We often mischievously note here that women are more prone to herd behavior than are men. That is, on average, your typical woman is more likely to “go along to get along” than your typical man. This is why all sorts of cultural trends — from fashion to food to acceptable modes of posturing — exert stronger influences on women.
The close cousin of lemmingitis (falling in step with fads) is obedience to authority. If you are apt to align your lifestyle with whatever is the latest fashion, (and ostracize those who don’t), you are probably also apt to blindly obey high status authority figures telling you what is good for you. If true, then we might speculate that women make better cultural foot soldiers for whichever elite authority is most tangible in their lives, owing to women’s greater propensity to accept authority dictums without question.
We may add to this speculation not only personal observation and confirmatory heaps of anecdotes, but in addition scientific evidence that women are, indeed, more obedient to authority than are men. Courtesy of reader uh pointing us to this Milgram experiment replication:
Charles Sheridan and Richard King hypothesized that some of Milgram’s subjects may have suspected that the victim was faking, so they repeated the experiment with a real victim: a “cute, fluffy puppy” who was given real, albeit harmless, electric shocks. They found similar findings to Milgram: half of the male subjects and all of the females obeyed to the end. Many subjects showed high levels of distress during the experiment and some openly wept. In addition, Sheridan and King found that the duration for which the shock button was pressed decreased as the shocks got higher, meaning that for higher shock levels, subjects showed more hesitance towards delivering the shocks.*
Always remember: All female participants in the Milgram obedience to authority experiment continued shocking the puppy despite their tears.
Half of the men stopped.
Girls love cute things, but they love powerful authority figures even more.
I’m glad to report that, thanks to the yeoman efforts of this blog, there is a growing awareness of female nature settling firmly in the minds of Westerners (and a smattering of Finns. I kid, I kid! Sort of.) Like male nature, female nature is not all bad, nor is it elevated above men’s (it’s different than men’s, but not any less degraded). Le Chateau’s campaign to RAISE AWARENESS about women’s true nature helps bring balance to the social conditioning force, which for generations has defaulted to the side of pristine women and fallen men. This grand rectification will BEGIN THE HEALING of a society teetering on the precipice of choking to death on a morass of self-asphyxiating lies, and get more than a few men laid in the process.
We know that women are more instinctively obedient to authority, but the reason perhaps eludes those of us with less experience navigating the twat trenches. This female impulse to servitude is both an evolved moral mechanism to reinforce in-group cohesion (and thus secure resource blessings to their children) and a manifestation of their desirous attachment to alpha males, of whom the most obvious archetype are those alpha males wielding authoritarian power.
This knowledge dovetails nicely with game principles. Mystery was always fond of repeating that women are evolutionarily configured to desire “leaders of men”, (along with “protectors of loved ones” and “preselected by women”). I’d expand this axiom to include leaders of women, because the man who can corral a roomful of women to do his bidding is, in many ways, a sexier specimen to women than the man who leads a battalion of men. See, for example, any fashion photographer.
Authorities are, by definition, leaders of men and women. You, the beta male who wants more choice in women, can leverage women’s instinct to obey confident leaders to your hedonistic advantage. Try this sometime (if it is out of character for you, which will be the case, I bet, for at least 80% of my male readers):
- Order, don’t ask, a girl to do something with you. Telling her she’s coming with you to Bar A or Event X is, you will find hard not to notice, far more invigorating to her libido than asking her the same.
- If you are buying a meal or a drink for your girlfriend, choose her option and unhesitatingly order it for her. I have had girls exclaim with surprised glee how awesome it was that I caught them off-guard with this bold move. (Note: Do not default to buying shit for girls you haven’t yet fucked.)
- Spontaneous sex in dangerous places. Again, command her, don’t ask. Asking a girl to have risky sex will always get a “no” answer, which is funny because not asking will almost always get you a “yes” reaction.
- Simply command a woman to do something that makes her a little uncomfortable. Authority is best proved by the
victim’sfollower’s degree of submission. Tell her, for instance, to skinny dip. Or pilfer a pack of gum. Or go down on you at a movie. Or bury the body in the backyard. Or betray her feminist principles (always a laugh riot).
