All the proof anyone should need that the typical beta male can rise above his SMV station and snag a girl “out of his league” (as SMV leagues are conventionally defined (often superficially)) is seen in the ease with which the same beta who wilts under the effervescent glow of a beauty will effortlessly interact with an unattractive woman.
This contrast is so stark that one may wonder if he is observing the same man at play, or if a charming mofo doppelbänger took his place to smoothly banter with the plain jane.
The awkwardness of our intrepid beta, as he bumbles and bobbles his chance with a cutie, sweating and spazzing and spitting the lamest lines, is defied with equal verve by the smoothness in body and nimbleness of bantz he brings to casual conversations with lesser girls.
And the girls’ reactions are predictable. The cuties will shuffle their feet, look embarrassed for the man, and lean away to make an exit on the slimmest pretext. But the mediocre missus’s, they are bewitched by the Lord Byron before ’em. Such a charmer!, they cream.
This, to me, proves that the spirit of a skirt chaser lurks within every beta male. He just needs to access it, to summon the ZFG-man from the depths when he’s most needed, during those times when the HBBubbleRear nears the boundary of his phallic frontier.
williamk independently corroborates the theme of this post:
Its important to underscore the subconscious roots of this stuff. Most guys assess themselves and then behave accordingly to their (often self-imposed) pecking order. Most guys will naturally have alpha body language around a guy a 6 inches shorter than them, or a girl they don’t find attractive. It takes these exaggerated status disparities for the average man to accept he can act with self-possession. The key is squashing the insecurity that happens when the status gap is closer, or even reversed.
Self-possession. That is the core concept. Some call it outcome independence. Some call it ZFG. Others, the “aloof alpha attitude“. Or, charming jerkboyhood. Old timers call it, “devil-may-care”. Hardliners use the term “uncaring assholery“. PUAs prefer the term “amused mastery“. Over time and space, the idea is the same: the man who wants it least is the man who gets the most.
Beta males have it in them to be great womanizers. They are at ease talking with plain women or or feminists or catladies or black women. They only freeze up and suffer mental cramps when they talk with hotties.
Now, the trick is to be that self-possessed man when it matters (courting hot babes). The smoothness that the beta brings to his face time with dull-looking girls is the same smoothness that will delight hotter girls.
The good news is that, if you know and recognize within yourself a fledgling ZFG-lord who makes an appearance when it *doesn’t* matter, then you know that the possibility exists — as assuredly as your Inner Cadboy exists — that you can be *THAT GUY* when it suits you. You just have to know how to coax your Inner Cadboy from his slumber when the need arrives.
The trick, then, condenses to something I’ve written about before, and which is stated explicitly in one of the less-heralded Poon Commandments:
X. Ignore her beauty
The man who trains his mind to subdue the reward centers of his brain when reflecting upon a beautiful female face will magically transform his interactions with women. His apprehension and self-consciousness will melt away, paving the path for more honest and self-possessed interactions with the objects of his desire. This is one reason why the greatest lotharios drown in more love than they can handle — through positive experiences with so many beautiful women they lose their awe of beauty and, in turn, their powerlessness under its spell. It will help you acquire the right frame of mind to stop using the words hot, cute, gorgeous, or beautiful to describe girls who turn you on. Instead, say to yourself “she’s interesting” or “she might be worth getting to know”. Never compliment a girl on her looks, especially not a girl you aren’t fucking. Turn off that part of your brain that wants to put them on pedestals. Further advanced training to reach this state of unawed Zen transcendence is to sleep with many MANY attractive women (try to avoid sleeping with a lot of ugly women if you don’t want to regress). Soon, a Jedi lover you will be.
Ignoring a woman’s beauty. Easier said than done? Eh, don’t be a pessimist. Sure, you’re trying to upturn millennia of evolutionarily-carved male limbic emanations, but vee haf vays to help you control your limbido.
- Bang hotties. The more hotties you bang, the less each new hottie you meet will leave you tongue-tied. Penetrating hotties in the only way that matters strips them (heh) of their mystery, their allure, and their power. Every successful affair with a hottie will make you more comfortable in their company. Of course, this is putting the tart before the whores. It’s tough to learn how to bang hotties by…banging hotties. (Unless you get lucky and can springboard off a fortuitous lay to more strategically planned lays.) Which brings us to…
- Don’t bang uglies. The more uglies you bang out of desperation, the more you psychologically groom yourself to believe you can only get, or deserve, uglies. It’s a bad habit that you shouldn’t indulge. Which brings us to…
- Change your mental state. No more flattery, no more thirst, no more hot babes’ dirty looks. It’s easier to ignore a woman’s beauty when you stop mentally rehearsing how beautiful she is, and focus instead on slotting her in the same place you put everyone, male or female: a random stranger who must earn your curiosity.
