If a woman cheats on you, there is only one acceptable response:
WALK.
And don’t look back.
Anything else is accommodation.
For if you decide to “stand by” and “support” your cheating ho, you’ll have doomed yourself to being a second class man in her eyes.
Female infidelity is the septic tank of shit tests. Trying to “pass” this shit test within the boundaries of a relationship will only cover you in liquid shit. If a woman knows she can get away with cucking you, there’s no end to the mischief she’ll visit on your dignity. The surefire way to lose a woman’s respect is to forgive her cheating. You will forever be that pitiable beta spittoon who stood by her side soothing her worries and relieving her guilt after she opened her furrow to another man’s plough. You set yourself up as a man for whom no woman’s insult to his pride is too great to endure.
“Ladies night out with some random men in tow? Of course my boyfriend is cool with it! He forgave my cheating.”
“Getting drunk with my boss at an after-work function? Of course my boyfriend is cool with it! He forgave my cheating.”
“Attending an underwear and dildo party with a casting couch director? Of course my boyfriend is cool with it! He forgave my cheating.”
“Getting pregnant while on a two-week ‘business trip’ in Ibiza alone and telling my boyfriend it’s his? Of course he’s cool with it! He forgave my cheating.”
There’s no turning a ho into a loyal harem primary. You could Game her into a more compliant and respectful lover, but the stink of her infidelity, and your disgrace, will waft over the detente. No real love can find purchase in that poisoned ground.
Remind yourself that female cheating never occurs in an emotional vacuum, or without downstream consequences. (Male cheating often does occur in an emotional vacuum, because of the male psychological wiring predisposing to visual-triggered arousal and polygyny when the option is available.)
If she cheats because she’s impulsive, then what’s stopping her from giving in to her urges again? If she cheats because she is horny for the alpha fux to supplement your beta bux, then how will you feel knowing that your worth as a man to her is as an asexual sounding board with a wallet? If she cheats to fill a romantic void, then she likely had a long emotional affair accompanied by nightly fantasies before she physically consummated her infidelity, in which case you would be tolerating and forgiving not one isolated cheating event, but months and perhaps years worth of emotional betrayal, creating a horrible imbalance of power that will corrupt any attempts to salvage the relationship. Very rarely will women cheat spontaneously and out of the blue if their relationships bristle with sexual polarity.
A reader asks,
What about beating the shit out of her?
Scoundrels would argue that’s an option for a more enlightened age in the past. But we’ve regressed as a society, so the best move is to move on, and leave her to suffer the fallout by herself.
Another reader suggests the playa protocol (aka the “I don’t give a shit about her feelings anymore” full throttle pump and dump alternative),
Ah might I suggest banging her sister or best friend? Takes some good frame control to be sure but it is one way to do it…or for the hardcore men her mother.
Make lemonade out of sour pussies.
Banging another woman within the social orbit of your cheating ho is the MOAB of Dread Game. You drop that explosive load and you’ll wipe the patronizing smirk right offa dat ho’s mug.
Ghosting on a cheater is for men who had good intentions and wanted to get serious with the girl. If you’ve made a bad investment, cut your losses because that slutstock will never rise again….for you. But if you’re just playing around with a girl and you discover she cheated on you, the option remains to continue fucking her, if she’s still putting out and you double bag it. I have done this once with a fling; we had a few great months of fucking, and then I came across evidence suggesting she may have cheated — although under the circumstances, I’m not sure it qualified as cheating since I never gave her promises of exclusivity. Anyhow, instead of confronting her about her whoring, I ignored it and continued the Plow Protocol, knowing it would end soon. The important detail was that it would end on my timetable. Three weeks later, after loading her up with a few more gallons of souljuice, (and sensing by her erratic behavior that the time to move was then), I told her I couldn’t see it working out, and that she was great but she wasn’t the one. Her face instantly morphed from distracted indifference to twisted rage. WHAAAT, she bellowed, are you taking about? You’re not good for me, I said. Red-faced, she fumed, Whatever, maybe you should know I’ve been cheating on you! Eyebrows raised half-staff, I feigned mild surprise. Ok, then no harm no foul. This works out for both of us.
The key to really sticking the shiv under the skin of a cheater is state control. You knew she was like that, you didn’t care, the fucking was great regardless, but there was no way she would be anything more than a fun time for you.
“I told her I couldn’t see it working out, and that she was great but she wasn’t the one.”
You’re a better man than I.
I just disappear and never talk to them again.
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I guess that’s what you meant by “Ghosting”.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Ghosting
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Always leave a cheating gf. Period. Do not pass Go!, do not collect $200.
Well, maybe on your way, fuck her mom or sister, yes. But if you stay after that, she’s going to eventually stab you or worse.
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t777, you also need to go to that Dark Place and start into The Abyss and axe yourself WTF you did wrong.
Examine your weaknesses, your mistakes, your misjudgments.
