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Spot The Overgaming

If I pounce on readers, it’s because I want you to grow as men and as Lotharios. Tuff luv. So I had to take a swipe at this text convo that reader “rlcooper” passed along. Been reading your stuff for a while but recently realised how fucking necessary this stuff is. Just wondering if you […]

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Balancing Comfort With Unease

Lurking_Gorilla asks, I have a game question. Where is the balance between her being nervous around you versus her being comfortable around you (to open up sexually)? CH Maxim #44: “Women can’t feel impassioned without also feeling a little unease.” No doubt. It’s better she feels a little nervous around you, and afraid to say […]

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You know, all these warnings by women about players and their charming ways wouldn’t be necessary if women weren’t instinctively falling for their charms. Think about it. You won’t read too many articles warning women away from boring beta males. Women manage to Heisman those guys all on their own without directives from Cosmo. Vox […]

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What does an uphill battle with a girl in chat look like? A reader who shall go by the initials “CM” writes, Attached is my first contribution for your critique and the amusement of readers of the hallowed chambers of the Château. Here in middle sized university city UK there aren’t too many 8+ around […]

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Reader rj4luv emails details of his quim quandary, Gambler once said ..”once you ask for advice on a particular girl , you’ve already lost the game .” I guess I lost. So I am in college (18 yo , yup) I got this girl X interested in me, (a lot of IOIs ,constantly gazing at […]

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How Not To Sound Defensive

Reader Mr. Meaner passes along a text convo with a girl that stands as an excellent example of solid reframing and grace under pressure, Here’s a text convo I had with a Tinder girl: Her: Hey, how’s it going? Me: wow. Her: Wow? Me: you look like a nice one Her: What is that supposed […]

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The Art Of Playfulness

Women love playful men. Playfulness, broadly defined, is nonverbal teasing. Or it’s the physical and verbal working together as an insincere form of taunting. Not many men are naturally playful, especially with attractive women. Men tense up in the presence of sexually enticing women, and this discomfort is anathema to cultivating a playful demeanor. Playfulness […]

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A neuroscientist working for Uber (the GPS-based personal taxi service) has compiled and analyzed its in-house data (your secrets are safe with them, they promise) and uncovered some interesting rider patterns in San Franswishco. Of particular interest to players on the make is the data that shows where in a city the girls are going […]

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“Gear switching” is a common female manipulative tactic that is very good at tripping up less experienced men. You can tell it’s happening when one minute a woman is seemingly signaling her romantic interest, and the next she’s taunting you for thinking you’re in her league. Reader “Jaki” offers a case study of female gear […]

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Male sexual entitlement – in its broader application, overconfidence – is attractive to women. Here is an example of it in action (messages from girl on left): Reader Blick Mang writes, Please rewind to 2005, slap me in the face, and say “I fucking told you so.” No further commentary required. Thank you for it […]

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