- Total recall. When you approach a hottie, allow your eyes to cloud over as your mind drifts to sharp memories of the times you held court at a social event, or flirted like a champ with a girl you weren’t interested in. You will be at once in and out of the moment, acutely aware of your environment, but also “someplace else”, enjoying the warm glow of a memory of yourself as a king among cads. This memory will leach out and express itself in your attitude and behavior.
- Be cool. This takes practice, but it boils down to “don’t try so hard”. If you tell yourself, “I’m not here to impress anyone” — and saying these little motivations out loud to yourself is more effective than repeating them in your head — then you really will stop trying to impress people, because each moment you slip up and appease your target of interest, you will immediately be whisked back to that promise you made to yourself, and the silent shame will provide a rapid course correction.
- Focus on her flaws. It’s cheesy, but it works. Zoom in on a facial flaw, such as a mole or a funny earlobe. Do the same for a weird behavioral tic she might display. Smile to yourself as you mull on those flaws of hers. Your smile will aggravate her, and dilate her pussy. With practice, you’ll announce those flaws of her in the form of a backhanded compliment (neg), and completely flip the script.
- Date around. The more girls you concurrently date, the less each new girl will wow you. Fallback options defintely take the edge off meeting and seducing hot chicks.
From MattyIce,
“Invariably, [the men] all say they remember being cool as … they just wanted to shoo it away, or tell it to go find the nearest bug zapper.”
I remember distinctly as a young lad, 6th grade, this concept hitting me like a ton of bricks… “Why do all the girls I think are ugly ‘like’ me and not the ones I think are hot? I need to start treating the hot ones like I treat the ugly ones.” And the rest is history, a fond one at that!
Rule #8: Treat the hot girls like the ugly girls.
Remember it, burn it indelibly in your hippocampus, and let it guide you through life. As dictums go, this one is biblical.
Finally, some wise words from an older CH post on the topic.
- Get into a line of work where you are ordering beautiful women to do your bidding.
If you can’t get sex with hot babes, the next best thing is authority. Fashion photographers are not known as casanovas for nothing.
- Hang out with hot girls when they’re wasted and pissing themselves and vomiting.
This is a pretty good cure for one-itis. Don’t worry about supply. America is churning them out like cheap factory products lately.
- Never stop macking.
The life of the lady’s man is always in forward motion. The day you slow down is the day you start misremembering your ex as hotter than she really was. By keeping women forever in your orbit, by hitting on them day and night and year after year, with intention or without, you remind yourself of the corporeal, earthly nature of women’s greatest asset, of their insufferable and dispiriting interchangeability, and your heart is steeled for the endless battle.
Finally, the Rule to Rule all Rules:
Rule #9: Act like you’ve banged her.
If Rule #8 is biblical, Rule #9 is primordial.
Approach every cute girl as if you have already supped of her tuft. This is the most valuable mental trick I can give you. Visualize her naked body succumbing in writhing pleasure to your pherocious phang. Visualize her spent body unable to walk afterward. Visualize the cocksureness you possess from soiling the purity of this princess. Smirk knowingly that you have known her in fullness. Visualization of this nature will inevitably manifest in a change in your mannerism, and in thrall she will come to believe almost as strongly as you do that you have banged her, though this will strike her odd, but nevertheless arouse her to make reality of imagination.
Is CH losing his touch? Try this instead:
“the man who wants it least is the man who gets the moist.”
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Rule #9: Act like you’ve banged her.
Otherwise known as “assuming the sale” or the old sports cliche (now lost in this world of hot-dogging third world nonsense) “act like you’ve been there before.”
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Better
Physically act like you’ve banged her. Boyfriend familiar kino, teases, megs and commands for the win. And early in the interaction.
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megs… is that from family guy
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I think it’s what the Aussie barbarians call “sledging”.
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Self fulfilling prophecy
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[…] Proof That Beta Males Can Rise Above Their SMV Station […]
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“Ignore her beauty”
Yes I agree. Think how some beautiful women are with a man for a long time,, and eventualy even her beauty does not have the same affect on him. Men are so affected by physical beauty,,If they are expozed to more beautiful women maybe it will help them be less shy and feeling intimidated when they meet a woman they want.
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“pherocious phang”
Wow. Just wow.
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Another big thing that can help, and trust me I know it’s trite, but seriously: Give the gym a try.
Not for the superficial beefing up aspect or some sort of vanity or anything. I just truly believe if you get the juice up in your system, 90% chances are the body language is going to improve. Modern life by it’s very nature has “outsourced” physical exertion to machines, which to me is the biggest reason why test levels have cratered in the industrialized world. This cuts the mind off from the rest and leads to this sh!tlib egghead phenomenon we now see in the west.
And cut the godd@mn cord on the pron. Once people quit that garbage they universally realize how pathetic it is and the brain starts to repair to the default ZFG state.
