X. Ignore her beauty
The man who trains his mind to subdue the reward centers of his brain when reflecting upon a beautiful female face will magically transform his interactions with women. His apprehension and self-consciousness will melt away, paving the path for more honest and self-possessed interactions with the objects of his desire. This is one reason why the greatest lotharios drown in more love than they can handle — through positive experiences with so many beautiful women they lose their awe of beauty and, in turn, their powerlessness under its spell. It will help you acquire the right frame of mind to stop using the words hot, cute, gorgeous, or beautiful to describe girls who turn you on. Instead, say to yourself “she’s interesting” or “she might be worth getting to know”. Never compliment a girl on her looks, especially not a girl you aren’t fucking. Turn off that part of your brain that wants to put them on pedestals. Further advanced training to reach this state of unawed Zen transcendence is to sleep with many MANY attractive women (try to avoid sleeping with a lot of ugly women if you don’t want to regress). Soon, a Jedi lover you will be.
The above is from the Sixteen Commandments of Poon. Readers have asked, not unreasonably, “Hey, I get it, being unperturbed by a woman’s beauty is rock solid inner game, but how am I supposed to do that?”
Good question! Unfortunately, the best answer is one that won’t help you when you need the help most. Only the accumulation of repeated beddings of beautiful women is guaranteed to instill in a man unflappable poise when in their company. Sexual experience with beautiful women strips them of their mystery and tempers their power to transfix.
This is not to say you will lose the ability to appreciate female beauty; only that a pretty face won’t be able to stupefy you into bumbling betaness anymore.
Fine, now how do you assume the right emotional state when you don’t yet have a wealth of experience handling beauties? As mentioned in the quoted passage above, refraining from the knee-jerk beta male reflex to loudly, or silently, declare this or that women to be hot, smokin’ hot, or fuckin’ insanely hot, start thinking and speaking of women in more subdued, less penilely loaded, terms; e.g., interesting, unique, endearingly comical.
This simple change of perception will help you immensely. You should even go out of your way to chide your beta buddies whenever they start yawping about some or another chick’s hotness. “Dude, chill on the compliments. She’s ok, nothing more.”
There is another technique that I have put to good use in helping me overlook a woman’s beauty. Whenever I’m approaching or talking to a hot babe, I reproduce this image in my head:
I remind myself that every woman has a penis head, aka cervix, pointing outwardly in her vagina to greet my own penis upon arrival. This visualization of hot women as storehouses for bulbous penis heads, by reducing them to their component biological parts, renders their beauty less fantastical, even a little silly. Imagine that cervical penis waiting to meet, glans-a-glans, your penis head in a romantic French kiss. A sword fight in the arena of her vagina.
I assure you, that if you plant this image in your head, you’ll never again be stunned into catatonia by a hot chick.
Gold.
Great advice
Some like ‘em skinny, some like ‘em round. Can’t tell the difference when you turn them upside down. (Credit to Dave Van Ronk)
Hahaha that picture. I already ignore their beauty. I’m based on the “Why women love men who play hard to get” post. Since that post encourages us to not talk to them first much. How do I show that I value them like “this post” and that is “normal beautyness and not hot”? DHVing, ignoring them etc. They may think it’s me being not aware of them being their.
Agreed.
Some of the best lines were “endearingly comical” and “a sword fight in the arena of her vagina”. Hilarious.
Gay.
Seriously. He could have used a better visual than dueling pork swords. Mashing penis heads as motivator?
And then he gave us the literal visual.
Yessir, you have to “humanize” these women and stop your brain from thinking they are somehow superhuman. Remember, they take messy shits too. They act like total cunts to their friends. Some have ugly, deformed labia. Some of them have hairy assholes. Some of them have big, weird, stretched out nipples. Some of them have godawful breath in the morning. Some of them are so fake that when you see them in the morning with no makeup you won’t recognize her.
Think of any of these things while you are talking to her. After a while, you start adopting the true mentality that she has to impress you or else she’s not worth the time. The fact is, that is true. Women are nearly worthless if you aren’t looking to have a baby. Their pussies are completely interchangeable. Men are the real prize, always have been, always will be. Men DO stuff.
Truer words…
Investing $ to fuck 10 or 100 (?) VIP-class prostitutes would work?
this is totally juvenile.
to resist good food, you don’t keep on thinking about poops because… well, that’s how it’s going to end up anyway.
actually when enjoying a good meal, I’m already envisioning the satisfying bowel movement to follow
Just get the point and use a dildo.
Can we part company after dinner?
Heh, heh… heh, heh… she said “poops”… heh, heh.
