A rare breed — the low self-esteem hottie — is a delight at the moment of capture in the wild, and a curse when thereafter responsible for her caged domestication.
Naked in a lover’s bedroom and sitting on her desk, one leg propped on the desk’s chair (feel free to picture this), I was fiddling with knick knacks, smiling at her equally naked form lithely upright on the bed, when she sheepishly pulled the bedsheet over her knees. Morning light struggled to pierce the heavy canvas curtain over the window and she seemed to retreat into shadow.
“I’m embarrassed. I don’t have a great body,” she said.
I studied her quizzically, deciding her segue, which was completely at odds with the fact of her great body, deserved a sincere reply. “Really, you have a beautiful body. You don’t need to feel embarrassed.”
The combination of her surprising vulnerability and the sound of my voice comforting her as it mouthed the words “you have a beautiful body” caused a rehardening of the dick-shaped diorama I had impertinently thrown across her desk and chair. The rehardening created a sublime scene in which my supportive words could not have been more blatantly affirmed by my exquisitely timed tumescence.
The ideal low self-esteem hottie is the girl who accepts your sincere affirmations without reservation, and grows with your guidance to become a less neurotic woman, bonding more strongly to you along your shared path. Unfortunately, I have met exceedingly few of these kinds of low self-esteem hotties (who themselves are a minority among the high self-esteem hotties). The typical low self-esteem hottie gets worse the longer one dates her; relationships or flings that are heading toward relationship status — and thus more security for the woman — have the opposite effect on the LSE hottie, nourishing her neuroticism and feeding a manipulative compulsion to sabotage the relationship with her self-doubt and obsessive demands for external validation.
In fact, my take is that the LSE hottie is an evolved female archetype whose purpose (unbeknownst to her) is to filter out supplicating men unable to resist her vulnerability charms and who are given to alleviating her self-doubt whenever she deems their services necessary. These weak men lose her interest rapidly. What she wants is the strong man who knows the right amount of comforting validation is the smallest amount possible without pushing her over the edge to self-cutting. This man — the alpha male — gives her a little, and takes from her more than a little, which has the effect of placing emotional guardrails around her urge for approval-seeking manipulations.
The low self-esteem hottie is like the Flying Spaghetti Monster. It doesn’t exist.
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I think it does. My ex-wife was like this. Plus, I knew a bunch of girls in college with this syndrome. And the cause of it was what causes all cases like this: Jealous mothers who talk their daughters down constantly. Let me explain:
We get a lot of our worldview from our parents and even though we build on that worldview, it never completely disappears. So, if someone tells us “You’re stupid” or “You’re ugly” for 18 years, we still “feel” it on some level, even if we can intellectualize it away.
There is a breed of aging women who can’t get over not being the young hottie anymore. So they harbor LOTS of resentment for their daughters and that comes out in the form of verbal jabs and continuous (often public) putdowns. The girls who have to hear this for 18 years develop everything from complexes about their body to eating disorders.
To go off-topic for a second, there are some men who behave this way with their sons (in retrospect my father like this, sad to say). But most men aren’t like this, women are. So there you go.
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The ego of a hot female=the size of Typhoon-class submarine, large enough to accommodate decent living facilities for the crew when submerged for months on end (this is definitely true when the hottie is a white hottie)
The ego of a tall, handsome male=the size of a hut in India
I’m sure it is true in your ex-wife’s case and it’s true for (a few) college girls. But 95% of white people do not have monsters for parents.
“everything from complexes about their body to eating disorders.” Parents, especially mothers, can fuck up their kids but this has been wildly exaggerated by the Freudian quacks. I’ve never dated any bitch with an eating disorder or a nasty mother.
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“My ex-wife was like this… Jealous mothers who talk their daughters down constantly… there are some men who behave this way with their sons (in retrospect my father like this, sad to say)…”
A huge percentage of this sh!znat is going to be inherited in the DNA.
And my guess is that you & your ex had personalities which sought out one another via Assortative M@ting.
If and/or when you have k!ds, think long and hard about what went wrong in your first m@rriage, and what went wrong in how you & your ex- were raised by your respective parents, and swear to yourself that you will try as hard as you can to break out of the vicious circle.
Although this is the notorious difficulty with vicious circles – breaking out of them [otherwise they wouldn’t be called “vicious”].
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I’m gonna say that a lot of millennial chicks have low self esteem brought on by there incessant use of social media by which all hotness and status shall be judged in chick world. It’s a damn shame really. I know one absolutely beautiful girl who won’t even smile on camera because she thinks she has a bad smile/teeth when she doesn’t at all. Facebook and instagram have this dual evil effect of puffing up girls self esteem and wrecking it simultaneously
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My father was
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@tomjones:
>> But 95% of white people do not have monsters for parents.
Ha. Non-whites have no exclusive contract on abuse.
And I might talk about lower-class whites, except wealth white families are known for having “trophy children,” where the kids are raised by servants, and those kids grow up with issues as well.
>> I’ve never dated any bitch with an eating disorder
Dated several. Two, back to back, with bulimia. And oddly… best sex of my life, #1 and #2, right there. Can’t seem to find other’s quite that good. Not odd… trim, great bodies.
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Penthouse letter.
Next up: The Loch Ness Monster Zombie from Space.
Tune in also for Nazee UFOs piloted by Vikings, feat. JFK and Elvis.
There are women who really do have low self esteem – none of them are any better than a 4, if that.
There are also hotties (and plain Janes…..) who can play coy and dumb VERY VERY well, including FAKING ‘low self esteem’.
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“low self-esteem” sometimes simply means they have a desire to serve and to please. people can often mistake that for weakness.
lefties accuse EGK of having low self-esteem. “oh, he needs all that wealth and power because he feels bad about himself”. in reality he just enjoys sharing, and will bring the hammer down the moment his benevolence is taken for granted.
the girl in this article may be similar in her own way. she wants to please but that doesn’t necessarily mean she allows herself to be treated like a doormat, or that she isn’t capable of protecting herself.
