Scanman posits three rules of dating in post-America:
A few gems of sage advice that I will pass on to my sons —
1. If a woman has ever been photographed wearing a crown or tiara on her birthday, she is likely a shit human being.
2. Ditto for any woman who has referred to herself or her friends as a goddess.
3. Women who claim to “love helping people” are invariably manipulative, untrustworthy and usually treat their own family like shit.
I find nothing objectionable in this crib sheet. If you just want a simple guide to girls that requires the least bit of pattern recognizing effort, steering clear of tiara girls, “goddesses”, and avowedly altruistic women is as good as any dating guide you’ll find in laddies mags.
The beauty of Scanman’s rules for red pillers is that following them effectively screens out the worst of the post-America girls: the pathological narcissists and ¡lookatme! attention whores. It also screens out a lot of fatties, because I can’t help but notice a calorically-dense number of broads who wear tiaras and refer to themselves as goddesses are fat fucks.
The last rule might invite skepticism — after all, women as a sex are more empathetic than men and can thus be expected to have stronger urges to “help people” — but understand that there’s a crucial distinction between the typical sappy woman and the virtue signaling SJW urbanette who makes a big show of her altruism. Aggressively empathetic women can be as dangerous as aggressively cold-hearted men. More dangerous, actually, as ruthless men aren’t likely to flood their nations with millions of incompatible mud worlders just for the self-righteousness high.
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Commenter chris adds labcoat context to the third rule.
“3. Women who claim to “love helping people” are invariably manipulative, untrustworthy and usually treat their own family like shit.”
There is a scientific explanation for this.
Basically, doing things that are regarded as ‘moral’ makes people feel like they have built up a ‘moral credit’ that they can draw on in the future to offset any immoral behaviour or ‘moral debits’ they engage in.
http://file.scirp.org/pdf/PSYCH_2015072217203971.pdf
Nazis by Kraut: A Playful Application of Moral Self-Licensing
Abstract:
Doing something moral gives one a license to do something immoral. This form of moral compensation is called “moral self-licensing”. Interestingly, the moral behavior can take place in another domain than the subsequent immoral behavior. For example, buying eco-friendly products gives one a license to steal. This article is based on the idea that a healthy diet has a moral dimension. As a consequence, consuming a healthy product should give one a license for immoral behavior. This research supports this hypothesis on a playful study. This study shows that drinking sauerkraut juice contributes to a stronger support of Nazi-esque right wing ideology than drinking either nothing or a less-healthy beverage (Nestea).
Avowedly, assertively altruistic women (or women who claim the altruism mantle) are probably sluts with a well-fed rationalization hamster ready to justify their future infidelities.
We iz quanz n sheeeit.
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If only I knew about the tiara warning sooner! It’s right on the mark.
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I ran into a real gem of an (((Eskimo-ess))) at the swimming pool today. Held her nose way up in the air, wore her hair back in a braided bun, stumbled for a split-second [kinda stunned] when I pointed out that her Alma Mater was a Methodist school. Later I was watching her from a distance, as she was doing her “buttocks” conditioning in her aqua-belt, and I kinda felt like she had an almost regal arrogance about her, as though she thought herself to be something of a Cleopatra. Went home and and j00gled her [from the info she had given me] and quickly realized that her last name was COHEN. Friggin priestly-caste w!tch.
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I think I may be the first Goy who has ever achieved fully Phased-Array J00dar status.
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Buns in oven???
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[…] Three Rules To Navigate The Post-America Sexual Market […]
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In other words be contrarian in your attitude to what is stated.
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Family
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I have nothing to add but my concurrence.
And that Faggot Within is a tool.
Gratuitous comment rape!
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I concur also.
Agree rape!