Be brutally honest with yourself as to your shortcomings.
Then double down on the ZFG, reject & eject all the weaknesses, and swear to yourself that you’ll never be that loser again.
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stare into The Abyss
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Get out, but skip the revenge. It just proves you cared too much and feeds her love of drama. Leave with dignity, because the woman can accuse you of rape, get preggo and sue for child support, etc…
If you had other women in your life as an alpha should, you won’t have oneitis and give a shit what some batshit does with her life.
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The best failure is the early failure. Learn the lessons and go out again.
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I know you can’t extrapolate from the particular to the general but when I was younger there was a lot of cheating among married couples of my acquaintance yet their marriages all survived to this day and seem to be no different to anyone else’s.
[CH: it matters who’s doing the cheating. marriages can survive male infidelity because men don’t need emotional connection to cheat, and the consequences for the marriage are far less catastrophic than female infidelity.]
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a lot of reasons why women cheating is worse
one difference between men and women cheating is that when a man cheats, his girl will be hurt/feel betrayed but will most likely respect him more for doing it. especially if she was dropping the ball in the relationship.
if she loves him and wants to keep him, it will actually encourage her to get her act together more so she can prevent it from happening again. so respect and a new found desire can be renewed in the woman after a man cheats
when a woman cheats, she already has lost respect and desire to please her man or she wouldn’t be doing it in the first place. then if he forgives her and stays with her, she doesn’t gain more respect and desire for him, she actually has even less than she had before the cheating. on top of that, the man feels betrayed and disgusted by her being intimate with another man. the idea of that repulses most sane men.
hopefully a man chooses a good woman who he never feels the desire to cheat on. but if he does, the relationship can usually survive. sometimes it can even be better for it.
when a woman cheats, the relationship is never better for it, it can only get worse
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pretty much true…had to tell my gf about a date i had with another chick that ended up in my getting put in jail. After a drink or two she wanted to jump on me.
I went home anyway just because I didn’t want to find out she had changed her mind in the middle of the night and I wake up dead.
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And don’t overlook that women emotionally cheat without physical cheating often. It’s a situation that’s almost as serious and you need to make sure thet never happens
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yep
like i said, there are a lot of reasons it’s worse when women cheat. the loss of respect she’ll have for you after is just one of them.
men can have a fling with someone they don’t care one wit about and still go home to love his w1fe. there are even some who can love more than one woman. i had a great uncle who had a second family in secret for many years. he loved both women equally. when a man is with one woman, it’s not necessarily a sign he has less love for another.
women can’t separate things out like that and they can’t have strong feelings for more than one man at a time.
so if she’s giving herself over to another man, she’s feeling it for him not you. she can’t do that unless she’s already done with you in her heart. once a girl gets to the point of cheating, it’s already over
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And don’t overlook that women emotionally cheat without physical cheating often. It’s a situation that’s almost as serious and you need to make sure thet never happens
Don’t those iPhags make it pretty much inevitable that pretty much all women are “emotionally cheating”?
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Yes. Their phones are their one true Chad. Doesn’t matter how she blathers on, the phone is always there to listen to her, take photos of her, give her the attention she craves. And it even lets her order in anonymous cock.
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@irishsavant “…yet their m@rriages all survived to this day and seem to be no different to anyone else’s.”
Probably I am cheap but what really grinds my balls about w1ves cheating is that – financially or otherwise – it means that the husb@nd is *paying* for the bitch to fuck other guys.
If a husb@nd fucks another woman, the w1fe isn’t out-of-pocket or even out of time. And it isn’t the case that w0men have to put up with men, but men certainly have to put up with women.
Basically, wom3n are just stupid pests a lot of the time, so if the husb@nd is putting up with her shit but some other guy is tapping it hassle-free, shouldn’t that chaff?
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Perhaps, but there seems to be a lot more cheating these days, especially from girls. I’ve never seen it this bad, or, from a man’s capitalization view, so easy…
[CH: word from the field is that female cheating is way up over historical US norms. i’ve heard the same horror stories, and frankly i predicted this new reality in old CH posts. economic self-sufficiency has incentivized female cheating. also, i believe beta male thirst, support, forgiveness, and toleration of female cheating enables it as well.]
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I used to say 90 days, and now no more than 30 days, and maybe more like 3 days, but if she ain’t Mother of Your Children material, then move on quickly.
Conversely, if she is MoYC material, then immediately get her off all of the ab0rtifacients [subdural Norplant/Implanon, IUD, oral BC] and kn0ck her up within 90 days. [And the very best of them won’t be on the ab0rtificatients to begin with.]
In the modern world, 90 days is a lifetime.
Move quickly to get out, or move quickly to get IN [with the pr0geny], but do not dilly-dally.
Dilly-Dallying & Wishy-Washiness are for Betas.
Alphas make a decision and then act upon it.
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The sh!t don’t get real until you introduce progeny into the equation.