Ordering a girl to do something, particularly something risky, may sound like an easy proposal, but don’t be fooled: it will feel a lot more difficult than it is if you aren’t used to doing it. Couple your natural aversion with the feminist tankgrrl shrikegeist enshrouding secular societies, and it can seem quite the daunting task to the average beta bear. But the rewards, I assure you, are well worth it. The man who can tap into those ancient Phlegethon viscera coursing through women’s primal souls will have the key to untold pleasures of the penis and the heart.
Women may feel distress when they have to obey an authority telling them to do something they normally wouldn’t, but that distress is an optic fiber pipeline straight to their vaginas. When they experience the one, they inevitably experience the other. You don’t need to be an actual authority figure to trigger this female lust instinct; you just need to accurately portray such authority over the women you want to desire you. And like the accomplished actor, such portrayals will eventually lodge their way into the filament of your being, and the distinction will cease to meaningfully exist.
*If you’re interested, and you should be, here’s a Milgram experiment follow-up which found ethnic and national differences in willingness to obey authority.
OT –
Any comments on this story? Fools or heroes?
Three heroes died in Aurora taking bullets for their girlfriends
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/aurora-shooting-died-bullets-sweeties-article-1.1119395
Quite obviously both.
Protecting someone you care about doesn’t make you a fool. It makes you a man. (cf.: A weakling sees the failures and shortcomings of others and lowers (or rationalizes) his behavior to that standard.)
yon yon yon yon yon
CORPSE = MANHOOD
I’d take a bullet for my wife. Some women are worth it.
And we’d BOTH be grateful,Tyrone,when I was drilling her twat!
I was being a bit poetic.
DEAD fools.
ps – 2, 1, 3
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I’d gladly consider them heroes if liberated women were worthy of protection.
As long as women are free, equal, emancipated etc… any man who dies for them will just be a corpse.
“I’d gladly die for two brothers, four cousins or eight second cousins.”
+1
And what about the men who stayed on the Titanic while women and children filled the lifeboats? Pussyfied white-knighters or heroes?
In the age of the Titanic, heroes.
In the modern day, pussified white-knighters.
This is like a textbook for women on what to avoid in men. I hope more women read this blog so they can recognize this stuff, and not feel like they have to put up with someone who gives them commands just to be nice or whatever.
I think women often feel like they have to obey orders and follow the herd to avoid causing trouble or being singled out and “punished” in some way. That doesn’t mean they like following the orders, just that they feel like not doing it could have more unpleasant results.
(and yeah, I’m a woman so any thoughts I have are just a “hamster” or whatever. blah blah blah)
Following the herd is not the same as following one man who is sure of what he wants. A woman such as yourself will gladly take orders from a man who does not follow the herd.
It would the greatest thing in the world for millions of women to be reading this blog. The outcry would hilarious but the actions of women (chasing their biologically hypergamous natures when not thinking with their vaginas) would not change a whit.
Anyone reading the above comment is reminded to heed Roosh’s advice to never listen to what women say but watch what they do. My guess is that although “blah” claims she can’t be led by men, she lives a life following rules and demands laid out by men. Like most women.
I’m reminded of the college girl who complained endlessly about me dating a high schooler because dating younger women was “wrong.” Two years out of college she married a man 20 plus years older than us.
Again: never listen to what women say, watch what they do.
+1
Yea, women do need to express their original way of being more on the blog. Even if they try to encrypt it in fore-brain fallacy.
tell your beta herb boyfriend to find his balls and read through the archives on this site. you will both benefit from it.
I think women often feel like they have to obey orders and follow the herd to avoid causing trouble or being singled out and “punished” in some way. That doesn’t mean they like following the orders, just that they feel like not doing it could have more unpleasant results Well, so what? It’s the fact that they goose-step to what’s fashionable that is the problem, not how they feel about it while they’re doing it. Disobeying orders pretty much implies trouble, singling out, and punishment, and implies the order giver has the power to command or expect obedience. It isn’t the obeying orders, it’s the herd part that is the problem, these things must be separated. And most women LOVE being in a herd, the security of it, love mindlessly following consensus and fashion, and feel a sadistic rapture while coming down on dissenters. It’s pretty much the basis of our whole suicidal political/cultural system, the root of PC. It’s also a large part of the reason that decadent civilizations are rightly called “effeminate.”
Thanks for your illuminating comment. You just managed to change my whole perspective in a few words.
Now I can see that everything ever written on this blog are just misguided thoughts that don’t match the immaculate innocence of female nature.
