. I laid my first cute girl (hb6.5) in less than 3 hours of facetime (met her out on a Monday and saw her again Tues night) but also got rejected a lot and was put in stressful situations this past month. The lay isn’t even a victory in my mind yet the way I handled myself in the stressful situations (bitchy girls, AMOGs, large crowds, etc, etc, etc!) was way more important to me.
Do what you want Scray and no doubt you will get to where you want to go but consider a 30 Day Challenge, especially if you’re in college.
Your guys back and forth on the Field Reports has been very informative and Scray, keep up the awesome work I remember your first comment months ago about the bewilderment you felt when the girl turned you down after you tried to come up from behind and grind her. Keep rocking on bro
Ya, I live in a big city so that’s good. I’ll definitely give it a shot
The best part of figuring out game is applying it to other parts of your life. Pussy comes and goes … but you can make a much better career with red-pill behavior, as long as you don’t work in an organization.
I speak from personal experience.
Sorry I didn’t give your challenge reports a breakdown btw! These things take me forever to write and I’ve been working like a dog this month and when you’re out every single night there’s SO much going on that it’s like shit, where to even start lol
Any specific questions/sticking-points you ran into in the last 30 days though, feel free to ask ‘em and I’ll see if I can help.
Massive props for doing the challenge! You’ve officially gone out more in the last 30 days than like 90% of the Manosphere has in a year. lol I’m planning to do a 30+ day challenge this summer. I’ve never actually done a consistent 30 days in a row but I have a good opportunity free-time-wise coming up! Psyched for it!
what’s the 30 day challenge? new to this blog, so not sure where to find it / read field reports.
@r1j2
http://realsocialdynamics.blogspot.ca/2007/05/30-day-challenge.html
I love that. It’s so subtle, it’s perfect.
Nothing like tingles to bring out the O face.
Here’s one. My friend’s wife is a total entitlement whore. When she has her fill of her online world she will turn to him and say, “ok entertain me. ” and like the herbling he is he’ll jump thru hoops for a nibble. Last time I was there she did this. I immediately raised my leg and let loose a loud obnoxious fart, pointed at her and said, “now that’s entertainment!”
You forgot to light it.
America’s original sin.
Proof some people don’t understand supply and demand.
Yep. Black people.
your skin is your sin; Get over it.
I did.
lol Oh yes, boy—your constant missives blaming whitey for all the negroes problems and refusing to take blame for your actions surely proves you’ve “gotten” over it.
Stupid little subhuman.
More like America’s original shit test.
threadwinner.
bed wetter.
Aw, poor wittle darkie, all mad his people are complete savages and failures.
lol.
Define “savage”, and then explain how this does not describe you and most of those you insult by calling them your people.
Define “savage”
—lol. Word Star Hip-Hop.
Timely post. Borrowing from Krauser, I’ve reached out to some girls on OK Cupid the following way and got the following interesting response:
Me: It took me a while to read through this profile…hard work especially all those symbols. Then I got to Finnish. You are the kind of girl my mom warned me about, sweet and cute in public, sex-crazed maniac in private. You have very feminine almond-shaped eyes. I picture you sipping a mojito in Sevva at sunset…without the dog.
Her: I don’t usually reply to profiles without photos, but thats really sweet message you write, I take that as compliment! ^^
Me: Almond eyes…well, if you promise to dress nice and continue to flatter me, we’ll go for that mojito…I’m walawala…
I reframe it that she’s flattering me…Now she’s chasing me. I thought this was just flippant enough to move it forward without being beta…
http://romancecheater.com/the-cocky-attitude/
It’s a good strategy
i texted a girl
‘srsly tho… ur pussy rox!!’
and
‘this alpha loves to fight’
did not get the bang
gay
how could you text her your pussy rox if you didn’t get the bank
if you didn’t get the bang how could you fight
he he he
You guys are dense… itsme just did a wonderful send-up of chateuisms, the second of which was sublimely well-wrought.
I need help analyzing this conversation (background- her “message me if” section said she wanted to be messaged with fun facts).
Me: FACT: Girls who dye their hair read (sic) are bat shit insane, no exceptions
Her: If you haven’t got anything nice to say don’t say it at all
Me: That was my fact! Thought acknowledging you with my presence was nice enough?
Her: I know twelve year olds who are rude in order to get attention. Even they know what they’re doing when they do it.
Me: Idk any 12 year olds. Wonder why you dye your hair red- certainly not for attention
Her: My mom thinks it looks pretty and so did I
Her: Anyways try to be nice, bye
*End*
[CH: You go in hard, but then backpedal a little and start to sound defensive. That’s the kiss of death. If you’re going full asshole, you have to stay in character.]
Wow these girls shit test hard online.
[If your game has holes in it, women will be compelled to shit test harder. It comes with the alpha sniffing territory.]
