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I usually dismiss arguments like this out of hand because I believe that it’s not the girl that makes the lay but the strength of attraction between the girl and the guy. The more you like each other, the more explosive the sex will be, regardless of country of origin.
But now I wonder if there isn’t some truth to this theory besides anti-American posturing. Thinking back on every sexual interaction I ever had (my memory is sharp in this area) and comparing the experiences with the foreign girls to my compatriots, I arrive at the inescapable conclusion that the foreigners (mostly European, including Russian) were better lays.
Evidence based on general trends:
European – Naturally lubricated. Initial thrust executed without needing to pry apart the labia with my fingers first.
American – Bottle or tube of lube always within reach.
European – Expert at being on top. I felt confident she would not break my dick bone with a false move.
American – Girl on top always had an element of fear. I had to expend wasteful energy grabbing her hips firmly and preventing her from rising up too far off my dick and disengaging, or shifting awkwardly to the side or backwards.
European – Requested anal.
American – Frightened of it. Needed multiple reassurances.
European – Understood that tongue pressure was as important as saliva and making an O shape out of her mouth for enjoyable blowjobs. Often pressed it against the inside of her cheek contributing to visual as well as tactile stimulation.
American – Where did her tongue go? And why is her hand doing most of the work?
European – Met my thrusts with equal fervor, like colliding asteroids of flesh.
American – Received my thrusts passively. Brief moments of minor hip grinding.
European – Threw the sheets off when having sex.
American – Pulled the sheets over us when having sex.
European – Banged as often during the daytime as at night.
American – Day sex was infrequent. At night, didn’t even like a light on in another room.
European – Peed in front of me on the first night together.
American – 3 month waiting period before being allowed to see her sitting on the bowl.
European – Liked to smoke after morning sex.
American – Liked to talk about what we’re “going to do today” after morning sex. (this one’s a wash)
European – Public sex is a rite of passage. Parks, woods, movie theaters, my Mom’s couch.
American – Public sex is doing it with the TV on in the background.
Game, set, match: Euro babes.
European women seem more open and experimental than American women. They are less neurotic and don’t sweat the small stuff. Most importantly, they live in the moment. American women are constantly worried how they look in the wrong lighting, and how the ambiance has to be just right for them to feel comfortable getting naked. When a European girl is post-coital you know her mind is clear and she is giving herself over to the pleasure. An American girl is going through her appointments in her head, wondering if she has enough time in her busy schedule to squeeze in a spa treatment.
On a completely unrelated note, I am planning a future extended trip to Poland, Estonia, and possibly Hungary. I expect to meet the barely legal girl of my dreams there. If anyone has advice how to make the most of my time in that part of the world feel free to email me or leave a comment.