For those who don’t know, the Twitter feed @tinderfessions is a cornholecopia of pervy and depraved confessions of Tinder users, the Weimar era-approved app that allows people to quickly geolocate future husbands and wives for intimacy trial runs. 😆
If even half the stuff on Tinderfessions is true, the republic is hurtling towards its doom faster than anyone thinks. Reader ivanhoseph77 writes,
Tinderfessions will cure you of any betaness instantly. It will also cure you of any lingering fondness for LTR’s or marriage.
It shows the global march of absolute sexual anarchy in stark relief. We are so far past any attempt at turning back from semen filled gutters of our society it’s not even funny.
It’s a poon paradise. Nobody in their right mind would even CONSIDER an LTR or marriage when looking at the stark reality.
“Virtue has it’s own rewards” my ass. As CH would say, “sit poolside, imbibe of the delights, and enjoy watching it burn.” There is nothing else to be done. Literally.
That twitterfeed will fell any idealized notions you may be absurdly clinging to.
The modern sexual market appears to be in the process of bifurcating. The religious and (relatively) prudish are making babies; the secular and debauched are not. Has this ever happened before in American history? Good question. How representative is Tinderfessions of the public’s sexual behavior? Also a good question.
Having read enough social media in various interchangeable formats, I notice that online communication — for all its passionate sperm und wang — reveals very little of love or aspirations to love. From unformed men this is expected; from women it’s jarring. The divine and mysterious has been strip-mined from sex, leaving behind an abandoned pit.
Maybe the quest for human happiness is better served by a little less convenience and a little more struggle.
[…] Tinderfessions: “The global march of absolute sexual anarchy” […]
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> “If even half the stuff on Tinderfessions is true, the republic is hurtling towards its doom faster than anyone thinks.”
Not to be taken in anyway facetiously or unseriously.
> “The modern sexual market appears to be in the process of bifurcating. The religious and (relatively) prudish are making babies; the secular and debauched are not.”
There is no question but that The Frankfurt School has [just about completely successfully] engineered the Decline and Fall Part II.
The question is: Where are we now?
Are we at 0 AD?
Or we at more like 450 AD?
Were the twin defeats of American Constitutionalism, at Pickett’s Charge, on July 3, 1863, and at Vicksburg, on July 4 1863, the equivalent of Caesar’s defeat of Pompey at Pharsalus in 48 BC?
Or the defeat of Marc Anthony at Actium in 31 BC?
Was the assassination by John Wilkes Booth, of The Anti-Constitutional Nihilist, in 1865, equivalent to the assassination of Caesar, by Brutus et al, in 44 BC?
People who think that we are still lurking somewhere close to 100 BC in all of this are simply delusional.
***************
Turning and turning in the widening gyre
The falcon cannot hear the falconer;
Things fall apart; the centre cannot hold;
Mere anarchy is loosed upon the world,
The blood-dimmed tide is loosed, and everywhere
The ceremony of innocence is drowned;
The best lack all conviction, while the worst
Are full of passionate intensity.
“Given the characteristics of the modern era, love can scarcely manifest itself anymore. Yet the ideal of love has not diminished. Being, like all ideals, fundamentally atemporal, it can neither diminish nor disappear.”
(Houellebecq, Rester Vivant, 1999)
Good quote. People will still always look for love. And probably nine tenths or more of Tinderfessions is fake; just look at it. Even if it isn’t fake, count the number of people posting there and compare that to the number of people living in the U.S.
Nevertheless, the mere existence of that kind of Twitter feed – or Twitter in general, catering to the millions who can’t be bothered to read up on anything and write long posts – is a good sign of the times. In a more conservative society it would be big news and it would soon be forbidden, along with a lot of other things, in order to protect the weak of mind. People could stand there and cry “fascism!” as much as they wanted, while the sewers were cleaned up by better men and society improved. As always we are reminded that people are far from equal.
Tinder is ebonics for white people.
Plenty of Blacks on Tinder. Try again.
not really. see corvinus’ comment….. and also see the data on OKTrends:
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/
I don’t have many, but I can’t recall a single black friend of mine who has done well on Tinder. some get matches with no responses, others don’t get matched at all. NB: they’re not the stereotypical type who will pursue fat white women.
You stupid fucking Bantu.
you got the fucking part right.
Niggas even talk shit back in the day in Antebellum times:
Ha! gotcha thwackstar! Blacks use Tinder significantly mo than whites.
Love requires a certain emotional and moral maturity that few reach in these times. It’s all about being perceived as cool today.
Smash the cell phones
Yes. Or better, men need to stop using them entirely. Throw the “smart phone” in the trash and if you need to communicate, get an old “one function” phone that only…gasp…works as a phone. This idiocy will not be stopped by women, they are too far gone. It’s up to us.
You know that’s not going to happen. Men are not going to join hands as one and ditch cellphones all for the sake of making sure Tinder can’t be used. Jesus. If “us” had that kind of coordination, why would we have any problems at all?
I’m aware that it’s not going to happen. Men are pussies and could never be counted on to do such a thing. They might miss a #omgupdate! after all. But of course this is a given, since most men are beta and happy to be so.
On the other hand, if you make a trend cool enough without making it seem like you’re intentionally pushing a trend/meme, anything is possible.
Well, cellphones are useful and texting is useful. We should not resort to heavy-handed Ludditism; we must point out what is good and what is bad with new technologies, show that we don’t use the bad stuff as an excuse to ban the whole invention. As tempting as thoughts of far-sweeping solutions might be.
There is something to the thought of forcing people to lead more rugged lives. But we can’t make them do that all the time. Instead we can advocate partial ruggedness. Like going on a diet that does away with sugar, grains and rice and includes only raw materials. And organized trips to the wild for children and adults alike. Sleeping on the ground puts people more in contact with certain realities of life. Fishing, navigating through the woods by map, paddling, building things, trips to the firing range by day, and camp life by night. No technology while you are out there. This is especially important when kids are surrounded by TV, computers, cellphones etc on all other days. Rough life also teaches them to appreciate Western technology more.
I find nothing remotely useful with text. Cell phones are useful of course. The idea is to help navigate alphas out of the text/social media game entirely. If that happens it wouldn’t matter how many betas are online, they chicks would get bored with them quick. At no point did I say the word “ban” or “force”, just to be clear.
Agreed on the rugged lives.
When I spent a summer on the back of a garbage truck I got ripped and cut so much I tried to start fights with myself.
I had to put a sheet over every mirror in my house.
Well, text is useful; first, because it is cheaper than calling. But also, it is more polite. When people carry their cellphones on their person you never know where a guy is when you call him. He could be in a meeting or be doing something else that is important. Some people are contacted on their cellphones dozens of times a day in their line of work, and if it was all in the form of conversations they’d go crazy.
As for game, texting is much better than calling. Calling is a bigger deal, so to speak, and if you do it only to talk about something brief, it doesn’t make you look good. Especially not if it means you are disturbing the girl when she is in class or working, etc. Texting looks more casual. It looks even more casual when you delay your next reply after too much quick texting. (If this deliberate delay to imply that we have busy lives seems dishonest to women – it’s not we who make the rules. We just adapt to their reactions, even though they deny those reactions.)
I wonder what other forms game might take in the future. It seems impossible to predict, just like we couldn’t predict texting game, or online ads before that. And in the past, club culture and discos were something people couldn’t imagine would come.
One thing that didn’t break through: small hook-up devices in Japan to carry in your pocket, set to either “looking for a relationship” or “looking for something casual”, and when you were close to someone of the opposite sex with the same settings, the device would beep. That was in the 1990s. Of course, women did not want to embarrass themselves by carrying that around and be bothered by a ton of guys.
This is a big reason I consider a citizen’s military like Switzerland or a draft to be important social tools for educating the populace as well as to give them first hand experience with nature and surviving out there.
Absolutely, Carlos. Military service has always been an important way of teaching young men masculine values, discipline, the morality in fighting when necessary, physical fitness, rugged outdoors life and patriotism. In the West and elsewhere – which is why feminists hate it intensely and oppose it everywhere. It also makes wars a bigger deal for the people, something that needs a serious discussion, as opposed to when a country employs a mercenary army that gets paid to kill and be killed for whatever reason.
That’s retarded. Smartphones are useful for a plethora of manly functions like trading stocks and replying to knee-jerk posts like yours.
We’re talking about an article that references social media (Tinder). If we were talking about trading stocks your comment wouldn’t be a non-sequitur.