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@plumpjack
>> “low self-esteem” sometimes simply means they have a desire to serve and to please. people can often mistake that for weakness.
>> she wants to please but that doesn’t necessarily mean she allows herself to be treated like a doormat
I think you’re reacting to some other story about LSE.
There is a story that any women that is feminine, that likes to serve, that can support a man, has LSE. That is a story from a certain camp we are all familiar with.
You’re very right, serving and showing grace is not LSE.
In fact, it’s HSE.
HSE isn’t running around compensating for anything. HSE women can show grace, as they come from stable homes, not from scarcity and abuse. HSE is a sign of abundance.
LSE women serve as punishment, or out of fear, or out of proof of their own nothingness. Not the same thing. Doesn’t feel the same.
— https://www.amazon.com/Practical-Female-Psychology-Man-ebook/dp/B00RR6RNO6
^ Some EPIC content here on female psych… including tons of analysis of SELF ESTEEM as a major criteria of understanding female behavior.
Highly recommended.
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Well, rarely… was with a 9.5- 10 raised by a clinical psychopath for 8 years– she was scorching HAWT but would never believe it (trying to convince her I wanted to bang her because she was a sweet piece of ass and not for some “issue” or deviousness got annoying sometimes).
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hey, we all have our struggles.
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Haven’t seen one of those since early in college. They tend to get snapped up fairly quickly by a slightly older lotharios who have game and shred of morality.
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if extremely low self-estem falls to zero it can lead to mudsharkery.
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Sounds like one wrong affirmation and she could flip out either way–always wanting to hear the same sweetnothings or blow up in a fireball of rage.
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I think many very tall women who are also very attractive fit this type, when a woman is taller than most men those men will generally think she wants someone taller and so they will not have the nerve to approach her. During her teenage years and early adulthood a tall girl is often insecure at being taller than all her friends and so will be more welcoming of male attention.
[CH: interesting. the girl in this post was tall.]
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Tall girls are usually late bloomers anyway. Being lanky and all legs when her friends have boobs and curves tends to limit their appeal to most young men. Some girls are cutest in middle school, some in HS, others is college , and a very select few in their mid 20s. Look at mom, that is what she will be in 25 years.
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Agree with both parent & grandparent kkk0mments.
Tall girls tend to be desperately lonely.
And if you have k!ds by them, the k!ds will tend to grow up to be e.g. NCAA Div I scholarship material.
PRO-TIP: If you can handle a big ch!ck [you have been lifting, right?], then use a dating site’s height filter to eliminate the shorter chicks and only hit on the tall ones. Your success rate will improve dramatically.
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IDK, one barbie I dated…her and her friends blooped out DD’s overnight very early.
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There is something to that.
Very tall girls (5’10+) have a VERY difficult time finding the types of men (6’5+) they REALLY desire – unless they’re willing to become b-ball whor3s – and might – after much bellyaching and self-pity – throw in the towel and actually look at men closer to their own height or – GASP ! The Shock ! The Horror ! – even shorter.
The short girls (5’4-) are the absolutely worst heightnazees.
NOTHING under 6’2 will do, regardless of how side show ridiculous they look as a couple.
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“The short girls (5’4-) are the absolutely worst heightnazees.”
Absolutely got-damn right.
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This is true most of the time. My sis is five foot even. Her man is like six six.
Her kid is gifted, just bragging, and he is top 1% height and top 1% intelligence for his age. He is also outgoing, but I see him struggle with the top females in his age group. The 7-8 range females are infatuated with him, but he will have to learn some game to attract the 9-10s. He just isn’t that smooth yet. Yes I am talking about a seven year old here, but social dynamics apply big league even at that age.
Watching him play baseball, there was this one kid on his team who was shorter than him, but had more muscle and better coordination. He also had a Shitlord look in his face and the top girls were infatuated with him. My nephew has an affable happy countenance. He’s a joker. He’s funny for his age, but his moma babies him and holds some feminist beliefs. His dad is an asshole (mean but not smooth), but the entire f@mily (both sets of grandp@rents) tries to discourage his influence on the boy.
Also know a couple where the woman is what looks to be under five foot and the boyfriend is six ten. Also knew a m@rried couple where the woman was under five foot and the husb@nd was six nine. He left his w!fe for a seventeen year old who was just over five foot.
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There was a couple at a now-defunct night club who were quite the case study.
Both early to mid 20s, both ‘Country’, the dude was ALWAYS the tallest guy in the place – at 6’8 or so – but otherwise had nothing going for him, he was your basic trailer park hick who sounded like he’d dropped out of junior high.
Not what you would call ‘good-looking’, either, just an average country boy.
The girl was about a 6.5-7 blonde, maybe 5’6 ,when they danced together, she was basically looking at his belly button.
Women of every description you can possibly think of would THROW themselves at this guy, whenever his girl went to the bathroom or for drinks, they would just swarm him, she had to practically beat them off with a stick upon returning.
He had no money (old pickup), no ‘game’, wasn’t a great dancer, his daddy didn’t own half the town, nothing.
Except 6’8, which is P L E N T Y.
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“The short girls (5’4-) are the absolutely worst heightnazees.”
Absofuckinglutely. I would say that the biggest Height Queens of all are very attractive women (the ones with the most options) who happen to also be short. It is as if they are biologically driven to make damn sure they don’t have short offspring. Show me a smoking hottie that’s barely five feet tall and I’ll show you a woman that’s close to incapable of feeling attraction for a man that doesn’t tower over her by a foot.
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The wealthy are taller and can the same be said for the nerdy?
Do shut-in kids who do their homework overlap greatly with 5 fruit-and-veg a day kids?
