If you are a man such as myself with a long and storied relationship history, it will start to worry new girls that you meet why you have decided to remain “single”, i.e. unmarried. You see, a former marriage, no matter how spectacular its failing, is a mark of success on a man; it says … Read more
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It was early evening and the sun still blazed on the horizon, casting shards of soft yellow light across faces and dewy beer pints. Sitting on the bar stools to my right were two white women. I could tell they were friends by their isolationist banter. I looked over and visually judged them; both were … Read more
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Posted in Game, Girls on Jul 2nd, 2010
Here’s a good rule of thumb: Whenever a woman cancels a date and doesn’t offer an alternative time, she is rejecting you. It doesn’t matter if the excuse she gives sounds plausible, or you have proof that she really can’t make the date due to other obligations. If she doesn’t offer a make-up date, she’s … Read more
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This may be the quote of the year: The hard-boiled bachelorette, Ma Nuo, has gone on to become one of China’s most recognizable bai jin nu [golddigger]. Marry for love? Fat chance, said the material girl: “I would rather cry in a BMW than smile on the back of my boyfriend’s bicycle.” That’s from an article … Read more
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Posted in Game, Girls, Rules of Manhood on Jun 22nd, 2010
Match.com has an article called ‘Are You Dating A Player?‘ which warns women away from players by identifying some telltale signs of the inveterate philanderer (i.e., the man most attractive to women). He’s bold. For the player, the pickup is a game. He doesn’t approach women with the same nerves or awkwardness of a normal … Read more
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Posted in Game, Girls on Jun 21st, 2010
I had two conversations going on. One with my date (first date) sitting next to me and one in my head. “They call this game the beautiful sport. Personally, I think bowling should have that title. What do you think?” “I wouldn’t call bowling a sport.” She smirks. “Sure it is. Hand eye coordination. Groupies. … Read more
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Posted in Culture, Game, Girls on Jun 9th, 2010
In the evening on weekdays, the sidewalks teem with girls carrying yoga mats tucked under arms to or from classes. Their hair smartly propped in ponytails, perfectly round asses straining against black tights with neon green or peach colored waistbands rolled over the top, they are a flesh phalanx of trimmed and toned T&A. Women … Read more
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Posted in Game, Girls on Jun 1st, 2010
Occasionally, after you have been dating a girl for a few weeks, she will ask if you are seeing other girls. This is the worst sort of beta bait because it is so innocuous sounding. What man wouldn’t want to reassure a girl he is dating that she’s the only one for him? Most betas … Read more
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Posted in Girls, Ugly Truths on Jun 1st, 2010
OneSTDV has an interesting post up about an ABC TV show which conducted a social experiment to determine if strangers would help an obviously beaten woman in a public restaurant when her violent boyfriend shows up. Actors played the roles of the abused girlfriend and the abusive boyfriend. A bunch of clackety clacking hens over … Read more
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Posted in Game, Girls on May 26th, 2010
I was speaking with a woman of considerable savviness in matters of male-female socializing. I wanted to know how to deal with a situation that required tip-toeing the line between candor and deceit. This is the advice she gave me. ME: So this girl that I think is cute asks me if the girl she … Read more
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