Posted in Game, Guy Rules, The Id Monster on Dec 11th, 2012
The Natural — the man who has a seemingly otherworldly ability to entrance women. The Natural — not the CEO, nor the jet fighter, nor the doctor — is the man most men secretly admire and wish they had some of his mysterious mojo.
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Peacocking — the art of wearing outrageous ensembles and eye-catching baubles — is much-maligned, both within and without the seduction community. Nowadays, when people hear the word “peacocking”, they scoff as their minds race to images of pickup artist Mystery and his gigantic furry hats, eye liner, jumbled bracelets, and Victorian long coats. sure he … Read more
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A reader with an active mind sends along his proposition, based on the principles of economic game theory, that men should never pursue relationships, even if they ultimately want a relationship or benefit from a relationship. Conclusion: a man should only pursue commitment-free sex, even if he benefits from a relationship. This is especially true … Read more
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Posted in Game on Nov 30th, 2012
Mixing your signals — aka obfuscating your intentions — is a powerful holistic technique to arouse interest in women, the class of beings who strangely desire more that which gives the least interest in satisfying their desires. The status signals (and, really, are there any other kind of signals that matter in the least bit … Read more
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Posted in Game, Science Validates Game on Nov 29th, 2012
A reader sent along a link to a study which attempted to clarify which kinds of approach “openers” (pickup lines or greetings) worked best on women. The science, while far from conclusive (results were based on women’s self-reported preferences, so usual caveats apply), is finally having a say in this eternal debate between direct and … Read more
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Posted in Game, Guy Rules on Nov 27th, 2012
Occasionally, an oh-so-sincere skeptical reader will insist that being the jerk women love doesn’t work, because he/she/it saw some guy calling a girl a bitch once, and that guy didn’t get laid. The height of counter-argument prowess! As this blogasmic beacon of bounteous love has written before, there is a critical distinction between being a … Read more
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Posted in Game, Girls on Nov 26th, 2012
Fishing for compliments is mostly a woman thing. ON AVERAGE, of course, ON AVERAGE. Men rarely engage in the activity; even very insecure men are loathe to fish for compliments. It’s such a transparently unmanly endeavor that the noodliest manboobs wince at the thought of begging like a chick for self-esteem boosts. The kinds of … Read more
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A commenter at Mangan’s linked to a recent 60 Minutes segment which discussed study findings that babies are born with a moral compass and innate biases against people (or things) not like themselves. In short, it would appear that in-groupism, and hostility to the Other, is inborn in all of us. Favoritism for one’s own … Read more
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Posted in Game, Girls, Guy Rules on Nov 20th, 2012
Women love to cavalierly toss out all-purpose smears like “creeper” and “stalker” to ear tag the beta males solemnly grazing around them who rumble a little too close to the edge of their pen enclosures, because a punchy insult is always preferable to a more articulate rationale for describing the ways in which the innocuous … Read more
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Posted in Alpha, Game, Guy Rules on Nov 19th, 2012
Reader Ace recalls some text and messaging conversations he had with a couple of girls: Conversation via facebook with ex (HB 8). I’m new to game and recently unplugged from the matrix. Me: Read through some old messages on MySpace. Fun stuff Her: O gosh. I can only imagine! Me:You had quite the attitude punk! And … Read more
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