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Not sure the moral of this story, but thought it was worth a share. When I was in eighth grade a new girl moved in down the street and enrolled in the same grade school. We found ourselves walking home together and I did not think anything of it. She was tall and skinny and I was oblivious and aloof and probably more concerned with video games. She took a liking to me and started pseudo stalking me. I became annoyed and one day yelled at her from my bedroom window to leave me alone and told her I didn’t like her. I was never a mean spirited person and the outburst was uncharacteristic. I felt slightly bad about it but then her and her fat friend egged my house. Fast forward to about a year or two after college graduation and she comments on a Facebook post or concert check in or whatever. The tall, skinny, awkward girl is now a fashion model. Fin.
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Been there done that. But I can be very convincing. So much that I can convince a non-hotty that she’s hot (helps things in the bedroom) but then they start to act like they really are hot and they turn into a complete self-entitled diva/queen pain in the ass.
So it’s advice to take well: dole out (re)affirmation like it was the last few rations of water on a lifeboat. There’s a certain window where they can be kept: enough confidence not to be a problem, but not enough to get full of themselves.
Women can be like horses at times, and nearly as smart.
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[…] The Low Self-Esteem Hottie […]
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There’s a lot of this in less-than-hotties as well. It’s a typical defense mechanism that women used to have (I see it mostly in older women now), where they would play the self-deprecating / “I’m a stupid woman” card to pre-empt a man’s criticism for doing something wrong/poorly.
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Yup, Mike has low self-esteem. I mean, with that voice….eesh!
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Watch the interview. They used it to try and cement the idea that Pizzagate is fake news. That was its main purpose. They are scared.
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What a pompous little phag that Scott pelley is.
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Pelley totally gives it away over Shrillary’s “pneumonia”. Cerno asks how they knew it was pneumonia, Pelley says “We asked the campaign”. LOL! Then Cerno spikes that ball in his face. Fake News Pelley is stunned for a second. Great!
Cerno should do more of these and demand that for every question he has to answer, the Fake News reporter has to answer one of his. Livestream it.
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I mentioned on here once before that I briefly dated(?) an 18 yr old. She would fit this bill. She complained about feeling like people hated her, she wasn’t attractive enough, etc, a lot. I never really said much because it felt disingenuous and I didn’t want to encourage it and start a habit. So one day she called me and we talked for a bit and she kept repeating that she felt like she was a burden to me and I wouldn’t really reply much until finally I said that her continually asking me that made her a burden and she hung up on me and sent a barrage of texts and then blocked me and we haven’t spoke since. I don’t know that standing up to these types works either. I actually wasn’t trying to play games either, just fix the issue.
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She wanted you to take advantage of it.
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Martin: You are dealing with some degree of MENTAL ILLNESS [somewhere between mild & serious] here which probably involves a PERSONALITY DISORDER.
Typically what I’m reading in the stories on this thread strikes me as involving at least Cluster-C “Obsessive Compulsive” PD and Non-Specified “Passive Aggressive” PD.
Obsessing about whether she’s a “burden” is obviously O.C., and begging and pleading with you to answer a question, but then hanging up on you and never talking to you again after you finally consented to answering the question, is classic P.A.
We tend to rag on Cluster-B Borderline PD around here, yet at least the Borderlines are great in bed.
But you get Cluster-C O.C. and Non-Specified P.A. in a chick and she will friggin RUIN YOUR LIFE.
PRO-TIP: In the worst cases, O.C. + P.A. can be the kind of woman who seeks out a weak man for m@rriage [Assortative M@ting], and if she can’t drive him to su!cide, then she’ll focus her Hate on the weakest of their sons, and see whether she can drive the poor boy to su!cide.
We’re talking some evil Evil EVIL women.
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Good result for you, martin. You don’t want passive aggressives and crabs-in-a-bucket people in your life, no matter how hot. And you certainly don’t want to be taking responsibility for the emotions of other people or “helping” them (which is impossible) bcs that is what she was angling for.
“Misery loves company” is a wise observation.
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For anybody with low self-esteem holding down a relationship is a very taxing thing to do both mentally and emotionally. Be sensitive and understanding when reassuring your inferiors.
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I do regret that happened and wanted to apologise but at the time I was just trying to let her know she shouldn’t keep acting like that. But to what others said, I think there was a lot of tension because it felt like she was subtly trying to get me to commit as much as I could to her but never trying to earn it. Also, the word ‘trigger’ was a part of her vocabulary. I thought and still believe to some extent that younger women are less likely to be crazed feminists because they have had less chance to and that their youth would make them kinder but I do somewhat suspect the leftists have reached the very young now.
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“Also, the word ‘trigger’ was a part of her vocabulary… I do somewhat suspect the leftists have reached them very young now…”
Martin, the Frankfurt School are PSYCHIATRISTS!!! They have spent the last century [or more] systematically observing, classifying, probing, experimenting with, and capitalizing upon the various psychological weaknesses of the Shkotzim, be they Cluster-B [Histrionic, Borderline, etc] or Cluster-C [Passive Aggressive, Dependant, etc] or Non-Specified [Passive Aggressive, etc] or whatever.
A few years ago, the Swedes gave Frankfurt School Uber-Sanhedrin (((Daniel Kahnemann))) a Nobel Prize for this shiznat – how to move markets to your advantage using the techniques of emotionalistic manipulationism. And as far as Cluster A is concerned [Paranoid, Schizoid, Schizotypal], (((George Soros))) is simultaneously the largest funder of marijuana decriminalization initiatives in the USA and also the leading funder of the “schizophrenia.com” initiative which is screaming bloody murder about how marijuana causes Schizophrenia – i.e (((Soros))) knows d@mned well that an increase in marijuana use will be accompanied by an increase in Schizophrenia cases.
tl;dr == The very concept of “triggering” is precisely the sort of thing which the Frankfurt School rabbis will be pushing in K-12 and Undergrad & Grad School so as to lure these highly unstable at-risk nutcases into exploding on us.