“Blue M&Ms, red M&M – they all come out the same colour in the end.” – Homer Simpson.
why ever resist good food??
Good, everyone has that glass-ceiling limit to what level of beauty they can be around without acting that way. Breaking through that glass-ceiling is what every man should aspire to.
I’m amazed yet disturbed
The Grande Heartiste
got a picture of…
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You are wrong. There would be florid encrustations if that were the case. The one pictured is much too pristine.
LOL – another way is to be a fag. Works all the time!
For you
that’s easy
you’re Irish
Actually, it’s England that’s based on a kind of fagdom.
I like your new “ee cummings/haiku” format.The birth of a shtick.
Beautiful women know it’s all a bit of an act – when they go out wearing a loose clothing & no makeup, guys don’t take a second look at them. I always zoom in on whatever flaw I notice – weird nose, funny looking earlobes, zit, whatever, they’re already self-conscious about it.
Also whatever you do, do not look down at cleavage not even for a micro-instant. Drives em crazy.
Always make a note of her flaws. She’ll clue in to your frame and work that much harder to impress you. And that’s where you want to be.
This is why I wear mirrored aviators EVERYWHERE.
No, seriously, though. Hard as it is to see them as fellow humans, they are, in fact, humans, if in actuality children of a larger growth.
A man of good sense humors them, charms them, as if he were talking to a sprightly and forward child.
Women love to be dabbling in business (which they invariably spoil) but a man of good sense neither talks to them of, nor trusts them with, serious matters.
– Philip Stanhope, 3rd Earl of Chesterfield, Irish Lord-Lieutenant
As has been said many times before, knowing that her looks will start a steep decline in 2-3 years also helps to keep your head level.
They say a way to conquer the universal fear of public speaking is to imagine the audience naked. This is, well, a rather graphic and interesting twist on that idea.
“Imagine that cervical penis waiting to meet, glans-a-glans, your penis head in a romantic French kiss. A sword fight in the arena of her vagina.”
I have the weirdest boner right now……
I never understood the “imagine she’s an ugly piece of garbage covered in her own feces and vomiting into her own vagina” line of thinking. I don’t want to make a super hot girl ugly, how’m I supposed to enjoy fucking her when I land her with visions of that running through my head lol
Not ignoring good looks is one handicap I gladly choose to play with.
Most repulsively, their cunts bleed spontaneously. Never forget their curse; it defines who they are.
KUATO IS MY WINGMAN.
Of all the 16 commandments – this, and keeping state, is the hardest one to follow.
Meeting a 9 or a 10, on the rare times I’ve interacted with them turn me into a mawkish slobbering buffoon. Subconsciously, I am trying to impress them in a puppy-like manner. I run anti-Game like Leisure Suit Larry at these times.
Good job I’m courting an 8 – any higher and all that hidden beta would emerge, like the alien out of John Hurt’s stomach.
Unrelated:
A healthy mix of Stockholm syndrome and murderous hatred for a beta husband….
http://www.thestar.com/news/article/1114925–man-brutally-tortured-by-his-wife-and-her-boyfriend-in-toronto-apartment
one man, confined to a closet and brutally tortured, physically, sexually and psychologically, over the course of three months.
His body cut with razor blades and beaten with hammers and broom handles until they broke. Lighter fluid poured over his skin, and then set on fire. Cartilage ripped from his ears with a pair of pliers. Pins pierced through his lips, sealing his mouth. Bleeding wounds cauterized with hot knives or sewn up with a needle and thread.
Those responsible for the horrific abuse were the man’s own wife and her new boyfriend.
Thank god I I´m now old enough to see how ridiculous not only the mating game is, but especially their “players”.
Involuntary or not.
I never understood how guys who had sisters, or at least older sisters as I did, could ever turn into a pedastalizer of women…
Another way to enable you to look over their beauty is to acknowledge it with “you’re a very attractive women, but you’re just not my type and i can’t figure out why?” and look them over with a discerning/critical look.
Make yourself the chooser and be very choosy. Almost like you’re buying a guitar. Sure it looks great, but how does it play (the action, the ‘feel’ in your hands and up against your body, the sound), how heavy is it etc. Ask them “what else ya got?”.
(most) Pussy is Pussy.
Well this is a seriously disturbing post.
Talk about something I’d have been just as happy to never visualize.
I’m already pretty good at not reacting outwardly to hot women, I think I’d have to become 96% more psycho to visualize that.
Thinking about them pointy elbows always works.
Step one is getting over that physical rush and feeling stunned and in awe of beauty. Step two is no longer reacting emotionally to being looked down upon with disdain by beauty.
