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The Woe Of The Ugly Woman

This is a sad story. I don’t intend any mean-spiritedness by telling you all this story. My shiv is sheathed. My purpose in passing along this real life anecdote is to expose the heartlessness of the sexual market so that you and those you love can know the monster who stalks you till the end. You won’t defeat this monster, but you can avoid accidentally stepping into its maw before your time.

A lanky White woman hit on me once. She was thin, but ugly. At the time, I rebuffed her plausibly-concealed solicitation. Over the months that followed, I would see her occasionally, here and there, around our itty bitty city, usually alone or working at a service job. The months turned into a few years. Still, I would catch glimpses of her every so often, working different low-pay service jobs.

I left the city, but my travels would take me back there sometimes, for month-long stays. Again, and weirdly coincidental, I saw her about town. And again, she was working in the service industry. Job-hopping from one middling wage outpost to another had become her lifestyle. Still ugly, but now older too.

In all these incidental path-crossings, I’d sometimes catch a look of recognition sweep across her face, but not always. I nonetheless pretended not to recognize her.

I would always feel sad when I saw her, because I knew if she were more attractive her life would be very different. A man of means would have scooped her up years ago, rescued her from that wage slave crush of unmarried despair, and given her the life so many women dream about as little girls. The house, the yard, the children, the comfort, the sense that the future is safe and secured and she is loved….all of it would have been hers if the God of Biomechanics had been more generous to her when the spark of life was breathed into her earthly story.

No pretty girl suffers the indignities of the callous job market for long. Men value female beauty so much they will bend metal with their minds if it can give them a hot girlfriend or wife. To rescue a fetching minx from soulkilling drudgery and sweep her into the good life is in fact many men’s fantasy.

If the woman of my anecdote were prettier, she could be that happy effervescent lady from the suburbs who picks up her coffee and pities the poor sub-prime ugly woman behind the counter taking her payment.

In the final abacus, sometimes all the difference between hell and heaven is a few millimeters of facial bone structure.

I can never stop forgetting this banal, gutter-bound ugly truth, which is why, even in my sincerest moments of heavenward yearning, I’m compelled to scoff at anything greater than this dirty muck which shackles us.

388 Responses to “The Woe Of The Ugly Woman”

  1. some guy says:

    If she’s single, it’s her fault for not settling. There are plenty of thirsty betas who would settle for a butterface like her. I certainly would have in my blue pill days.

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    • pdwalker says:

      And that’s the fault of feminism, that sick ideology that seeks to destroy families and peoples happiness.

      (I’m assuming this woman doesn’t look as bad as cigstache)

      [CH: not as bad as cigstache, but not attractive in any way that would catch the eye of a man who had anything on the ball.]

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    • There’s a whole helluva lotta tragedy in this world.

      As always, my advice for the female lurkers chez Le Chateau is “Oops! Pregnancy FTW”.

      You may get only one shot at peak Alpha Shitlord seed in this life, so carpe diem.

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      • tomjones says:

        In my experience, pretty girls have the best face/body AND the best personalities.
        Ugly hideous bitches have ugly hideous personalities or okay personalities. I think there is a connection between the physical beauty of the person and the beauty of the soul. Ugly ones still hope that an attractive man will get them pregnant. Then, they can trap the guy.

        [CH: correct. it’s a big myth that hot girls are all bitches. some are, sure, but on the whole pretty girls are nicer than ugly girls. if a woman is treated well her whole life because she’s pretty she’ll tend to think the world is a great place full of kindness and love. a lot of betas confuse hot girl rejection for bitchiness, when in reality most hot girls reject men in exceedingly polite terms. its the fugs and marginal girls who are nasty bitches when they reject the betas they think aren’t in their league.]

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      • 88 says:

        CH is dead on with this entire comment. especially this part:

        “in reality most hot girls reject men in exceedingly polite terms. its the fugs and marginal girls who are nasty bitches when they reject the betas they think aren’t in their league”

        my experience to be sure.
        the hottest girls are always the best at letting you know they aren’t interested. and in general i have better manners, more femininity, and sweeter personalities than their uglier counterparts. no crass language, sarcasm, or bitchy facial expressions. overall much nicer to be around.

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      • 88 says:

        *they have better manners…

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      • mendo says:

        Can’t stop laughing at this picture:

        “Who wore it better?”…hahaha

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        > “I think there is a connection between the physical beauty of the person and the beauty of the soul.” ——— Biological Calvinism. Your hindbrain evolved to sense inner beauty/hideousness from outer beauty/hideousness.

        BTW, this is why the Skypes are always pushing some “Beauty is only Skin Deep” horsesh!t – because the Skypes now d@mned well how hideous they are physically, which, in turn, is because our hindbrains evolved to warn us of how hideous they are spiritually.

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        Skypes Know d@mned well

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      • Matamoros says:

        As far as the “beauty is only skin deep”, I like the rejoinder, “But ugliness is bone deep.”

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      • Ayy Bola says:

        I think it’s the grind of living life as a lesser man that makes ugly women so bitter. I too have noticed that attractive women are exceedingly polite, and dare I say, nice. Even to a schlub like me they’re nothing but smiles. It’s the other ones though, the ones who are fat or have unfortunate faces who act the worst, are always grumpy and mean.

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      • evilwhitemalempire says:

        “In my experience, pretty girls have the best face/body AND the best personalities.
        Ugly hideous bitches have ugly hideous personalities or okay personalities.”
        ———————
        Women will catch flies with honey….if they have honey to catch them with.

        If they don’t have honey they WILL use vinegar instead.

        But what goes unquestioned is the idea that women have the right to catch flies to begin with.

        And on that the attractive women and the unattractive are of one mind.