Almost none of the pathologies of the modern world arose innately or organically or randomly.
ALL OF THIS WAS [AND IS BEING] PLANNED AHEAD OF TIME.
Even we in the Maul-Right are still a good 75 years behind the Frankfurt School.
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@Captain
Your posts have become ever more insightful. I think you are so right on the money when talking about the various degrees of mental illness that so many people are prone to. In a healthy society, based upon our historical cultural/religious heritage, we could have debates about what would be necessary to mitigate these destructive tendencies in individuals. Instead, we have the Jew evil that has been unleashed upon the world, where every bad behavior, from stuffing ones face with food (gluttony), to being a sodomite, is encouraged as something that is “natural”, and therefore “good”, and consequently to be engaged in without guilt.
Crazy crazy shit.
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All women have low self esteem. You just have to find what buttons to push.
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That’s basically Game in a nutshell, except that to be a World Class Playah, you have to become sufficiently Dark Triad to the point that your Conscience no longer prevents you from pushing the buttons.
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what i have noticed is once you get the first chicks the other 8 million chicks that know them know you
when you are the topic of conversation everywhere they come to game you
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course i don’t know what the fuck i’m gonna do when they all dead
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Necrophilia?
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glass half full guy could be an option lolzzzzzzz
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Yeah I think so too. Women never ever ever completely grow up.
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What’s really scary is when you start seeing this shiznat in women who are in their 80s or 90s.
You can understand why G0d had to curse them with some of the Cray-Cray when they’re pre-menopausal – I mean, let’s face it, you have to be a little nuts to push a b@by out between your legs – but to have it linger on well after menopause was almost a little cruel on His part.
But I suppose He has His plan for all of this.
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I have had a lot of recent revelations seeing my mother age. She was a hottie in her youth and was attractive up until maybe five years ago. She is in her 60s now. She still acts like a teenager almost retarded sometimes. Being a attractive women her entire life probably kept her from having to learn anything important.
Almost all attractive women now are on drugs. One hottie at work is pregnant and I think she probably does meth, I can tell by the way she talks too fast and breaths in through her teeth loudly as if her entire mouth is numb and had mannerisms of a junky like twisting her head at weird angles. She is also impulsive. She could just be nervous talking to me though. Ti keep yhe drama at work low, I have to actively try not to fuck women near me and it seems to make it worse.
Yeah, she is White and pregnant with a White man’s baby.
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The over-self-esteemed thunder thighs:
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“$5 for my number”
This is a thing? lolzozlozlzozlzozlzozoz
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Thirsty omegas are doubling down and giving her $10. I tried posting the relevant tweet here, but blocked by mod. Username is a$hnr@nd@ll with the usual substituions for mod. A$h – heh.
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I once wrote an April Fool’s satire about women being so “monetized” they were starting to charge for conversations in bars. This is actually a baby step towards that. If it’s real. I hope it’s not.
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This exists. Via a dating site. Pay for coffee date, etc.
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buying drinks is what that is. bar conversations would never move to a straight cash transaction, it would be too transparent. Whores don’t like it to be obvious they are whores.
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i too am attracted to cartoons
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Pretentious eyes
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Are those eyes warming up to fire laser beams? What’s with the white flashes in her irises?
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Maybe she’s a blind girl with two glass eyes
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she could pass for 30, photoshop adjusted.
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The Darkness is spreading in their hearts at a very young age now.
It’s what happens to their faces when they graduate high school at 18 with an an@l notch count of 10+.
Maybe even 20+.
For the last few nights, Sean Hannititty has been running a series of specials on binge drinking [into unconsciousness] during “Spring Break”.
That’ll turn an 18yo hottie into a 35yo post-wall hag real fast [with an an@l notch count of 100+].
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I’ve seen only one real case of this.
She was a fat cunt throughout HS. I was polite to her but too cool to be her gay accessory back then
It’s weird when the cutest girl in the room hates group photos
omg right?
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FR: work with two women
One cunt – 50+ who is very senior at the firm
One HB – about 25, new and a solid 7.5 and very shy (never really spoke to me thus far)
Cunt treats everyone including HB like dirt and has a rep for it
In the kitchen and the cunt is in the way of the sink
I walk in with a smirk ‘no rush (name) you’re only blocking up the sink…I can wait (sigh)’
HB reacts in a ‘no one talks to her like that’ with a wow look on her face and I lean back resting in a jerky way waiting for my turn.
Cunt leaves (I’ll get into trouble for this) but HB immediately opens me.
Being dominant, being a jerk, zfg…turns women on.
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Number close?
Bun -> Oven?
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Re main topic: agree with everything you wrote, CH, but don’t you ever get sick of all this calibration? It’s for dying civilizations. I’m getting more Cappy by the day: high self-esteem or low, what these hot bitches need to dampen the cycle of manipulation is a bun in the oven by age 24. And then more bunz.
Problem is that without patriarchy, the overwhelming manipulation cycle just starts up again when the last bun is out of the oven.
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Well at least you get some progeny outta da ho’s.
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“…what these hot bitches need to dampen the cycle of manipulation is a bun in the oven by age 24. And then more bunz.”
I disagree. The manipulation (guilt tripping) never ends. From wives, mothers-in-law, mothers.
It’s a sad lonely reality. Women manipulate, the best defense in to get to it first and don’t let up.
Wish I’d known this earlier in my life. Maybe I could have spared myself a lot of unnecessary self loathing from all the bullsh!t I encountered.
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Yeah that’s my point. Without a patriarchal culture and the tough laws on divorce, adultery and abortion that go with it, the best men can do is use up large amounts of male talent and energy calibrating and outmanipulating women. It gets old.