Besides, iPhone day trading, by its nature, is retarded. So there you go.
You were talking about doing away with cellphones and having only a landline, Burninator.
No, if you go back and read what he wrote, he was talking about “smart phones,” not old school ergonomic cell phones.
Theodore got it. Exactly correct.
> “manly functions like trading stocks”
It’s very difficult to think of any possible line of work which could possibly be more effeminately nihilistic than moving around electronic zeroes and ones in an effort to maximize their little endian representation of a base two number.
Particularly when the zeroes and ones are invented out of thin air by the likes of Greenspan, Bernanke, and Yellen [on behalf of Fischer].
You might as well kick back and chill out and become a heroin addict – and go ahead and die of an overdose – if that’s the best you can do with your life.
Warren Buffett doesn’t even need a computer.
I’m no pussy – just use my smart phone to read CH and Sailer.
what about that thing where you slide a picture one way to discard and the other way to “match”? Dem bitchez seem to go for that too.
Even though a lot of it is probably trollish fantasising it still indicates a high velocity and irreversible societal decline, fuck it anyway.
i think there’s plenty of that in there, but it’s jarring that so many women participate in a public (although anonymous) slut celebration.
irreversible is right. women will fuck higher value men men, thinking they have an ltr on the horizon, and continue to not realize their real smv until it’s too late and they’re too used up. i don’t think this can be reversed from the men’s side.
Please God tell me this is fake
What is wrong with people? I could understand if they were on different continents but come on – until you are inside of her, it doesn’t count… And this isn’t the way to get there… Just makes me shake my head…
This guy needs to hop a plane and actually take her out – simple, straight-forward… With an objective….
I suppose the sexbots weren’t completely needed after all.
I just felt like posting this too
http://web-images.chacha.com/images/Gallery/5640/why-would-you-post-that-on-facebook-1971400693-mar-14-2014-1-600×497.jpg
Wow, just wow. Compulsory abortions for the C-classed people looks better and better.
Thank God I’m nearly 70!
thats 96 in black years.
Lawdy, Miss Claudy! Sistuh done swallered a watermelon whole!
Jesus Wept!
What a cesspool!
How do you protect your kids from that?
Homeschool.
Go hard Luddite, lie the Amish.
SRSLY.
The Amish saw all of this coming.
Just like the old southern segregationists knew that it would be insanity to free the Negro to rape and murder culture and our society.
No matter how lunatic a person may seem to you, – if they successfully foresaw the future, whereas you and your ilk did not – then you owe them the most profound and heartfelt of apologies and mea culpas.
rape and murder OUR culture
LIKE the Amish
Can you Like the Amish on Facebook?
Rightswipe them on Tinder
> “Can you Like the Amish on Facebook?”
That’s the entire point of Anabaptist Luddism – to do away with any and all dependence on electromagnetism and Maxwell’s Laws and whatnot – on the supremely prescient suspicion that no good would ever come from it.
And everything that we have seen in the modern world – certainly since the popularization of FM radio and television some 60 or 70 years ago – is proving them to have been absolutely certainly metaphysically 100% correct in their distrust of it all.
Homeschool? Indoctrination train is the actual term.
“Just like the old southern segregationists knew that it would be insanity to free the Negro to rape and murder culture and our society.”
It was insanity to actually enslave them in the first place, Cochise!
The coons were already slaves.
Mostly brought over by Jewish owned shipping.
See São Tomé and Recife and look at how heavily Jews trade in flesh.
See also Slavery during the Caliphates. They were kidnapping whites over debt and war for millennia.
Director, you’re dead wrong. Jews did NOT play a leading role as the financial backers or transporters in the transatlantic or Caribbean slave trades. For starters, no ship fitted out for the slave trade that originated in Great Britain was under the direct or indirect control of a Jew. Indeed, from 1709-1807, there are 934 recorded voyages in which Rhode Island merchants were responsible for procuring 106,000 slaves. Now, Jews arrived in Newport as early as 1658. On the eve of the Revolution, they were estimated to be around thirty families. According to historical records, (e.g. naval office shipping lists, censuses, tax records) that identified merchants and planters as Jewish, there were 347 slave ships sent to Africa by Rhode Island slave traders from 1761-1774, with 21 being funded by Aaron Lopez, a Portuguese Jew. That means 326 voyages were underwritten by non-Jews during this time frame. Of course, Jews played a role in the peddling of human flesh. The extent in this particular case is nominal compared to other ethnic groups.
gmc, the more profitable the business, the more, smuggling, tax evasion, payoffs, bribes, kickbacks, back room deals, shifty go betweens… there are.
The slave trade was like an iceberg, the visible part is the small part.
“Homeschool? Indoctrination train is the actual term.”
The Cathedral is strong in this one.
Rape!
Amish are suffering badly from Founder’s Syndrome–genetic failure through not enough variation. I’m getting a Chink wife. White women look like linebackers.
Just curious–are you bluish?
It’s a jew.
And a particularly odious one, at that. The chateau is like a flame to those moth-men.
homeschool you say ? http://www.okcupid.com/profile/TiahnaHartwell?cf=search_overlay
@tinderfessions is 140-character onanist smut fanfiction. If we wouldn’t believe the youth if they told us loudly they weren’t doing drugs and having sex, why should we believe them now that they’re claiming loudly that they do?
Because denying things that are common to human nature is not the same as affirming actions that are in accordance with human nature.
Well said my friend.
The answer to the question is, “Because we want to believe them.” At least we know what they WOULD do if they were half as good at living pornography as they are at imagining pornography.
There is more amateur porn out there than you can shake a stick at. Somebody is making it. And from the looks of it, a lot of college kids are involved.
Heh, I used to write erotic stories in college. Started chatting to a girl over the internet, had her come over next week; she read a bondage-type story I had written, it made her eyes sparkle. We had sex after five hours, which was way too long actually, she was ready sooner than that. Good times.
dunno about that dude.
first, a fair amount of amateur porn isn’t really amateur porn. What they do is hire an already-low-paid male porn star and then a new female porn actress on the scene, or a girl looking for some quick cash will get paid a small amount to get
also, lot of real amateur porn gets taken down after a year or two because the uploading account takes it down or gets closed.
finally, most guys don’t want to upload their fuck vids. I like to keep mine for personal use.
You learn these things when you try to avoid professional porn.
Yeah I’d be surprised if 1 in 5 of those tweets were real.
Just today on Facebook I saw a girl I am semi-friends with post a picture. The picture was a screen shot of her Tinder in-box. Her comment on the photo was “IT WONT STOPPPPP!!!” Such a sad cry for attention.
Note to self. Stay off Tinder.
Gramps and Granny had no sexual media to distract them and were quite randy. My gg-grandfather had 12 children, my ggrandfather had 9. My mom had 9 siblings. This all began to unravel with the printing of the Sears catalogue and risque ads for fine ladie’s undergarments that young men could take to the outhouse.
> “This all began to unravel with the printing of the Sears catalogue and risque ads for fine ladie’s undergarments that young men could take to the outhouse.”
Sears was a Frankfurt School operation run by the Rosenwalds and the Loebs [there was also another Frankfurt School conspirator, named Nusbaum, but he was bought out in 1903].
They were able to move in and purchase Roebuck’s share after the FINANCIAL PANIC of 1893.
Sound familiar?
Which was about the time they stole the motion picture invention from Edison and developed nickelodeons and movie houses to further ennervate the national vitality!
ok, i’ll bite. whats the purpose of all this generational machination in your head?
> “generational machination”
???
why have people been manipulating shit for several generations.
To destroy whites.
nigga please. never happen.
Well, I know that, but the Edomites apparently never got the message.
STOP BEING A FAG.
Jesus Christ.
Sears. Fucking Sears. Sears is Commie now. Full retard.
No, actually, Uncle Elmer made an OUTSTANDING observation.
The Frankfurt School used the financial collapse of 1893 to move its Rosenwald and Loeb [and Nusbaum] subsidiaries into control of Sears, and then they proceeded to pollute the American cultural landscape with pictures of half-nekkid bitches in bras and underwear.
The Rosenwald/Loeb “Sears” was the Victoria’s Secret of the first 50 to 75 years of the 20th Century.
In America, The Frankfurt School took Lenin’s maxim, “They will sell us the rope with which we will hang them,” and turned it into, “We will sell them the rope with which they will hang themselves.”