Damn you CH, you almost ruined my life. Thank you blah for showing me the light.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
*fart*
“This is like a textbook for women on what to avoid in men. I hope more women read this blog so they can recognize this stuff”
Yes. Obey the textbook.
I hear a woman purring. Roaring, I mean.
I bet she doesn’t give blow jobs. Probably a mean hand job though. Like, a mean one, she’s mad at you when she HAS to do it.
And, I wonder what she would write in her textbook for women, on how to get men. I wonder. I WONDER, wonder, wonder, what’s in a wonder-ball!
Why would we take advice from someone who doesn’t date women?
Yeah… shocking the puppy so she won’t upset the status quo and get in trouble… makes sense?
I honestly laughed out loud when I read the experiement’s results.
What if it were beta males hooked up to the shocker???
Perhaps this is why women perform better than men in schools?
Definitely one factor. Another is the fact that most public school teachers nowadays are ugly liberal women, and boys find obeying ugly liberal women to be unappealing.
The third factor is mixity.
Betas find early on that they cannot attract chicks by being smart or hard-working or successful in academia.
If they cannot find a way to become sexy cads, they withdraw into a complex interior world and find comfort in porn and video games.
Compare that with older men who went to boys only schools. They were like hamsters in a cage, fuelled by their sex drives and the promise of being able to sweep a girl off her feet with a providing ability.
For most males, school without that kind of incentive is just boring.
Tell, don’t ask.
First!
As to this essay, it’s all well and good but how can we use this knowledge to dampen the negative effects young white females have on politics. Taking away their right to vote until they’re 30 would be nice, of course, but I don’t think it’s do-able.
That one is obvious: tell them whom to vote for!
Voting Power of Husbands Doubles
“Power” of husbands. Makes no sense.
You haven’t met me.
It will take widespread red pill knowledge to make people even think about women’s competence to vote.
It will take a bloody war to take away that right. Perhaps we’re close to the point where there will be anti-feminist terrorist organizations.
And why until they’re 30? Just take away that goddamn right.
No. No women’s suffrage, period.
Women must be subjugated. Full stop.
There are many paradoxes in female nature. Women really are (on average) more agreeable and (on average) really do feel other people’s pain more than men.
And yet they are absolutely ruthless in weeding out beta males as potential mates, and, as shown here, they will do terrible, terrible things at the behest of an alpha male, or an authority figure.
This theory is totally true and my behavior toward women is directly related to this exact idea. I use to ask chicks on dates. Now i send them a text and say..”Meet me at X at 6:30, lets grab a drink.” Rarely do i get a “can’t do it.” Where in the past i use to ask..’You free Thursday? Want to grab a drink?” blah blah beta.
Women love to feel the confident command of an alpha.
Ordering their food for them is another panty dropper. “She will have…blah blah alpha.”
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Chicks love to submit so I might as well give them what they want, because at the end of the day, i don’t really care what they actually want, i just to have sex with them and the only way to get what i want is to give them what they REALLY want.
An excellent example of this is netvideogirls.com. The guy who does those porn job interview videos has tight game and gets girls from being skeptical and downright hostile to sucking his cocking with a big, greedy grin on their faces within 30 minutesl all on film and later posted to the Internet. Watch about 5-6 to see how much is a repititive routine.
If you cannot see that those things are scripted then you’re too stupid to be allowed access to a keyboard.
I can only hope Tyrone is joking. If not, I think he should unplug his keyboard to prevent any further embarrassment lol
I watched several of them while bored in my hotel room in Oklahoma. None appeared scripted to me. The guy is very careful not to get charged with rape for one thing. If they were scripted, it wouldn’t be an issue at all. The same is true of Backroom Casting Couch. You must be some kind of genius to have such special powers. I bet you have two keyboards you can pound on! Wow can I be just like you day?
Those of us who can actually accomplish such a thing don’t see it as scripted, they see it as tight game.
If someone ever shoots video footage of me out in the field and in the bedroom, some would probably say it’s scripted; when it’s doing well that is.
Sorry dude:
http://board.freeones.com/showthread.php?101884-Performer-Guide-Netvideogirls-com
That doesn’t mean there aren’t game lessons to learn from certain “reality” porn though. Backroom Facials was good back in the day (the camera dude had a thick foreign angry accent, super dominant/alpha) and if I remember right some of the seducing women in the Couples Seduce Teens vids had solid game, lots of LMR-busting and 2-steps-forward-1-step-back comfort-building sexual-conversation leading etc. stuff.