I probably shouldn’t have played into her frame and offered up a fact in the first place, but it popped into my head so I went with it. However, the opener was pretty alpha, as was my unintentional misspelling of the word red.
[The opener was good. The follow-ups didn’t maintain that early momentum. And misspelling red as “read” is not exactly what I would have in mind when distorting my grammar and punctuation for aloof alpha effect.
Remember, it doesn’t take much — a stray word, a faulty sentence — to betatize yourself.]
She tried to end the conversation, but this is a shit text. The real way to end is to not respond. Obviously she is expecting that I say something beta here. If this were real life I would just ignore her, but since I want the possibility of this bang I need an alpha response. Any suggestions?
[“Ok. Here we go… you are the sanest redhead I’ve ever talked to. How’s that?”]
She’s 23 and a teacher. She looks like an 8 in her pics, so probably a 7 IRL.
[Ask her what she loves best about her job.]
[“Ok. Here we go… you are the sanest redhead I’ve ever talked to. How’s that?”]
Change “redhead” to “ginger” and you’re all set.
But Rihanna didn’t deserve it! That’s your problem. There is nothing attractive about your text exchange. Nada.
So many guys here seem to not get that you can’t just be mean to girls and expect them to like you. Here is what you did wrong:
1. Generic insult- All red heads x- it’s not about her. That won’t get under her skin. Insulting a mass category gets you nowhere. You have to neg something subtle about her individual behavior, which will make her feel that you noticed her but you aren’t her puppy dog that fawns over every little thing she does.
2. Social status in men would seem to be alpha > beta > omega. All nasty will make you omega for 90% of men. To notch that up to alpha, you probably need more beta in the mix.
If you are only mean to girls, you will not be interesting. You will be creepy.
YES! Alphas seem to be having fun. I can tell a lot in the comments here who is alpha and who is just angry and bitter.
Athough there’s something to be said for a guy who’s initially a real jerk and then starts to be nice to you. The contrast is a mindtrick that makes you think you are so special you somehow “turned” him. At some point you might ask, “Why were you so mean to me?” In the long run, these men are probably bad choices and actually really just are jerks..
Real alphas aren’t jerks. Just sayin…
I know. They don’t need to be.
Takeaway Launch Codes.
Freezing out is how an Alpha works. No need for nastiness. A smile and a disappearance is the modus operandi.
Your punishment is not to be allowed to be in his presence.
∞
A person can’t cite what a person can’t perceive. You’re asking a male to view a woman who has not set herself apart, as an individual. Not going to happen, and bonus, not required for alpha status. In fact, the more a man views people in terms of herds, types, groupings, etc. the better in terms of others perceiving him as alpha.
He offers you a window in time during which you have limited seconds to prove that you deserve to be considered more valuable to him than everybody else in the herd. If you don’t make the most of that, you lose him.
Men categorize. The more masculine a man is, the more strictly they categorize.
But most men aren’t the persona they project online. A real alpha, IN PERSON, will give you the time of day if you deserve it. You will be in his focus as long as you remain relevant.
This site is hilarious most of the time.
+1
Feministx,
Does your boyfriend know you are ( were) posting pictures of your butt ?
I have a hard time believing he approves of this. Unless he has no feelings for you and is simply using you for sex? You are nothing more than a sex toy and a trophy to him? So he enjoys that his trophy shows her butt to thousands of men?
He is in his fifthies while you are less than half his age, right?. Are you unsatisfied with him? are you looking for his replacement? Are you using him – until you find a younger better looking man – because he has status and I presume money ( a busy talented musician must have money )?
I am 53 and if I had a young girlfriend who was doing what you are doing here, I’d be very concerned. And if she did it without my approval, behind my back I would get rid of her without blinking.
I don’t agree with you often but you seem fairly intelligent, can’t you see there is something degrading for you and for the man in your life in your showing your butt here? as if you were a piece of meat?
Why do you need strange men’s opinion on how hot your butt or your face looks?
Had you been wearing a tight pair of jeans would have been a bit better, why do you defile yourself here by showing so much skin?
Can you explain it to me honestly?
“I have a hard time believing he approves of this. Unless he has no feelings for you and is simply using you for sex? You are nothing more than a sex toy and a trophy to him? So he enjoys that his trophy shows her butt to thousands of men?”
I don’t know about that. I used to have a blog where I had dozens of naked pictures of myself. By naked, I mean completely naked. My boyfriend knew about this blog and used to read it (though he did not meet me from the blog). He never told me not to post such pictures of myself. When I moved in with him, I coincidentally got tired of my blog and deleted it. He didn’t ask me to do this. We almost never even spoke about my blog though I get the impression he read almost all of it.