The rest of it is this artificially constructed nightmare of Instagram/Snapchat/Tinder Days-of-our-Lives/General-Hospital merry-go-round cock-carousel Gramscian-Cocoon-of-Anti-Reality (((Bug People Satanic Ever-Dying Hell on Earth))).
Make it real, and stick around.
Or leave. Fast.
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And if you do decide to make it real, then you up the ante with the choke-phuckings and the wh!ppings and the black eyes.
You leave no doubt whatsoever in her Hamster’s mind as to who precisely [and who alone] is her Baby Daddy.
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This is absurd. Most of the guys on here probably haven’t been laid in 90 days, how tf you expect them to make a good decision on this in such a short timeframe?
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That’s precisely my point.
I don’t expect them to make a good decision. I expect them to make a bad decision.
I’m just telling them how to go about making the good decision.
Alphas TRUST THEIR INSTINCTS.
Betas get lost in the Fog of War which the Frankfurt School is constantly spraying all over the battlefield.
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Preening simply for your pleasure, CO.
3rd bun currently in oven.
First two are knockout blonde and blues.
Building the future army one bun at a time.
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^Thread Winner.
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“i believe beta male thirst, support, forgiveness, and toleration of female cheating enables it as well.”
The amount of “understanding” in our society is disgusting. Understanding and caring are great things but there is a line. A line that is crossed against something so good should never go without severe consequence.
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” beta male thirst, support, forgiveness, and toleration of female cheating enables it as well”
Like the recent spate of female teachers fucking their students and then their dudsbands “standing by” them at sentencing? Seems the main thing that college inculcate in most female students is an endless lust for riding the carousel (I know, no news there). It’s pretty dangerous for most men involved with them, and utterly disastrous when they’re “teaching” in junior and senior high.
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It’s Facebook but alphas need to be responsible with woman and be their brothers keeper. I’m not sure woman can say no to God therefore it’s gods responsibility to say no to them. Has to do with men needing to protect woman’s souls from themselves we have power we know we have power how do we use that?
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Same token woman need to have it within them to say no but under 16 I would say I don’t think woman could say no to me.therefore it is my responsibility not to lead that direction.
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STD stats tell a big chunk of the story.
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[…] She Cheated On You. What Now? […]
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I have friends and acquaintances that I’m convinced would undoubtedly forgive cheating girlfriends/spouses…It’s so prevalent that I bet the rest of you here know a buddy or two who would forgive their girlfriend/spouse…
[CH: weak men with no perceptible options forgive cheating women. there’s no escaping from that sexual market reality.]
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i have a brother and a friend who forgave their women. one was a long term girlfriend. the other was only a short term thing but still serious and supposedly heading toward marriage
things seemed to get better at first. both girls seemed more attentive and trying to make it up the men. bragging about their love on social media, the works. that didn’t last long though. within a year both couples were just as bad off as before. probably worse and they were just putting on a brave face so no one would know what was happening behind the scenes
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bragging about their love on social media
ALERT! ALERT! MACH SCHNELL! Whore mining her own horrible behavior for likes and virtual validation! Immediate implementation of retrograde movement action plans is required!
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dont get this. whores arent all that expensive. not great but better than cheating gf.
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If you have that attitude, your hand is cheaper still, amirite?
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[CH: weak men with no perceptible options forgive cheating women. there’s no escaping from that sexual market reality.]
Couldn’t agree more. The amount of disgust I have for men like that is a mile high…
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what’s worse is that these women get the enormous ego boost of having a man forgive her.
these crap women who don’t even pay a penalty for their behavior. instead they get his continued support and commitment, him trying to please her so she won’t do it again, etc.
that’s how you create monsters
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This is one of those rare truly black and white issues. No matter the circumstances of her infidelity, there is absolutely no going back without permanently diminishing your manhood. Ever. Period.
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Not even if her was raped
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I don’ t think actual rape counts as “infidelity.” That’s like saying being unexpectedly mugged just outside the bank while heading in with your paycheck is the same as gambling it away.
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How autistic. Anyway she’s used by other men. Things aren’t guilty of worth less when they are used, but they worth less. Women are like stuff
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that’s fantastic
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Stoning cheating sluts is a good tradition.
Romans punished (to death?) husbands for their wives’ infidelities. Of course that was when only fags thought that let women out of the house was a good idea and wife beating was mandatory daily. Getting rid of liberal men that way was very eugenic.
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“Getting rid of liberal men that way was very eugenic.”
LOL’ed.
From the archives:
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It makes sense to punish the husbands of wayward wives as well. Men whp get lax in thier pimphand duties have put all of society at risk
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“Romans punished (to death?) husbands for their wives’ infidelities.”
Proof that Romans were more masculine than Muslims.
And an attitude I could get behind.
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She Cheated On You. What Now?