And of course every dude should watch Squirting 101 lol
Not to mention that simply being a porn producer shows some level of game. A good video would show real-life from when they first encounter the chick until she is on video where the whole world can watch her take a load on her face. So what if they are paying her?
Scripted, brah? Woodman’s old castings are the only real shit.
And even him lulls them with promises of fame, travels and cash.
Scripted brah was not a question…
The really sad thing, is that 50% of the males acted like women. And that society is structured around these kissasses. I mean, the immediate, mechanical reaction to someone telling you, not asking you, what to do, should be gunfire in his direction. And eventually it will be, just like it was in Mogadishu. But man, how slow things move.
So many women cannot do anything unless a man tells them what to do. How often have I observed that! No initiative.
Exactly. Women lack agency.
They drift aimlessly. They may give the illusion of having goals, plans and a deep inner-life. It is all surface, no interior.
They drift until a strong man anchors them.
On the other hand, Dan, it’s impossible to ignore the fact that serendipity has played a HUGE role in some of the most important inventions and accomplishments made by men. Mendel, for example, admitted that he got lucky. Many of our famous musicians, actors, etc admit that they were similarly lucky.
It’s often better to be lucky than good.
I’ve noticed that with a lot of men too, but yeah, nine times out of ten, women seem to want somebody to decide for them
Though preselection is probably the biggest DHV eadership up there. I just discovered last night that my knowledge of fighting is a big DHV as I was teaching this hippie chick how to fight. All kinds of opportunites to show leadership as men would come over to share advice and argue as I was the center of attention. A lot of people where watching the rukcus.
Okay so yes and no.
SOME women, yes absolutely. There are some women where you can literally glide your face into hers as soon you meet her. (Fun, but not a close.)
However, a lot of women call me out on being a “you here now” caveman every time. It’s not that they aren’t compliant, or shit-testing you, they just aren’t going to let someone walk over them. They’re, you know, actual people.
This definitely correlates with attractive girls with lots of social experience.
It’s probably the #1 reason cold approach pickup attempts fail. When you walk up to a girl and drop a gimmick in your conversation, you’re asking to knock her down from her socially savvy state. Example, I’m hanging all day with a group of girls and some random guy starts chatting one up. After a few minutes, the girl turns to the group and says, “This guy says our baby’s middle name is going to be Patrick.” We laugh at him. It’s dumb. Not a fit with our state at all. He tries to laugh his way through it and I neg him with, “Love the confidence, bro.”
So yeah, rock the caveman thing. I do all the time and it’s fun. But understand what’s happening when it doesn’t work and adjust accordingly (also sense if it’s going to work or not before you try, you give up a LOT of hand if you give up aloof to be caveman).
Tyler talks about exactly this:
You just proved the point. “The state” is the herd. Cold attempts won’t work without it. A lot of pickup lit has been on how to control a group oh ye of little faith. I think that Roosh did mention in one of his posts that girls in groups of 3 or less is who you should attempt to pick up cold.
*redirect social pressure
I think the power of “aloof” has something to do with Krauser’s “love bubble” theory. I connect this, in my own mind at least, to the fact that you have not created enough value to begin with when you “cash in all your chips” and escalate. Of course it’s much easier to go caveman at night.
http://krauserpua.com/2011/10/01/a-street-kiss-close/
I scrolled down and passed by a Tyler video and a few seconds later I was like “wait-a-sec, I haven’t posted in this article yet!” lol
Also someone trying to caveman a girl who’s in a group that’s clearly hanging out together (you said she just turned around to the group so I’m assuming you were all standing together) isn’t exactly calibrated. Doesn’t necessarily have much to do with the girl being an “actual person”, it’s more like watching someone shit on a table in a business conference…that’s weird socially awkward behavior.
I’m not disagreeing that there are girls that don’t respond to caveman stuff, but in the scenario you described I’d say that had more to do with the low value demo going on.
An excellent example of this is netvideogirls.com. The guy who does those porn job interview videos has tight game and gets girls who come to interview for a chanec to be photgraphed for his calendar from being skeptical and downright hostile to sucking his cocking with a big, greedy grin on their faces within 30 minutesl all on film and later posted to the Internet. Watch about 5-6 of these videos to see how much is a repititive routine.