Once you know what to look for, you will find Frankfurt School tentacles in damned near EVERYTHING which went wrong in our culture.
This is correct and yet, most are still not bad people. Ridicule and calling the commies out is the only method that works.
Now how do you solve for Zombie Brain believing something? He’s clearly a troglodyte twit, so can ANYTHING he believes be true?
I say Yes! Because we know the Frankfurters are everywhere! It’s the Frankfurters!!!
I quite literally beat off like crazy looking at all those Sears pics. Now Nat Geographic,thats anotherb thing entirely. Not to get racial,but them chicks with the titties down to they waist? Uhn uh
> “I quite literally beat off like crazy looking at all those Sears pics.”
Precisely as The Frankfurt School wanted you to.
I say Yes! Because we know the Frankfurters are everywhere! It’s the Frankfurters!!!
Typical strawman argument by those who can’t show any facts. Pretending that the speaker said “they are everywhere”. Those loyal to the media establishment, like little drooling babies hoping they’ll get a pat on the head, can’t have a conversation about particular facts because they know very little, and they are too lazy and cowardly to read up on anything.
He’s not too cowardly or lazy… he’s just doing his stint for the JIDF… geez, haven’t you sussed by now he’s just another usual suspect cogdis Cathedral Yiddler?
The ancients used to believe that the elixir/essence of life was contained in ejaculate, and they were very careful to conserve it. I’ve read that women were viewed as unworthy of receiving a man’s “power”, so he’d felch it out after intercourse. We know that nowadays boxers don’t engage in no funny stuff to preserve the strength in their legs.
And was it not a Jewish man who was responsible for the notorious 1893 Chicago World’s Fair medway??!!!!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sol_Bloom
He is considered the origin of the infamous ditty to accompany ribald “hoochie coochie” songs and exotic belly-dance fantasies that so polluted the minds and glands of otherwise eugenic young males.
Even young Scott Joplin performed outside the fair to the astonishment of white patrons, setting the stage for wild Negroe influence of our otherwise proper musical styles.
You damned idiot. The Institute for Social Research (the “Frankfurt School”) was founded in 1923. In case you need extra fingers to figure it out, that’s 30 years AFTER 1893. Unless you believe Joos have time machines, why don’t you shut the fuck up, you moron.
Um, I think they were businessmen trying to make money.
Frankfurt School’s done plenty of evil, but sex selling goes back to Adam and Eve.
Now EVERYTHING is a Frankfurt School offshoot. They YKW used the intervening years to good effect. Hence progression to the likes of tinderfessions
Don’t forget National Geographic; bringing young white boys brown tits since 1888.
What????? I want summa dat!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heart_of_Darkness
“The modern sexual market appears to be in the process of bifurcating. The religious and (relatively) prudish are making babies; the secular and debauched are not. Has this ever happened before in American history?”
Right now we are somewhere between 1929 and the beginnings of WWII. As to who are going to play the villains and who will be the heroes of the coming apocalypse, I know Big Red would make a very convincing Hitler.
who knows who is doing the ‘fessing…it could be the government cheese crowd, people who have already checked out from civilization.
can’t come fast enough. burn this bitch down.
Maybe the quest for human happiness is better served by a little less convenience and a little more struggle.
Those of adequate character are worth more with convenience; those not, worth less. Convenience is part of the natural solution, giving the human garbage the freedom to sink ever lower until it is contemptible enough to burn without objection. Stockpile the marshmallows or better yet learn a marshmallow recipe. Bitch smores will be divine.
What is this “Timder” thing you guys keep referring to?
What he said.
Wasn’t The Frankfurt School talking about this shit on their NBC subsidiary during the broadcast of the Sochi Olympics?
I know I heard a story somewhere about some skier-ette or skater-etee slut who was fucking as many guys as she could.
In fact, it may have been just about the first time that I ever became aware of Tinder.
Tinderfessions @tinderfessions 1h
Conversation started with “What’s up fucker”….I think I found my husband – Andrea
Treat ‘em mean, keep ‘em keen.
Tinderfessions @tinderfessions 13h
Matched with twins a day apart, realized I fucked their mom a week before from one of their pictures. – Blake
Desperate cougars are desperate.
Tinderfessions @tinderfessions 16h
Put hot girls in your tinder pics cuz it’s kind like they’re endorsing you so other hot girls know they should fuck you. #TinderTip – Fran
A girl named Fran suggests Preselection…
Tinderfessions @tinderfessions 52m
Met up with my first guy ever off of tinder and finally lost my white boy v-card. #thankstinder – Trina
Tinderfessions @tinderfessions 17h
Tinder taught me that either I’m ugly or white girls don’t like black guys. #FML – Marcus
hahahahaha
Tinderfessions @tinderfessions 19h
Girls – If you’re looking for a relationship on tinder you need to reevaluate your life. – Carrie
There’s a ray of hope after all…
there’s always the chance it’ll burn through all the undergrowth and clean things up once women gaze upon what they’ve become. facebook was initially a wildfire of free sex too, until everyone was on, and the novelty wore off, and every dude on the planet was leaving like and pokes and comments.
probably the right move is to burn through tinder as much as you can, while you can.
What tinder is there to reignite the spark of the divine and mysterious?
Fuck That !
Did you guys see the new Crimian Attorney General.
Damn she’s cute:
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/gadgets-and-tech/internet-swoons-over-battleready-heroine-crimean-attorney-general-natalia-poklonskaya-9212474.html
A solid 9 in my POV. maybe with make up a 10. YMMV.
and she’s 33!!!!!
She definitely puts the ‘cute’ in prosecute.
WHATTTTT!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!
A 6! 6 AT MAX!!!!!!!!!!!!!! c’mon guys, get out more lol head into the city every once in a while fuck
Agree, I’d declare her to be about a 7. Granted, she’s probably a bit more feminine than the average American lawyercunt 7.
agree–she’s hardly a 9! guy getting carried away. BUT a 6? She’s rubbing up against 7.
She could rub up against my 7 any day!
Its the uniform and the novelty of her position that does it for people.
7-8
Only if you think a mere 6 is cute.
Putin is very clever. He knows this will inspire western feminists to invoke this as proof women can serve in combat and clamor for even more female military career gravy, irrevocably sapping our marshal capabilities and rendering our armed forces impotent in the face of his naked aggressions.
Dude,he doesnt think THAT far ahead! He’s got his hands full with the dissidents,the oligarchs,the army etc etc.He may wish to get that lil blonde nymph a suckin on his hard,cold Ruskie weiner.
Something MSM does not want you to know/see
That’s another thing I don’t understand. I’m not a fan of Barry’s policies, but he is still an American. All of this Putin worship on the internet is not only omega-as-fuck, but it also sets a pathetic precedent where the enemy is admired. Respect is different than admiration. It’s one thing to respect the man, its another to continually worship him posting pictures and memes about the dude.
North Korea portrays its leader to its citizens as a supreme being via PROPAGANDA. You don’t think Russia does the same?
they got a hot AG, but we havethe first woman president….and she’s a pretty little submissive black girl too!
lol true that, but NOT HOT!!!! maybe hot next to 100 dudes, but NOT HOT
don’t feed the machine brotha
prettier than our girl president we got now.
Let alone the female thing we’ll likely get next.
Where are the noods?
I think Tinder marks a significant turning point. It is now free reign for the hypergamous. No more hiding your wives and girlfriends. No more “upping the Alpha” to reignite her interest. Hypergamy can no longer be reckoned with, it has an outlet now that allows absolute freedom of movement.
I am always wary of this overuse of “hypergamy” and many other expressions. Exactly what does Tinder have to do with hypergamy, which means to coldly move from one boyfriend/husband to a richer boyfriend/husband? If anything it is polygamy. But I suppose, since we associate “polygamy” with men and “hypergamy” with women, you pick the one associated with women whether it fits or not. This is starting to look like how the PC crowd spout pre-packaged words for every situation. One good reason to limit the use of these words in your language as much as possible, and explain what you mean instead.
Because hypergamy is not limited to “richer.” It can mean taller, darker, stronger, cuter, more popular, depending on what the girl perceives as having more SMV than her current boyfriend.
And that is not what the OP is about. It is about people hooking up for casual sex through Tinder. Yes, the word “sex” is there, but that’s about all it has to do with “hypergamy”. You might as well say that BDSM is hypergamy, because potentially a woman could go to a BDSM club to find a new husband. Or work is hypergamy, because a woman could look for a new husband at her workplace. Evening classes are hypergamy. Streets and all public places are hypergamy. Church is hypergamy. Or, heck, they are all about robbery, because all these venues might potentially be used to find someone to rob.
