Reader Ramon asks:
So I’m chatting with my current stripper of the quarter and I ask her, “why do chicks dig jerks?”. Her take: “they grow out of it”.
Background On this girl – 28, divorcee, cock carousel until 24, fun but with interesting phobias. I’d call her a 6-7.
What’s your take on her comment?
I actually do think that girls “grow out” of digging jerks. Unfortunately for the niceguys of the world, that growth doesn’t occur until the late 20s for the typical woman, and later than that for very pretty (highly estrogenic) or very delusional (also highly estrogenic) women. So while women may grow out of digging jerks, men don’t “grow into” digging cougars. The niceguy, as always, is left with second-best (or one-thousandth worst).
Also, it’s important to define what we mean by “grow out of”. The definition is fluid depending on the options available to the woman who is claiming to be over jerks. A 28 year old, rode hard and tossed away wet, neurotic divorcée stripper — a chick who has likely opened her wormhole to a fleet of interstellar assholes — is going to have been so psychologically drill-pressed by her history of disappointments trying to nail down jerks for long term commitment that she may very well begin to gravitate to the sensitive ministrations of relatively doting men.
But then it won’t take more than a few weeks with a niceguy to remind her how much she viscerally desires the wrong kind of man.
So, what I’m getting at is this: a woman who has “grown out of” dating jerks is a woman who is too old, too crazy or grown too fat to appeal to the unruly jerks who truly excite her. Her limited options dictate her claimed preferences. Which is another way of saying she’s settling for niceguys. That’s an explanation of the thinking process of your aging stripper. Now, this is not the whole story; I suspect that age-related decreasing estrogen levels, coupled with a subconscious reappraisal of SMV caused by failure to either capture the attention of sexy jerks or to keep them around for very long, WILL objectively alter a woman’s dating preferences to some degree. Women do have two competing mating algorithms clashing for dominance within their psyches: the desire for fun sexytime and the desire for comforting providertime. When she is young and at her desirable prime, her sexytime id holds more of her cortical territory. When she is older and beginning to fade into sexual obsolescence, her providertime id battles back and claims victories, hoisting its banner of sour grapes.
tp;dc (too precise, didn’t comprehend): The hottest chicks dig the biggest jerks. Less attractive chicks dig jerks too, but can’t get them, so they pretend they don’t like them. Older women will be easier for niceguys to pick up. A minority of cute, young chicks genuinely adore niceguys, but there are too few of them to go around to satisfy the innumerable niceguy demand for them.
PS Beware the stripper who says she’s over assholes. You will be tempted to throw her a compliment or a cuddle, thinking she has illuminated the way to her poosay. You will be rebuffed. Your working assumption should be that any chick who claims to be over jerks is not over them at all, and has probably dated more jerks than girls who admit they like jerks.
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Anon pleads (probably too late):
Prom season is approaching. Any related game advice for the younger crowd? I know high school isn’t representative of the “real” dating/hookup scene, but there are similarities. Any tips?
Smile mischievously, and pin the corsage directly over her boob. Not kidding. Worked for me. If corsages are out, have two flutes and a bottle of champagne waiting for her in your car (or the limo, if the driver is down with underage drinking). Dance with another girl, and make sure your date sees it. Smoke outside, come back in reeking of it. Keep a flask of bourbon and a condom in your jacket pocket, and be sure the outline of the condom shows through. And, as always, remember that this is the time of life when girls’ asses will never be tighter; take post-coital pictures for a masturbation photo album when you are elderly! God, I love good, old-fashioned American traditions.
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Rhett wonders:
I was wondering if a girl says she loves you way too early , would this be considered beta bait? I haven’t spent much time with this chick, i banged her the first night i met her and twice since discounting sex iv only spent about ten hours with her.
Not necessarily. Read her face when she says it. You should be able to tell the difference between a sincere expulsion of loving tribute to your alphaness and an insincere shit test. However, do note that EVEN IF her “I love you” is sincere, it could still serve as a subconscious shit test for her, in that if you answer “I love you too” right back, you could unknowingly give her way too much hand so soon in your new relationship. Since you’ve only spent ten hours with her, I suggest a cocky reply is in order. Make a finger gun and wink at her while saying “Right back atcha.” Gauge her response. Does she giggle? You nailed it. Does she seem on the verge of tears? Wrap her up in a hug and tell her you love spending time with her, and you can’t wait to see where it leads.