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I concur regarding going to the gym. Heck, I’ve been going intermittently (aprrox. three times/week) for about four months, and I feel and move much better in general.
Did you misspell “porn”?
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Yes to get thru mods
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Rule #9: Act like you’ve banged her.
Personal attestation…amen.
Closely related but with a twist, I prefer to act like I’ve seen her asshole. I don’t know what it is but any number of exes and one night wonders have this thing about the butt, i.e. like they don’t have one, they’re embarrassed, that Ms. sugar and spice & everything nice doesn’t have one of the those….ewww. It actually works to tease them about it too, fyi.
I imagine their embarrassment about their heiny-hole, and I am instantly elevated in my own to god-like status. I subsequently respond to each and every shit test with the requisite hmm…yeah…really?…you should put this sharpie in your pooper followed by a speedy exit to the SUV back to the APT.
Trust me. It works.
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Great post!!!
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lozlzlllzzzzz
🆘‼🤪🚔 UK: Supermarket robbers in Britain are becoming more brazen, now they also want to use the police vehicle as an escape car. Outrageous! pic.twitter.com/hzqqzlJIZQ
— Onlinemagazin (@OnlineMagazin) October 31, 2018
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And womyn cops to boot. Jesus.
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Women cops are a joke that only exists in the west.
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Whenever I talk to a woman cop I just imagine how easy it would be to disarm her. You can see them getting visibly nervous, hands hovering near their weapons, subtly trying to increase the distance between us as she senses she is not in control of the interaction.
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Two female brit cops, the nagger saw it and thought (rightly) “free fast car”. Same as the one in Sweden that decked and fucked up THREE wahmen cops before a guy (rando) came and dropped the nagger.
Proof positive female police are useless for anything more than writing traffic tickets. They were called meter MAIDS for a reason.
US Wahmen cops are bad in their own way. They won’t get their car stolen but what they WILL do is shoot the fuck outta you for minor shit that could have been handled other ways due to fear. They rightly know that if a perp gets in striking distance they are screwed. So they are trigger happy.
Anyway you slice it, lady cops are just a bad idea all the way around.
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“but what they WILL do is shoot the fuck outta you for minor shit that could have been handled other ways due to fear”
Minneapolis somali copps aren’t much better
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Interesting you should mention that. In Dallas, a DPD cop-ette got off work and went home to her apartment. The door was open, so she went in with her Lawgiver drawn. Some brother was having himself a sandwich in her kitchen. About half a dozen high-speed lead injections later. . .
She was on the wrong floor.
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how dare you judge feral England based on the crimes committed by her immigrants when all of Western Europe and America are nations of immigrants. Instead of a hate crime that focuses on crime, why not focus on all the economic turbocharging and delightfully foreign food recipes they bring?
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I am fairly sure that I can get and reproduce the recipes for babaganoush, hummous, and vindaloo in such a manner as I do not need to enjoy the demon-worshipping Diversity that accompanies the authentic product.
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Don’t bang uglies. The more uglies you bang out of desperation, the more you psychologically groom yourself to believe you can only get, or deserve, uglies. It’s a bad habit that you shouldn’t indulge.
I’m not going to say ‘bang uglies’ but in terms of the internet 2/10 wnb syndrome that has been going around forever, if you’re struggling, lower your standards a bit.
Date around. The more girls you concurrently date, the less each new girl will wow you. Fallback options defintely take the edge off meeting and seducing hot chicks.
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If your new there’s no shame in starting on 6’s (My 6=not fat, ok face but nothing special). When you have 4 6’s hanging on to you, if the 7 rejects you it doesn’t hurt as much. Keep doing this and you’ll incrementally up the attractiveness level your getting.
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Agree…bang however many you can. get GOOD at sex. These women are practice tools.
When you know you can get a chick off you will walk and talk like you can, with confidence. Women can smell that.
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This is a song which perfect encapsulates the notion of seeking imperfection.
Side note: Weird Al Yankovic is actually a christian gentile believe it or not.
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-Treat the hot girls like the ugly girls.
Absolutely.
My ‘first’ was a 18 yo blonde who stunned every male in her path. I heard she “had a boyfriend”(probably true). I mostly ignored her. I didn’t pop beer bottle caps for her, or light her cigarettes. I would talk sidelong to her, like she was one of the guys. After a few summer nights of that she practically raped me when we climbed the fence to sneak into the town pool.
Ahh, those were the days…
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How did you know to do that at that age?
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I kind of fell backwards into it, I admit it. A fool could see she was showing interest in me being nonchalant, and something in my head was saying to me: “keep doing this”.
I suppose this worked for me because I’m the low-key, low-energy type. Maybe her circuitry couldn’t make sense of a guy who wasn’t slobbering on her.
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And (extremely importantly) I went in for the first kiss, unannounced.