I do not know how he would feel about me posting pics of myself online now. The reason I don’t tell him is because this all links to a blog that I don’t want him to read because I complain about him and I want to bring my complaints up to him in a nice way.
“He is in his fifthies while you are less than half his age, right?.”
Just about.
“ Are you unsatisfied with him?”
Yes. I really really do not like having sex with him.
“are you looking for his replacement? Are you using him – until you find a younger better looking man – because he has status and I presume money”
I mean, I started out loving the guy, but I’m really frustrated now. My boyfriend is good looking to me. That’s not the problem. I.just.want.to.get.laid.
“Had you been wearing a tight pair of jeans would have been a bit better, why do you defile yourself here by showing so much skin?”
I don’t seem to have the same line of modesty most other people have. Some people would never post there pic on linkedin even. Some women will do playboy but not penthouse though the difference is not huge. I am a girl who is willing to show a lot more skin than normal girls. Why? I don’t know. IRL, I wear my thick glasses, hair in a ponytail and usually pretty darn frumpy clothes. I am highly reclusive and generally adverse to attracting any kind of social attention to myself though I will put myself together for professional networking purposes. I guess being tarty online gives me an outlet that I am comfortable with. With those pics up, I sort of feel like a cam girl. Except that I am a cam girl that posts armchair theories about the evolution of sexuality and whatnot. That’s the kind of cam girl I would be.
[CH: Something doesn’t add up in your tale of woe. You say your boyfriend is good-looking to you and you are attracted to his musical brilliance and social status, yet you “really really” do not like having sex with him. If you don’t like fucking him because he repulses you, then how is he attractive to you in any respect? Or is it that his lack of interest in showing you sexual attention turns you off from the idea of fucking him, as if such a thing would be a one-way admission of your utter emotional vulnerability? Why don’t you clarify your position for whorefinder so that he may have another belly laugh.]
You have PMS today. CH, post this comment dude. Let her tell me I’m right. I have PMSdar, even by computer.
“ Are you unsatisfied with him?”
Yes. I really really do not like having sex with him.
*************
leave your laptop open on this comment for him to see.
uve got some serious issues fx
“If you don’t like fucking him because he repulses you, then how is he attractive to you in any respect?”
He is attractive to me until he fucks me. If we sit across a dinner table and converse, I want him. He is sexy to me. But to describe what is wrong with the sex itself, I would have to present a list of stuff related to graphic physical interactions.
[CH: It sounds like he is not sexually attractive to you, but rather platonically attractive. So, he’s more like a fine piece of classical music instead of a thumping, rock guitar riff. Is that right? Or is it that his bedroom technique is so horribly awry it turns you off in the middle of the act. Let’s try to get a bead on this, so I’ll need you to write clearly and succintly and to heroically refrain from dancing around the subject like a troll or a woman.]
I need to explain to him not to fuck me the way that he does, but there are so many issues here that I do not know how to start. I don’t want to upset him and I know that telling him this will upset him. Posting about it on the internet to random people would also upset him, but he doesn’t know about that, so I don’t have to see him look upset. Thus far, I don’t have it in me to make demands/requests/suggestions of what my sex life should be like. Come to think of it, I don’t think I’ve made almost no suggestions about sex to any of my boyfriends. In the past, this sometimes resulted in me feeling neutral and uninspired by sex, but not in dread of it.
[Regrettably, we’ll need very specific details. What precisely is he fumbling during intimacy? Operators are standing by.]
This time, I have ended up with someone that never looks at me or talks to me during sex except that he tells me to rub his nipples (which I hate but have never told him).
[Purple nurple? Hot!]
I am not inclined to fix this issue the arduous way. I don’t want to go through a bunch of discussions and sex therapists and whatever else. Right now, this issue looks hopeless to me, and I am afraid of making my boyfriend go through a bunch of effort to make sex better for me and then failing. And then he’ll feel bad about himself. He doesn’t have a reason to now.
[If there are efforts he can make that would improve your sex life, you should tell him. End of discussion. Otherwise, you stand accused of bloviating about a “problem” that in actuality reduces to you just not finding him sexually attractive.]
I think this relationship is just not right for you. If allusions to former same sex relationships are true, you’ve made progress, but something is still holding you back from what you really want. King wrote something in early summer ’12 (I’d never be able to go back and find his exact words, but) about a woman at a certain point being ready to give in to her dangerous desires. It stuck with me. A relationship with a married man who is somewhere between 25 and 30 years older than you is still very “safe.” There is a difference between wanting to have sex with a man because you admire him and just being drawn to him like a magnet and not being able to keep your hands off each other. You want to be attracted to him because you admire/love him, but it seems you can’t.
well, since you have asked for details…
“So, he’s more like a fine piece of classical music instead of a thumping, rock guitar riff. Is that right? ”
I guess. I mean, maybe I don’t understand the difference between platonic attraction and sexual attraction or something. However, I kind of feel that even on first impressions, I did find him sexually attractive.