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B. writes:
Have you seen the new HBO show ‘Girls’? Writtten by a young woman who is also the star, the series starts with a young woman’s life bottoming out:
1. Parents cut off her income
2. Loses her internship at a publishing house
3. Boyfriend loves her too muchI’m serious. To describe the nightmare situation for a young woman today, she shows a girl whose boyfriend never stops being nice to her. And her friend even makes fun of her for it.
Thanks for making my life better,
B.
No, I haven’t seen it, but I may have to, since it’s been the talk of the town lately, and besides, there have been claims that the chick writer(s?) has cribbed a lot of ideas off of Le Chateau Heartiste. Hence, the supposed realism of the show. I’ll save an analysis for a future post.
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Customer Service writes about a game tactic which involves pretending to be your ex-girlfriend to make prospects jealous and, hence, horny for your deviant love:
I moved back in with my parents and I started lying about my living situation because too many vaginas sealed up.
I started telling girls that I lived with my ex girlfriend and couldn’t move out because she was still in love with me. Ergo sex at the girls’ places. Bingo. Proceed.
However, I need a way to keep my leads warm so I tried this exchange on two cold girls [where I] pretend my ex gf finds my phone.
… out of the blue, after regular texting game …
me: ”hey, how do we know each other”
… silence or no response …
me: 2 mins later, “where did we meet”
… by this point the girls start to clue in that it’s not me on the other end and they’ll reply with something short ….
me: ”this is Tim’s ex girlfriend, i want you to know that I am still in love with him, stay away from him, he doesn’t love you”
… the one girl I used this line on responded by saying OK…
me: (to both girls) “did you sleep with him?”
… I didn’t bang these girls, one responded with a smiley face and the other cold lead said, “he’s your ex now, so relax”, NOT ONE GIRL DENIED SEX.
What do you think of this game tactic? I haven’t decided how to follow up with this scenario.
Wow. All’s I gotta say is, this is gold, Jerry! That is, it’s gold for finding out how manipulative and devious girls can be when their jealousy is incited by a bit of the ol’ ultrapreselection. I assume, since you didn’t mention it, that you hadn’t slept with these two girls you were texting while impersonating your ex-gf; therefore, the fact that neither one denied make-believe sex with you says two things about the female id:
1. they love the idea of being the “other woman”, and
2. they are DTF.
Chicks come born with a preinstalled harem mentality which can be triggered the moment they realize they are in the company of a man who keeps the company of multiple women. The typical woman is psychologically equipped to transition into concubinage with an alpha male if her buttons are pushed in the right order. Your “impersonating ex-gf” game tactic appears to have done that. It’s a total mindfuck, and for that, I award you:
Le Chateau Heartiste VIP (Very Important Player) entry to the Scarlet Room. (Bring cat-o’-nine tails.)
But how about your game tactic as a means of getting closer to sex with your prey? It’s gets a little trickier here, because you’ll have to be careful about slipping up and tipping your hand. But you’ve got valuable inside info on your two prospects; the image of having sex with you has been self-planted in their heads, and you come to them a proven commodity: the man whose ex-gf is so crazy jealous in love with him she stalks his phone for interlopers. To put it bluntly, you come pre-DHVed.
I suggest the next time you want to meet either of them, ignore what went down when you were stealing the identity of your fake ex-gf and proceed as if everything is normal. Wait for them to bring it up. When they do, say something like “Yeah, my ex is nuts. Thinks we’re still gonna get back together. Gotta put a lock on my phone.”
PS I wouldn’t say you can’t move out because your ex is still in love with you. That doesn’t sound plausible. Explain instead that you and your ex split the rent and it makes sense financially for you to live together for a little while longer, until you’re sure she has her life in order and can afford her own place. This fake explanation has the added benefit of hitting that “protector of loved ones” button that all girls possess.
This is gold, Jerry, gold — for sure. Re: texting as if you’re the ex-girlfriend to the new hotpiece.
Wish I didn’t get rid of my cell phone. Even though I have my own place and live alone, I still hate having the ladies over. They’re messy and too curious and never replace the toilet paper roll.
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OMG, Customer Service! I love it, I hope that the VIP Scarlet Room is everything it’s been touted as. I know a greater omega living at home that could use this info. Shit, I am going to use this and I have my own place and girl.