Marshall Crenshaw’s “Someday, Someway” was playing on the car radio.
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Nursery rhymes!
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10 – Remember: no matter how hot she is, no mayter how sweet she acts, no matter how cool she might be, some guy, somewhere, is tired of her shit.
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Ill tell you this. If you can be aloof enough to get a broad to say “I’m sorry if I’m bugging you” the first time you meet, then you have just gotten that girl to say “you’re getting a blowie on the car ride back to your place” in not so many words.
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Good perspective…
Any examples on how to be aloof? Serious question
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Look past her. Order yourself drinks as though she isn’t there. Chat with somebody nearby long enoughshe gets uncomfortable. Treat her how you see girls being pestered at a bar treat dudes. But stay off your phone. Because then you’re just another fag looking at his phone. Leave that move to patels and bruthas
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Oh, and at some point, look at her like she’s stupid. Which is never hard to do. But just do it once. It’ll stick.
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probably a fault of mine, not being aloof. It seems there should be a balance in being aloof enough and her losing interest at a certain point.
Glad you mentioned the phone…saw a bro of mine with a new chick at the local spot a couple of days ago. He’s a gamer too as we are often in competition for the same chicks. He was being ‘aloof’ by playing some game on his phone while she was in full gab mode. I could see that she was getting a little irritated but the bar got a little more crowded as the evening progressed so I lost sight of the picture and as to how it turned out for him.
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Went out on Saturday to try out a pizza place. There was a group of friends celebrating one of their kid’s birthday. All the doods were at one table–backwards hat and all–and the chicks were at another table.
Sadly, most of the women had tats. One lady–a mannish looking one, yet with a nice body–had one from her shoulder blade and all throughout her arm. At some point, she passed by specifically to smile and say hello and expect me to take it from there. No dice.
Another chick, cute looking blonde, also had a sleeve tat. And she had part of her hair braided which also gets a rise out of me.
Welp, I went to order another pie to take home with me and blondie had moved over to her man. She was wearing short cut off shorts and just as it was time to sing “Happy Birthday”, she makes her way to the other side, giving me her backside, with damn near half her ass hanging out. Free show!
On the other end of the place, a dood was talking on his phone while his girl looked bored. She made her way to the restroom and she was wearing tight yoga pants, an oversized sleeveless top and a sports bra. On the way back, she made it a point to cross in front of me just as she was adjusting her sports bra. Show #2.
I had a point about this and lost it. Thinking about that blondie’s ass distracted my thought process
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Buy me a beer!
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Oh Soldier soldier won’t you marry me…
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This is what I call the “forced open”. In bars try it before going conventional.
The key is body language and withstanding social pressure.
Stride up to the bar. Ramrod straight and slowly. Look straight ahead not at her. Stand at the bar next to her and take up space, spread your arms past shoulder width and palms down on the counter. Hold this position while addressing the bartender. Ask a few questions about your drink. And wait. In silence. As it is prepared. If there is a tv look at that if not look over the back of the bar. When your drink comes square your sip. Ask another question of the bartender, something with a hook is good. “What time does it get busy here?” Or “what are some dinner recommendation s nearby?”. Just nod and in uh to the responses.
And hold silence.
Feel the social pressure build up and ignore it. Right about…. Now she should break and open you, often with arm kino to get your attention.
Keep your body straight, just turn your head to look at her with a neutral expression. And Look her up and down, holding a neutral expression, with a discerning look, before you speak to her. This is key.
After this you can turn your back to the bar and lock in and game as usual. This position allows you to look around while she is looking at you.
If you don’t force the open after five minutes, just open as usual. But give the forced open a try.
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And yes never look at the phone. That’s relieving social pressure.
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As a straight fuckin’ G and natural alpha I can tell you this is some Kung-Fu Master type shit. It is -very- hard to reach this level of Poon Enlightenment.
My opener though, is usually along this line of reasoning. I never even look at hot wahmen. I pretend they are invisible and move into close proximity to them. This can be talking to a bartender while she is also ordering a drink, at the office, whatev.
It automatically spins them out because most thirsty dudes have already eye fucked her half a dozen times by that point. So I get your logic but getting a “she approaches you” close is Bruce Lee level and it has only rarely happened to me, and I’m pretty good. 🙂
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Oh im talking after you’ve already gone through an opening chat. And as for the straight ignore, im more a fan of the solid look, and a nodding as though saying, yeah, I’d fuck that. Think pre-oil driller deniro.
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The use the ignor approach as well as far as not eye fugging them, but I’m going to have to give GMs “solid look, and a nodding as though saying, yeah, I’d fugg that” a try. Has more ZGFs than my normal approach.
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Jay is giving outstanding advice. STOP eye-fucking hot girls. They are hyper aware of who is leering at them. It’s almost like you have to remind yourself not to do it.