^^^^^ facepalm
What’s the matter Ben, don’t believe you can do it? Just keep trying. One day it will all come together for you too.
people with the iq of glue should refrain from posting. thanks tyrone.
Interview after interview of passengers on the Costa Concordia: ‘No-one told us what to do!’
If you peruse discussion forums for women or where women tend to congregate it is amusing to see how often there are discussions involving a need for affirmation or consensus (This can involve plenty of adjectives and exclamation marks. SUPER cool!!) even in ostensibly feminist spaces.
Finns. heh
also, obedience allows women to abdicate personal responsibility in a more plausible manner. the hamster doesn’t need to spin as fast.
Ah, the “just following orders” hamster defense. Good call on the abdication of personal responsibility.
A+
This is also true with church people. Oh that’s right, church has now become a feminist cult in America.
With this and the Chicks Dig Cruelty post you are doing the lords work CH.
Whenever I flirt with girls it is usually a light role play form of rape. I issue orders and if they dont comply I respond with something physical that gives them pain like a playful charlie horse or somethin. Depending on the calibration I might leave it at that level or get even more sexual and dominant depending on the circumstance. Funny how if I verbalise this sort of thing to chicks they will adamantly deny that they ever respond to such chauvinism. However when my actions are basically right in your face shameless douche bag touching you, commanding you and they light up with lust its just simply hilarious.
The other day I grabbed this chicks tit walkin into a bar because she had a shirt that said “all natural jugs”. Her response?
“youre a bad ass arent you?” hahaha
As I have progressed in this form of game I call Cave Man Game I say less and less to chicks and do more touching, staring, walking them down type shit. This is the form of game that came most natural to me so I went with it. I remember that when I lost my virginity with this chick I had a crush on at 16 the tipping point to get over her LMR wasnt words at all. I simply took her hand and put it on my cock.
I do this with my current girl who is 10 yrs younger and she responds immdeiately on command. Even when she doesnt want to or is sore from last night she will take it again regardless.
You want a blowjob? Whip your dick out and put it in your girls mouth!
You have to be attractive to get away with that.
Yeah, I did it the other night at the bar. Caught a girl staring at me, sat down and started flirting with her, ignoring the two guys she was with. The conversation turned to boobs and I grabbed hers.
Turns out one of the guys sitting across from us was her boyfriend, him and his friend flipped out in a bitchy, beta kind of way
Of course, the girl did nothing to stop it, she loved it. I would have kept going but the security was hardcore at this place and I didn’t need the hassle. (I had the manager called on me later on for ordering shots, clubs in my city are insane)
Incidentally, I understand what you guys mean about bitchy American feminazi girls. Earlier in the night (around 9pm) I facepalmed this girl who was flirting with me so she’d go away. In a flirty way of course, DHV and all that.
Next thing you know her fat American friend comes over and starts yelling at me for disrespecting women, saying she’s going to get us kicked out. I let my buddy handle it, he loves a good fight more than me. He told her to fuck off and get the fuck out of our country, but apparently she’s marrying some little bitch who lives here. Too bad. She called security. A bouncer came over and stood next to us for a while, but he didn’t say anything.
I made out with the friend later on, she was only about a 6 (and a smoker) but I wanted to make a point to the fat bitchy one. Then I facepalmed her again and gave her back. Good times…
I record my own music..play guitar. When a girl asks what I do, how does “im a recording artist” sound? does it sound try-hard? Sounds tacky as fuck to me but I hate that question and i want a quick, efficient dhv answer. seems girls respond to that superficial shit, that would make most mens eyes roll….thoughts
Why not just tell them you’re a musician? You play a musical instrument for a living. “Musician” seems pretty self explanatory and a good DHV. Some girls probably wouldn’t get what a recording artist is.
“seems girls respond to that superficial shit”
Women respond to the superficial and vapid the best.
Twilight, one example of millions….
“The other day I grabbed this chicks tit walkin into a bar because she had a shirt that said “all natural jugs”. Her response?
“youre a bad ass arent you?” hahaha”
Nine, I believe your story and agree with what you have to say, but grabbing strangers’ tits is way too extreme for most of us. Too many guys could wind up in a whole lot of trouble attempting something like this.
Sure its extreme. I never wouldve thought to do anything like that years ago because of beta programming. Just because something is extreme isnt any reason not to do it!