Also, regarding the early I love yous….I’ve straight up told a girl that “of course I didn’t love her” and she basically became my sex slave stalker after that. A more serious girl said it to me while I was drunk and my off hand, matter of fact “love you too” made her sploosh and was something she talked about years later because she realized as she said it that she was scared she’d scare me off.
So, is it beta-bait? Nah, it is a vulnerability thing for the ladies to do it. And there is the fear of scaring off a guy, so I would think that there’s no wrong way to play it unless you hand over a roll of single dollars to put in her g-string and go to the champagne room…don’t get played for cash.
1. Parents cut off her income
2. Loses her internship at a publishing house
3. Boyfriend loves her too much
Your reader kinda fucked this up. #1 & 2 describe the show’s lead (a dumpy, unattractive girl who’s sexually degraded by her unambitious boyfriend because she can’t do any better than him and he knows it). #3 describes her hot roommate, who’s turned off by her clingy, smothering bf.
To the prom dude: get drunk as fuck/high as fuck/both with your buddies, dates beforehand, you’ll have blast and possibly get it in if you don’t fuck up. And skip the after prom, that shit is ghey. I’m assuming you have a place to go to already, right?
Hopefully your prom doesn’t have cops and breathalyzers, they just started that at my old hs and it ruined my little bros experience. It just ain’t the same anymore…
They’re messy and too curious and never replace the toilet paper roll
George Sodini could have written this. Too curious? So there are lots of stuff in your home you wouldn’t like people to see? Sorry, but in mine it is only a dozen conservative books, and many of those have titles most people wouldn’t understand. Never replace the toilet roll? Territoriality with your bathroom? Talk about feeling yourself to be a lion in the Serengeti…
So there are lots of stuff in your home you wouldn’t like people to see?
I have nothing to hide, and in some cases, having them go through my drawers or pockets actually works in my favor, but it’s annoying nonetheless. Women love to dig for information, granted, but a man’s castle shouldn’t be messed with.
Sorry, but in mine it is only a dozen conservative books, and many of those have titles most people wouldn’t understand.
What about your firearm or backup firearm? Etc.
Never replace the toilet roll? Territoriality with your bathroom? Talk about feeling yourself to be a lion in the Serengeti…
I’m very territorial about people making a mess. I pay a good penny for a housekeeper to come and tidy up, and it’s never my guy friends who screw up my bathroom or kitchen.
The best “trick” that women seem to love to use is to scratch their fingernail polish on the wall near the bed — other women will notice it right away (territorial), but guys never will. If I catch them doing it, I throw them the Mr. Clean Magic Eraser and demand they clean it up.
WTH? I know women have gotten bad and entitled, but seriously . . .WTH?
Haven’t you figured out by now that everything A.B. Dada posts is bullshit?
Pretty much. It’s amusing to read his drivel though.
Oh, and by the way, nail polish doesn’t ‘scratch’ onto things. But uh… cool story about the wall near the bed and stuff.
You think he’s a “V”?
I moved back in with my parents and I started lying about my living situation because too many vaginas sealed up.
I started telling girls that I lived with my ex girlfriend and couldn’t move out because she was still in love with me. Ergo sex at the girls’ places. Bingo. Proceed.
Same boat. Thanks for this. Soliciting other takes. Although, I probably do better when I just go forth and do the dirt without stopping to reflect on how I got it done.
The “girl has my phone” tactic is one of my tried and true favorites. Also – I think nice guys believe in the archetypal asshole that clouds their ids with misty decisions about quick vengeance, constant suffering and contaminated victories. I don’t think they see the as you put it tp;dc truth:
You must make them in some way shape or form need you, even if for just a moment. Nice guys cannot create need, and thus cannot create want. You cannot foster desire in someones heart if they believe they have everything, which is what girls who have been supplicated by beta fuckfaces for the last ten years believe and rightfully so. You must take from them their ego, and trade them something that is actually useful to them. Most of your life is not in any way shape or form beneficial to a girl if you started out as most western men do. The real question you have to ask yourself is how much of your life are you willing to give to a stranger on the off chances the feelings you share launches you into new and interesting areas of your life? If that answer is anything less then “all of it” your going to end up settling at one point.
The greatest ending to an epoch of your life is to accept that you are everything you hate(d), none the wiser, and still free.