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it’s good advice and it works.
I so enjoy however seeing them eyefuck me or making that solid eye contact that says yeah I’d fuck you no question.
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Video games, porn, and technology. Keep your enjoyment of theses things to yourself in public. For chicks its about as charming as her describing her favorite exes to you.
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back to the phone, good point…every dude is playing with their phone at the bar…be different. and thanks for the aloof tips brother
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There was a body builder who was “aloof” at a bar I was at. I was chatting up a tomboy because she was amusing, not because I was interested. She was drooling over the body builder and he kept trolling her with his body, trying to get her to open him. I was laughing at him the whole time and told her to open him. She eventually lost interest in the body builder. A guy I know danced by and I said that he was an international arms dealer. The girl said that she owned a gun made by his employer. She hinted that she would like me to teach her to hunt. I took off to go ask a girl to dance and the tomboy later asked me where I had gone. Later, she also literally kicked my butt. Definitely a tomboy. Pretty hot anyway. I pretended to steal her cell out of her back pocket. lol The tomboy told me where she worked, lol. Also told me that some guy had stalked her.
The key is to have a poker face. My poker face is that I’m having a blast, which I usually am. So, if I approach a girl, she sees my poker face and sees that she hasn’t moved the needle. Same result as being aloof. She sees that her beauty has had no impact on me.
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Always be having the best time. Brooding is for bitches. Be impossibly happy to see your friends. Slap the girl you fucked last month on the back like an old friend. Overtip. Be the man.
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Be impossibly happy to see your friends. Slap the girl you fucked last month on the back like an old friend. Overtip.
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So would banging hot escorts bring the same effect of desensitization of beauty and help bring about a ZFG attitude, or would it have the opposite effect of subconsciously lowering your self value due to you paying for sex?
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At least it’s pay for play
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Last night, like actually last night, I took a chick home who makes her living as a professional dominatrix (riiiggghhhht). So as we’re getting down, she says some kind of sweet shit that is exactly the type of shark jump you’d expect from a pro ho. To which I replied “I don’t know that id consider a hooker girlfriend material”. Oops. I don’t remember all the details except being very suddenly alone and that there’s a difference cause”if she was a hooker, I couldn’t afford her”.
Born to lose
Live to win, gentlemen.
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CH: This guy didn´t need game to land his wife. Lolzllzzzzzzzzzzz
🆘‼🤩💞 #Nigeria, Lagos: The true love! BBW finally meets her dream man! He says, “Her stature is kind of bigger than I expected, and she looks older than the pictures.” HAHA!🤪 pic.twitter.com/mqKYfcAn8P
— Onlinemagazin (@OnlineMagazin) October 25, 2018
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That can be said for almost every POF profile
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I think that dude can do much better.
I think that thought is also starting to dawn on him.
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Dig them armpit sweat stains on that pig.
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Oh noezzz the BBC stealz another hot minx. The Jevv was right, we are in big trouble guys, black guys are just so alpha we better watch out.
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I prefer Petri Dish v pig
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“Oh noezzz the BBC stealz another hot minx. The Jevv was right, we are in big trouble guys, black guys are just so alpha we better watch out.”
That fat, dumpy broad is supposed to go to some loser white guy. Not some scammer prince.
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@ Dread: Who cares? It is totally immaterial what happens to that low of extremes on the SMV scale. Probably better to get it out of the white stock altogether. As long as the half-blood prince stays out of the west, we’re golden.
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LSL:
I would wager that his strategy is to use her to come west
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90 day fiance is the basic cable television warehouse of the most beta cringeworthy soys out there.
There’s a new trend now, highlighted on the show, dudes who are trying to get 3rd world 4’s to marry them even though neither one speaks the other’s language. So, this dude travels into South America to marry some 20 year old meh chick and their married days and engagement are spent speaking into an iphone’s translator feature.
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however, the future mrs. boddiker is surely milking a cow or whatever in Poland right now.
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lost comment, but that TV show is packed with cringey beta male sad sacks.
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new low is these guys using their phone translator to talk to their foreign brides. Learn the fucking language if you’re going to marry some guatemalen.
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I’d MUCH rather fuk my fist than that sweaty manatee..
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He is 30 hahahaha.lol this is hilarious
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Geez, what a sweat hog. (((shakin’ mah haid)))
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back story, homeboy was hoping that this girl could help his achieve his life long dream of meeting Trump.
Second, I don’t know why this kills muh comments…but this season, there’s a new thirstier beta male and female out there…the one that is willing to talk to their foreign finance through translations apps bc even though they’re saying wedding vows, neither speaks the other’s lingo.
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Reblogged this on parallelplace.