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i’ve seen people talk about it some but any other fools on seeking arrangement? i went down the rabbithole and i feel like my entire worldview shifted again
that vanity fair article is true they don’t see any stigma anymore and a lot of these are just guys’ girlfriends out there. plenty of garbage like anywhere else, but a shocking number of cashiers and ‘normal’ girls. not sure how societies pull back from where every girl is a prostitute essentially. it feels like southeast asia to me here now that i know
and of course game works even better in an explicitly beta-bux environment. loser hobby i know, but it does help keep private / public lives 100% compartmentalized
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I was on it for a month last year …was so-so.
This year it’s snowballed…been on it for a week and banged 3 women for the combined cost of $400 in cash/ gifts. One of them is a 19 year old model. I’m shocked at how ‘ordinary’ girls are pimping themselves out.
It’s an ultimate red pill experience.
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not sure i follow. going in with the expectation that you’ll be paying them to service you? how is that red pill?
i get rewarding a girl you like with gifts or taking her places nice if she deserves it and doesn’t make a habit of expecting things from you. part of being successful is treating the people you care about well and girls do need a little of that to feel special and appreciated.
but it’s the girls who ask for nothing but your time and attention who are the ones who deserve it most. not whores like the girls on that site. they are there because they have an expectation that they will get material possessions out of it. there’s no ifs ands or buts about it. they are looking for what they can get out of you instead of interacting because they are genuinely into you. that makes them no different than third rate streetwalkers no matter how ‘normal’ they seem or how sweet and innocent they look and act.
not knocking anyone if who is just looking for a good time. but don’t kid yourself that it’s anything other than prostitution. and paying girls for what a man should be getting for free is not red pill.
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birth control/abortion turns all girls into prostitutes, if you want to be real about it. sex without life-or-death consequences invariably leads to its commodification, in one form or another. take your pick.
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when it comes down to it. most men spend a lot of money on girls anyway so what’s the harm in paying for a girl when there’s at least some degree of a guarantee that you’ll get something out of it in return?
it’s not like there are girls lining up out there who want us only for our time and attention.
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I follow these same rules here in Australia. Fatties, SJWs, SWPLs who love diversity, BPD girls, the lot of them infect every major city especially Melbourne.
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Nice Girlz from Good Families : BUNZ -> OVENZ.
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Is it just for birthdays, or does wearing a tiara at her shotgun wedding count too?
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“3. Women who claim to “love helping people” are invariably manipulative, untrustworthy and usually treat their own family like shit.”
There is a scientific explanation for this.
Basically, doing things that are regarded as ‘moral’ makes people feel like they have built up a ‘moral credit’ that they can draw on in the future to offset any immoral behaviour or ‘moral debits’ they engage in.
http://file.scirp.org/pdf/PSYCH_2015072217203971.pdf
Nazis by Kraut: A Playful Application of Moral Self-Licensing
Abstract:
Doing something moral gives one a license to do something immoral. This form of moral compensation is called “moral self-licensing”. Interestingly, the moral behavior can take place in another domain than the subsequent immoral behavior. For example, buying eco-friendly products gives one a license to steal. This article is based on the idea that a healthy diet has a moral dimension. As a consequence, consuming a healthy product should give one a license for immoral behavior. This research supports this hypothesis on a playful study. This study shows that drinking sauerkraut juice contributes to a stronger support of Nazi-esque right wing ideology than drinking either nothing or a less-healthy beverage (Nestea).
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Reminds of when people call out someone for being racist, then that person does something racist, but feels justified since they called the kettle black.
Jesus talked about this: before talking about the splinter in your neighbor’s eye, first remove the tree trunk in yours.
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And (((Guess Whom))) has been waging an all-out war against the Aforementioned and His gospelists?
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[ANSWER: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frankfurt_School ]
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Jesus clearly and plainly addressed the proggy/lib failing of “projection” with that statement. That’s one reason the proggies hate him so!
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Women who know they are bitches who are cruel and unfair to other people, mostly to men, and even more to nice men who treat them nicely, always do something like buy “save the dolphins” products or are vegetarians or tell everyone they always give a dollar or two to the homeless…
they do that to give them selves a good conscience.