“there have been claims that the chick writer(s?) has cribbed a lot of ideas off of Le Chateau”
As should all writers do. Being an avid reader of the chateau has ruined my pleasure at watching movies and TV shows. The relationship dynamics and the angelism of some female characters often don’t make sense. Tired of this bluepill shit.
I’m mostly watching old black and white movies right now, they were a little bit closer to the truth.
We’ve been watching a lot of film noir, lately. My husband loves seeing the beautiful and feminine women and I get to watch strong dominant male leads. Don’t miss the CGI at all as the story actually makes the movie. They’re fantastic.
I watched Gone with the Wind for the first time recently. I was absolutely loving the sexual dynamics between the characters during the first half of the movie(the second half is a pointless soap opera). Filmmakers these days are just afraid to potray the sexual marketplace as it really is.
A real threat is that a jealous gf can alter the phone numbers of women you seem to be communicating with in your phone’s address book. You will never know what the original number had been unless the contact in question tries to text or call you again. In many cases that won’t happen because they think you’re not interested. You’ve then lost a friend for life.
It’s cruel but some of the women who think of doing this feel it’s in their interest of self protection to do it. If I catch a girl even trying to read my texts, she’s history.
Well, naturally. He’s talking about making up a fake ex-gf. Having a real gf who’s nuts over you is good too, just so long as you don’t let her get hold of your phone.
… take post-coital pictures for a masturbation photo album when you are elderly!
Fuck, in high-school I had a small collection of underage porn but at the end of high-school I got in a year long relationship where I was “in love” and deleted it ’cause I thought she was “the one.” Still one of my biggest regrets.
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If your main squeeze tries leaving her things around the house and then gets upset when she returns to find you’ve hidden them, just make sure you’ve put them in one place and tell her that you demand that she store the stuff in that place to keep order. She was really doing it to show other women her territory but your explanation nullifies that tactic.
Always look for long hairs in the sink and on your sheets. Police the vicinity for that. It only takes a few seconds.
Pre-selection theory would say that it is a good thing to have the fingernail polish on the wall by the bed and a few long blonde hairs laying around.
On the first letter re jerks/nice guys: there is that “settling” dynamic as women age, sure, and to some extent all female hindbrains are stimulated by exaggerated masculine traits the same way male ones are by exaggerated feminine traits. (That’s maybe a more nuanced way to say “chicks dig jerks”.) Yet, as you note in passing, there’s a fair number of girls who are repelled by jerks and like nice guys- limited, and probably, but not entirely, related to the other “provider” aspect of bifurcated desire.
More generally, there’s a lot of variability within attraction- in the sense that different people (men and women both) can have widely differing “types” that turn them on. Chateau dogma does not account for this in general, certainly not with the usual evolutionary-science supprting theories. It might be interesting to explore this in future posts.
I have long had a theory that people absorb sex roles they later reinforce in adult behavior- role models for themselves from the same sex, archtypal attraction objects in the opposite sex- from their childhood environments. Not only parents (though mainly them) but also extended family, school, community, etc. This may explain a lot of the variability in attraction noted above.
On “Girls”- I haven’t seen it either and that show already annoys the shit out of me. Seems tailor made for the SWPL/hipster/Jon Stewart contingent. A little sex-realism being the token politically incorrect aspect that makes it that much more enjoyable for them. I could be wrong, of course, but that’s my impression. Also the cast is four daughters of rich celebrities- yet another example of the insular nepotism of the SWPL ruling class.
Yeah, that’s the “lovemap” theory
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lovemap
Pleasurable and less pleasurable childhood experiences define what’s erotically attractive/unattractive.
Let’s say a little girl was eating chocolate. Chocolate tastes good, but right when she’s enjoying it, her father or brother comes around and BAM! slaps her in her cute little face.
She will forever associate the violent behavior with the dopamine rush. It’s called the rihanna love paradigm.
OK I’m screwing things up a little bit, but I’m really dubious when it comes to these neo-freudian theories. Evolutionary psychology remains the best frame of reference to understand male/female interactions.
“Make a finger gun and wink at her while saying “Right back atcha.” Gauge her response. Does she giggle? You nailed it. Does she seem on the verge of tears? Wrap her up in a hug and tell her you love spending time with her, and you can’t wait to see where it leads.”
Damn Heartiste, underneath that analytical steel exterior is a romantic heart.
OT: An awesome reason for women to get into shape . . .
http://news.discovery.com/human/women-exercise-orgasm-120319.html
Exercise-induced orgasms. Have to send that to my ex, she used to get this strange euphoric look on her face when she was just about to hit failure while lifting.
