Readers sometimes ask, “CH, if you were imprisoned in a cage of domesticity, how would you deal with the cramping of your style? What would do when your old lady is a faint echo of her former pumpworthy glory?” I’ve always half-glibly said, “liquor and hookers”. Now a reader happily affirms the essential ingredients of the CH recipe for the good life. We’ll call it CAP:
Careerism, Alcoholism, Promiscuity.
drunicusrex writes,
Careerism plus functioning alcoholism plus promiscuity is perfectly fine in men, so long as they support their families well, and raise strong, intelligent children.
It’s also very possible as a married man to enjoy a few drinks, keep a mistress discreetly, and be a fine father.
Most every wife will peter out eventually, in either looks or libido (often both) and yet a strong, successful guy is supposed to give up sex after two or three kids pop out?
I think not.Careerism, alcoholism, and eat pray fuck are disastrous in women. That shit ends marriages PDQ, and certainly trashes any maternal or parental instincts. Fuck that. Women who act like men make truly ghastly moms. (And stay at home Dads getting in touch with their metro side are questionable to say the least.)
Traditional sex roles = happiness.
So now wifey is falling asleep in the couch. Earlier from outside the window I saw some college girls heading out for St Pat’s stroll past our yard, towards the bars and shops around the corner.
Our little resort/college town does, in fact, have nearly as many temptations as any big coastal city.
But I have things to do at work tomorrow ….
perhaps I’ll just go out for one or two….
Executive summary: You reverse the sexual polarities at your peril and great risk to your family.
A self-confident culture on the upswing features a lot of men following the CAP formula for happiness. A few drinks, a young pretty mistress, and a diligently pursued passion (which could be a career or a hobby) is the secret sauce that inspirits men and motivates them to continue providing for their dutiful wives and paternally assured kids.
But, a sickly, self-negating culture on the downswing reverses this formula. Men become women and women become men. All sorts of crap flows outward from that toxic strew.
Careerist men: Strong, attractive, admirable.
Careerist women: Unfeminine, bitchy, untrustworthy.
Imbibing men: Fun, charming, sociable.
Imbibing women: Slutty, crass, poor mothers.
Promiscuous men: Happy, contented, appreciative.
Promiscuous women: Deranged, restless, divorce risks.
You’ve been warned.
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It’s interesting that the CH anti-feminist message gets so little troll and hater pushback — almost none, really — while the Château’s racial raids get the paid and amateur shills out in numbers.
Barring a drunk fattie menstruating her outrage here from time to time, there hasn’t been any regular feminist opposition here in years.
[CH: one major equalist plank shattered, one to go.]
The only way you would have people agree with the race issue is you only had a certain white demographic. People aren’t going to go against their own self interest or what they perceive to be in their own interests.
Most emasculated men have a shared vested interest in promoting feminine beauty in looks and behavior but it’s just not true concerning race. You’re going to support what helps your side. The white SJW types support diversity because of intra tribal competition that conveniently makes their position stronger, at least in the short term.
““It is difficult to get a man to understand something, when his salary depends on his not understanding it.” – Upton Sinclair
Just change the words around
“It is difficult to get a man to understand differences concerning race, when his tribe/his social status/employment/wealth depends on his not understanding it”.
Of course this only for useful idiots, the leaders at the top of these minorities know the score. They don’t believe their own BS, they use it as a weapon. Well at least I don’t think they are that dumb to actually believe. However, I used to think this about Obama, but now I’m beginning to believe that he actually is that naïve and dumb.
A cool benefit of dating a chick that doesn’t drink much is that you get a built in DD so you save money on drinks, gas and DUIs. A girl willing to drive you around as you get drunk with friends also comes across as more caring and considerate. We need more chicks like this.
But which of those young co-eds is going to clean up his diarrhea trail or trim his ear hairs after couch-wife decides that being alone is preferable to contracting a disease? Does he really want his children to loathe him for the rest of his days? The good life is one that should prepare you for the good death.
Most married men won’t cheat or booze because they won’t have the inclination, talent or temparament for it. But having the option and sanction to do so would go a long way for men to reinvest in society. The meta message is to make marriage a good deal for men.
Someone will be along any moment to tell you that if a man has sin in his heart he is still guilty of sin, so you don’t need inclination, talent or temperament. You still get the shaming.
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I assume finding a mistress involves a lot of solo bar game at places you don’t go with your wife? Unless you have friends that are down for the cause.
places you don’t go with your wife…yes. bars…no.
bar whores do not make good mistresses. they are more trouble than they are worth.
Interesting… where do you recommend then?
Yes, that pretty much sums it up.
Careerism? Check.
Alcoholism? Check.
Promiscuity? Check.
Life is good.
Scary to see that it’s really that simple. Replace good smoke for alcohol and I think it’s still true. Especially if breeding and growing said smoke is a hobby.
Now we just need more posts about how to keep the mistress from contacting the wife and vice versa. Women talk too much.
Comm security, name security, your friends are not your friends and travel…
And do not get feelings…
Last week my female neighbor just caught me with another chick [not my gf] pulling out of my garage. I sort of prepared for this by undermining said neighbor with gf (the neighbor is a little nuts), but I think my defense if it comes up will be to deny, deny, deny. The gf already suspects something’s up, but probably wouldn’t be upset enough to end it. We shall see.
http://giphy.com/gifs/laughing-drunk-mad-men-hqOl7UJOVZJUk
Been trying to tell you guys this… but will you listen?
A CAP life allows for great interactions like these between Mad Men.
I once saw a thick book, I believe it was titled What Men Know About Women. I opened it and every single page was blank.
Lies. All of it.
I was at my favorite lunch spot just now. I know the wait staff very well, but I always flirt with them as practice.
I left my credit card on the counter while waiting for my waitress to come ring me up. She comes over and grabs my card without saying anything. “Hey, you just help yourself to that,” I said with a straight face as she started printing my receipt.
I put a mint in my mouth, crinkled up the wrapper and flicked it at her. It made contact right between her eyes, and she said, “Wow, dude, that was rude!” then she laughed. “What was that?” “I don’t know, wasn’t me,” I said.
I found this all very funny, but her initial response threw me off. Did I actually irritate her?”