“Is that right? Or is it that his bedroom technique is so horribly awry it turns you off in the middle of the act. ”
ummm. well, we do the same thing every time. I give him head and then he fucks me while I lay on my back. Lately, I have made it worse for myself by being avoidant about the act, so I now lay on my back while he puts his dick in my mouth. It is less bad if I actually get on my knees and give him head. We happen to have a full length mirror near the bed, and I get mildly turned on by the sight of us because he looks much older and much larger than I do (he is 6’1″, 180ish, I am 5′, 99 lbs).
[CH: 5′ 99lbs? Spinner!]
My sex life would actually be better if I only gave my boyfriend head. Anyway, then he has sex with me. I don’t think it ever lasts more than 2 min. He is much taller than me, so we have sex in missionary position, he doesn’t have to look at me, and he doesn’t.
The worst part is that his dick is large enough to hurt me due it’s length and this way it curves, but I feel like it never gets hard. I think I don’t properly remember what a hard dick feels like, but I am pretty sure this is not hard like it should be. He has normal thrusts, but I somehow don’t really feel his dick inside of me except for that part that hits my cervix and makes it hurt a little.
“[Purple nurple? Hot!]”
ew. ew. ew. He will tell me to twist them more if I don’t do it kind of hard. ew. ew. ew. ew. ew. Sometimes he puts them in my mouth too. Ew. And I hate the way he touches my boobs. That was so unbearable to me that I had to tell him, actually. I told him to either grab them or leave them alone. It’s gross to fumble around and sort of half fondle them. He grabbed them for a couple of weeks, but then forgot. I was not inclined to remind him again.
“If there are efforts he can make that would improve your sex life, you should tell him.”
There are so many efforts that would have to be made. I don’t know if that is different than me not finding him sexually attractive.
[No woman who truly deeply lustfully loves a man would feel repulsed by his touch. Your relationship is dysfunctional. Get out.]
I agree with CH to get out for a number of reasons. A man should be somewhat interested in your pleasure. If this continues, you will eventually completely resent him and it will overshadow any former loving feelings. Having sex with someone for their enjoyment while you get none/are grossed out from it is incredibly bad for you. It should be mutually pleasureable. On another point, I agree with Canadian Friend. No more public nude pics. Those things should be private between you and your lover.
[CH: I disagree with that last part as a personal matter. But as an objective third party I agree that it’s the wise thing for her to do.
ps tits or gtfo.]
“[No woman who truly deeply lustfully loves a man would feel repulsed by his touch. Your relationship is dysfunctional. Get out.]”
Well, I don’t lustfully love him. I guess I do love him like a father and I admire him intensely and I would love it if I could enjoy sleeping with him, but that part is not there.
[CH: That’s the most critical part. Unless you’re of the school of thought that relationships are essentially economic in nature.]
Though the kind of admiration I feel towards my bf is a potential force of sexual attraction from a woman to a man, it doesn’t translate to a sexual charge in my case.
[Are you more repulsed by the idea of him fucking you or of him making sweet slow hand love to you?]
I do need to leave. I know. It will make me happier in the long run.
[Tickory tickory tock the minx ran up the clock. The clock struck wall. The minx went splat. Tickory tickory fuck.]
“I disagree with that last part as a personal matter. But as an objective third party I agree that it’s the wise thing for her to do.”
Really? Ok. My assvatar is all gone now.
[OH. MY. GANESH. The term of art is “assatar”. You wound me deeply with your uncaring sloppiness.]
Though I guess I could replace it with a clothed one at some point.
[You could. Or you could keep it coming with the bare rumps. Choose impulsively.]
[CH: That’s the most critical part. Unless you’re of the school of thought that relationships are essentially economic in nature.]
Economic in nature? Whoever came up with that theory must have had a hamster spinning up a rationalization about why it was ok not to love getting laid.
[CH: There are those who contend that at one time in history people got married less for love than on the basis of arid calculations of their potential spouse’s ability to provide or keep up a home. Crazy!]
“[Are you more repulsed by the idea of him fucking you or of him making sweet slow hand love to you?]”
I am more repulsed by the latter I think, though I am not sure what slow sweet hand love is.
[You want a man with a slooooow hand. You want a lover with the eeeeasy touch. It means lovemaking. Tender, intimate, caressing, transcendent. The fact that the idea of that with him repulses you more than the notion of him fucking you hard like a dirty slut suggests you don’t really love him as much as you are letting on. If at all.]
[Tickory tickory tock the minx ran up the clock. The clock struck wall. The minx went splat. Tickory tickory fuck.]
Have you not been 30? It’s like age of denial. You can’t feel the age yet. You can barely see it yet. You really want to pretend it’s not there. But the ovaries know, I’m sure. This sucks. I could sure stand to be in the ‘universe stacked against me’ gender these days.