Some of the most evil bitches I have met – and I have met a lot of women – where those who tried the hardest to project an image of someone who cares about other people…
they know they are awful creatures who are very ugly on the inside, and they badly need to convince someone they are nice in hope they themselves will believe it too.
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“Some of the most evil bitches I have met – and I have met a lot of women – where those who tried the hardest to project an image of someone who cares about other people…”
Me too. There are plenty of genuinely good-hearted women out there (even in blue cities). I have even known a few. They don’t make a public show about “serving”, “giving back”, “living social justice”, etc. They just do nice things for real people and treat people decently, shut up about it and live their lives.
Charity begins at home. If you look closely at the phonies, their family relations are usually in shambles but while she busies herself “giving back” to and “helping” someone, anyone who is not related to her.
P.S. #0. If a woman does not respect her father (even if it for a legitimate reason), she will never truly respect you (or any man). Stay far, far away.
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“Charity begins at home. If you look closely at the phonies, their family relations are usually in shambles but while she busies herself “giving back” to and “helping” someone, anyone who is not related to her.”
agreed.
every person i’ve ever met who spent their life in service to others fighting big humanitarian causes, building wells in africa, obsessively volunteering at the humane society, homeless, or women’s shelter etc. have been extremely selfish individuals and downright awful to the people close to them. especially to the men in their lives.
they get off on feeling superior to everyone for how much they supposedly sacrifice for others. but it’s all a cover for how wretched they are to the people in their lives who really matter.
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People who love “humanity” almost invariably do so because they are incapable of loving individual humans.
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Good stuff.
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Chris,
Good stuff.
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Very interesting article.
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The faux altruisric woman is simply feeding her gossip/curiosity void by prying and groveling over other, usually lesser, women and beta male and their problems.
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Can I just bitch about this insipid freaking ghazala khan creature? She is like the most infantilized maudlin woman I’ve ever seen. Like so sorry trump had to point out how primitive their relationship dynamic is.
[CH: how’s the white husband hunt going?]
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Terrible. Why?
[CH: because despite my misgivings I want you to be happy.}
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[CH: because despite my misgivings I want you to be happy.}
Softie
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nah, he just wants some round eye
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That made me smile wide in my little strange heart.
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Well — once you’ve rejected the clumsy, stumbling, cringe-worthy advances of a Jesuit fanatic like Matt King, surely *any* white guy would be an improvement…?
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Did the King really orbit this ornamental?
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Indeed he did. He actually professed his “love” for her in a post at her former blog. Nauseating for sure!
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Not nauseating … just pathetic. All that posturing over the years, then that.
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Sure, Trump wouldn’t have let their son in the country… but he wouldn’t have let in the Fort Hood shooter either.
Muzzie rape!
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Little spoon,
You had songs you were singing on. They were on a site I don’t remember and you used a name I don’t remember.
There was a song I liked.
can you provide the link?
No I am not a rich guy offering you a contract, I’m no one important, even though I am a talented musician myself, I would simply like to take a second look/listen.
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It really is post-America, isn’t it?
Sad.
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As a guy at Taki’s mag said, Trump will buy us just enough time to escape.
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I’d find it a lot easier to be religious if the likes of Esssra were struck by bolts from the blue every time they opened their perfidious pozholes.
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Religion is a bitch dude, it hunted me down. I was minding my own business too…
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4.If they pass too much time with their families while chastising you for being a “momma’s boy” , then she’s a liability as she will be functionally retarded, ergo she depends on her family too much. Works in tandem with #3.
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Speaking of red flags I would like to see a list of disqualifying jobs for women. Any suggestions??? besides lawyer, cop, stripper?
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Military officer, School teacher, HR, the list is endless
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School teacher? Really?