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True, Roman. I live in SEA and men will comment (correctly) that it is godmode compared to the West. But you still need game. Why? To protect yourself from being manipulated and eaten up (in a bad way) by the women here who are as good at their game as any man is good at his.
Betas and whiteknights and even guys who in this environment think they are playahs can, in just a few weeks, get emotionally strangled and then dissolved in acid here by women – normal women – who are playing them for high stakes. Stories of men who didn’t protect themselves and got destroyed are very common.
So you’re right, game is first and foremost a defensive skill.
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“even guys who in this environment think they are playahs can, in just a few weeks, get emotionally strangled and then dissolved in acid here by women”
Asian women invented push-pull and take game to a murderous level. they can easily crush an unsuspecting man’s soul between their feminine little fingers.
remember that in Apocalypse Now where Kurtz describes how the Viet Cong came thru after the do-gooder westerners immunized the children in the local village and chopped the kids’ arm’s off? yeah, that’s the SEA version of agree and amplify.
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I just ended a relationship with a low self-esteem hottie last week. In some ways they require more calibration than high self-esteem women because they’re so easy to over-game. This one used the tactic of explicitly saying how insecure she was. If I didn’t know game I would probably have compensated for her insecurity with over-validation.
It’s dangerous to get seriously involved with low-self esteem women because she’ll never believe you care that deeply about her when she doesn’t care that deeply about herself. And she’s more susceptible to some random stranger coming along and giving her the self-validation she is missing from her life.
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Why is your nickname “insickness”?
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I assume it refers to “in sickness and in health” from the m*rriage vows.
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Right.
Much of what I’m reading on this thread involves mental illness – typically Obsessive Compulsive & Passive Aggressive behavior in chicks [Cluster-C & Non-Specified].
I maintain that these chicks [especially as the O.C. & the P.A. move out towards the right end of the bell curve for severity] tend to seek out dudes whom they suspect they can dominate & destroy.
And trying to stay “f@ithful” to a vow of “In Sickness & In Health” means that you’re “supposed” to stick around with one of these crazy w!tches as she keeps pushing harder & more relentlessly & more determinedly towards her ultimate goal of convincing you to commit su!cide.
Granted, this is getting out towards the right end of the bell curve for severity of O.C. & P.A. in a chick, but even under the middle of the bell curve, your life as her husb@nd is gonna be a pure living he11 most of the time.
Anyway, when this poaster chose the nickname “insickness” for himself, it suggested to me that he might once have been m@rried to one of these w!tches, and might have suffered through that he11.
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This article brings back memories. My wife and I are coming up on our 20th anniversary and she still has a great body but it took her a few years to understand that she’s not the only fish in the sea. Is she the mother of my children? Yes. Is she still wonderfully attractive? Yes. At 50yo, 5’5″ and 110 lbs, yes. But is she the only option? No. She works hard and I love her for that. I used dread game on her when she was taking me for granted (bread winner, came home, worked hard, raised good kids, but didn’t feel rewarded, and she got it. I have CH to thank for that.) I have colleagues who ask me how I get away with so much and I laugh and say, read the 16 Commandments. Does wonders.
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Mine are just jealous.
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What she wants is the strong man who knows the right amount of comforting validation is the smallest amount possible without pushing her over the edge to self-cutting. This man — the alpha male — gives her a little, and takes from her more than a little, which has the effect of placing emotional guardrails around her urge for approval-seeking manipulations.””””””
im laughing my ass off read it to ex ex she said who wrote that i said the dude who writes blog i read
she said you guys are asshole
rofl
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Yep. Pretty much. Heehee
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she said you guys are asshole
rofl
Yes… yes we are. 😉
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Maybe she used to be a fat chick; you know what they say, Once a Fat Chick Always A Fat Chick, regardless of it they lose the weight or not.
In their mind, it never really changes or goes away.
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In my experience, even the fat was part of the underlying mental illness [especially if they have the willpower to lose the fat and keep it off].
What we’re dealing with on this thread is sh!znat like Cluster-C Obsessive Compulsive and Non-Specified Passive Aggressive personality disorders.
I once very briefly dated a skinny chick who told me that she used to be fat, and she quickly proved to be O.C. & P.A. to the point that I could easily imagine her driving a husb@nd or a s0n to su!cide.
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allright cap did some chick try to make you kill yourself
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Gunslinger, in retrospect, I think I’ve always had pretty good Cray-Cray-Dar, and have bailed just as soon as the Cray-Cray reared its ugly head.
But I have been thinking a lot about this O.C./P.A. stuff lately, and I am convinced now that I know two of these O.C./P.A. chicks who drove their husbands to su!cide, and a third who tried & failed on her husband, but was successful on her son.
And I am also convinced that [either consciously, or unconsciously] these O.C./P.A. chicks seek out weak men whom they can dominate and destroy.
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i told the ex i didn’t think she was pretty just being honest
fucked up her world
cause i guess everyone told her she beautiful
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told her she was sexy though what more she want
i got high off sniffing her fucking neck for fucks sake
bitches just want it all he he he
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wierd same day writing this ex was writing me letters:
hey baby how arer you good im hoping as for myself i’m all fucked up without you in my world (: seriously greggy! (: why are you so mad and why do you hate me so damn much? because i need you to tell me how i can fix it. How can i make it better? I’ll do anything to make you happy.
ok that is cute
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i still think it is crazy how your car got fucked up whenever you were on your way to go spend time with another woman (while supposed to be mine) it is almost like you were being punished for hurting me.
you act like i never loved you or anything when in reality i did love you and still do baby i have never felt the way i do about you with any other person in my entire life!!! only lust after 1 other person and it was nothing like the way that “I love You!” Lets talk IDK how you feel about me now so i would like to know.