It’s natural to let other’s “put us in our place”, but it’s also beta. A man puts himself in his own place, and others can either accept his status or not. If you’ve fucked a bunch of girls as pretty as the model who is snubbing you, or better yet are currently fucking some, you’re less likely to let other peoples valuations affect your self evaluation. And more likely to view her negative evaluation as either ephemeral or inconsequential. There is a pleasure in laughing at gold plated cunts.
Or do what I do. Picture her farting under the covers or dropping a duece.
Picture her sucking on your massive cock with all her might…
Good advice. But certain female faces produce a chemical reaction in my brain that I don’t think I’ll ever be able to get over. My problem is Eastern European/ Russian women with high cheekbones. When I see woman like that I literally become helpless, I feel a burning sensation in my brain, my entire body becomes numb. I don’t even have an urge to fuck these woman, its just like total cognitive shutdown when I see their face. I don’t get this with American and Western European women, even the hottest, I really want to bang them, but I don’t get debilitating chemical reaction in my brain. Some examples of Eastern European facial perfection:
Aletta Ocean (pornstar):
http://img.listal.com/image/1862851/600full-aletta-ocean.jpg
Brigitta Bulgari (pornstar):
http://s11.allstarpics.net/images/orig/f/p/fp67o7e6tdbjt6bo.jpg
Angel Dark (pornstar):
http://s11.allstarpics.net/images/orig/7/u/7u25fm26pnp0702p.jpg
Alina Kabaeva (Putin’s mistress and Olympian):
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-fIRX9hvEkTw/TgbeaQVkZEI/AAAAAAAAFMk/pUpXpxqOLPo/s1600/Alina%2BKabaeva%2B-%2B1.jpg
I actually have a headache now from searching for those pictures. Alletta Ocean, in particular, makes my head feel like its gonna explode. There is just no possible way I can train my brain to stop the chemical responses I get to cheekbones like that.
[heartiste: i agree with you about aletta. she would test even my resolve.]
Careful about aletta, make-up+myspace angle+photoshop. I learned to be skeptical of unreal beauties.Turns out I’m right:
http://www.woodmanforum.com/girls/aletta-ocean-t2361.html
This, plus the fact that she’s a cumdumpster, would definitely keep me unflustered.
But I remember a few chicks with little make-up who had the same effect on me as aletta’s first picture, there’s a point where you just have to pray that the god of alphas won’t let you down.
Jesus, talk about cleaning up well. I wonder how many other very plain looking women with some makeup and plastic surgery could look too.
Repeal obamacare and replace it with pornstar care: free & mandated plastic surgery for all young women who aren’t already an 8 or better.
Would make the world a better place.
here’s a video for you.
http://youtu.be/zQwqepW97zs
A woman making a series of feminist videos explains the real reason to hate Twilight. It’s because Edward is a creepy Beta. Notice what what she doesn’t say…
That made me shudder, well done. Big hard clits get me disgusted as well.
Heartiste,
You’re trying to help men ignore women’s beauty, not turn them off sex completely… right?
I imagine its stench the day before the red tide.
Problem solved.
lzozozozoz
hey heartistse how did you get a picture of me before i had my tonsisls out? lzozozlolz
This post reminds me of an image I’ve long used to similar effect.
I once saw a Japanese Beetle trap being used to keep that invasive species away from an apple tree. These traps attract Japanese Beetles with a combination of sex pheromones and a sweet smell that smells like food to them.
This particular trap had a transparent plastic bag at the bottom to catch the japanese beetles as they got caught, so I could see following astoundingly disgusting sight:
Hundreds of beetles trapped in the bag in the hot sun, writhing helplessly over each other. The ones on the bottom had already turned into a black liquidy pulp.
Ever since seeing that, I think of it whenever I see a strip joint or similar establishment designed to trick human males into parting with their hard-earned cash in return for the superficial promise of sex.
Be smarter than those beetles, men.
OMG so true about strip clubs. I have never been to one, but I had a similar incident. In a moment of weakness, last year I blew $40 on a webcam site to a particularly charming (hustling) cam girl. Such a huge mistake even though it was a good show. For several days after that, I felt like such a chump for parting ways with my money to some internet whore who was good enough to hustle me out of my money. First time and last time I spend money on anything sex related. No strippers, no paid porn, no escorts.