Yes and financial independence for women muddies that definition even further.
Trading up has nothing to do with money these days.
Umm, what if there’s no internet on the wives or gf’s cellphones?
Some broad wrote abook called Slow Sex,some SF feminust bitch. The idea is use these techniques to REALLY get the broad off–and bound to Y-O-U! Savoy says his Advanced Comfort(?) will absolutely make da bitch fall in love withcha! Mark Cunningham says his techniques nhave womennot just in love but pounding on your door–when you be tryin ta gitcho sleep on! Point? The bish may be a slut til she meets YOU,ya big alpha you. THEN she wants to
get serious!
““Virtue has it’s own rewards” my ass. As CH would say, “sit poolside, imbibe of the delights, and enjoy watching it burn.” There is nothing else to be done. Literally.
That twitterfeed will fell any idealized notions you may be absurdly clinging to.”
This cat has it right. Stop filling yourself up with uptight anger that only serves to rupture your own enjoyment and just accept it and let it happen. Who cares what happens to these sloots/betas?
Whatever happens simply happens. It’s all cool. I don’t even wish ill on them. If they beat the odds and end up happy good for them for playing the game in a superior manner. Lace up your gloves, enter the metaphysical octagon and have fun.
Nah, he is overreacting to make it sound like Tinder describes every woman in society, which is ridiculous. Also, what’s with the “literally” in there? That word is included by people when they want to provide emphasis in a way they think sounds intellectual. So. He means to “literally” sit by a swimming pool and watch society burn? Literally? Is that something that is possible to do? Does he even have a swimming pool to sit by, and is society on actual fire nearby? No. It’s a figure of speech. Another example of mindless use of a word that only shows how the user is simply parroting other people. George Orwell called it “duckspeak” – how right he was.
Well if a young mightve-been-hot woman is a fatso landwhale and she goes swimming,in the pool at which CH is sitting, insouciantly sipping on his drink of choice,and begins to drown because she is so fat,I guess he would be watching “society” burn. Tho being fat would make her float so lets say she had a heart attack. As she sinks that could be the destruction of our fat society,and he would literally be sitting poolside watching it. But wouldnt he at least tell the lifeguard? In some ways maybe WE are the lifeguards at the pool CHis sitting ‘side?
Speaking of [ex-] lifeguards, WTF ever happened to JayInDC?
Or Matthew King for that matter?
Jail?
I cannot speak on his behalf, however I think I recall Matthew mentioning in small snippets that he was taking some time away from this site.
As to Jay, I have no idea.
I can neither confirm nor deny that Matthew King has repented of his papist heresy and delegated me to confuse the enemy on his behalf while he meditates and drinks calming jasmine tea.
“Has this ever happened before in American history?”
Not that I know of, but it happened in the Roman Republic. It’s chilling to read Vespasian’s writings as he desperately tried to get Roman patricians to marry, raise families, and act like adults, but the young are only interested in partying and having fun.
Great blog, CH.
I find most of those confessions fake though. couple points on why this is true and “how to” tinder:
1) I have two friends who “kill” it on this app. One is a professional athlete, the other is a computer scientist.
The athlete tends to have prolonged conversations over a couple weeks with one or two 7-8/10, and the girl is usually willing to even fly out or drive long distances. He noted that a lot of these girls still look loads better in pics than real life (due to acne, blotchy skin, etc.) Even though he’s got all the intangibles and physical characteristics, and has better text game than myself, his experience is nothing like these confessions. He’s now back to face to face dating.
The programmer has solid game, and carpet bombs messages to girls. If there was “right” way to tinder, this would be it. He’s a really short dude, but gets at least one girl a week in the sack, and they’re 5-7(ish) in quality.
2) There are *considerably* more males than females on this app. Even if you “like” a girl, she might not even get to your profile because so many other men have liked her. To most of these women, tinder is more of a validation tool / boredom-fighter.
I do know a couple girls who have tried to fuck “on the low” on the app, many have been disappointed despite what tinderfessions said.
3) Tinder is FIRST a validation tool for women. Dating has an ancillary purpose in tinder for women. Next comes entertainment – the power to judge a male at her fingertips. The fourth , and more ancillary still, benefit is a girl being able to slut it up without social repercussion – Fucking on the down-low.
Many women of value don’t NEED this app for that fourth purpose; a 6/10 has greater risk of repercussion for slutting around than an 8/10 – and women know this. Guys will still line up to fuck the 8 but the 6 knows she’s limiting herself from the top men by doing this.
4) I’m sure many of you are aware of Berkeley Confessions, or “X,Y,Z, college” Confessions. at my school, some of the guys either fabricate stories or pretend to be someone else and say that they are hot. Naturally some
of these female authors are just horny men.
Not to turn this into an ‘as the world turns’ dialogue by me but I’ll post this for the guys who are going through oneitis, pedestals, and no contact.
I was drunk last night – first time in a long time. First I’ll show you what I wrote a red pill buddy of mine as soon as I got home.
“i’m kind of drunk – but something just happened. i need to vent. i figured i’d vent here. i was drinking with a couple bouncers when we got to _____. ‘ex gf’ was there with 3 guys and some girl from work I think she used to bash. i was there for about a half an hour. so leaves with them in a big suv. all of us could barely recognize her. if i could cry i would. its that bad. her leaving like that. it’s like those 2 years with me were nothing and shes now back on the coke train. i should have stepped in and said something. im a total wreck. i fucked this girl and now this. should i reach out? fuck i havent had these emotions in years
in my weakest state which is now i want to meet up with her. i know its not the right thing to do. she left her car in the parking lot and went off with them. all of us could hardly recognize her. im fucking sad. i havent been sad in a while. not like this. i mean sure it’s the booze. though shit, whats a man to do
fuck im going through such a wave of emotions im not sure what to do. i think i fucked myself
..or is this more well “well, you were right to dump her. now you’ve seen her true side.” there’s only so much i can disassociate from a girl i just dumped. she looked shitty. the guys she was with were squirrels. im lucky, and im butthurt that it came to this. that i was the only filter from having her go back into the drug scene. its sad, very sad.
I
again – i hate these emotions im feeling
its was almost like i wanted to ‘rescue her’ from what was going on. lol yes i was that drunk. im sick to my stomach. im not sure how to think or feel. im looking for a little guidance here. totally rattled – i didnt do anything in the public face. but im rattled.
i feel so disgusted, ashamed, and humiliated.”
Now this morning most of the emotions are gone. I’m sure I’ll have a relapse through the coming days. It just shows what a strong, dominant man can do to an out of control 8.5 21 yr old club slut. Tame her, temporarily.
Obviously it was right for me to dump the slut – and she probably did this shit behind my back on all those ‘girls night out.’
It’s all a shame, and it’s a sign of the times.
Damn what were you drinking?
vodka heh
you deal with the rescue urge better than i do, that was a bracing read though
never been there and don’t wanna go either; fuck the idea of rescuing bitches
Yea that thought lasted all of about 3 mins
That’s the MP in you that’s talking, Dude. That sweet german girl – with a thing for black dudes – is showing her character now. She didn’t stay hidden long. Count your stars you got out when you did.
thwack says a bish being a mudhsark is putting out a 5 star shit test!
You are correct sir.
White girls out for the dark meat don’t go around TALKING about how they are out for the dark meat; unless,
unless,
they are giving some white guy a shit test.
Or throwing up a “beta filter” at the bar…
balls to put that up there. props man
yea i’m a fairly stone cold character. wanted to throw it out there as that’s the rawest form i’ll be – all for some hot hallway pussy. terrible form.
hotdog hallway pussy
Ok now I realize why you get angry and attack people who have access to and success with women. Sorry to hear you’re stuck in such a low state. Hopefully you’re beginning to realize your time is better spent fixing yourself than tearing down other people. Good luck.
Bish be livin rent free in yo head mister! Get yoseff a TWENTY YEAR OLD.start the cycle all over.
lol rescue her from what?
You need to let that pill go all the way down, bray.
Seems to me that this ‘thrust’ fellow was used and dumped by a short term chic who then returned to her true nature. I, too, was dropped by a similar type, but never had an urge to rescue her. Just realized that she was the type who thrived on projected misery and, after an embarrassing, pathetic sleepless 3 months, found a 17 yr old cutie who wanted nothing but to fuck me everyday for 3 weeks. I was 24 at the time. The joy erased the pain tenfold.