yours truely,
the ex
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i did tell her that i was going to see an ex girlfriend
but yea crazy a deer jumped out and had never happened before that i hit one
also the chick came to see me got flat tire
like every time i did try to see that chick shit got fucked up
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one thing bout ex she did kind of push me to excel
had me go up to top of this giant wooded hill in the snow with dress shoes after i said i wanted to she made sure i did
and i did get up to 190 15 times
lifting
but god dam she always threatening my life but i ain’t dead so i guess empty he he he
and its like she wants me to beat her to prove love or some shit
which beating a bitch for me does mean that
prayed to devil to kill the ex and she was in a high ass fever for two weeks
crazy shit happens around this chick i will admit
i guess i am the ho whisperer can prob get this bitch off drugs i guess
like the ex ex most of the time anyway
she prob wrote those notes cause she sure as fuck knows bout them chicks dying i guess the number is 3 one chick got shot and stabbed for fucks sake
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ex do got some letter game he he he
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ex ex said this out song more shit ex wrote on another heart that is colored he he he
whatever you lack i got you we will balance each other out if we have a minor setback we shall make an outstanding comeback if there shall be a bad day ill promise you a great night as long as you appreciate me and remain consistant you don’t have to doubt my loyalty if you got me i got us
lol ultimatum in there though he he he
but wierd that ex ex had a dream yesterday too that i was seeing ex and lying to her about it
beside me asleep talking bout why can’t you just tell me
ain’t heard from ex since the 12th
she not doing the game of waiting 7 days she doing two weeks
i guess it is low self esteem i kind of like that she knows every person around in a way and does want to be with me
but then she been with every person around too lol
something bout being better than drugs does kind of stoke the ego too i guess
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allways kind of wanted way to prove love and a bitch wanting to be with you more than heroin or crack shit kind of crazy
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the ex still been on my mind
dam these bitches and their game wtf
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guess game works prob never get old getting letters like that
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ex ex cleaning house and singing
not a bad day
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lol ex ex stopped singing it and said wait why you have that song on
you better quit thinking bout that nasty bitch
she said i swear to god i’ll burn your house down if you let her back in the house
what the fuck lol i need insurance
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‘only lust after 1 other person and it was nothing like the way that “I love You!”’
She cheated on you?
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dude from when she was 17
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yea i got other chicks whole time occasionally ex ex lived with us but like an american chick she thought she needed to be equal to me
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she hugged some dude before i went to inaugeration and thought i was gonna fight him because of it after i knocked the dude out his shoes for coming in my house and talking shit to her but then she thought i was gonna do same when she hugged another dude said greg i know would of knocked him out
so i broke up with her finally for real
yea i was always honest with her about getting other chicks or what not
but she had to lie
be honest about what you want out of life is my take and yea didn’t want to share the bitch or play you and him fight every day
but i also did leave her by self whe my dad was in hospital for like 10 days before that so it was all fucked up situation anyway
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she the chick i told to get off the street prob when she was 19 or so
and she remembered that shit 4 years later
remembered me
when she came to my house with my then girlfriend
words is powerful
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told her she couldn’t suck dick too but in the time away she did learn to suck a goldball through a garden hose hahahahahha
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da fuq?
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he must’ve linked the wrong song
I hope
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Slightly OT:
One thing I get quite a bit from plates and other randoms is an initiating non-sequitur “hi” “hey” “yo” “;) or even just an emoji.
plumpjack had a golden nugget comment on here recently about women being creatures of burden well before they were creatures of need. I.e – if they want something they’ll tell you, in the meantime, put them to work, get them to do things for you, flip the script and beta-bait THEM.
This is really true when it comes to these lazy non-sequiturs. Plates should be initiating the “wanna fuck?” or “when are you free this week?” texts. You shouldn’t be.
I’ve had a lot of success fighting non-sequitur with non-sequitur until she herself moves the conversation forward.
Interested to hear other posters thoughts.
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thanks for the hat tip.
i’ve reduced it down further: no advanced notice. “whatcha doin? come out for sushi [or whatever YOU are interested in]?”
give a girl only a couple hours’ notice and it conveys that your schedule comes first, without seeming bossy. if she can’t make it, no reply then hit her up again down the road, after some time has passed (a week or two). keep it light and, again, fitting your schedule.
assuming she’s meant for work should be your default state of mind, but you do it in a a way that shows you’re a team player, not a tyrant. you also expect do your share of work, which in the beginning amounts mostly to taking initiative.
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Good call.
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Paris right now… Total chaos.
cc @BBCNews @SkyNews pic.twitter.com/jvmE8A2uaH
— LEAVE.EU (@LeaveEUOfficial) March 27, 2017
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Well what is new you may ask
News is that this time the rioters are Chinese
The same high IQ hard working ones (((they))) told us would immensely contribute to the western societies
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Yes, I find it very interesting and surprising that Chinese are rioting. Mainland Chinese by the look of them. Chinese are capable of this (rioting) but they usually have a very good reason and it is the result of some kind of long term pressure cooker situation.
There is no precedent for this anywhere else in the world that I am aware of.
This is definitely directed action.
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Chinese are under heavy attack from Maghrébins and Blacks. It is going on for years now. It is very worse.
“It is because of prejudices that Chinese people are weak, docile and wealthy,” said Fang, a young female student. “I’ve been attacked three times in three years and my friends are suffering the same thing. Some have moved away from this area because of it. I don’t go out with a handbag any more.” (Telegraph, 2016)
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100 Chinese protesters mad a French cops != riot.
https://www.yahoo.com/news/china-summons-french-diplomat-chinese-person-shot-dead-084433771.html
Chinese tourists avoiding some parts of Paris is more scary to the French.