Hell alot of innovators did some pretty extreme shit.
Potentially anyone could end up introuble doing it including me. Do I care? Should you care? Sometimes you just gotta say fuck it and follow your impulse(to a degree!). If you have strong frame and awareness then I think there is alot of room for manueverability.
Tell it to the judge. He’ll no doubt dismiss the case as soon as he sees your strong frame and awareness.
I’ll stand with Nine on this one. Used to act that way all the time, zero game beyond boyish good looks. Most chicks are so degraded they won’t much care. If it becomes a dispute it’ll be you and her “guy frenz” at worst. Remember, we’re dealing with chicks who, for the most part, have by their late teens engaged in truly wanton sex acts which would make our ancestors faint. If not then they have a crusty dildo under their mattress.
A man is far likelier to be falsely accused of rape than go to jail for grabbing a drunk broad’s titty. Think about it. Unless they are self-described feminists, they’ve been there before, are used to it, and aren’t going to call a halt to the whole party just because some cad felt them up.
Reaching for the forbidden fruit is a total bad boy act, too. Most times they’re so shocked you did it they forget to be offended. Can’t tell you how many have said, “WOW — I don’t know if I should be offended or flattered!!”
Cue the onslaught of uncalibrated newbies who read this stuff and think “what?? I can skip the whole “learning to be a cool guy” and “learning to socialize like a normal human being” and “learning to read other people’s emotions and feelings and calibrate to the interaction so I don’t creep everyone the fuck out” thing that takes actual work, and just run around grabbing tits?? WOOHOO!!!” and then get their faces punched in by guys at the bar, tossed out by bouncers, charged with sexual assault at the office, etc.
That stuff is totally do-able, I do it too, but it’s not for socially awkward newbies lol
Some people gotta go through the school of hard knocks, I suppose
Anyone else laugh at the little dead girl being called veronica moser? I’ll leave y’all to do the gooling.
Paging yareally.
I dont follow…
Veronica moser is a scat whore of an actress. And a little girl who was murdered had the same name.
Weak joke.
I haven’t seen this taught in game, but a lot of naturals seem to know just how and when to get the target to sext them, presumably w/o triggering ASD. What a great compliance test – high risk, high reward.
How do they do it?
I would like to see a chateau post on “naturals.” I don’t see them as all the same. Some play more of a “high risk/reward” type of gambit, because they are more a “it’s all number’s game natural.”
Then again, there is the type of natural who knows where he is at in the situation and is not really taking much of a risk. He keeps track of the moves he is making and how the girl is responding and he already has a deep understanding of female nature even when he can’t read her response well. He can make an NBA 3-pointer turned around backwards.
This, basically.
They have a lot of experience with women so they have massive calibration. Like how the Dog Whisperer dude knows all sorts of shit about what a dog’s body language indicates it’s state is that anyone who hasn’t spent that much time with dog’s would be oblivious to.
Testing the waters is usually key. You drop a tiny bit of innuendo in a conversation. If she bites on it and plays along, you can escalate it (slowly, radio knobs and all that) to sexting, if she doesn’t bite, she’s not in the mood keep the conversation normal or txt her later.
After you’ve already fucked her it’s a lot easier, especially if you’ve set the frame that all you’re offering her in the relationship in general is sex and flirting.
i’ve said it once, i’ll say it again.. being alpha is a function of male physical attractiveness, which is testosterone-regulated and therefore genetically pre-determined. if you’re ugly and/or have no money in the bank, you aren’t going to be telling any woman anything, i don’t care how good your social skills are.
alphas are born, not made. only a moron would think otherwise.
Well, I agree that it’s testosterone regulated, but it certainly can be developed over time. Otherwise I wouldn’t have been able to go from 22 year old good looking dude with a full head of hair who had only slept with one chick his whole life, to 30 year old beer gut bald guy who fucks 50-100 chicks a year.
Ehh…you’d be surprised.
Certainly not every woman will submit to you, but you keep trying until you find one that does. If you’re willing to follow feminist advice in reverse, you can be surprisingly successful even with relatively poor fundamentals.
you guys still don’t get it.. women prioritize physical attractiveness in a partner just like men; the only difference is that women will relax those standards for material resources when considering long-term relationships.
that means that if you’re ugly and broke, you aren’t getting with anyone or anything. you can pretend to be “alpha” all you want, but in the end, genes trump culture and its what your face looks like which determines whether you pass on your dna or not.