An awesome reason for women to sit up straight . . .
http://www.thepostgame.com/blog/training-day/201204/why-high-heels-make-your-breasts-sag
And not just top-side. The bottom has to perch pertly to keep the carriage.
For proof this important element of female attractiveness (+ a full point), or maybe just evidence of my fetish, I offer former ballerina S.E. Cupp and indie queen Greta Gerwig, neither raving beauties, but the ladies know how to sit.
Bring back finishing schools and books balanced on the head.
Matt
Judging by how fat most women are, I cannot imagine that these
“gym-gasms” happen very often.
I used to see a few women really busting ass at the gym, but they sometimes went too far and became androgynous. More were there to look cute and spend 5 minutes on the stair master and 55 minutes standing next to it and chirping to each other. Hey, they just spent an hour at the gym.
Girls with just the outlines of their abs showing are hot. I have to congratulate them on having the discipline to (1) do lots of crunches and (2) not overdo it and develop a full-on sixpack.
Re: runner’s high and evolution. Come on now, running is terrible for the body, Taubes mentioned something about how extended cardio attacks body protein rather than fat. The lefties tried to explain that there was a starvation high too during the Schiavo BS.
Re: growing out of it. Good observation, but also, this was coming from a stripper. Some chick that chose to monetize her youth, a bad decision making female that’s going to need daddy for reals soon. Are there hot girls who look ahead these days instead of squandering the best, fertile days of their lives? Is what the haters say true, that these are just the slutty sluts we’re talking about?
I’m trying to imagine a 28 year old stripper that got off the cock carousel at age 24. I’m having trouble suspending disbelief on that 2nd part.
Cosign. Do strippers EVER get off the carousel? I know a few ex stripper pushing 40 who’s carousel activity is accelerating, much like a satellite’s velocity as its orbit decays into a terminal one.
That’s because the quality of jerks she can get keeps going down as she advances in age; she needs more average jerks then less higher quality ones ; quantity over quality.
lol
the show girls is like watching posts from the chateau come to life.
in the last episode, the dumpy girl gets a text from her boyfriend*. it’s a shot of his cock with a squirrel skin wrapped around it. he then texts her a little later ‘sorry that was meant for someone else’.
they don’t actually show a turbo hamster spinning up to 1000000 rpm, but for the rest of the episode she’s wondering wtf he meant by that.
*it’s pretty clear that she thinks he’s her boyfriend, but the way he treats her is as a convenient cum dumpster.
Great conglomeration of reader’s emails & responses.
Re: Jerry, wow, that’s epic. Makes me think of Seinfeld for some reason. Personally, I’m simply honest about dating several women. I tell them “I’m not boyfriend material.” Gets the hamster running, and triggers that inborn harem-member program. That line generates some tingles & gets that hamster blazing, especially with married women or chicks with boyfriends.
Re: Ramon, chicks digging jerks–yes, exactly, the older ones, unless they’re super hot, mellow out. But I’ve still met mid to late 40′s women, usually ex-models & dancers, who still want the hot jerk alpha males, and still cry themselves a river when the shit don’t work out. My own empirical research shows women’s jerkiness premium averages its peak intensity at age 31-32, which is not coincidentally when women claim to feel their hottest & most confident.
One quick note on endocrinology & hotness: it’s progesterone that makes women pretty, gives them curves, and drives the hamster like diesel fuel. Progesterone makes de boobies grow into pert, perfect orbs, gives the ass its elegant ripe-cherry shape, and drives the WHR into its prime 0.7ish range.
See, it’s these visual signals that tell us that a woman is ovulating reliably and strongly, and apropos to biomechanical advantage, it’s progesterone that drives ovulation. Progesterone also protects and stabilizes the embryo, should your alpha swimmers make their victory lap around the Cervix Du Triomph. The whole dance is a coordinated equilibrium which also includes male’s T levels and ovulatory signals in ejaculate. An alpha male, with strong charisma, powerful T levels, and healthy sperm, skilled with his Yang Implement, can cause a woman to spontaneously ovulate.
Estrogen simply makes the endometrium ripe enough to slough off at menstruation. As men, we want progesterone-dominant women. Estrogen-dominant women are the fat, forty-something women with uterine fibroids, endometriosis, and raging PMS. Estrogen is the destroyer-hormone that cleans up the “mess” that happens if she *doesn’t* get knocked up, and gets the joint ready for another go-round in the next moon cycle.