I dumped her. beat her to the punch.
I had a longer write up over why most of these tinderfessions are fake but it got deleted. a quick recap:
1) most girls use it as a validation/entertainment tool, not to randomly bang guys
2) The girls who do, tend to do it because their value is too low to slut amongst their social networks – a 8/10 knows she can get away with more than a 6/10
3) There are considerably more men than women on tinder. And since it has a greater concentration of young people than other dating sites, this ratio will be even more skewed. There are TONS of guys who can’t get tinder to work.
4) Choice overload – a psychological phenomenon when a person is overwhelmed by too many options – many times they end up not choosing one at all.
5) As with College Confessions, many of these lusty co-eds are just college men.
I don’t think hypergamy is any more unrestrained because of this app – no more than it already had been. Other fads like Lulu and BetchesloveThis have already done the work.
‘How representative is Tinderfessions of the public’s sexual behavior?’
http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/FAQ.html#frequency
I mean, we could just assume that this research is faulty…but seeing as how we’re stacking it up against anecdotes about Tinder, I think they’re at least equally credible.
So…..going by this I’d say unrepresentative. Most girls don’t live this life — mainly because girls lack access to opportunity. Plus, most girls simply aren’t sluts — that’s why there’s a thing called ASD, where you have to make them trust you and feel safe and shit.
Looking at the 18-30 age bracket — like half aren’t having sex at all. A fifth are hooking up between ‘few times yearly’ and ‘monthly.’ And a fourth are getting it more than that. My wager is that that’s including FB situations….where it’s just one guy for long periods of time.
I felt so weird after my last Tinder hookup.
She had no idea what she was doing sexually, but it was also probably one of the emptiest feelings I’ve ever had. Obviously I’d still hook up with other, hotter chicks that I met on Tinder and IRL, but I agree that the hollow sexual debauchery in our society is reaching Weimar levels. We aren’t there yet, but we’re close.
It’s helped my game a little bit, though, as far as escalation, comfort building are concerned, as well as ongoing text game for girls who live farther away that I have to get to come to my place. Obviously the app isn’t going to give you game. It’s the personal encounters that do. And my profile is so good I found that some girl took a screenshot of it and posted it on her twitter. Don’t underestimate the bio.
I’ve seen many girls from school on Tinder, who I know have boyfriends. It truly is hypergamy unleashed. There are some gems on there, though, believe it or not. When everyone is so awkward socially, as they are these days, you have to go to where they’re comfortable, and that’s Tinder.
I’d say most of the girls there are simply looking for validation. What easier way to have your ego stroked than to match with guy after guy after guy? Others are on there with decent intentions, or maybe no real intentions at all. The rest of the people on there are the ones who post to tinderfessions.
The value of game and social dynamics taught by CH aren’t for increasing notch count. There’s no lasting sense of accomplishment in that, and it leaves a person empty. The value in the texts of the Chateau comes in one’s personal transformation into a man with both options and a sense of masculinity to carry him through life; a man who is willing to walk his own path and choose who he walks it with, if anyone.
> “She had no idea what she was doing sexually, but it was also probably one of the emptiest feelings I’ve ever had.”
When you make love with a woman, it is your responsibility to see to it that she orgasms.
You are not a PUH – a Pick Up Hack.
You are a PUA – a Pick Up ARTIST.
So attend to the Artistry of it.
It’s your responsibility.
What if you smoke ‘em and stroke ‘em, but don’t poke ‘em? Would that make you a PUP (Pick Up Petter)? 🙂
You pick her up but just as quickly drop her–are you a pick-up-dropper,a PUD?
What if you pick them up and neg them sex? Are you a PUN’er?
Yet women can indeed differ in their sex skills. It is not just about her lying still on her back.
Fucking a dead fish is unpleasant.
It is your job, as a Real Man, to TEACH your lover how to sex a man.
How to relax and to trust you and to give in to the animalistic cravings which she feels as you begin to gently massage her clitoris [preferably with a pre-moistened finger – in fact, get her to lick your finger for you before you slide it beneath her underwear].
While it is true that there are many women who are simply biologically [neurologically] incapable of orgasm, there is another class of women who can’t achieve orgasm for psychological reasons – because they are terrified, because they cannot bring themselves to trust their lovers, because they might themselves be disgusted at the thought of copulating with the men whom they find themselves lying next to in bed.
It is your job to make her relax, to put her at ease, to make her want you, to make her need you, to make her desire to cum and cum and cum and cum if for no other reason than simply to please you.
And that can require an enormous amount of patience and guidance and teaching [and more patience and guidance and teaching and more patience and guidance and more patience and more patience and more patience] on your part, in order to lead her ultimately to the promised land.
On the other hand, I suppose that it’s entirely possible that there is another class of women who can’t orgasm unless they are being choked nearly to death by the likes of YaReally.
Or who are being brutally raped by the likes of whorefinder.
Aw, you flatter me. My rapes can be quite sweet, actually.
Rape!
You ever bang one of those chicks who got her clit clipped? Cant be much fun. But==they say the clit ahs deep roots so maybe you can work it out
i arrived in a new city just a month ago and have built a decent harem from just tinder in that time…makes it too easy
‘Maybe the quest for human happiness is better served by a little less convenience and a little more struggle.’
virginal hymen rupture > slutty hotdog-in-a-hallway
the parallel holds true
This isn’t a generational thing- it’s intrinsic. This is human nature unmasked by technology. Humans are naturally promiscuous (for example, take the quantitative marker of testicle to body weight ratio, which is high compared to other primates and apes).
Before the agricultural revolution and the advent of religion, the hunter-gatherers were basically fucking any half-decent member of the opposite sex they happened to encounter on the plains or were in the same tribe. This is Old-School Tinder.
Marriage, monogamy, and ideals of lifelong romantic love are all relatively recent societal constructs – they seem like the default to us of how things are supposed to be, but that’s just how we’ve been conditioned to think.
Accept human promiscuity (there really is no other choice), practice the crimson arts, and move on with life.
See you guys poolside.
I’ve been using it for about a week.. it’s full of some absolute fuckin’ whales. Still, I’ve been right-swiped by a few beauties, so all’s good.
I’m sure some of the tweets are real, but:
“Matched with twins a day apart, realized I fucked their mom a week before from one of their pictures. – Blake”
Riiight
Aren’t the dude tweets a dead-giveaway?
Then think of how many of the female ones were written by horny dudes. we’ve all known (rare)girls who have taken “trains” or have been gangbanged, but none to the point where they’re fucking 7-12 tinder different guys on a single day, or having other people walk in on their sex act and have it transform into a de facto orgy.
The divine and mysterious in sex is as invisible as it ever was. Once it was masked by church repression and now the mask is a façade of animal debauchery.
But the nature of ownership of a woman by a man remains a secret known only to those with clear minds.
Attention whoring unleashed is more like it. I admittedly haven’t tried this app but I strongly doubt a guy’s batting average will be any better with this than with any regular old dating site. Apex alphas can probably clean up. Overall, waste of time.
The divine and mysterious has been strip-mined from sex, leaving behind an abandoned pit.
Behold the soul-devouring maw of Amanjaw Marcuntte’s pussy.
the divine and mysterious is still there if you have a good imagination.
Uh, that’s kinda like calling Satan an archangel.
un no, thats like coming up with something thats not already been done on tee-vee.
April 1st is coming up, its your chance to shine; don’t fuck it up.
Silly kneegro, stop talking, your words don’t make sense.
I can’t get past his “Oooh, oooh, oooh, eeeeek!”
I can’t get past your saggy tits.
Dude, you got me on that one. Lost a lotta weight and now my tits sag. My pecks show up again. My clothes cover up the sagging titties, though, and a cute chick noticed that I had lost weight and said that I looked good.
But how did you know? You been sneakin’ into my harem again wearing a burka? 🙂
This from the guy citing early National Geographic travelogue photo-journalism.
lol. No one can get past thwack masta p to the fried chicken, malt liquor, and welfare checks.
Society rape!
This from the guy citing early National Geographic travelogue photo-journalism.
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Well-struck, sir… well-struck, indeed.
Or if the Virgin Mary appears
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Tinderfessions.
I raped a girl on Tinderfessions. She later confessed it was the best sex of her life.
We now re-enact it every Tuesday.
Rape!