[Well if it’s any consolation you’ve certainly kept up your body nicely, and you don’t appear from between squinted eyes to have any facial wrinkles yet, so you compete well with most American women in your age bracket, and even with a good amount in the age brackets younger than you. But if you want to feel real love again in your life, you should bustamove sooner rather than later.]
“[OH. MY. GANESH. The term of art is “assatar”. You wound me deeply with your uncaring sloppiness.]”
Speaking of Ganesh, I believe I’ve the more natural right to ordain sanskrit derived coinage.
[ok you lost me.]
Admittedly, assatar is more dastardly than assvatar.
[And nimbler on the tongue.]
[You could. Or you could keep it coming with the bare rumps. Choose impulsively.]
Oh no, please. Continue to choose for me.
[You make this so difficult. *sigh* Ok. Here we go. Post more ass pics. Now.]
“[You want a man with a slooooow hand. You want a lover with the eeeeasy touch. It means lovemaking. Tender, intimate, caressing, transcendent. The fact that the idea of that with him repulses you more than the notion of him fucking you hard like a dirty slut suggests you don’t really love him as much as you are letting on. If at all.]”
I misunderstood what you meant. I am not repulsed by the idea of him making love to me, but he isn’t like that as of yet.
“[Well if it’s any consolation you’ve certainly kept up your body nicely, and you don’t appear from between squinted eyes to have any facial wrinkles yet, so you compete well with most American women in your age bracket, and even with a good amount in the age brackets younger than you. But if you want to feel real love again in your life, you should bustamove sooner rather than later.]”
Thanks. It’s of great consolation to me.
“[You make this so difficult. *sigh* Ok. Here we go. Post more ass pics. Now.]”
Yeah. You got it. This one is slightly less naked than the last. I’m getting wiser like that.
I’m going to take it down in the morning though.
“tits or gtfo”
How unoriginal. I expect more from you.
[CH: clits or gtfo?]
Wow…just…wow…
FemX, generally, alpha type guys don’t make slow, sweet love. They fuck. You can take it or you can’t. If you can’t then it is best to move on because that is not going to change, and it is not going to get better with age.
For the same reason my legal husband needs his bondage and sweaters, yours is going to become more exclusively about the hard and deep and making it hurt with time.
The soft-hard thing is just something that happens with age. It can be alleviated somewhat with massage and herbs that help with circulation, blood sugar, and tissue regeneration. Devil’s claw, tumeric, helichrysum arenarum, and stevia are great.
I think that since you love him, you should stay because really no man is ever going to be a woman. Women are for a certain kind of pleasure in sex, and men are for another. If he will let you see women or bring women into the bedroom, your problems are solved.
fx, the dude’s fucking 60 years old. i’ve told people this before and i will tell it again- get him on some fucking sustanon! slip some fucking V into his rice krispies! get that fucker horny again and his dick will finally be hard.
society didnt come as far as to discover how to synthetically create testosterone or dick pills for no reason. get some of that drive back into his body and you will likely see a difference you actually like in the sack
ps for all you guys who don’t know, testosterone makes you fuck like a champ if you don’t already do. so fucking TAKE SOME
“fx, the dude’s fucking 60 years old. i’ve told people this before and i will tell it again- get him on some fucking sustanon! slip some fucking V into his rice krispies! get that fucker horny again and his dick will finally be hard.
society didnt come as far as to discover how to synthetically create testosterone or dick pills for no reason. get some of that drive back into his body and you will likely see a difference you actually like in the sack
ps for all you guys who don’t know, testosterone makes you fuck like a champ if you don’t already do. so fucking TAKE SOME
”
Thanks for your response. Though I believe I should probably still leave, I should try to convince my boyfriend to take more viagra and to always take it in order to make the sex better in the interim.
well either way, it’s all about number 1 right. leave for something that will make you hornier/happier, or just juice the fucker up in the meantime
Feministx,
you really hate having sex with him, was it always like that?
if not what has changed?
I never loved it, but it used to be tolerable. What changed? Sorry to really chick this up for you, but I went on this birth control that made me lose all interest in sex for about a year. But I still never refused sex because I could see he wanted it. I have a hard time expressing emotions to people. I mean, even when I mean to express them, I’m not really able to get it across. Hence, I am not really able to express “yuuuuck” easily in person.
After I stopped taking birth control, I regained my interest in sex but I now hate sex with my boyfriend more than ever. Our sex life really deteriorated into this very monotonous gross thing. I also feel that my boyfriend is not as hard as he was when we first started dating.
Feministx,
So sex with him was never good but it was tolerable…
tolerable ?
yikes…
it means you were using him for something, food , shelter, gifts or the glittery life that comes with his semi famous status
or maybe you have some musical talent yourself and you are hoping fucking him/using him will get you connected with the right people?