Don’t know about any more disqualifying jobs, but I know of one qualifying one:
Liquor Store Manager
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They ain’t like they used to be. When I was a kid it was different but not today. To be honest, nothing beats coming home to a smiling wife and children. Make do with a little less. You won’t miss it.
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yeah, school teacher threw me too. used to think of them as a safe bet. but it’s true, now with all the brainwashing they get in college and in the schools, they are as liberal-minded feminist as they come. almost as bad as nurses…almost.
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Social services. They tend to be filled with bitter cat women.
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Aggressively bitter cat women FTFY
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Almost every job is bad news except staying at home to raise kids and cook for her man.
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Any woman who says she an independent woman, run in the opposite direction.
Any woman who feels she must tell everyone that she does not need a man but wants one…or that she is whole without a man and does not need one to complete her…but says she still would like one.
That makes about as much sense as if a man said he does not need a beautiful woman’s vagina or mouth to reach orgasm, he can do it with his own hands.
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Wanting men = cock-gobbling. All their needs being met by the state, corporations, social media, Netflix and pets, men can serve just one purpose: occasional injections of dick. You want only what you don’t need.
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All female cops are damaged goods. BTDT, got lots of t-shirts.
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Never met a school teacher yet that is NOT on some kind of head-meds..
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For what it’s worth, I knew a pretty good lady who wore a tiara on her birthday only because some cunt semi-friend/acquaintance brought it along to the party and put it on her, and she’s a good sport so she went along with the fun.
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1) that doesn’t count 2) Was it your wife or daughter?
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Not the wife or daughter, and let’s not fall into the Cathedral trap of making everything about personal family… there are such things as friends and acquaintances out there in meat world.
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did you run some of your mad “fish called wanda” game on her Greg?
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As I said above, keep family out of it… nobody here needs to see the distaff side of YOUR family tree.
And get somebody else up here livin’ rent free in yo’ haid… the echoes of my voice down the large empty spaces must be driving you mad.
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#3 is my ex-wife. Bonus tip: they go on “mission trips” to get laid by the tour guides.
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Wouldn’t the #1 and #2 actually be decent gaming advices for men if turned around? Abysmal sized ego (overconfidence). Making your own paper crown (playfulness) for head with a title of God king (is he serious?!).
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How about women who harp on the importance of honesty
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yeah, especially when they a big on make-up, push-up bras, plastic surgery….in other words most of ’em!
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Stating the bleeding obvious here …..
Women that harp on about the importance of honesty expect others to be honest towards her while giving her free reign to lie without impunity.
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It’s pretty safe to believe the exact opposite of whatever a woman states about herself.
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Which is invariably why the best women are those who generally don’t talk about themselves much. That’s a rare breed of woman.
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I have read about an scientific study about helpfulness and kindness to strangers: their observation was that men tend to be more helpful when there are no (eligible) women watching, but otherwise less so. Women, on the other hand, were more helpful when they were watched than otherwise.
Don’t have a ready link, but interesting social behaviour. Theorizing about this behaviour the hypothesis was that men are afraid they will be seen as soft whereas women worry about not being seen as sympathetic.
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Don’t need a link. Every man knows this from experience. Makes perfect sense on basic Darwinian grounds as well: males will divert energy to other males in distress only when there is no female recipient, females will use helpfulness to increase their status in the group (to obtain cooperation from males later).
It all comes back to giving them shit. Stop giving them shit.
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Interesting observation. It makes sense.
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Hmmmm….I just ran some ellipsis game on a late 20-something y.o. girl who kinda sorta fits rule 3 (she’s a lib, a grad student working for our state capitol). Just yesterday, she said after graduation, she may go into private sector but prolly will remain in the public sector because she loves “service”.
Gonna watch her real close now.
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“Hi, I’m Mary! I work for a non-profit. I get to earn a salary, but constantly remind everyone that I work for a non-profit organization (as if I am a volunteer, working for free). Did I mention that our Director has a $150,000 salary per year? No matter, because she works for a non-profit!”