Defamation, give publicity of her acts and shaming. And cut obviously
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Even the Bible makes it perfectly clear in numerous places that it is absolutely fine to move on after your woman cheats, it’s just a situation that can never be reconciled within the man’s mind. God is not unjust, He gets it.
Honestly, if that happened to you, and you stayed with the cheater, could you get the mental pic out of your head of her blowing and/or banging some other dude. Good luck with that!
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yeah, i was cheated on by an ex. you’re right about never getting over it. i couldn’t.
at first i felt a lot of guilt because of course she had a shizload of reasons why she did it which basically boiled down to it being all my fault. some of it was sure, but most of it wasn’t. she cheated on her exes too and i was stupid enough to think i’d be different.
but even though i was in repair mode trying to fix things because i thought it was all on me, i was also thinking of her giving herself to the other guy all the time and how i had been intimate with her after that without even knowing it.
i was pretty disgusted by it and her. i ended up not being able to touch her at all without thinking of her as dirty and tainted. i stopped trying to work on it anymore and that was the end of it
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Good for you!
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thanks man
it was one of the hardest times i’ve had in my life. i was head over heels for this girl.
staying focused on her actions instead of staying in guilt/fix it mode was the key for me. i may not have been the best boyfriend all of the time. i had things i needed to work on. but that didn’t mean i could or had to pretend what she did didn’t happen.
she was still responsible for doing what she did and i didn’t have to accept it or live with it. it was a real eye opener for me
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What does being a ‘good boyfriend’ mean. Im curious. My inclination is to think there is a lot of women that would prefer a distant, abrupt and even cold partner, as long as he was tough as teak and good looking/socially popular.
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^T-Phil staring into The Abyss.
Re-defining the very language we use to describe Reality.
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Contrary to most observations here, I’ve noticed an uptick in alpha attitude, a decrease in liberal political statements by females and increase in men lifting and getting in shape since Trump was elected. Many liberal chicks actually want to get drilled by Trump supporters, not pajama boy. I know my fortunes have improved since the world changed on Nov. 8, 2016.
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@ l82dagame…
I bet 75% of these femalel cheaters are married, or date, to liberal beta cucks…
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“Just walk away”
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haha totally. Best answer.
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tbh
only time I was cheated on was during a long distance thing where i was getting action but telling herthat i was staying true
she fessed up in a series of texts about getting fucked by somebody at university
i t was a blow to me but it also freed me from some guilt. we were growing apart n e ways because long distance doesn’t work. it was delusional to think it would work
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I’m surprised that this even needs to be said.
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yeah, unfortunately there are still a lot of men who will keep a girl after she cheats. it’s all the brainwashing people get nowadays.
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I posted this in the last thread but will post again, BUT GUYS WOMEN CHEATING IS OK!
http://www.cnn.com/2017/10/05/health/why-women-cheat-partner/index.html
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Gesu Cristo, that article! It tries to make female cheating some sort of revolutionary act against “duh patriarchy”, but can’t keep that pretense up, finally admitting that women just get bored really easily and want what they want NOW.
What’s ironic is a number of these women claim that their husbands “are like children”, while at the same time positing that thinking everything should come easily and she should be happy every minute of every day is an adult worldview.
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Eddie Murphy said it best for ’em… be somebody, be a ‘ho:
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The way I see it is that we’re just in a transitional phase. Those tend to be chaotic, except for those who truly know how to capitalize on it. The last century has given us dishwashers, refrigerators, computers, transportation, etc. We have become less and less reliant on individual relationships and more upon the technological advances. Women no longer require validation from the husbands, they can just post a selfie and all the thirsties give that to her. Technology will come full swing and solve the male problem in the form of the perfect, non-cheating, non-testing, non-vapid robot of his dreams. We are just caught in a transitional period where some folks can adapt accordingly (cad types), while the rest bare with it.
Women will soon come to know their true worth. It’s not career grrrl or gatekeepers to sex. This will be the next revolution. It will dig deep in to the psyche of society. Many men will simply go on with their life without needing flesh and blood. Some will become “breeders” either through the sport of it or because fundamentally wired. It will become a form of Darwinism, which should lead to the next phase.
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This post reminds me of a joke:
My friend says that his wife likes to talk during sex…in fact, he told me, just the other night she called him from the motel. ta-dum
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You can actually recover from this. Did it with a past girlfriend (broke up because I moved to the other side of the earth). You need to
1. Have her get an equally hot or hotter close friend of hers for you to fuck. It’s important that SHE makes this happen, not you.
2. Threesome with hot friend, only a) your gf sucks you off til you’re ready to pound her friend and b) she never gets fucked, instead getting to listen to her friend get satisfied by you and suck pussy juice off your dick.
She agrees, she is genuinely sorry and every time she sees her friend she will be reminded to never fuck around. She doesn’t, push that ho straight onto the trash heap where she belongs.
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youre stupider than shits i take
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Some sane advice from McDonalds University of Pickup.