The only way I could possibly be with a woman with whom from the start sex was no better than tolerable ( this word sends shivers down my spine) , would be if she bought me a lot of expensive stuff
But then again I am not like that.
I don’t use people.
Don’t you feel like a prostitute when you have barely tolerable sex with him?
I would.
you post naked pictures of yourself and troll pua blogs – classic attention whoring.
you’re attracted to his musical brilliance and social status, until he fucks you, then he repulses you.
this is an easy diagnosis. he’s not your boyfriend, he’s your father.
ouch!
(thats gonna leave a mark)
I see the lying dumb dyke has put up another fake picture.
Either that, or she’s now a feminist in name only.
whorefinder
I see the lying dumb dyke has put up another fake picture.
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Does the 1st headshot match the 3rd?
I think it does. There was nothing wrong with the 1st photo other than it being a non “glamour shot”. Do you think Kate’s photo is also fake?
There was nothing wrong with the 1st photo other than it being a non “glamour shot”. Do you think Kate’s photo is also fake?
—To quote a great man, “You’re in way over your head here, Donny.”
Feministx has a long history of being a lying dumb dyke here—long before you showed up. She puts in photoshopped and altered pictures of herself for attention and talks about ehrself incessantly and undercuts all masculinity.
She’s a much uglier person, inside and out, than her surface dictates. I’d say look closer, but your too intellectually challenged to be able to do so.
actually, now that you mention it, I do remember her past behavior; but she went away for a while and then came back with a photo. Its really too bad people can’t just be themselves.
(((shakin my head)))
thwack, I’m hurt. You think I would put up fake photos? Believe me, my friend, that is me and there are *many* people who could verify that for you if they so chose: people who have seen my resume, confirmed my identity through Facebook, met me in person, etc.
Relax, I know thats you Kate. You look, write and act just like a Kate. Now use your riding outfit for your next photo, I know you have one.
Nice angel bite on that upper lip Fex.
lol. Note the nigs trying to get in on a dark-skinned Indian—because not even nigs want a black woman around the house.
oops, I guess we know who the angels passed by.
Whore lives in a parallel universe where we’re supposed to consider guys who are intimidated by the level of masculinity in African women superior.
Clue: African men already have African women so deep in the pocket that it is difficult, even for a variety accepting woman such as myself, to conceive of a mere good time, much less a lifetime, with any other.
African women globally don’t have the dating problems they do in the U.S. The problem with the ones in the U.S. is that they behave too much like generic White women.
It’s not what’s Black about them, but what’s White about them that makes them repellant, and this includes the overabundance of fat in all the wrong places.
Whore lives in a parallel universe
—To an Aunti J, reality always is a parallel universe.
where we’re supposed to consider guys who are intimidated by the level of masculinity in African women superior.
—Disgust is not intimidation, warpig.
Clue: African men already have African women so deep in the pocket that it is difficult, even for a variety accepting woman such as myself, to conceive of a mere good time, much less a lifetime, with any other.
—Hamster of the year award? Or just hardcore denial? Remember: this is said by a black woman who married a white man who ran screaming from her and now lives in a white foreign country where she claims she’s dating a white man.
Also, considering that black women literally think tat rape is a perfectly normal activity for their men and cannot keep one faithful, a “good time” is pretty much the definition of changing the definition.
African women globally don’t have the dating problems they do in the U.S.
—lmao. Oh, your exoticism might make a few foreigners curious, but once they get their fill, you’re at the bottom of every man’s barrel.
Hint: if it were only “evil whiteys” racism keeping you from being worshiped, warpig, all foreign porn would be non-black men fucking you wildebeests. Hint: it ain’t.
The problem with the ones in the U.S. is that they behave too much like generic White women.
-_-ROFL. White U.S. women are trashy, but black women cannot even raise themselves to that level of trashiness. Black U.s. “women” act live savages in comparison.
It’s not what’s Black about them, but what’s White about them that makes them repellant, and this includes the overabundance of fat in all the wrong places.
—And yet black men fiend for non-black women and their coquettishness and hate black women for being bossy, “strong” bitches.
It’s almost like she drinks a fifth of purple drank before she writes sometimes.
African women globally don’t have the dating problems they do in the U.S. The problem with the ones in the U.S. is that they behave too much like generic White women.
Like generic white women on steroids.
Whore, that was the most begrudging agreement I have ever read.
Corvinus, this is partly for the same reason European Christians are generally more fanatical and twisted than Arab and indigenous Christians in the middle east. When someone is adopting a different culture or religion that they don’t truly understand the essence of, they’re becoming more a caricature. They are also more vulnerable to misinformation propagated by whoever is recruiting them.