No , YOU still don’t get it . I agree with you to a point. Natural alpha traits are a birthright . BUT the average guy ( assuming he has sufficient wit and determination ) can learn to fake and assimilate those attributes well enough to pull exquisite tail.
Do NOT make the mistake of confusing your personal lack of will power with the power of game. Like almost anything else in life you get out of it what you put into it. Negativity and your defeatist attitude are getting the better of you.
Start by working on your inner game. All the lines and tactics in the world wont help you until you get that sorted out.
Most importantly you MUST believe in you. No one is going to validate you or mentor you or make you believe in yourself. It comes from within and if you can’t find it on you own, then you will live up to your pseudonym.
Strong username to post content correlation.
Ba-dump ching
If you are a male 4, let’s say, game will not magically enable you to bang 9s and 10s (although it is definitely possible). Perhaps you couldn’t get any girls at all? Now maybe you can get a female 4 instead of zilch. With more game understanding and self improvement perhaps you can score a 6, and if you desire an LTR, game will give you a better chance of keeping her.
It’s not all or nothing. It’s trite, but you do the best you can with what you got. Or you can be alone. I’m not saying it’s easy, life isn’t fair. But you are better off knowing game than not knowing it, maybe one day you’ll trip over a girl who shows an attraction to you, and you’ll be prepared instead of clueless.
Very interesting. I was chatting and building comfort with a 29 year old Chinese flight attendant I had gamed on OK Cupid but had not met yet.
I calibrated quite early that “cock-funny” would not work well on this girl so switched to first making assumptions: “you look korean…”
To the asking her direct questions from her profile: “You give advice? What kind of advice”. She was into it and impressed with power.
During the course of this comfort-building phase she admitted women love power saying there is a Chinese saying: Women resist then submit” or some such.
Elsewhere here it’s been written that if a woman doesn’t feel lead, she’ll lead—therefore the need for shit-testing.
It’s worth noting that the elements of attraction are: 1) Leader of men 2) Pre-selection- wanted by other women 3) Protector of women and children.
The girl I went out with all last year was truly an example of this. She was constantly shit-testing and freaking out. Finally I broke up with her.
It’s strange….since we broke up she has been more submissive to me than when we were going out.
We don’t bang, but she now does everything for me—no request is too small—gifts, favours, cooking, support etc.
After breaking up with her i’ve met and banged 5 different women which she may or may not know about —-but it doesn’t matter.
I noticed long ago whenever a there is a political group made up of women, left right or other, it always pushes for bigger government and less personal freedoms. N.O.W., Concerned Women for America, M.A.D.D. etc etc.
Anti-miscegenation folks are gonna fa
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I almost fainted.
Scripted MSM PC bullshit.
If u know a girl is outside your leagues would you game or give in? And beta up! .. When is d number of days to give up if she is given in …. am on a trip with dis Girl i have know for 3 yrs.. I have to smaSh her
From the way you type it sounds like every girl is out of your league. wtf are you asking dude.
“From the way you type it sounds like every girl is out of your league. ”
lol
If you are worried about leagues you already lost. The general advice around here is to not desperately chase one particular pussy. When you fail with this chick and she shits down your throat move to the next one. Practice the advice routinely given here on as many (preferably attractive) women as possible until it becomes a part of you. Start by going back 160 or so pages and reading every post ever written here if you don’t have a good theoretical grasp of the subject.
To add to what the others have already said about your comment, I’d be careful throwing around the “out of my league” BS. I was brought up to believe that crap by my Beta father. Consequently, I passed up girls I assumed were beyond my reach only to watch them date and/or marry guys who were worse-looking than me, less successful, bald, shorter, and sometimes even overweight (which I’m not).
What’s worse, these guys were often a “variation” on me, meaning I was definitely in the field of who these girls would have wanted. Live and learn.
I can’t find a good video of a scene where the man is ordering a meal for a woman.
Any help?
Birthing a child is extremely painful. Therefore, all mothers hate their children and want to try to inflict torture upon them.
They tell their sons to be supplicating nice-guys so they will thereby get to watch them drown in pain. They will get disgustingly fat right after a daughter is born to make sure that hot guys with options will reject her daughter with extreme pump and dump cruelty.