[CH: the chinks are not as riotous as the sand wops, but this latest incident does go to show how multiracial diversity is doomed to failure in the White West. distrust and seething anger is the end game when disparate peoples are forced to live close together.]
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How long can this go on until some gives, very badly?
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*Something. Ugh.
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I’m glad I got to see France before the slide into Shitholistan became irreversible.
Read somewhere that China has something like 20 million more men than women.
That’s quite the army.
There is NOTHING in the entire MENA region that could stand against that.
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Well except for the USA Army, Navy, Air Force, and Marines which have been permanently stuck in the greater MENA area since about 1990.
Almost friggin 27 G0d-d@mned years since Saddam Hussein invaded Kuwait.
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sad, very sad
Our VP is reaching levels of Jew Worship that shouldn’t even be possible. pic.twitter.com/vvsLJjNgQ7
— Ελισάβετ (@lizzy_3OO) March 27, 2017
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50 Pence is like that with everything and everyone….
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Already knew this about Pence. Why is this a surprise now?
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I do not think that anybody is surprised
rather disgusted at the level of spinelessness this faggot publicly displays
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No uncut cock for Mr. Pence, please!
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I never liked Mike Pence. My cucked diddy gushed over him. I wanted Mad Dog Mathis as VP. Go back and read my post if you don’t believe me. My guess is Trump is using Pence to get the cuckservatives on his side, and it seems to be working somewhat, but the only problem is that cucks are tone deaf to King Trump’s messaging.
The way President Trump is handling healthcare is downright genius. He is going to get everything he wants and more when it is all said and done. You watch. This is child’splay to him.
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I also told people early, like years ago early about Trey Gowdy. The next President maybe?
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What’s the view on Howdy?
Trump said he was too soft at the Benghazi…hearings.
I still like Ted Cruz for his shitlordism…and psychopathic nature.
I’d think he’d be even worse than Trump for shitlibs.
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Howdy Gowdy
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In days of yore, nothing got people more excited than a young warrior king.
What the West needs is a grand purge.
No more neocohens, nor more ‘centrists’, no more ‘labor’ (they’re kinda ded anyway), no more ‘safe’ bourgeois parties, no more cuckservatives, no more disconnected golf course patricians,definitely no more career politicians beholden to (((TPTB))).
Instead, we need guys who know how to handle a sword (or an M16), lead from the front and wouldn’t ask anything of their soldiers they can’t or won’t do themselves.
Guys in their 20s or 30s with the drive and energy to potentially rule for 20 years, at which point they have the wisdom and basic human decency to hand the scepter off to someone younger.
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Gowdy is all bark & no bite.
And, like CuckRyan, not particularly bright.
Given a little anecdote which someone [Reb?] once offered here, I strongly suspect that Gowdy is part of the “Chr!stian Family Man by Day, Boy-M0lesting Pederast by Night” crowd which dominates the “Allowed Opposition” known as the “GOP”.
Even we red-pill sucking cynics probably aren’t clued-in to just how powerful the s0domite/sapphiste/pederast crowd is in D.C.
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Richard the Lion Hearted!
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I’m reaching levels of cringe that shouldn’t be possible.
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Award Ellie Wiesel lolzzz
“Certain events happen, but they are not true. Others, on the other hand, are, but they never happen.”
Ellie Wiesel
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A row of creepy idiots.
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By rejecting Jesus they chose the patch that leads to hell. The pope must pray for their salvation.
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theirs and antipope’s
we should all pray for antipope’s salvation
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A very attractive girl may suffer from lack of confidence if, though normally in great shape, she has put on 5 or so pounds; not enough for the average man to care or notice, but enough that she’s acutely aware and self-conscious of it.
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twat of the week
Anyone who talks about themselves in 3rd person is a gigantic douchebag. https://t.co/9srJGZ5OHt
— 🍀Armchair Facist🍀 (@JeffKelly619) March 27, 2017
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He heard someone say that once and is just repeating it. He has the critical faculties of a parrot.
Common.
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here is the initial twat to which this one is response
Wasn’t it Karl Marx who said, the jew’s worship of money is second only to his worship of himself? pic.twitter.com/OPg9KGCglf
— Niko (@Xenios_Zeus_) March 27, 2017
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the Niko’s one not ternowitth’s
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jesus christ
what a leftoid
her twater is full of shit liket thiss
.@GirlUp leaders talked with @IvankaTrump today about policies to support #STEM education for girls around the world. #WomensDay pic.twitter.com/ZKlNSNY93V
— UN Foundation (@unfoundation) March 9, 2017
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or this
Women’s day is every day! Happy Thursday! #internationalwomensday pic.twitter.com/unZFukf3zn
— Ivanka Trump (@IvankaTrump) March 9, 2017
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try to measure her influence on Trump’s decisions on “closing STEM gap”
and other BS she is paddling
Gender diversity in #STEM is key to empowering women & girls. @realDonaldTrump signed two bills bringing us closer to #ClosingTheGenderGap pic.twitter.com/pN5V81JUjI
— Ivanka Trump (@IvankaTrump) February 28, 2017
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Ivanka is one of (((them))). She was born Aryan but she brainpoisoned herself. Willingly. Talmud “studies”.
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Some dude needs to cuck that bitch
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“#ClosingTheGenderGap”
Try closing the gap between your nose and your chin, dearie.
And “empowering women” by herding them out of the house and into the job market has ruined Western economies by brutally depressing wages. Maybe a class or two in the most basic sort of economics should be first on the schedule.
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Simply revolting.
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I guess that was your best attempt at being sarcastic?
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No, I’m disgusted at her being such a leftoid, as you put it. Unless I’m missing something here, which is possible, considering how long it’s been since I slept last…
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People who are born and live in the top 5% -from Harvard/Princeton students to Wall Street families to Dot Com billionaires (and especially their kids) are ALL leftoid. It’s the dominant thinking of the elite.
