Commenter Pusifer (most excellent handle) wonders how a man with a lavish taste for wanton love sheds his accumulated bedroom company.
CH: “One six month stretch I had tore my way through fifteen women”
How do you get rid of them after?!
Some drifted away, some left purposefully, some cried on my porch, some stormed off angrily. Some texted forlornly, but got no reply at all.
A lesson for the ladies: if a man’s heart isn’t ready to merge completely with another, it will be a high hill to climb to convince him otherwise.
This illustrates two big advantages of prowling a densely populated sexual market.
- Submersion into the Bangborg. It’s harder to bump into former lovers from among a sea of worker drones and have that awkward “wow so what have you been up to since we last….saw each other?” convo.
- If on the off chance you do bump into a past or present plate, there’s an unspoken assumption between atomized hedonists that this is just the way things are in this place we mutually inhabit but separately share. You may fuck me one night, and forget me the next, and I may do likewise, and it would be very gauche of either of us to lament this lay of the land like some sentimental fool.
This also illustrates the one big disadvantage of dating in the bangopolises: if you’re looking for love you can count on, get ready for an adventure that likely won’t end the way you want.
So to answer Pusifer’s question more pithily: the women never left, they just faded to gray.
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Blast from my Georgetown past. I always liked that song.
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“the women never left, they just faded to gray”
Every woman’s nightmare.
[CH: i hope everyone caught the triple entendre i embedded there (the women get older, and my relationship status with these women is in a gray zone). ain’t i a card?]
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Hotties leaving the burbs and smaller towns to make their way to the cities of small souled bugmen can’t be healthy for the the genepool.
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They won’t contribute much to the gene pool anyway. It is hard to pass your genetics unto a cat (or 4).
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My point exactly. Dysgenic situation
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Who would want to contaminate perfectly good feline genes ?
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Trump deserves everything he gets if he listens to a 36 year old silver spoon Jew.
http://www.breitbart.com/big-government/2017/07/27/coulter-trump-in-mess-because-jared-kushner-thought-dems-would-cheer-firing/
[CH: trump should follow two rules. listen to himself, and if that’s not working out, listen to bannon. everyone else in his orbit is window dressing.]
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That article makes no sense. Coulter is complaining that Trump fired Comey, while saying that Comey was planning to take Trump down? So it would have been a good idea for him to keep a backstabbing traitor and enemy in a position of power? Does not compute.
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Ann’s black pilling gets a little long in the tooth. Some great books, I’ve read a lot of hers. But at the end of the day, she’s a barren womb 55 yr old ‘Old Maid’. Instead of choosing a life of wine & cigarettes, she should have been making babies.
This is the future of Southern & Pettibone, but they don’t have the talent or earning power of Ann.
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I think Southern’s patreon was taken down recently. I saw a tweet from her saying as much.
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>But at the end of the day, she’s a barren womb 55 yr old ‘Old Maid’. Instead of choosing a life of wine & cigarettes, she should have been making babies.
The open secret is that “she” has AIS.
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Also a serial mudshark, so her judgement is suspect.
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[…] Where Do All The Good Girls Go? […]
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Every description of a city on this and other sites confirms to this small-town chap that the metropolis is utterly nihilistic, and the tomb of our people.
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In a perfect world, permanant residency in cities would be illegal.
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That is why the automobile is hated by city planners and the liberal aristocracy.
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everyone would do well to at least do a stint in an urban center. maybe two years right after college then gtfo before you go past the event horizon.
there is the old trial-by-fire “if you can make it here you can make it anywhere” angle of urban living which is quite real. some people can thrive there. most cannot.
people who were born and raised in the suburbs do worst in the cities, yet flock there in the highest numbers. their comfortable, monotonous upbringing makes them ill-suited for urban living, except when it comes to drinking, fucking, shopping, partying, and going into debt.
people who are born and raised in the country do pretty well in the city because they’re self-sufficient, but they tend not to like the noise, and the fact that hunting feral animals is off-limits.
people born and raised in the city do pretty well also, for the same reason as the rural-bred folks: self-sufficiency.
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At the very least, city-dwellers should not be allowed to vote. Make NYC, Cook County, LA County, etc. federal districts like DC.
And natch, repeal the 23rd Amendment.
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@plumpjack:
“people born and raised in the city do pretty well also, for the same reason as the rural-bred folks: self-sufficiency.”
It certainly helps that in some older neighborhoods, residents tend to be one or two generations removed from the land, and so tend to not only have practical skills and a drive to work, but still have the social skills associated with small towns.
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I rue the day I left my good sized town for the shithole that is LA. Women were friendlier back home.
But then again, that was also 20 years ago, so at least friendlier there than out here.
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My info may be outdated (late 80s/early 90s), but L.A. is what you make it.
HUGE difference between Tarzana and West H’wood, Bellflower and Venice, Oxnard and Marina del Rey.
And then there’s OC.
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This is true. In short, I never was nor have been a big city person. Especially this congested.
I know I could never live in NYC or the like.
There was a time I lived in a nice ruralish area out here in CA, in the Inland Empire. It was the only time I ever enjoyed living here.
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Cities have been “population sinks” since the first ziggurat was scratched up. It went ballistic after the Industrial Revolution kicked being a plowboy into touch, income-wise.
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I mean I guess I could see city life if the hunting was that good. But you have to be peak alpha to beat the competing males and the hypergamy. Seems pointless unless you’re a game superweapon like CH.
[CH: you answered the question of why single young hotties flock to cities. hypergamy is a bitch.]