“An alpha male, with strong charisma, powerful T levels, and healthy sperm, skilled with his Yang Implement, can cause a woman to spontaneously ovulate. ”
You sure about that?
Any sources?
Would like to see the source as well.
What about oestradiol? I heard it’s the beauty hormone.
”this is Tim’s ex girlfriend, i want you to know that I am still in love with him, stay away from him, he doesn’t love you”
Fucking genius. Maybe add: “has he hit you yet?”
Oh, that is just superb. Would love to see the reaction.
I just tried the “this is Tim’s girifriend” line. I left out the “ex” because I forgot, but in reality, no chick who would text that would consider herself an “ex.”
Anyway, the girl I texted it to sent back “Lol” about a minute later. I feel like she somehow read this post already and knows what I am doing. Anyway, assuming that’s not the case, I’m contemplating my next move. Seems to me I should wait a while and say that she got ahold of my phone at happy hour where our circle of friends got together and to ignore it.
lolz
I wouldn’t say anything. Give the hamster room to run.
it needs to be preframed and the whole premis being he belongs to someone else, if she thinks you dont live with your ex*current, its not going to fly
“Maybe add: “has he hit you yet?””
Why add that?
lol! as in fucking or beating?
I fucking love this blog.
28 YOs going on 29 are more amenable to betas since they are in panic mode about turning 30. Then they turn 30, find out they can still fuck alphas, haven’t figured out that alphas are even less likely to marry them than they were before, and aren’t amenable to betas anymore until around 40, usually after 40.
Betas have about a 1 1/4 year period before a hot chick is 40 to land one and become her bitch.
That’s an interesting theory. I wonder if it’s biological in nature — 28-29 y.o. women are still hot, but nearing the end of their shelf life, and are still able to have a clutch of kids. After “dirty thirty”, if they aren’t married by then, then all they’re good for biologically speaking is being a cum dumpster.
A woman past age 30 would be okay for a second wife, especially if a man already has children from his first marriage.
I may start to see this Girls thing, even though I’m sure the PC mafia will sooner or later start to depict it as misogynist and that it’s time for men to man up.
It’s already started. According to wikipedia:
“The premiere of the pilot was also met with criticism regarding the all-white main cast in the otherwise culturally diverse setting of New York City (the only black actor in the pilot was a black homeless man and the only Asian actress had the sole trait of being good with a piece of computer software).[24][25] Lena Dunham has given interviews where she talks about the diversity question with the series, stating that with HBO’s renewal of the series for a 2nd season, “these issues will be addressed”
And that’s the first step in their strategy. This shit is becoming so obvious it’s not even funny anymore.
What would be funny is if they followed up the criticism by having one of the chicks get knocked up by a ghetto black guy who pimped her out, and if they had one of the chicks fuck an Asian guy and make fun of his small penis and never seem him again.
BTW, their take on the Asian actress is sort of a miss. Its pretty obvious that in addition to knowing Fotoshop, she was fucking the guy she was interning for.
Personally, I give the show kudos for portraying a Jewess with Irritable Bowel Syndrome. I guess that’s a (true) stereotype, too. I’m sure Lena Dunham has heard from a few Jewish feminists about this issue, too.
I saw an issue of The Nation(a left wing rag) where jeremy Lin was discussed. They referred to the tweet by the Whitlock guy(the “mean inches” remark) as a “stereotype” that somehow Lin has destroyed. Its fummy but also quite obnoxious as these Asians plaay the “I’m a repressed nigger too” game. “Cept they niggazz at MIT.
Seems to me like its almost always women complaining. Even Sharpton has toned it down considerably.
Nice Clockwork Orange reference, love the book. I’ve tried the ex girlfriend tactic a number of times with little success until I got a good female friend of mine to give me a lesson on how a girl would text in that situation. I’d never realized how transparently male my texts were, something to watch out for.
what’s a male-sounding text?
Bring the movies
If you really can’t escape the I love you situation, it’s always cool to say I love youtube, quickly. Go ahead say it aloud right now.