That’s why Donald Trump is so special. He’s that rare rich guy who does not repeat the same shit -‘diversity’ ‘close the gap’ ‘equality’ etc etc etc.
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And it’s going to do absolutely nothing to ingratiate her father with the leftoid women in her social circles, in case she thinks otherwise.
But hey, at least all the right wing women who dearly want to stay home might get a few more pieces of silver back to leave their kids with strangers all day.
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I got a baaaaaaaaaad feeling about this, Sarge.
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For the republic, Donald must purge Ivanka
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Looks like she’s already purged herself.
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at best this is subterfuge by EGK. at worst it’s simply a platitudinous waste of tax dollars. the civilization wreckers aren’t the only ones who know the value of a good dog and pony show.
these little play dates by EGK’s favorite princess doesn’t change the fact that equalism is on borrowed time and will not survive the shift towards nationalism.
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This is political theater and nothing more.
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This is about softening his image to People like my CRE instructor who thinks he is Hitler incarnate. Its also a feint. Sessions cut off funding to sanctuary cities today.
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Love those
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I hate Arizona communists.
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{The Big Lebowski} x {Raising Arizona} ???
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Naw, merely a variation on the Illinois Nazi scene of The Blues Brothers.
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I would have thrown Popcorn at them just to try to get one to pull his rifle on me. Only a couple of them have any training and most are out of shape.
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Don’t believe all of it but there are some interesting ideas here.
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Socrates was a known Putin operative. You made my day, Gamer Kantbot!
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Twitter power users flipping my jokes.
Flattering.
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any day now
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Last remnant of a former glorious civilization, the HB9-island state called “Bode Museum” got opened to reality by force. Its tiny border fence, its sleeping guards were no match for the barbarous invaders. The raiders left with some single 221-pound gold coin.
For some divine intervention Aryan Queen Nefertiti was not enslaved.
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http://www.zerohedge.com/news/2017-03-27/meet-sam-brick-laying-robot-does-work-6-humans
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We Bulgars did it in 715. Will do it again.
https://www.warhistoryonline.com/ancient-history/siege-constantinople-bulgarian-khan-fought-arabs.html
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Here is an update to Brilliant Light Power’s revolutionary dark-matter-reactor.
Output: 20*10^6 watts from a tin-sized reactor
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Low self-esteem = easy anal
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greG Eliot wept
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Wha? Yet ANOTHER sock-puppy monicker, from Deviant Kike?
(((shakin’ mah haid)))
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we r all voices in teh gr8 ssaga of the gr8 gr8s rosy cizitan rage an mr hearts
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And “empowering women” by herding them out of the house and into the job market has ruined Western economies by brutally depressing wages. Maybe a class or two in the most basic sort of economics should be first on the schedule.
“empowering women” is/will destroy our past, present and future. It will destroy our people. Our race.
#DestroyFeminismBeforeItDestroysUs
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We Jews must realize that we serve the desolate one.
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Having women in the job market is a good thing.
Get up at 3 am to feed the pigs & chickens, let the cows out to pasture, feed, water and brush the horses, collect some wood for the stove, fetch some eggs from the coop, milk Bessie, check the fence, and maybe by the time it’s 5 or 6, you’ll have time to make yourself some breakfast. having done about a dozen jobs.
Pretty empowering.
Fresh air’s good for you, and you won’t get fat.
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I would call those duties, not “jobs”.
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lol at around 15:00. They do a segment on woman’s small business owners where Trump has a meeting with a bunch of them and panders to their faggotry. Jesus Christ. wtf about Men’s small businesses? why the fuck does no one give a shit about the bull men have to go through? I didn’t vote for Trump to have this feminist faggotry shoved in my face again and again.
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I didn’t vote for Trump to have this feminist faggotry shoved in my face again and again.
Right?
Thus far, aside from a few reports of manufacturing jobs staying or new ones coming, I can’t say I’ve been overly impressed with the new regime.
Yeah, yeah, I know… it’s still early…. (sigh).
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expert political forecasting and analysis from the guy who proudly declares that he never voted in his life.
but all that matters is the 14 words, right Greg?
what an inspiring patriot. :duck-fucking-face
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Where ya been, dweeby ol’ boy?
I was starting to find life at the chateau somewhat tedious without one of the usual suspect sock-puppies to kick around.
Who else were you posting as today?
I suppose I should be flattered that you’re picking up on one of my shitcks.
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http://www.zerohedge.com/news/2017-03-28/heres-story-behind-trumps-podesta-russia-tweet
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I love butterfaces.
Ugly women can help themselves by not getting fat and hitting the squat rack/lunges.
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This one is brilliant unintentional comedy.
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The “I’ll cover my face somewhat, but I’m still showing my tits.” grrl was funny enough…
… but they overplayed their hand with bringing dweebstreep out of the closet.
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These people are so far gone they can’t see what a collection of hypocrites (tits with mask as per GE) and losers (moustache xer) they are. Obviously their bloodlines will extinguish when they die childless, but I can’t wait that long.
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“The Greek word for “return” is nostos. Algos means “suffering.” So nostalgia is the suffering caused by an unappeased yearning to return.”
― Milan Kundera, Ignorance
Canción Mixteca is one of the most beautiful Mexican folk songs
It is about the immense nostalgia of the rural folk who ends up in the jungles of big cities selling their souls for a few shekels
Paris, Texas is probably the best Wenders’s film It is about a man who try to kill the pain by walking away from it, knowing very well that it is stillness that will bring emotion back,the emotion that tears his soul apart
Super 8 shows the life he left behind
In this case nostalgia is not yearning to return but the fear of return
Or perhaps it is, the deeply unconscious one
Brilliant Harry Dean Stanton. young Nastassia Kinsky and genius of Ry Cooder’s arrangements all shot in super 8 by WW just for you goys
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