I think that you raped thwack’s sistah.
Rape!
I don’t rape kneegroes. Heck, are kneegro females even capable of saying no? lol.
Rhetorical rape!
Now you’re getting it.
Apropos to the larger issue, I had a discussion the other day with a 50-ish woman, divorced, two kids, works hard. Very typical SWPL type and while of course a Liberal, probably less so than average for her species.
We were talking about sexual options at work (e.g. her industry is full of women and fags), and I said that being a college professor would be great as a male because you’d have an endless stream of new hot young things every year, and many men take advantage of this. She kinda wrinkled her face. Then I said it’s different then high school teaching, where it would be pretty depraved to be that predatory, though it happens a lot. What’s really sick, I said, is not the men going after the young girls — that’s natural for men. But there are so many of these 20 and 30 something female high school teachers going after 15 year old boys. Now THAT’s some sick shit.
She looked confused and said, “How is that any different than men?”
And I’m like, you don’t think it’s weirder for a grown woman to prey on adolescent boys than for a man to go after adolescent girls? She said no, it’s exactly the same.
It’s little surprise that Tinder should exist in a world where an ostensibly “normal” woman sees no difference in these two scenarios.
See, men and wimmin are equal. Gender’s a social construct.
“no, it’s exactly the same”. This is the kind of nonsense you get when socialists make sure that evolutionary biology is banned from schools. The lemmings’ heads are filled with cultural Marxism instead, and they are too dumb and too lazy, and too selfish (mustn’t go against those in power), to find out things for themselves.
Even the ones who might take well to real education are brainwashed because they simply never see the alternative to cultural Marxism, and don’t even know that there is one. Oh, except that it’s “fascism” and that’s evil. The teachers and media owners say so.
I’ve gotten 12 lays off of Tinder.
My default opener is: ” truth or dare ”
Just like that. No question mark nor capitalization. Needless to say, most bitches on there are dtf so if they like you, so they usually pick dare. Then you go direct and get straight at it.
I don’t even look at the bitches pictures. That’s a waste of time because if you like her and she doesn’t like you, it’s all for naught. All i do is swipe right on all of them and sort them out later. If i get a fatty who’s persistant (and there’s some who are) I block them. lol
The only real drawback to this is that I matched up with a girl who works with me and she asked in a message, “is it really you?”
No shit.
The next time we saw each other in person, she immediately brought it up and said she only uses it as a joke.
Yeah, righttttt.
When you read entries on Texts From Last Night, you will lose all thought of women being innocent in the sex act. They just choose whom they will spread for.
And absolutely confirm everything CH publishes here… To wit:
My mind’s like “He’s a sexist pig” but my uterus is like “YOU SHALL BEAR HIM STRONG CHILDREN”
Had the best sex Thursday night then Friday night I met his girlfriend. The worst thing is we became friends like she gave me her number.
sent a snap of my boobs out to my FWB his response was what happened to your other nipple ring.. how do I say it got ripped out by my other FWB last week without sounding like a slut
I got to her place and she was petting her cat and pounding vodka out of the bottle. She looked like Dr evil in yoga pants. She’s nuttier than squirrell shit.
He seems like a super lonely dude. I bet if I gave him a picture of my tits he wouldn’t make me turn in this paper.
As well as some great negs…
“someone in the elevator just told me i looked like a struggle but i smell very pretty..”
> “sent a snap of my boobs out to my FWB his response was what happened to your other nipple ring.. how do I say it got ripped out by my other FWB last week without sounding like a slut”
You’re a woman?
If so, then you can’t say it without sounding like a slut.
In fact, you can’t say anything at all which is honest about yourself, because YOU ARE A SLUT.
Is this some kind of a joke?
Hot for teacher.
“sent a snap of my boobs out to my FWB his response was what happened to your other nipple ring.. how do I say it got ripped out by my other FWB last week without sounding like a slut”
To be honest, you had me at nipple ring.
Saturday FR –
One of my more embarrassing nights out. Was out of state the whole time. Also have been slacking on those YaReally missions (been doing the ones I’m comfortable with over and over for months. I’ll update on the rest of the list later).
Location: A clubbyish bar
My fashion/attire: Utter shit
Grooming: Pretty bad
Physical appearance: Good looking, 5’9
So I approach this blonde chick at the bar and basically she was with this guy and this girl. The brunette girl is a dick and the guy is a dick. Not the kind of outright abrasive dicks, but the kind of stuck up sort of dick. I approach the blonde:
Me: Hey thought you were cute. Are you single? (I’m thinking of getting rid of this line, at least during daygame).
Blonde: (smile) no
Blonde girl is into it. I say hi to her friends. They ignore. I act like I don’t care lol
I point to the brunette and say to the blonde: “Is she always like this?”
Blonde: Hehe yeah.
Me: Yeah, I’m sure she’s actually very sweet.
and then i talk to the dude:
Me: What’s up man
Dude: Whattup
Me: Are you guys dating? (him and the unresponsive bitch)
They both say nothing, ignore me.
So i’m like lol anyway back to blondie.
So I chit chat more with blonde and out of the corner of my eye i see the bartender girl code my chick, but my chick doesn’t even say anything. The eye contact is definitely still there, so I say:
Me: (to blonde) Why are you looking at me like that? You think i’m sexy?
Blonde: (smile)
Me: So what do you do? Waitress.
Blonde: (couldn’t hear her)
Me: What?
Blonde: I work at a gym.
Me: Oh cool, make a muscle.
Blonde makes a weak muscle.
Me: Ha okay.
At one point I think she steps back, so I step back, and everything seems fine. I’m not trying to touch on her since her friends don’t like me. I THINK I remember her looking at the bartender, but I don’t get why she would still contribute to the convo…
Me: So, now it’s your turn to ask me a question.
Blonde: What’s your favorite color?
Me: Blue. What’s yours?
Blonde: Pink.
Me: Ah see, we wouldn’t get along.
Blonde: (smile)
Lady bartender goes, I think you’re bothering my customers.
Me: Why do you say that?
Lady bartender: You sort of, pick up on that.
Me: (I’m taken aback) Why didn’t they just tell me to fuck off? (I’m sort of implying that the blonde should’ve told me to fuck off if I was bothering her).
Lady bartender: Well it’s called being polite.
Me: Well, actually it’s worse.
Pretty embarrassed, I just leave the set.
Anyway, that was probably the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to me. Sure I’d been made fun of before, but like, that sort of brought back some old shit… I didn’t get a good look at the blonde after.
I suppose I expect people to blow me off or ignore me if they’re not interested. Why entertain a convo.
Anyway, enough of that. Just posting for helpful criticism from the commenters (and possibly some browbeating so I can develop a thick skin 🙂 )
Some afterthoughts:
Geting tons of numbers, but not getting any day twos. Solution: I’m going to take now is build more rapport + qualify more (which I haven’t been doing at all; I normally just state I’m into them and run attraction shit).
http://yareallyarchive.com/2013/6/#comment-heartiste-452476
http://yareallyarchive.com/2013/6/#comment-heartiste-452467
My group theory sucks. Have been avoiding them 😛 but yeah, went into two groups. The other one wasn’t worth posting. The girl literally introed me to her entire group of girlfriends and they did nothing (no reaction) lol.
Another thing I’ve noticed is that I make statements and then I “fish” for a reaction from the girl. As Ya says, expecting the girl to pick herself up for me. I’ll say a bit, then pause. Ask a question, then pause.
Lately, I’ve been trying to plow, and it’s not so bad. Ejections are (mostly) a thing of the past.
Yup so, pretty short FR. Did this during work so… back to work.
Also, this whole hot girl, average girl paradox is bugging me. I want hot girls, but I’m not supposed to value them… but if I go for ugly girls then I’m teaching my brain that all I can get are girls of a certain level of attractiveness. I want to be alpha tho, so sacrificing some easy lays is okay. But some I would bang but I feel like I’m lowering my standards if I fuck them… not to say I’ve been having sex because I haven’t.
Becoming alpha is a long road. But an entertaining one lol
Short follow up to FR in mod:
In terms of actual progress, for the most part, been approaching everywhere. Malls, bookstores, trains, while a girl was buying food lol
Yeeup, I’ve gamed all over. Attraction’s pretty easy to do. Glad I approached all winter. Here’s to hoping it gets a lot easier in bikini season! (spring/summer)
Good work. Cold approaches are tough, and you never quite get over the weird feeling when you initiate another cold approach, but you do get better at it in time.