African American women fell for feminism because they were desperate for anything that would help them be recognized as human. When someone is starving, even a wormy steak seems better than starving…forget that it’s going to poison and kill you.
African American women are poisoned with the same generic White culture that poisons others, but less equipped to deal with it. Their death throes are considerably more dramatic and sad.
knew there was a reason I loved the ex chick
dam attention to detail really high in shower she gets the feet in between toes asshole he he he
does the jump in shower marking territory like a mug
“Todd recommends sending “value offering” messages, and to keep them “fun and flippant”. Since you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain, it makes sense to offer some value — an expectation of good times”
Can someone elaborate on this?
I got three kilos of coke at my house would be a good one
too bad I don’t have drug dealer game (:
but ahh I got a bunch of dishes I need washed tends to work lol
Haha get it
you know what they call a kilo in France?
oh my gosh people, u just be yourself, at least i don’t overthink and analize too much like this, if someone don’t like you for being yourself then that person don’t deserve you, spontaneity is the best for this
[CH: Brilliance!]
The only time you should analize is when she’s on her period.
RAPE!
I am still un-sure of what type of man, woman, or plant, or animal really and truly ignites the deep internal wiring in the lively post -pubescent loins of K.T. Tunstall
Being on-stage as a guy simplifies the process most gloriously -with the chicks.
Being on stage WITH a crazy chick is a very different matter.
Just on the basis of dirt-level raw crude statistics; a certain number of children will be born among the combined bless-ed.– with naturally Stunning good looks, massive brains, and a highly unfair hogging porportion of the worlds iq resouces.
My daughter reminds lots of people of Sheryl Crowe and my son makes the rest think of Mickel Dell . Not that they ever needed to work at all
Spert… I farted.
I’d prefer to see more of this and less of the anti-scientific HBD nonsense, although I’m more than fine with the slaying of feminist/leftist shibboleths.
Thankfully, nobody cares what you “prefer.”
Me too. For example, instead of walking around with your chest out tootin your tin horn… learn a real skill and demonstrate it when you go to court.
I’ll give ya’ll this one for free:
I am shocked, SHOCKED that a darkie thinks silly little parlor tricks and kids games are “real skills.” lol
I am shocked, SHOCKED that a darkie thinks silly little parlor tricks and kids games are “real skills.” lol
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oops, looks like someone can’t palm a basketball.
How are you with a mop?
looks like someone can’t palm a basketball.
—-lmao. You mistake mockery for jealously. Its a common error for a low-IQ beast like you.
How are you with a mop?
—lol. Your mom’s good on the pole.
I’d prefer to see more of this
—You’ll get what your given and you’ll like it, boy.
anti-scientific HBD nonsense
lol. Denial ain’t just a river in Egypt made famous by non-darkies.
I’m more than fine with the slaying of…leftist shibboleths.
—The notion of racial equality and anti-racism are the ultimate leftist shibboleths.
HBD is not scientific, read a damn genetics textbook.
lmao. HBD deniers always remind me of this line:
“Who ya gonna believe? Me, or your lying eyes?”
With morons like this around, it’s no wonder we’re declining.
I don’t deny HBD at all. It is, in fact, a very African way of thinking…one tribe’s shamans would have been left to die of exposure in infancy in another tribe, so some proverb goes.
[CH: I predict some rascal will choose to quote the above sentence in some other forum. Probably for comedic effect.]
The only problem I have with HBD is that like Christianity vs. Christians, most HBD believers think that race = White, Black, or Asian (or some other nonsensical divisions) like Christians believe that spirit = God, Angel, or Demon. They take a pretty good concept, and make a twisted mythology around it that has no basis in reality.
Aside of their overly simplistic view of ethnicity, they hang onto IQ for dear life and completely forget about things like adaptability, both psychological and physical, and capability of individualism, along with a host of other traits that would make an individual superior, a group superior on average if they have higher levels of them, and a culture superior if it encouraged and properly rewarded these.
Instead, they praise themselves for being more docile and “civilized” as if these were ever any measure of superiority as opposed to usefulness to the wealthy.
Aside of their overly simplistic view of ethnicity, they hang onto IQ for dear life
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Actually Nicole, you give them too much credit because they don’t even hang onto that.For example; IQ tests fail to measure things of constructive value a machine (computer) can’t do but a human can. John Lennon? Adolph Hitler? What test would be able to measure/predict their great abilities?
Is it possible for a person to sculpt a statue from a piece of granite or compose a national anthem for a nation and be stupid? If you lack the aptitude for either, does it mean you have a low IQ? If and when machines get smart enough, what will be the purpose of white people? Nigs like me sure won’t need them; I’ll just worship the machines. They can call me “boy” all they want as long as they keep me well stocked with gold chains, drumbeats and pussy; I won’t even hafta change my slave name.