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Unless it is something that can be easily done I would not spend time and energy scheming revenge. Fucking her sister, mother, girlfriend…
Life is too short to waste time; just move on to the next prospect
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nah. revenge is Awesome.
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also
being a willing cucks lowers u in other men’s eyes which I think is the worst part
it was always the elephant in the room when my boy forgave his hoebag girl for a drunken fuck with her ex
like u can’t unsee that shit. how can u hold the same respect for dude n e more.
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true
it’s hard to be fake nice to the girl when he brings her around too. you have to because he’s your buddy and he chose to stay with her. can only tell him he’s a dumbass for keeping her so many times until you have to let it go and respect his decision. hard to see that happen to a guy you like though
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a cuck buddy is worth nothing. he’ll bail when you need him most.
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true
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changed my mind on this. a man might be a cuck with a woman but that doesn’t always make him a bad friend or a screw up in every other part of his life. in most cases it’s a bad sign but not always.
i’ve known some good guys who were great at their jobs, in their communities, with friends, family, etc but total pussies when it came to their women. situational alphas i guess.
sometimes a man can come off still looking good if people don’t know the whole story with the girl, he is a rockstar in everything else, and she is able to keep up a decent image. most will just feel sorry for him that he is stuck with someone below him but they won’t necessarily question his worth for it.
the situation a doesn’t want is when it’s obvious to everyone that the girl is low quality, raunchy, a cheater, etc. your girl represents you. so if you’ve got a girl everyone sees in a poor light that’s going to reflect poorly on you.
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A buddy of mine just finally stopped cucking after his oneitis. After forgiving her for fucking his then best-friend he got back with her but it wasn’t long before she was up to her old tricks so I hope he ditched her for good.
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I have to show some appreciation for the fact that the option of beating her for her infidelity was given an honest reply. You will rarely if ever see a genuine question like that get a genuine response. That is the intellectual honesty I expect at the Chateau.
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Honestly, its the first instinct of most non brainwashed men around the world. You think in Colombia, Uganda, Kazakhstan if a wife cheats she won’t get hit?
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I find it odd that a woman would continue to have sex with a man she was cheating on. Every case I’ve ever seen of the girl cheating involves no sex for the guy getting cucked, and the sex draught usually starts well in advance of the cheating.
It seems like only a raging slut would be simultaneously fucking multiple guys.
Frequency and quality of sex in my experience has been a pretty good leading indicator for the health of the relationship.
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true for the most part
although my girl did still have sex with me around the time she cheated. in retrospect, i can see it wasn’t her initiating because she had a voracious appetite that needed to be filled by more than one man.
but more probably she was giving me what i needed occasionally so i would get off her back about my needs and also so i wouldn’t suspect anything.
true what you say about a lackluster sex life and drought leading up to it. our sex life was nothing to brag about
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What’s the bounds of cheating?
If she drunkenly makes out with a guy, and tells you after with apologies, still time to bounce?
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Yes, FFS.
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Hahaha.
But she apologized…!
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What kind of question is this?
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she’s not telling you the whole story
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yes that’s cheating
and why would she tell you? girls only tell you that kind of thing if they are secretly hoping you’ll break up with them over it. if she really loved you, she would carry that secret to her deathbed
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correction:
girls only tell you that if they are…
a. secretly hoping you’ll break up with them
OR
b. to see if you’re the kind of chump who will forgive her and be her patsy for the rest of your life
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@Cracker They tell you that because 1. They want to test the waters: if he doesn’t break up over me making out with someone then it should be fine to continue 2. They’re usually downplaying the whole thing: making out usually means more than that 3. Biologically they always trade up. Hypergamy. So if you don’t dump her they will assume you’re too weak anyway. That’s the paradox.
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Making out with a dude doesn’t “just happen”. There is definitely planning going into it.
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yep, and alcohol is no excuse.
my girl doesn’t go out clubbing with friends or anything. but even if she were to meet them for a drink or two at bar/restaurant and get a little tipsy, she’s not stirring up trouble with other men
without fail, as soon as the liquor hits, she’s thinking of me, texting me, saying how much she misses me and wishes i was there, she comes home earlier than planned, etc.
alcohol just exaggerates what a person is already feeling, if she’s into you, she’ll be thinking of you more when she drinks…not less
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Recently made out with/felt up a girl that I hadn’t even flirted with before that night.
Last second before we go to fuck, she says she’s seeing someone. I was like wtf is wrong with these how’s these days.
So I wasn’t butthurt and kinda shrugged my shoulders to go back to the party and started to walk off and she’s like “no wait don’t go” blah blah blah. Could have maybe banged her but didn’t push it. Who knows.
But I’m not about banging other white dudes girlfriends. Sluts, sure. But it pays off long term IMO to treat fellow white men with respect and that means walking away in my mind.