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The problem with this place is ultimately, the advice here leads to fornication: players can’t exist without sluts,
[CH: not true. a player could plow his way through a bevy of chaste young ladies, leaving them ruined for the beta males to come later. or, a player could have his fun, then use his experiences with women to lock down one quality broad in loving commitment.]
so the advice here is not enough to fix civilization, proving that the bible is all to real: the advice of the wisemen of this world is ultimately poison:
“For the message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God. For it is written:
“I will destroy the wisdom of the wise;
the intelligence of the intelligent I will frustrate.”
“Where is the wise man? Where is the scribe? Where is the philosopher of this age? Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world? For since in the wisdom of God, the world through its wisdom did not know Him, God was pleased through the foolishness of what was preached to save those who believe.”
1 Corinthians 1:18:-20
To fix civilization, fixing betas is not enough, you need Christian ethics, you can uplift a beta into an alpha, but alphas don’t grease the wheels of civilization, thus, no matter how many betas are uplifted through the wisdom found in these blogs, it is ultimately for naught.
The wisdom of man has failed humanity, and quite spectacularly. We’ve all fallen short. Here is the wisdom of man: fornication, players can’t exist without sluts, so for every beta that is uplifted by the advice here, he shall leave a trail of damaged and deranged sluts whom will beget bastard children to repeat the cycle, and there will be more bastard children spawned than betas uplifted through the wisdom here. Therefor all of this advice has achieved the opposite of what was desired.
Therefor, has God frustrated the wisdom of the wise.
Here is the wisdom of man: in all of its splendid ugliness: the wisdom of man has turned out to be pure poison.
[CH: feminists pretend not to be aware of this fact, but cheap and effective contraception and birth control pills have been a boon for the aspiring player. no commitment, no marriage, no bastards to weigh him down. and women agitated for this!]
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your religion sucks dude.
go love your enemies to death (your own)
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“Putting the tart before the whores”.
Thanks, CH. I’m in the ER now with a couple of sprained ribs.
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If there had been stuff like this when I was a young lad I’d have kids all over the world – heck grandkids all over the world at this point… Just sayin’
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“Beta males have it in them to be great womanizers. They are at ease talking with plain women or or feminists or catladies or black women.”
Or aged-out former hotties. I’m so good at this I have to stop talking to old women because I apparently send out the wrong message and they pursue me. it’s not pretty, lemme tell you that.
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“Situational alpha”. That’s what I call it. I have one particular group of friends where I’m the cool trouble-maker – they call me Mr. Bad Influence. Always do better with women when I’m with them. And this whole alpha/beta thing explains my young dating life (many years ago). When I was between women I behaved like a ZFG alpha but when I had a girl I would turn beta & put her on a pedestal (because that’s what I was taught). Could never figure out why my relationships would last a few months & then fade out. Know better now.
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nice post
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[…] Source: Heartiste […]
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So happy you wrote, “Beta Males Can Rise Above Their SMV Station” rather than, “A Beta Male Can Rise Above Their SMV Station.”
Among your many other achievements, stubborn preservation of the King’s English is not the least.
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exs sister during summer hung out all day begged to suck me off
said shit like I wish I would of got you first but I didn’t have the onitis for her
easy to say no to
ex the super manipulator
im getting better at saying no last couple years
she goes from one manipulation to another till one sticks
she wanted 20 bucks and I said no she like she gonna sell her phone then im like ok
before I might of have her the 20 he he he
she had tears in eyes giving up her phone
then next day she had it back lol
it confuses her that I don’t give a fuck what she does anymore
which I do but I don’t lol
it was cute though that out of all the names in her phone
she had two hearts in front of some chicks name
and two hearts surrounding mine
we both too thick headed to make it work he he he
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when ex 34 I imagine she will be ready to pretend to settle down lol but it aint like im gonna want her then rofl crazy ass life he he he
she kind of knows herself somewhat she said when like 24 she had 2 more years to party then she was gonna settle down but those two years been up
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had her kind of locked down at 23 but call of wild was too much
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if can break the ex down into like the ex ex would be interesting he he he
getting there
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dude was texting ex im gonna suck the soul out your putty
then was like im gonna turn a ho into a housewife
he like is that possible she like yes
he like im moving into house on this day
she like you mean we are moving in
then she spent that week with me
I just read the text
poor bastard
bitch like a finishing move out of mortal combat
finish him
pulls out heart
woman vicious
its beyond thirst eating out ho’s
jeebas
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American Haiku
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ex ex used to leave and kick other bitches out houses they were living in and steal their boyfriends I guess I like vicious bitches
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Does ex know ex ex?
Or any of ex ex’s daughters?