Just make sure they aren’t women who might know each other, for example girls who go to the same school/college. Getting a bad reputation as that weird guy who walks around hitting on everyone kills your chances in the future. This is something you are rarely told about cold approaches, because most people never reach the number of approaches where it becomes a risk.
One girl I cold approached I slept with within two and a half hours. That was the fastest ever. She told me later that she had followed me home because I had smiled so happily when I started talking to her. It seemed I had achieved what I was going for, the appearance of being so happy and at peace with the world that I just felt like talking to someone, anyone, for the hell of it, commenting on the lovely weather.
Thanks!
“Just make sure they aren’t women who might know each other, for example girls who go to the same school/college. Getting a bad reputation as that weird guy who walks around hitting on everyone kills your chances in the future. This is something you are rarely told about cold approaches, because most people never reach the number of approaches where it becomes a risk.”
I’d say this is more of a concern for people who live in smaller towns. I live in a pretty big city, and I’ve rarely ran into people more than twice. And even if I have, they it’s even rarer that they remember.
That’s awesome to hear.
“Cold approaches are tough, and you never quite get over the weird feeling when you initiate another cold approach….”
Lolz, not for me, ever since I was 15. Never tough and never have a weird feeling. It’s inner frame. I cold approached several pretty 20-somethings last weekend at the country dance bar and they were eating out of my hand. They were younger than my kids. You get more confident as you age, I will say. I wasn’t looking for sex, though, just dance partners. Still, got some serious IOI’s. One chick practically threw herself at me. Others were giving me logistical info. Being aloof, confident, not needy…works.
Being able to dance well also helps. Kind of like being a rock star. Sometimes guys ask me to dance with their gals or send them to dance with me, lol. I get hugs from new dance partners all the time.
15? That’s nothing. I was hitting on hot teen babysitters when I was 10. Solid Kid Game.
“you never quite get over the weird feeling when you initiate another cold approach”
i think you mean that YOU are always nervous and never get over your hormonal fight or flight response. some of us don’t even have one to start with, AND you can train it out if you do.
“One girl I cold approached I slept with within two and a half hours. That was the fastest ever. She told me later that she had followed me home because I had smiled so happily when I started talking to her. It seemed I had achieved what I was going for, the appearance of being so happy and at peace with the world that I just felt like talking to someone, anyone, for the hell of it, commenting on the lovely weather.”
nah, it was the chloroform ya used as cologne.
“nah, it was the chloroform ya used as cologne.”
Props fer Yuma.
Ok now I realize why you get angry and attack people who have access to and success with women. Sorry to hear you’re stuck in such a low state. Hopefully you’re beginning to realize your time is better spent fixing yourself than tearing down other people. Good luck.
This is @thrust
‘The first dude I met on tinder is 15 years older than me, rich and now my boyfriend. Feeling like Julia Roberts.’ or translated ‘The first beta I’ve met on tinder is older and much richer. I pinned him down quick so all that money goes on me =D’
So the inhabitants of Sodom would now consider us perverts and be shocked by what they saw. I wonder what GOD (yes he is very much real and does exist) thinks of this? If the U.S. is not truly cursed, damned, and made to suffer I will be amazed. Time to just walk away do not look back. I am glad I expatted. I really don’t want to be in the U.S. in the years ahead consider what is owed.
“Anal or Vaginal.”
Cmon, we still don’t have A2M milkshakes at Starbucks. Fresh and organic.
Twisted as it sounds, I find this quite amusing. Raise the class to the fire, sip as you watch everything burn, then go for a wander and explore the ruins.
Cheers!
u gotta weird fixation on the past and shit that don’t matter dude.
I’ve fucked up with both girls I met up with on Tinder. Online dating has made me lazy and has eroded my ability to amplify and close.
It’s like riding a bicycle with training wheels
OT
What women want on the dance floor.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/wonkblog/wp/2014/03/24/what-women-want-on-the-dance-floor-according-to-science/?tid=pm_pop
It’s all hips, torso, and right knee (??).
Actually, they want a man who can lead them. Me.
So if I want to marry my boyfriend and have his babies and watch those babies grow up in a world where they’re not forced to pay jizya or learn Chinese in school and read the Bible in secret… I should just give up and whore around? I mean, come on, I have to believe there’s enough of us who want the right things to keep society on the right course.
Going to write the darkest shit you’ve ever read that will leave your eyes searing:
Sadism is self-actualitization. It is the high point of humanity. It is the ultimate female turn on. It is the highest status marker. It is the hobby of the powerful. Sadism is the highest ideal of human nature.
The Marxists end up being correct. Capitalism is rapacious because rich capitalists will unleash their sadism upons society and their fellow man. It also means stay the fuck away from alpha males and rich people for your own safety.
Politicians are monstrous and terrifyingly dangerous. Dictators like Hitler and Putin are will use their power for their own sadism.
Yup. Commie shit don’t stink.
What can be done? How about dictatorship?
Blergh. I feel sick
Blergh, I feel sick
Banged chicks off Match.com
2012: 26 NYC
2013: 17 LA
2014: 6 YTD LA
Including several models, dancers, a Hollywood actress in Tom cruise fill
85% were under 30, >8, and first dates
26 babes in one year is pure Alpha.
models on match.com
“its more likely than you think”
Not using Match.com is akin to practicing dating-Luddites and fearing the web-weaving loom
Pls beat this formula:
45 min date
1 drink max for two ($25)
Offer 2nd drink at ur Apt steps away
1 Litre Bottle Cuervo
Limes
$4.99 Whole Foods Pizza
I have had Ford / Whilhelmina Models
say your fucking me & last nights bill for my date at Nobu was $500 and he went home.
$4.99>$500
Bit of a pickle here. Had a great day 2 with that hot exotic dancer…ended up really great. So I’m lovin’ life, living in abundance, don’t talk to her for a few days. Figure today’s a good day to check in
Me: so weds at 8?
Her: Can we make it 830
Me: Hella
(20 minutes goes by)
Her: Actually I’m not sure if I’m feeling a connection.
Me, personally I like attention, I like feeling wanted and cherished and I don’t ever hear from you at all. what are you doing all the time.
Her: (10 minutes later) I don’t like initiating with men if I feel the need to initiate I lose respect and I don’t want or need that for me.
Her: (1 hour later) I want someone who isn’t afraid of emotional intimacy, mental, physical, even spiritual. and if that freaks you out I guess I’m not your type. And I understand.
….
wtf……..?
What the fuck is this?
Is this a shit test?
I’m not that experienced dealing with girls that are at this level of attractiveness so………..I’m all ears. what’s the play
Sure – that’s manipulation.
Me, personally I like attention, I like feeling wanted and cherished and I don’t ever hear from you at all. what are you doing all the time.
Was that supposed to be “Me:”? Was it your reply to her message, or was it part of her message to you? If it was your message, you shouldn’t tell a girl you are dating what you want from her. If it was part of her message, I guess all of this is not uncommon for women. They ponder these things. Saying it out loud is a bit weird though, but people do weird things sometimes.
When people expose more of their feelings than they should, just take it in stride. They are likely to regret the outpour later, so just show them that you understand that these things happen. Just say something brief like, “Hey, I understand all that.”
No, that was her. She said ‘me, personally…’
“Me, personally I like attention,”
This from a stripper? I’m shocked. Shocked.
” I want someone who isn’t afraid of emotional intimacy, mental, physical, even spiritual. ”
And I want to eat hot dogs and shit emeralds. Difference being I’ll get at least half of my wishes.
Seriously, again, from a stripper? Does she have some kind of selective amnesia that forgets to inform her that she rubs the faces of strange men in her face for cash? Or what?
“rubs the faces of strange men on her boobs” I meant to say. D’oh!
I’m pretty strange. 😉
Her: What are you doing all the time?
You: I work for a living.
Her: I don’t like initiating with men blah blah blah…
You: I messaged you first there genius
Her: I want emotional, mental, spiritual intimacy blah blah blah…
You: 8===D———-(i)
um ok, ya if that’s how things had played out….that’s not how they played out. She texted me that novel before I even had a chance to respond.
I’m just curious as to what is/was going on
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The hilt of your shiv is a question mark, this one is so violently truthful but yet it’s a message of hope, they won’t last for 1 or 2 generations
ITT people shocked that young people are sleeping with each others, and want to ban all cellphones because of it
Going out specifically to try daygame several times a week, but still havent really opened any chicks. It’s a distinctly awful feeling of failure to specifically drive somewhere to talk to people and then end up going home without talking to anyone lol.