Fucking hoes are out of control. Guarantee I’m just another dude in a wide array that she’s making out with/getting groped by behind her boyfriend’s back. If he knows she’s going this, that’s just sad if they’re still a thing.
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*hoes
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Plenty of commenters here have fucked some twat and she talks the whole time about the bf and how much she loves him.
They even ask for relationship advice.
Relationships with women; there should be a sign outside their cunts; “Give up common sense, all ye who enter here.”
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“doesn’t just happen…planning”
She doesn’t even have to have any idea who it might be. She is just ready for it to “happen”.
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Why the hell is she out getting drunk with someone who isn’t, say, you? That’s 9/10ths of the way to humping some other dude right there.
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if she’s drunk with other people around in your absence, she ain’t moyc material anyway. fuck and dump at pleasure.
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Huh?
What if she just lets him finger her? Is that within the bounds? What if she tickles his cock with just her tongue (no tonsils!) until he blows a load on her tits? Is that okay?
What world am I living in?
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That comment was for “torok”, above.
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COTW lol
Speaking of which it has been a while since we’ve had a comment of the week at the Chateau
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About 8 years ago this happened to me. I kept her around and kept cheating on her for revenge, without being careful of getting caught. Sometimes she suspected and found out. Finally I cheated on her with a girl about 23 years old, 11 years younger than her at the time. It was too much for her to handle and that ended it. But not after I had my fun. It drove her crazy in the end.
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Ok, that’s a valid excuse to keep her on. Cold though, real cold.
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“A reader asks,
What about beating the shit out of her?
Scoundrels would argue that’s an option for a more enlightened age in the past.”
I suspect that may have been the case in traditional Catholic countries, where full divorce wasn’t an option and a man would have had the choice of 1) beating the sh!t out of her and getting her back in line, 2) getting a second wife and living in mortal sin, or 3) dumping her and going completely without for the rest of his wife.
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Or 4) Dread Game using a (preferably hotter) woman.
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I grew up in a severely Catholic country. Beating your wife was common. Not necessarily for cheating either as you often got ‘stuck’ with someone you hated or married for practical reasons.
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Even Jesus gave men a pass to walk:
Matthew 19:9
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All sage advice, but once a man has established a routine and a bond with a girl it’s much easier said than done. Girls like excitement, or the public impression of it at least, while men are oft content with the familiar.
It’s always amazed me how girls can so quickly flip a switch on a relationship when it comes to the sexual side of things. (And then justify the newfound aspirin between their thighs by twisting their sins into yours.) They are lovely but fickle creatures, incessant in their craving to draw emotions out of their men, rather than having said emotions proferred.
The only way to overcome her infidelity is to go fuck a different chick. Fuckin period dudes. A hottie if possible, but i dont think it really matters for a fella in the proverbial pinch. Not to get her back and tell her what you did, convenient and tempting but kinda gay.
Dumping a load in a different girl is the quickest and most pleasurable way to help you move on from an evolutionary and psychological standpoint. Just beat it up with some strange and lope outta camp like our ancestors did. It’s not a cure, just good medicine.
I’ve learned over time with situations like this, the only thing you can do to not sit and stew is go fuck another, less for spite than for YOU.
‘When a woman turns to scholarship there is usually something wrong with her sexual apparatus.’ -Nietzche
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right. as long as your plan also includes dumping her ass
difficult or not, it doesn’t solve anything to have fun with another girl then go right back to the woman who cheated.
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This is classic CH content, love it.
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I like that Paul from you’re the worst went from cuckold fetish enthusiastic to budding shitlord (ok…annoying, weirdo MRA guy). It’s like the people who write this stuff found the next layer of red pill world after the now overused trope of “I’m going to neg her…” stuff.
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I work with a guy who made the mistake of sticking around to churn other men’s nut butter. He had a girlfriend whom he’d taken in because her parents kicked her out after lying about her brother molesting her (red alert #1). They were together a few years, she fucked some guy on his shitty sports team, and he fought the guy (because white knight faggot) and took her back.
Then they have kid, definitely his, carbon copy. No sex ever again. Months go by, she kicks him out of his own bed and he sleeps on the couch for months. He comes home early on fucking Father’s Day to the sound of her getting fucked in that bed which he allowed himself to be cast out of. He left and got hammered, then bitched out for missing Father’s Day AFTER he told her how he knew she was fucking around.
Now he pays her to fuck other guys, apparently it’s called “child support”, even though she’s a nurse and makes more than he does. He lives in his Mom’s apartment and at the house of the parents of his new girl, a single mom with a screeching bastard spawn son whose father is in prison several states away. It gets worse: so far she has left twice with only a few days warning to go back to her home state to “visit family”, and each time she’s fucked another one of her exes and a few of his friends, and they send him the god damn pics and video on Facebook and talk shit to him. He doesn’t do shit.
