Rollo comments, concerning the de-stigmatization of polyamory subject, Making Up for Missing Out: On a social scale it seem like the next deductive next step – blend a justifiable Eat Pray Love narrative with the more visceral (yet unignorable) sexuality of 50 Shades and women will readily consume it. I expect there will be the … Read more
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Tucked in the CH archives is a seminal (heh) post on the subject of male sexual pleasure and how it relates to women’s hotness. It was titled “Hotter Women, Better Sex” and it scandalized neophyte ears, and provoked knowing nods from romantically experienced players. I suspect the people who think that men chase hot girls the most … Read more
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The shapes of female figures have real world consequences, for both men’s capacity to experience pleasure and willingness to commit, and for women’s ability to leverage the sexual market to snag a winner man and fulfill their romantic needs. Given that men, unlike women, are neurally primed to get aroused and motivated solely by stimulating … Read more
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A reader passed along a link to a post from what I believe is a satire website, called ‘The Reductress’. The post title is ‘Nicholas Sparks’ Wife: Romantic Gestures Are Not Orgasms’. It’s funny, if stylistically pedestrian. “She really was my muse,” Nicholas said of the former lending company account executive, who he proposed to … Read more
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Commenter dirkdiggly unzips in front of a mirror and ‘miringly unfurls this meaty tale of modern romance: What fun it would be to make a “romcom” depicting a fiery romantic relationship as it actually plays out for the garden-variety CH apprentice… Boy meets girl at a gathering of mutual friends. Girl is objectively prettier than … Read more
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There is no male equivalent to the female “five minutes of alpha” heart trap. Men simply don’t experience the same intense urge as women to constantly compare and contrast present lovers to past or potential future lovers. The hypergamous instinct, while technically a property of both sexes, is most pronounced in women. To reiterate why: … Read more
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Posted in The Pleasure Principle on Sep 1st, 2014
Commenter Max from Australia ponders an elegant mathematical formula of marital satisfaction. If a Man and a woman both have 20 sex partners: the odds are::: 1/20 X 1/20 = 1/400 That they will both be sexually satisfied by the one they marry. Close, but no didgeridoo! The concept is correct. The more past partners … Read more
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Promiscuous men can handle their promiscuity better than promiscuous women can handle theirs. Compare and contrast: This is how a man looks after twenty lovers: This is how a woman looks after twenty lovers: That’s the thousand cock stare. You can’t miss it. It’s derangement that penetrates right to the soul. Not only are promiscuous … Read more
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A Japanese company claims to have reached the next level in developing the most genuine looking sex doll which comes complete with realistic feeling skin and authentic looking eyes. Orient Industry say their new range of dolls, made from high quality silicon, are so realistic there is very little to distinguish them from a real … Read more
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Once again, ❤science❤ has entered, stage right, as a supporting cast member of Chateau Heartiste’s magnum opus. Once again, you won’t be led astray if you embrace CH observations as your own. You could say there’s a Heartiste Rule in effect at this happy hurting ground: 80% of keen-eyed CH lessons drawn from field experience … Read more
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