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a dad’s firm pimp hand is a must
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had one interaction with the older one ripped out of poon commandment XV
it was also a “fake it till you make it” illustration, where I faked my calm at first and then the more successful I was in calming her, the (truly) more calm I got.
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Problem is, just about every semi-attractive (and even many lesser) girl can’t WAIT to get the f_ck out of her small town or even mid-size city just as soon as she turns 16, 18 or whenever she can scrape up enough change for the bus or a tank of gas.
In many cases, her ‘strong d@ddy’ is one of the reasons, although many don’t like to admit that.
Result being that bigger cities are often the only places where a guy has a realistic chance of finding someone who isn’t a dull side of bacon by the time she finishes high school.
If you’re ok with ‘dating’ 4’s and 5’s school marms and quilters-to-be, down home on the farm is where it’s at.
For anything higher than that, you’re gonna have to plunge into he11.
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Beauty is a valuable but perishable commodity… Cities have always been the places valuable and perishable commodities go to market.
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Yes, the women around here aren’t anything to write home about in appearance. But they sure are reproducing — mostly with white guys, too, though the occasional feather Indian slips in. If I looked at this area alone, I would think that white demographics were secure for another generation.
In short — sure, you can get 7s, 8s, and 9s in the city, but is the oven functional?
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Gentlemen… Puh Leeze… though…
Any little ‘ol town with a Big 10 or SEC or ACC school is loaded with 7 + girls…
Tuscaloosa, Oxford, College Station, Baton Rouge, Gainesville, Clemson, Athens etc. etc.?
These are the breeding grounds for the SATCers… Younger and tighter and drunker than Williamsburg or River North…
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Roll Tide!
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That Looks like Squeal day.
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I must disagree, wolfie. Millennials of both sexes don’t leave home as much as previous generations, and quite a few I know are in the “don’t live at home but daddy pays all the bills to live nearby” which was always an under-reported trend when they talk about “more young women live ‘on their own’ than young men” (I know of three who’ve taken over what were once their parents’ rental properties).
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Small towns which have had (large) colleges added to them don’t count.
Of course you’re gonna get a lot of hotties in an otherwise ‘small’ college town…duh.
But those aren’t the kinds of small towns people mean when they talk about things like raising a f@mbly.
Outrager – It may be true that Millenials (or Y’ers) aren’t moving out as much, probably because they can’t afford to.
But even if she lives a only few blocks away from Strong Tradcuck D@ddy™, a LOT can happen while he’s watching Father Knows Jack reruns 5 streets down……
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You can absolutely raise a family in College Station…have you visited?
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Big-Al, that’s where I’ve been looking to move. Visited last year. Liked the look of things. Helps I’m a native Texan, too.
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Calvert close enough ?
Yes I have.
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Bottom line: the larger the urban area, the more powerfully a woman can leverage her physical attractiveness. Young girls get this at the limbic level.
One more irony of the day of reckoning – when the Z Apocalypse hits, carnage will be greatest in urbanized areas. Oh well.
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Corollary: You won’t find a single hotty at the public library.
Female hypergamy directs us to today’s relevant arenas.
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The prospects of dipping into a pool of sweat and aromatic bodily fluids is tempting, but no thanks. The grim and leftism of metropolises isn’t worth the lays.
Course, I could always just vacation for a week…
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Living in the sticks now. Seen the girls go away to the big city, and some of them come back. Game needs to be seriously altered here because you will see them, and their parents, and their step-parents, and their teachers, and their cousins, and their neighbors.. over and over again. OTOH, if you can master discretion and impress that on the sweet young things (ideally with a switch or paddle or pimp hand), the options aren’t so bad.
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Living in small towns or in the country can be fantastic – if you are that type of person and fit in perfectly.
If you don’t , it’s he11.
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“Some drifted away, some left purposefully, some cried on my porch, some stormed off angrily.”
And some, I assume, were good lays.
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provided you can protect your identity ( which they may be after) there is nothing to lose if the lugenpresse in question has any significant number of unconscious normies
Some of them will end up here and their normie world will crumble before our eyes
That is what counts
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Where Do All The Good Girls Go?
to a farm upstate where they can run and play
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Thanks for the post CH. I’m juggling a few plates who have become …uncomfortably… “relationshipy”, despite (or because of) my aloofness. One of them in particular is a sensitive girl – a conservative, reserved, soft-hearted woman who knows how to be a woman – and I want to let her down gently. Ah, the guilt.
[CH: the best way to let a girl down gently is to pull the band aid off. men miscalculate how quickly women can rebound from heartbreak. men do this because in general men are bigger romantics than are women, and the chivalrous impulse is strong in men. just tell her you aren’t ready for anything serious or exclusive and that you don’t want to tie her down if she’s looking for more.]
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Thanks again CH, spot on as usual.
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And she’ll stick around anyway, hoping that one day you’ll wake up and decide that you want her and only her, while her youth and beauty fade and she becomes bitter as she finally realizes that her hopes are in vain. It’s not your fault–you warned her, after all–but it kills a little piece of your soul regardless.
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” if a man’s heart isn’t ready to merge completely with another, it will be a high hill to climb to convince him otherwise.”
This is something that girls do not understand. Mostly probably because like some men, they tend to think that the opposite sex behaves and feels like they do.
I always think about it like this; have you ever seen a situation at school / work / university where a man tries tries tries to get the girl and finally the girl yields and then they end up together? I have, plenty. Have you ever seen a girl trying to get a guy who is not that keen. And then keeps on trying and finally the guy is like “ok, I’ll hang” and then they end up together? I have never seen that.
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