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neither would kill a baby though
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yea cap ex ex knows ex when I told her ex was staying over she said get anyone but her he he he
its in archives but while ago me and ex ex were kind of getting back together I told her don’t let me have ex back in house cause we had broken up and ex had hurt my fewlings
ex came in ex ex broke mirror with her face and came down looking like braveheart with blood on face and told ex to get the fuck out ex left lol
but yea later on ex and ex ex fought and ex tore chunk of ex ex hair out
little bit like a soap opera he he he
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took ex ex’s kids trick or treating walked about 3 miles or so
they had some full bags like 10 people lol
walked in store to get can of pop chick inside like is that your gang outside waiting for you
im like yea
our costume was the mob coming from mexico lol
with ex ex now too totally diferent than before
got like no romantic feelings for her anymore just a chick to do stuff with
she about to move in and clean and cook though
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Love is the delusion that one woman difffers from another.
-H.L. Mencken
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well there pussies definitely vary
and how they suck
and there loyalty
so he didn’t know shit lol
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very true
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Or Mencken was simply diplomatically reminding us AWALT. Hypergamy doesn’t care that you love her.
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real truth heh
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Love is a resource exchange with an endorphin release.
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real love is eternal it never ends
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Even my cynicism thinks that’s one of the most moronic statements ever made. 😉
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C’mon, yeggs… Mencken’s sardonic wit was for entertainment purposes, not to be taken as gospel.
I know that’s a hard concept to grasp for the generations who canonized St. George Carlin.
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Art imitates life. His sardonic wit cannot be entertaining unless it’s grounded in reality.
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Who said it wasn’t, at least to SOME extent?
Of course, great art requires a great audience.
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I read that line from Mencken as AWALT.
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Ah, I see we have at least one perspicacious spectator in the theater. 😉
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Here’s a rule I picked up from a high school buddies grandfather, I don’t know if you’ll think it’s as good as #8 or #9 but it’s always been gold for me.
You’re gonna shi+ on her, or SHE’S GOING to shi+ on you.
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Ignoring her beauty is the key. 7 – 10s are beyond sick of hopeless, thirsty retards fawning over them.
Funny little life hack that helps me with #5: “Be cool” is to chew gum. Takes the edge off, gives you something to focus on when you get antsy, and it tends to make your mind a little sharper.
I imagine a total master of game could finish a bag of Cheetos or Doritos while chatting up a woman. Bonus points if he gets Cheeto/Dorito dust on her.
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So, a bit off-topic, does anyone who keeps abreast of these matters have any idea how many seats a “red wave” is likely to give the Repubs in the House? Are they going to hang on by just the skin of their teeth, or do a bit better, do you think?
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Massa Ironsides
zfg
We gon cross that bridge when we get to it
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Skin of the teeth.
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Massa Ironsides,
zfg
we gon cross that bridge when we get to it
que sera, sera
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Right after Kav got seated and up until a few days ago, it looked like a Red Tide, and several seats gained in BOTH houses.
Now, with the recent Clown World distractions, who knows?
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The new mayor of the English city of Sheffield
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Wow, the British can get some tan, esp. in a land where it rains all the time.
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I like the way his head is framed by the two Victorian worthies expressing their disdain for this pleb as he takes a shit on their table. Green Docs. So ’80s.
Barbarians, squatting in the ruins of the Forum of Rome. It happened.
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Dutch zoo places wolves in bear enclosure to enrich their lives and challenge them to coexist. Guess what happened…
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6338571/amp/Zoo-horror-bears-kill-female-wolf-shared-enclosure.html
[CH: brown bears are apex land mammal predators. not even a siberian tiger can take on a grizzly]
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I thought these naturalists went to school?
Polar bears ain’t nothing to fuck around with, neither.
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So these morons are actually insane enough to try to impose their diversity crap on predatory animals?
Thought I’d seen peak nuts, but they’re always finding a fresh, unexpected nadir to plumb.
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says they plan on keeping the other wolves in same enclosure
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Ignoring a girl is a good strategy.
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Jewish militias full of beta rage form militias in the US.
https://www.haaretz.com/us-news/u-s-jews-turn-to-firearms-training-after-pittsburgh-shooting-1.6613408?
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Of course the rabbi thinks LESS guns will do the trick. Also, why the hell isn’t the IDF vet in his own homeland?
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He’s busy creating a Jewish militia here.
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ISIS eat your heart out.
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Rule #1: Only point the muzzle towards something that you intend to destroy.
Major fail in pic #2
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I have a warehouse full of disposable diapers to sell them, in that case.
Genuine IDF-issue, only used once.
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So true. I went through a slump after college and was banging mostly 5s and 6s and sometimes would have prolonged periods of not banging at all. I was getting consistently rejected by the 8’s and above. Hell, even 7s. I’d treat hot girls like they were princesses. I’d be a gentleman. I’d try to court them as if they were the most important person in my life even though we weren’t even dating. I’d volunteer to spend money on them even though I was poor. I’d try to cultivate a friendship first with the hope that it would grow into something more. It was pretty bad. With the plain ones though, I did really well. I was nice to them, but it was a niceness of indifference. I was only willing to put forth a minimal effort, and expected sex and blowjobs early or immediately in the process especially if there was even a whiff of a relationship. Most of the “dates” would consist of me calling a girl and saying “hey, I’m hungry and bored. Wanna hang out?” Which meant feed me then fuck me. If she suggested going out somewhere nice I would grumble about not having any money. And it worked.