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So true. Limousine Libtards…
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Loves service = immigrant lives matter
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No fatties. No tatties. No mudsharks/coalburners. That eliminates a 70% of the market.
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It’s disgusting to see these women with young children covered with tattoos.
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Lots of tattoos = BPD.
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I had the hots for this gal at work: nice and petite with a whooty and pretty face. I knew she had the tramp stamp, welcome mat on her back, but I was willing to make an exception. Then, I found out she was getting a massive tattoo on the left side of her body. And to top this off, found out her dad was living in Germany for 10 years, right about when was in her early teens, if not, pre-teen years.
Thankfully, my subconscious was repulsed such that I never gave it much effort, but I was painfully lacking in game, as this was pre-RP days.
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The long side tattoo is everywhere now. Normally this would cost well over a grand, but booty gets it at half price from her tattoo artist “friend”. Just like her endless supply of cannabis products.
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Whenever some agitated man with an ounce of remaining balls has the temerity to disparage a woman or womenkind, whether directly, or in confidence, a white knight will often pipe up with a variant of ‘some day, she’ll be someone’s mother’. The implication, of course, being that you shouldn’t besmirch her innate and unquestionable womanly purity (even though it may be looking quite probable that the someone she’ll be mother to, will be decidedly cafe au lait).
However the same solicitude is rarely shown for the father of a daughter. Particularly, the candid, callous conversations of drug dealers, pimps/pornographers, photographers, casting couch execs, tattoo ‘artists’, musicians, PUAs, bar-owners, fratboys, and others involved in the debasement of shiksa whores, could rent a naive father’s soul in twain.
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Ask a girl with a big tattoo how much it costs. If she looks away and hesitates with her answer, you know how she paid for at least some of it. Skin trade.
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“How about women who harp on the importance of honesty”
Been there. Stay away.
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Just like the ones who say they are ‘very forgiving’. NOT. Ignore what they say, watch what they do.
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Personal ad: “No more games!” haha
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“Moral self-licensing” needs to be in everyone’s vocabulary. Perfect. By disguising their status-seeking as altruism, they make it risky for anyone to call their bluff — as anyone who disagrees with vapid mantras about “love” must be a hater. I
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Good point on “women who help others”.
I find most of these women with “morals”, do not help others out of compassion, love, generosity, ect. The help others for praise and likes on social media. Social media gives them a chance to brag about buying a homeless man a meal. The true compassionate people dont brag, take pictures, and post an inspirational message on instagram. They just help someone out, stay humble, and go about their day feeling fortunate to be where they are in life.
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And from what I’ve seen, when people truly have the right motive for helping people, you can hear a bit of pain in them when they talk about it. That they are truly hurt by the other persons circumstances. When they get all excited about what they have done, it’s all about making themselves look good.
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Basically, doing things that are regarded as ‘moral’ makes people feel like they have built up a ‘moral credit’ that they can draw on in the future to offset any immoral behaviour or ‘moral debits’ they engage in.
and we all know how women are with their credit cards….. lozlzozlzozllz
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The same as they are with their pussy: frivolous.
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Not unlike many so-called religious people. Acting like whores, assholes, criminals and deviants 6 days a week, and then showing up to Church, Temple, Mosque, etc., on Saturday/Sunday as if they were as pure as the driven snow. Religion gives them fake moral credit. I prefer the honest cad to a fake religious person.
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Cosigned. Nice observations, Scanman.
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i’ve read enough freud to know that people who steer me toward certain attractive aspects of their characters (lots of socially-correct charitable efforts) want very much that i not see other less attractive dimensions of their characters. why else make a big deal about giving money to orphans?
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Would agree with the point about the tiara.:
For a while I banged a gal that was really into the” tiara b-day ” thing.
She was a very shallow woman. She wanted commitment – but my gut said no. Despite her beauty and the very hot sex – she was dropped.
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