I think the gravitation toward nicer guys in the post-peak years is a complicated business. I believe many women do genuinely find it heartwarming when they see a man interact affectionately with a child. This is not to say such a man will moisten her up the way a real man will. I would compare it to how a man feels when he sees a very feminine woman who is nurturing, friendly, empathetic, sexually modest, refined, etc. It doesn’t give a man a raging boner, but it evokes affectionate feelings toward her in him. Maybe he knows this woman will raise the kids well and give them a good start to life.
These characteristics by themselves won’t produce anything, however. The man interacting with the child must have a certain degree of manliness and the woman must have a certain degree of beauty for the attraction to be sparked. A vag and cock won’t change, however; they’ll want the same thing at 50 as at 18.
With the first comment on the chicks/jerks dynamic, are we sure that she was referring to the ladies ‘growing up’? I would have thought (particularly at the age of 28) she was meaning that the jerk grows of of being a pure-jerk and that she’s the one who reforms him. I mean, isn’t that what all ladies are really after – the alpha dog who doesn’t take crap from no-one yet at the same time is wrapped around her little finger.
Her saying that its the ladies who grow out of it just sounds like she’s messing with you and telling you what you wanted to hear.
How does one go about sending a Happy Mother’s Day card to Andrea Yates?
I would develop (if i had time) the following Android or iphone app:
this application would make programmed FAKE SCREEN INCALLS (with CHICK PICTURES, nicknames, and fake phonenumbers) so when you’re dinnig with the girl you want to fuck you say you must go to the bathroom or something and leave your phone on the table. Now, the fake call comes in with a nice pretty picture of a chick and her name. The app migh even be programmed with some sound effects so that if the chick at the table answers it the app might shout something like “Who is this? Where is …..? Are you messing around with my ….? BLA BLA BLA “
Its amazing how people mislead being an asshole means being a bad person. Nope daisy herb…… it may happen, yeah but not always. Being an asshole means being a “not so nice” person. Subtle difference.
I know a guy. He fucks women and treat them like shit. He shouts at em slaps them occasionally if they give him shit. If we, his friends, mess up some shit he’s quick to anger and says “you pathetic fuckin loser….. don’t you know better?? blah blah”…… he’s not nice at all. but you know what he does for a hobby??? He runs a charity for old people. Puts all his money from thriving IB business to old people and homeless children….. see he’s not nice but he’s a good man.
I’m trying to be good. And I’m trying to be honest and help those who deserve it or those who can’t fend for themselves. And I’m trying to be as not-nice as possible…… trying is good enough. I get mad pussy!!
(He gets INSANE PUSSY……. like 100 women a month…. on an off month.. all HB 8s)
This.
Let’s keep the jealous ex-gf cell phone game to ourselves…it is gold and I prefer gold to remain a scarce commodity.
ghey wordpress trying to game me
On the prom if you are taking a chick to the prom you have been dating then sex is pretty much gonna happen if it hasen’t happened yet.
Rent a nice hotel room get in there beforehand get some music capability in there some candles some rose petals thrown around and some flowers for her have some roomservice planned allready so you don’t have to order anything it just shows up at the right time like magic or have it planned to make a quick call that you are ready. Course i guess with minimum wage at 7.25 ya should have some loot to go a little buck wild. Could also predo the dinner at resteraunt so you walk in and they start bringing the meals for you both. Violinist breaks out during the meal and seranades you.
i’d say don’t drink unless you are used to it and savor the flavor sober. Pull out all the stops why not its a bog day make it memorable for both of you. Could be more intimate have the dinner brought into the room though and could also have the live music come to room also for a little time anyway he he he
hell rent a lamb its only 200 a day get crazy with it.
↑ dafuq? Whiteknight much?
A woman only says that not because she’s over jerks (That’s her ego talking),
But because she’s older, less attractive and has less options. It’s that simple really.
All of that is the primary and number 1 reason why she’s “Over jerks”
Because they can’t admit to themselves that they’re “over the hill” and that “jerks” want nothing to do with them in favor of the younger and more attractive “Slut” looking to have some fun.
And because they know that betas aren’t as successful. They know that these guys will take anything they can get, as well as provide them the security that they’re looking for.
And if they’re spiteful enough. Try to get society to think that being fat or ‘natural’ is attractive and that they should be accepted for ‘who they are’.
I say screw that bullshit.
I think it’s up to us as men to spread the word about game as widely as possible until every man is able to finally take control of their love lives. And tarnish the bullshit women are doing to us in return.
Because at the moment, it’s all stupidly unfair.
In the mean time guys… Pump and Dump…