Last week I stumbled onto strippers forums. Strippers understand the SMP like no others. They understand that the hottest strippers usually make the most money, and that their time in that industry is limited. The women on the forum genuinely loath the men that frequent their clubs and do whatever they can to take those mens’ money. They trade tips on how to hustle as much money they can. Then know exactly what to say and do to have men eating out of the palm of their hands. They make a genuine sport of preying on depressed, lonely, or horny men. It was an eye opening experience to see how overtly whorish women can be, how woman are programmed to manipulate men out of their money. Its unbelievable that full time strippers are hustling men to the tune of $250k a year, and you have college girls working on the weekends for $50k a year. I can’t believe men are willing to part with that much money to gets some tits and ass shaken in their face. If you are going to pay, at least get your dick wet, quality escorts can be had for $200-$300, rather than a stripper that in her mind is laughing at you in her mind that you are dumb enough to pay her(which they do, read the forums, they think you are a complete joke). Reading it really changed my opinion of women, making me realize that sex is a war and the SMP is a battlefield. You have to be the smarter gender, you must “trick” the woman into having sex with you without you paying anything. Because if you aren’t the smarter one, the woman will most assuredly sucker the money out of you, whether in the form of being a stripper, or a marriage and divorce, you will pay in the end as the dumb, vulnerable beta male that you are. Don’t be the victim, be the victor.
If you need some motivation to go game some women hard and seek sexual vengeance against a hypergamous, manipulative, ruthless female species, read this:
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/forum.php
Sage advice kids. Be sure to listen up. A key mindset, is “I Don’t Give A Fuck”. Damoan(spelling) from Fast Times said it best, “wherever you are that ‘s the place to be.” i’ve had many hot broads tell me it’s all about confidence. Just be cool, keep your battle armor tight and it’ll come. And anoniface is right, don’t acknowledge thier titties and soon you’ll be mackin on em!!!
Our dear host chose the cleanest cervix for understandable purposes.
But here is the ugly truth:
http://www.beautifulcervix.com/cervix-photo-galleries/photos-of-cervix/
The pedestal is an old memory for me, but I’lI keep days 1 to 4 in mind.
You may have heard that the ideal woman is a beauty who is unaware of her beauty, because stunning attractiveness does so much to warp a woman’s personality beyond repair. That’s the wisdom of this post. Your lack of “fluster” (and your negs, and your passed shit-tests) forces a woman to reconsider the power of her attractiveness, softening her up to becoming more suggestible than she otherwise would be.
Good news is, women are naturally insecure about their appearance, even despite (or because of) all the beta fawning. I love this video. It is hard for men to fathom what it means to be judged by appearance, instantly and constantly. Women’s virtue is in the appearance department, always has been, always will be. They are the object that is gazed upon. So unfair, so subjective, because even the most gorgeous creatures have their bad angles, their missteps.
[ignore the men’s testimony, of course]
Being beautiful means walking a tightrope forever as an object of simultaneous envy, scorn, and lust. Everybody always judges her; even if positively, it is still judgment, a violation, a seizure of control. And “positive” judgments are fraught with psychological complications. She cannot complain! She can hardly explore the downside of beauty, not even in private, for fear of being self-absorbed and ridiculous, so it remains an unspoken lonely drag on her soul. She knows how tenuous her chief asset is, and she intuits her own sell-by date. Insecurity goes with the territory.
When you are unflustered, you touch a deep psychic chord in her, as if to say, “I know who you saw in the mirror before you went out, and you might be fooling the rest of these schlubs, but you can’t fool me.”
in fact i watched it a 2nd time with the sound off. their comments and the crying girl’s pain distracted me from appreciating the full impact of their beauty, thus buttressing your point that they’re objects to be gazed at.
abracadabra, i’m a homo. i’m off to tell chicks how terrible their shoes are
Goddamn it this post was to effective. Come to think of it, imagining a girld taking an asshole burning, toilet destroying shit is kind of hilarious to me. But the thought a tiny dickhead hidden in every vagina… whatever was left of my pedestal has been smashed into a fine powder.
If you are an old fart you can visualize them aging, like a flip book, right in front of your eyes. It can be unnerving.
And while brothel surfing, as some have suggested, is one way to desensitize yourself, learning ballroom dance – tango, foxtrot, waltz, the Charleston – will put you in close physical contact with lots of women. You will develop a healthy tolerance to the pheromones they excrete that normally stupefy you.
True words in this article.
Th thing is, too many guys insist on making obvious shows of their admiration for her “beauty.” At which point she knows he is a supplicant, and no good to her genetically. The guys who get me the most are the ones who do things like wolf-whistles. At that point, women know they have the power.
There is a sort of zen to ignoring women. You can not have the thing if you desire the thing. It takes some practice, some meditation, some self-discipline to do it. But after a while, you find it becomes second nature, then first nature. At which point women will start approaching you.
Of course, this will not happen over night.
…On the other hand, this gives women with penis envy something to be happy about.