I tried to get through to him a few times, but he says I “don’t know what I’m talking about”. The guy is a fuckin caricature of the spineless doormat cuckold, but I don’t know what I’m talking about. k.
[CH: intervention, stat, before he decides to shoot up a festival.]
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OT, but double bagging is not a good idea. It actually makes you less safe because the rubbing of the two bags together during thrusting can cause them to split. If skankitude is a concern, it’s much better to use one of these:
https://www.amazon.com/Lifestyles-Extra-Strength-Condoms-Pack/dp/B00014UHIK
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OT: I think you guys will like these vintage photos. https://www.boredpanda.com/cool-vintage-parents/?page_numb=1
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that was fun.
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Wife of 18 yrs cheated on me. I bounced her ass out and hit her with divorce papers so fast she didn’t have time to react. Judge finalized the uncontested divorce in 1-1/2 days.
We had 2 teenaged daughters and they moved all her stuff out and dropped it in front of the dude’s house she was cheating with while I was at work.
Folks say I’m still too angry at her. I tell them exactly what I feel — nothing. That isn’t anger, it is apathy. I don’t give a shit about her one way or another or what happens to her, good or bad.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. If she cheats with you on someone else, she will eventually cheat on you, too.
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nice job
great lesson for your girls too. they will see that real men don’t tolerate that kind of behavior and will be less likely to do it in the future
even if kids don’t know all the details, you have to think they can still sense what’s going on with their parents.
when a man stays with a woman who cheats, they can see that something is off. that he’s hurt over something but staying with her anyway. even without knowing she cheated, they probably saw all the disrespect indifference lack of affection etc going on before she cheated. so when he stays, they just see him as weak for putting up with that.
leaving is best for you and any kids you might have
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If you had plans for a future together, she cheated on you, and you still stick around, you may be a genetic male but you are not a man.
If she was one of your girls who cheated on you, the best move is to fuck multiple women and never tell her. Do this for at least a few months, while tightening your alpha game. She will feel “embraced” and forgiven, even if she doesn’t know you know. The delight of her finding out much later how, as she was trying to mend your “relationship”, you were callously dipping your stick in multiple wetspots will have twofold impact
– she will have found out she is of no more importance to you than other women,
– she will have wasted her “precious” time with you, but now cannot blame you for it
If you want to stick a shiv into that heartless throbber of hers, tell her how, after having had se with so-and-so, you spent the night with her, and then moved on to another chick the next morning, or some combination of that.
She will want to tell all her friends what a heartless ass you are, yet will know deep down that all her friends know that she is the reason you should not care in the first place.
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Matthew 10: 8 – Because of the hardness of your hearts, Moses suffered you to give a writing of divorce. But, from the beginning it wasn’t so. Jesus said – whomsoever divorces his wife except it be for fornication …
God gives you a wife – you mileage may vary – but she was given.
You made a vow – before God – and God means for you to keep it.
Keep your vow – BUT NOT at the expense of being cuckolded.
In rank order of importance are a mans dignity, his word and his husbandry.
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yeah, and most people aren’t even having religious w3ddings anymore. they will do the justice of the peace thing or some sort of generic non-religious ceremony. basically a government contract and nothing else.
according to most religions, those m@rriages are not ordained by god so the typical rules of compliance don’t even apply
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Many years ago, a friend called me, distraught that his fat white trash wife had slept with a coworker. I told him to divorce her on the spot. He ignored my advice, told the whore what I said, and allowed her to drive a wedge between us. We are no longer friends, and he now pays the bills for his fat white trash wife and a brood of kids that look nothing like him. He is literally no longer a man in the eyes of virtually everyone who knows him. Sad.
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Some “men” just like to be whipped.
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It should be easy enough to develop a litmus test for women more likely to cheat:
1). Had mad “crushes” when she was young that were more like obsessions. (Well-adusted women are more comfortable being the object of affection, not the facilitator of it.)
2). Takes the initiative to ask guys out. (This means she’s a bit too aggressive. Yes, it’s nice to be asked out by women, but in my experience, these type cheat.)
3). Is on any type of mood-altering pills. (The meds made me do it! Honest!)
4). Experimented with other women in college. (Hyper-sexuality, which will come out later in some other “taboo” form.)
5, Works in a high-drama field, especially one where she deals with a lot of bad boys. (This includes anything from women who work in prisons — there are quite a few — to men’s clothing stores to nurses to actresses, etc.)
[CH: sounds about right.]
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Test
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Litmus Test should be:
1. Does she put on makeup and dress well around you like she did at the start of the relationship.
2. Here’s something that many of you will think is stalking….whatever…look at her facebook friends list. The algo puts the top people she interacts with and view her profile/she views near the top. If you see guys there outside her social circle shes fucking around. Double skank probability points if they look alpha or are of course, black.
3. Do her friends cheat often and regularly?
4. Another trick I like is to ask what her fantasies are in a playful manner. You will easily gauge her ‘appetite’ from that.