*Meet the new boss, same as the old boss*
god dam
had the police knock at door
go to door it is police
dude like we had a call of domestic disturbance
me no ain’t no call from here
they like we need to see the woman in the house
i’m like ain’t no call wtf
anyway get my exchick to get dressed
she goes to door opens it
they asked her if she was ok
they got report that there was screaming
she says we had sex
cop congratulations
he is like we were just doing our job when we get a call like this we have to check up to make sure the woman is ok
(my chick just said well what about if the mans ok)
he he he
but yea then cop said ok i’ll let you get back to what you were doing
“Most girls are not interesting in themselves, and require the company of interesting men to spice up their lives with newness and novelty.” I don’t know if there is a truer sentence out there. Gold.
Also, the ice cream guy clip is very good as well. Especially the second ice cream take away tease.
“Only boring people are boring” (from a prior thread).
Indeed.
But if you seek fulfillment (in any form) from a female, you will most likely be disappointed. Choose life.
Loved YaReally’s Ice Cream vid as well. That was subtly gold.
∞
Testosterone is what makes life interesting.
I get women having boring lives and being dead inside…what’s sad is seeing emasculated guys having the same attitude.
Women prefer men with an “appetite for aggression” for short-term mating.
http://www.epjournal.net/articles/female-attraction-to-appetitive-aggressive-men-is-modulated-by-womens-menstrual-cycle-and-mens-vulnerability-to-traumatic-stress/
Female attraction to appetitive-aggressive men is modulated by women’s menstrual cycle and men’s vulnerability to traumatic stress
ABSTRACT
Many studies have reported that during high fertility points in the menstrual cycle, women demonstrate increased preference for men with masculinized faces and bodies. In this study, we analyzed whether appetitive aggression in men serves as an additional signal for a favored partner choice. Appetitive aggression describes the intrinsic motivation to act violently even when not being threatened. This study evaluated the responses of 1212 women to one of four descriptions regarding a soldier´s experience after returning from war. The four vignettes included trauma related symptoms with high or low appetitive aggression, or no trauma related symptoms with high or low appetitive aggression. Participants rated their desirability for the soldier in regards to potential long-term and short-term relationships. Results indicate that women preferred a soldier high in appetitive aggression as a short-term mate but not as a long-term relationship. This preference for the “warrior” was higher for women in their fertile window of the menstrual cycle. We conclude that women in their fertile window prefer men exhibiting higher appetitive aggression as a short-term partner, revealing appetitive aggression in men may serve as a signal for a higher genetic fitness.
“Results indicate that women preferred a soldier high in appetitive aggression as a short-term mate but not as a long-term relationship.”
Men could use this info to game their women during the days women crave it most. A man should step up his aggressive nature and be more dominating and sexually forceful during the first 14 days of his woman’s menstrual cycle – from the 1st day of her period until the 14th day. Even if you’re not having sex during her period, you should still act more aggressive in preparation. Once her period clears, a woman is highly sexual till at least day 14. After the 14th day, a man should slowly go back to being calmer and loving (less sexually aggressive and more focused on day-to-day issues) until her hormones start building up again and she is craving masculinity and aggressive sex once again. LOL! A man has to be a chameleon to satisfy his girl’s psyche. If you think she’s worth it, then put your effort into gaming her and reap a happy relationship.
Younger chix seem to dig being told they seem naughty.
Me:Your look naughty
Her:So do you
Me:I’m trying to quit.
Her: What are you doing tonight?
Me: Bring the movies
“Don’t dance to an entitlement whore’s tune. Throw it back in her face. Demand that she entertain you. Deny her the satisfaction of your approval seeking behavior. Remind her in not so subtle terms that the question isn’t how much value you add to her life, but how much value she adds to yours.”
this isn’t just applicable to texting, but to RL game in general. i have 3 black belts in text game. i ran a post on a female reader i was texting. she lives in LA and is from san deezy. the FB text string was a bit long; but i KNOW if i ended up in LA i could seal this. she even mentioned flying out to NO.
Guy gets fired in response to a femcunt posting a picture of him making a sex joke in a tech conference: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5391667
http://cnsnews.com/news/article/new-report-48-percent-first-children-born-unwed-mothers
Meh, in Sweden the number is 55% but birthrates are pretty even between socialclasses, which is more important I think. I wonder if that is how it is in the US? Probably not.
[CH: In Sweden, the unmarried men live with their girlfriends and children in committed relationships. Much different scenario than what is going on in the US.]
“only boring people get bored”
Off topic, west of England girls buck British ugliness trends
http://www.page3.com/thegirls/nicoles-profile-52773.html
I like all of the alpha response examples. I resonate with agree and exaggerate or funny insult responses. Another one I’d use, if it’s a really confident woman, is “fuck off”
~ http://theprometheanman.blogspot.com
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