Went out on saturday night, I think I opened 3 or 4 girls in as many hours. That’s a lot for me lol. One was cool because the girl was like an 8 and I totally fumbled it, standing waiting to pay my tab I threw out an awkward, chodey “hey” or something and saw her roll her eyes before giving me a curt hi in return. Usually that awkwardness would’ve crushed me but I somehow snapped back into that self amusing state and I gave her shit for being rude to me, and I could see the disgust in her eyes changing into curiousity.
On a couple others I used an opener that spontaneously occurred to me because it was based on real experience. They keep hiring hot 18yr olds at work and Ive been trying to push the envelope with sexual innuendo and shit, and I get the word “creepy” thrown at me a lot, which as an omega male, I know how powerful that label can be once girls apply it to a guy, but now I just treat it like a shit test and agree and amplify or whatever. So on a couple girls I used a time constraint and then asked “have you ever called a guy creepy” or something like that, and it got basically identical responses from both, “yeah, last tuesday” or “yeah, last week, and i saw him here tonight”. I felt like it was good because if they’re discussing the losers that hit on them and mocking them with me, it sort of implies that I’m on a higher level than those guys. It didn’t occur to me at the time but after thinking about it later, i could continue the convo with “ive been dating a lot of younger girls and they call me that all the time” as a dhv.. Thoughts?
Had another chick with a boyfriend elsewhere in the bar, making fun of him with me, sexualizing the convo, I was trying to go with that secret society vibe. But my kino, escalation and closing are still non existent. I have 0 entitlement for that kind of stuff. If I get a convo going after the open I maybe build some attraction but then I let it fizzle out and leave.
Using tinder to practice texting.
There’s a pathetic little progress report for you. It’s going to be a really long grind to climb out of the hole I’m in but at least I’m trying! I can feel myself becoming slightly less pathetic as I do this stuff. It’s actually interesting to see how people are reacting to me differently. All my red pill talk is rubbing off on a couple buddies, its hilarious to hear them use the word “chode” constantly now lol, but when we go out they are nonexistent as wingmen. They never do their own approaches and basically just watch me, which makes it even harder. And the bartender I know, who I’ve realized is game aware to some extent and has been mentored into running a social circle game at this popular bar, has actually become slightly hostile and douchey towards me now that I’m exerting my influence more and more there. Could just be my perception tho. I actually asked him for help with girls once when I was really drunk but I didnt understand at the time that my presence was anti game and he wouldnt even bother trying, and that I was on my own with this.
O/T but timely
Ukrainians will gladly take the beta bux of Dyadya Sam to the tune of a billion.
But then they will turn around and get in bed with the Russians who are not only more manly these days but can offer tens of billions including gas subsidies.
Those who know their congressmen’s phone number might want to teach game to the beta policy wonks who work for our elected reps.
Look at what’s happening now. In return for Russia not invading, the new interim government is now killing off the Right Sector extremists that Russia complained about in the first place.
They’ll play both sides in Kiev. The beta neocons in DC are going to lose in their quest to get NATO to surround and choke Russia.
17-YEAR-OLD HB7+ BLINDLY FOLLOWS SOCIOPATHIC ALPHA NIHILIST STRAIGHT INTO HER DOOM
INNOCENT POLICE OFFICER MURDERED ALONG THE WAY
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/florida-shooting-alex-hollinghurst-killed-3279209
A British teenager who was gunned down in an apparent murder-suicide had been living the ‘American Dream’.
But when Alexandria Hollinghurst, 17, known as Alex, fell for drug addict Brandon Goode, her life spiralled out of control…
Joyce Johnson, 74, said the teenager had gone off the rails after falling for Brandon a year ago.
Her parents had attempted in vain to ‘ground’ her.
They were even forced to lock the doors and windows of their Orlando home to stop her running away.
But late last Friday Alex slipped out…
http://cassiopaea.com/cassiopaea/cleckley.pdf
From: The Mask of Sanity
By Hervey M. Cleckley
Fifth Edition: © 1988 Emily S. Cleckley
19. Stanley
During the summer of 1972 a small item of news appeared in many of
our daily newspapers over the country. It was an item that immediately
engaged my attention. Over the two short columns was printed this arresting
headline:
YOUNG MAN INDUCES FIVE TEEN-AGE GIRLS TO SHAVE THEIR
HEADS
The report, as I remember it, did not go into much detail about this
unusual event or give an adequate account of the young man’s methods of persuasion, of his motives, or of just what impulses might have prompted the
five girls to take such an unusual and, one might even say, such an unnatural
step. Among my first thoughts on this accomplishment was that Stanley must
surely have been the man who brought it about. Who in the entire world but
Stanley would have thought up such an exploit? Who else would have had the
inclination to carry it out?…
RE the 17yo HB7: Darwin shrugged.
Its that 5/4 time signature
[The Marxists end up being correct. Capitalism is rapacious because rich capitalists will unleash their sadism upons society and their fellow man. It also means stay the fuck away from alpha males and rich people for your own safety.
Politicians are monstrous and terrifyingly dangerous. Dictators like Hitler and Putin are will use their power for their own sadism.[
Yes, but who has ever been more sadistic than Marxists and Socialists……..
see Stalin et al – Beria etc., Pol Pot, North Korea, Hiter.
The problem then is not economic systems, but government itself and rule of law. Keep government and standing armies small so that the sociopaths can never get their hands on the controls of a killing machine.
Jefferson et al. had it right
{O/T but timely
Ukrainians will gladly take the beta bux of Dyadya Sam to the tune of a billion.
But then they will turn around and get in bed with the Russians [
members of a tribe stick together.
The Slavs despite their inter tribal dispute will stick together – especially when faced with threats from Anglo-Saxon.Germanics
Tinder is garbage. I just met and banged a girl yesterday in 45 minutes, who had actually passed me over on tinder. In person pickup>online pickup.
Love that time signature. Unfortunately doesn’t work in the music I compose. Have to go 3/4 if I want to switch up the 4/4
[…] http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/03/24/tinderfessions-the-global-march-of-absolute-sexual-anarchy… […]
I think that Tinder will follow an evolution of use.
This is likely the peak phase in which the largest gamut of guys and girls will want to try it, outside of University towns. Soon, however, female use will drop off as tinder user pool STD occurrence goes up. ie: these people realize that increased promiscuity partners within the same general pool of people, especially a pool that doesn’t pre-filter for economic status, educational status, or criminal history, leads to an increase in STD instance in that group. After this comes to light, SWPL female use will substantially retard outside of University towns. Sluts will be sluts, but even sluts possess a conscious, rational fear of STDs (at least when they aren’t forced to make an in-the-moment decision about dick). In any case, not using STD risky tinder will not hinder the sex life of most sluts. They’ll just go back to sourcing dick through associations that act as a filter. What will be left will be really young sluts with no common sense (more rare than older sluts), for whom there will be too much competition, and hordes of mostly desperate men. Also, there will be older gutter sluts and mudsharks. Tinder will become stigmatized to a degree, and many women will use it as a negative filter against men (as men would obviously want to do with women). Inside University towns, with the University association acting as a filter, I think that tinder will continue to enjoy a lot of use. I can’t say for sure that this will all occur, but it’s my prediction.
if you are on a college campus why do you even need twitter, or facebook or any of that social media in order to fuck?
You are surrounded by young single females and a lot of guys with no game…
Theres a party somewhere every night…
What kind are you composing?
do you like using triplets?
Hello CH,
Long time reader. I live in deep south Texas where the signs of our impending doom are in full flower. I came across this on my FB feed and immediately thought of this thread. The naked female Id in all its glory. Rock and Roll James is a local radio dj and this is shtick so you can’t blame him for asking. the responses just floor me.., I would guess 95% of the “female” commentators are single mothers, that is not a joke. It really is shocking how norms of female behavior have been flipped on its head and the most enchanting of all traits, femininity, has been sucked out of the discourse. Please don’t post my name or identity, I have a good life here and plenty to lose. Married 17 years, 12 year old son, pulled my wife out of rotation when I was 25 she was 21, thin, cute as hell and cool. She still is.
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Rock-N-Roll-James/137577752969096?ref=br_tf
Downladed it after reading this post. Took 3 hours, a girl actually came on to me and asked me to come to her place. You don’t even need to try!