5. Look at her eyes when a cad joins the group. A lot of guys don’t bother paying attention to their gfs because theyre socially retarded. Follow the eyes, a kind of ‘shine’ will come across them when she’s hawny.
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If youre considering marriage, which you shouldn’t, but if you are, I would definitely do or ask all of the above. As losing 50% of your wealth and the emotional pain is far worse than being ‘creepy’.
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good ones
also a red flag when girls don’t have their relationship set to in a relationship or m@rried when they are.
hyphenated m@rried name or keeping the maiden are other obvious ones
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She can set her friends list to only show mutual friends, that will interfere with checking her friends list fyi.
Though if you realize that she’s doing that the only logic reason is to cover cheating.
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with exception of #5 this is one of my exes to a t
she approached me
told me about her lesbian past
man
i used to be so naive and ignant
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I’ve actually put some thought into what I would do in this scenario, and here is my plan:
Immediately say I want a divorce, leverage her guilt to get the better deal with splitting the assets (wouldn’t work for most, but I could pull it off knowing my wife), listen to tear-soaked apology indifferently, sign divorce paperwork… once ink is dried, casually tell her that I’ve slept with eight other women since we got married. Move on with my life.
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[…] Source: Heartiste […]
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The fad or trend of girlz and even mârriéd women having male “friends” and cozy male coworkers raises new questions. Mostly it’s asexual but the guys would gladly bang if they could. I work with many mârriéd females who go on business trips with male colleagues (me being one of them): sitting on the plane for hours together, sitting through meetings together, but also taking meals and a drink together in the hotel bar, or even doing some sightseeing together after hours. Frankly, my opinion of a mârriéd woman who would do such things with me hits rock bottom. A lot of shit can go down on these business junkets.
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yeah, nothing good can come from that. it’s natural to develop feelings for people you spend a lot of time with. especially people of the opposite sex.
best to avoid that at all costs.
we have some women who travel with us for work. i always make a point of only interacting with them if other men are around. if the men leave and it’s just me and her left at dinner or whatever, i will make an excuse to go back to the hotel to get some work done or something. never a good idea to spend any length of time alone with people of the opposite sex unless they are family
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Poon that is out-and-about will always attract a player.
You might call it the Thermodynamic Law of Pussy Heat Attraction but the basic rule is that random cock abhors a pussy vaccum and will always rush to fill any vacant pussy in the vicinity.
Something Tesla observed, apparently.
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what happened wit/da kareerist-kunt you were about to deosoul?
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Test
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The streets of the world are full of discarded husbands …The bedrooms are filled with ZFG jerky boys that don’t hang around long enough to be cheated.
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Me walk? Bitch better (like they said in the Amityville Horror): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=patBBeY5wFs
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Walk? What are you afraid of you manosphere cowards? Can’t take a little competition from a vibrant strain of antibiotic-resistant gonorrhea? http://www.who.int/mediacentre/news/releases/2017/Antibiotic-resistant-gonorrhoea/en/
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“if she’s still putting out and you double bag it.”
Never put two condoms on – if that’s what this means. The rubbing between the layers makes them more likely to break, not less.
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An addendum on men cheating:
A lot of women don’t actually care if they are your “only” woman. They just care if they’re your favorite. They endlessly deal with cheating (presuming you’re alpha enough) so long as they can rationalize that the other women are hoes and she’s your “main course”, and as such gets the favors of being the highest ranking pussy on your buffet.
The real trouble starts in her mind when a different woman gets moved into the top slot. That’s when hell breaks loose.
With women cheating, something similar happens. The beta who stays after cheating gets demoted to orbiter status. No more pussy access, but she’ll string you along for emotional support.
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>”The real trouble starts in her mind when a different woman gets moved into the top slot. That’s when hell breaks loose.”
yea
i admitted to a girl that i cheated. it crushed her. she spent a night crying and hitting the bottle. said she couldn’t trust anymore and i betrayed her
no contact for a few days and then i get a text on new years eve saying she’d rather die than live without me
lmao
i realized over time that she didn’t give a fuck about betrayal. it was the trauma of being replaced by youngah tightah hottah
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Yo, bitch…
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Since when beating the shit out her is belongs to the past??
It might be that way today but it certainly shouldn’t.
There is not a really good another alternative…unless you start to play according to her rules…
Beating her sets a price for infidelity, price that she can understand and in the end even respects. Being hard disciplined sets borders and extracts a price .
It also sais to her that you care and you are hurt but in a way that doesn’t make you a floor mattress, even the opposite of that.
The bitch might be upset with you after that. She will be even mad as hell and go her way… but in the end she will respect you as see you a man of principles.
This is the only way possible that a betrayal is neutralized and things can move on without further resentment and understanding from both sides regarding the price of such an occurrence.
It won’t always work but it is the only thing that works.
There is nothing new under the sun especially regarding woman….
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