But I was constantly frustrated with the attractive young women that I was most interested in. I’d get shot down and think, “gee, a tall, athletic, handsome, talented, intelligent, hard-working guy with a bright future must not be her type”. But that wasn’t it at all. It was just that all of that stuff didn’t matter compared to the attitude I had toward them when I interacted with them. I didn’t figure out this until much later.
The story has a kind of happy ending. I know 2 5s doesn’t make a 10 but shortly before I met my wife (who is attractive) I had 4 different 5s I was fucking concurrently and often and a lot of pussy (even if it isn’t all that great) has a way of numbing you to the allure of any one woman. I gamed my wife like she was just another 5 and it worked like a charm.
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This is the stuff I got to in reading about “Game” that made me believe the whole thing. It explained why I did badly with girls I liked but got interest from girls I didn’t. No one else could provide I bit of explanation for that. Couple of recommendations:
Count to at least three in your head before you say anything to a girl.
Do not be afraid of “dead air” and letting silences hang.
Don’t be in a hurry to get to the end of whatever you’re saying. Even if it is just “hello.” Speak languidly. Not like you’re slow or stupid or stoned or something. Not like you have to think about what you’re saying. Just do not be “hellodoyoucomehereoften?” More spaces and commas. Not Captain Kirk/Shatner spaces and commas but slow down.
Calibrate but err on the side of saying to little to slowly.
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A very relevant post to me. Here’s something similar I did just last week:
I treated her like one of my friends.
This obviously has limits of course, but one of my girls said we couldn’t see each other anymore, but she “wanted to still be friends.” So we keep texting, and I started ending almost every text by calling her “bro,” “buuuudddyyyyyy,” “champ,” etc. It drove her up a wall.
She lasted all of three days before she asked if she could come over.
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It’s a bit meta, but I enjoy taking apart her beauty to discern what it is that makes her attractive. Is it her thinness? Is this woman hot because she’s young? Her hair is really gorgeous. Look at that ass, damn.
From there, I imagine what she’ll look like in 20 years. Will this woman still be attractive when she’s put on 20 pounds? Or is she the wound-up type that will keep the weight off but gain fret-lines in the process? She definitely has the “glow” of youthful sexuality, but what does she really look like under that radiance. Bone structure, eyes, lips… is she plain but boosted by hormones? What’s she going to look like when those same hormones turn off? Her hair may be gorgeous but if she shaved it off would she become ugly? Because if she’s ugly without hair then she’s ugly with it; don’t get caught up in the accessories. And that ass, wow. How fat will it be in five years? Maybe in her family it’s the sag type. That’s a lot of ass meat to sag, it’s gonna roll over, yuck.
The trick of course is to not get caught up in the moment. She might be beautiful tonight, but would she still be after four kids?
And that’s where people get lost. “I’m just trying to get laid, I’m not looking for a wife”. Be more critical if who’s good enough for you, who meets your own standards, and you flip the script. That woman with the gorgeous hair and the ass that defies gravity, you mentally shot her down seeing her bald and saggy. Now she’s chasing you. Go ahead, have sex, have fun. But don’t come inside her.
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Funny side story: back when I opened every plausible hottie I saw, I flirted with one from behind before I’d seen her face. In the office so nothing risque, but when she turned around she fifty and wrinkled and pleasantly surprised. Poker face, I continued the non-risque pleasantries.
I gained an ally that day. Older women are invisible, and they know it. They miss the days of friendly banter and can become bitter for their loss. This one older, wrinkly woman brightened up every time she saw me because I kept that friendly banter up for no reason other than being pleasant. Just office friendliness, but to her I was special.
My point? Don’t hone your PUA skills to only banter with the hotties. That’s as bad as oneitis. Banter with all of them.
They’re definitely talking about you when you’re not there. Women are shameless. The allies will speak well of you to the hotties. Banter with everyone.
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Good post… older women as allies never hurt, both socially and politically. 😉
Even the rabid pussyhatters can be become giggling schoolgirls under the right conditions, and won’t try to upend you, either in the workplace or when out in mixed groups of young and old.
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CH, this is interesting. Young people raised by single mothers or from families where the mother had more influence are more likely to be lib/left (egalitarian), young people raised by their father or from families where the father had more influence were more likely to be more right wing (anti-egalitarian).
Definition of egalitarian in this case: support of racial and social equality.
Additionally, males were more right wing than females
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1t7wWjfE70-_Am7ADzEBnodw03G5DxHJh/view
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