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      • haunted trilobite says:

        Quality comment from evilwhiteempire

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      • Lord of the Gulf Stream says:

        It’s almost as if Good Breeding Rings True.

        Yes, you SHOULD judge a book by its cover.

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    • hans says:

      VERY much this.
      I see the most ugly hideous creatures, veritable manatees getting “the ring” by some inevitably lanky beta.

      The very fact she hit on H shows that even the ugly ones still are entitled as fuck, that they believe to be deserving of the hottest guys.

      [CH: i wouldn’t say that she hit on me as much as that she behaved in a way that revealed desirous feelings.]

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    • Anonymous says:

      CH is trolling bro…

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      • Jolly Jaded Jurist says:

        Incorrect. He’s entirely measured in his storytelling. Were he trolling, he’d exaggerate, not mitigate.

        [CH: i wasn’t trolling.]

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    • My first girlfriend (we were in our late teens) was smart but unattractive (lumpish, face of an enraged fruit bat, etc.), and she knew that I was slumming, even if I had too little self-esteem to know that I was. I was twisted and morbid enough to think that there was something strangely “beautiful” about her, because she was glib, and witty in her insults. In reality, she was ugly on the inside as well as out, with a complete lack of aesthetic sense, and my general assessment all these years later is that she hated beauty because she had none of it, and was determined to destroy me so that I would not find any beauty for myself. I was foolish enough to believe that I owed something to her in the way of commitment because of the perfunctory sex we had. I will never forget the misery and hopelessness of the two years I spent with her. I thank God I escaped.

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  2. nads says:

    I didn’t follow his advice, but Jimmy Soul’s advice for some.

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    • Days of Broken Arrows says:

      A better (if totally obscure) oldie about this topic is the girl group number “Better Get What Goes For You” by Margie and the Formation. The idea behind the song is that you should learn to punch your weight, as the British like to say. Margie went on to sing backup on some ELO tunes. The song is on YouTube.

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    • Sorcerygod says:

      I recall seeing a cute girl at my university sitting alone, almost as if she was waiting to be swooped up. Her cushions seemed a mile wide to me, but no guy approached to sit down beside her.

      Part of the niceness of the cuties might be because so few guys — of any caliber — seek them out out of intimidation.

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  3. nads says:

    I can’t speak to it, but Jimmy Soul’s advice works for some.

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  4. nads says:

    I can’t speak to his advice, but this works for some:

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    • I hear people like Ron Paul and others railing against “printing money out of thin air” and can’t help but wonder if it’s just a psy-op.

      My grandfather, quoting Social Credit theory, said for years that government has the sovereign right to create money and that under central reserve systems created around 1917 in both Canada and the United States this power was usurped by private banks and Skype financiers.

      The SoCred parties in Canada, led by Bible Bill Aberhart in Alberta and Réal Caouette in Queerbeck long campaigned against the skypes and restoring the power of government to “create” money as a credit, rather than as a debt, which it is now. Apparently JFK tried to wrest this power away from da Fed and paid the ultimate price. I imagine if Trump tried to “de-Bernankify” (gbfm), the system, he’d meet a similar fate. But if anyone’s got the balls to try it, it’d be the EGK.

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      • Social Credit is a sham just like every other economic theory that purports, 0+yada yada yada= free utopia. I went down the rabbit hole on that years ago because hey I wanted something for nothing. And the final result is that social credit is just that: nothing.

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      • Agree. I dont know if it’s any more complicated than “The sovereign needs to create exactly as much money as the size of the wealth in the economy, so that people can exchange without having to resort to barter. And ban using silver, gold or anything else because if f*cks with the standard medium of exchange. And ban charging interest on a loan”.

        The problem comes when the sovereign (((wants to go to war))), and doesnt have the money. Then here come the money-lenders.

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  5. Ben says:

    I admire your compassion. I’ve felt the same way about women like this, especially the nice ones. And it makes me despise even more the many conceited heartless attractive ones. They’ve earned nothing and deserve nothing. Needless to say, I’ve been burned mercilessly. This info wasn’t available 25 years ago. Was an 8.5, smart, & athletic, but too nice and not a jerk (sorry, “confident” as the whores put it).

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    • Ben says:

      I wanted to add: “…especially the nice ones, and most of these types are nice.”

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        Dude, I’d make b@beez with an HB4 who had a heart of gold rather than dip it in an HB8 who was a w!tch.

        [Sadly, I’m not into hate-f*cks.]

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    • haunted trilobite says:

      Pity, compassion, etc, notwithstanding, the stats still approximate that 80% of women throughout history have reproduced, while only 60% of males have.

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  6. Njguy73 says:

    I have a story. It’s called “The Ugly Woman.”

    Once upon a time, there was a woman. She was so ugly, everyone died.

    The end.

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  7. tteclod says:

    If you aren’t maintaining a façade for one jealous woman who insists upon monogamy, why wouldn’t you pity-fuck the fit-but-ugly girl?

    If she’s not a slut, works hard, and plays by the rules, AND – CRITICALLY – IF YOUR INCOME IS SUFFICIENT, why not add her to the rotation. She might appreciate you more than the “average” chick, and, I think, keep the hot chicks you juggle guessing what motivates you.

    Just a thought.

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    • Sentient says:

      “why wouldn’t you pity-fuck the fit-but-ugly girl?”

      Doing the dark lord’s work?

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      • That might have been the really cruel thing though. It can be easy to mess with their minds too much.

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      • oink says:

        somebody did mess up her mind as she never “settled” for a fitting partner and she made pass at Maitre

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      • tteclod says:

        There’s a great line from the movie, “The Replacements.”

        “Pain heals. Chicks dig scars. Glory last forever.”

        There’s an “Ode to Butterface” in there somewhere.

        Besides, given enough years, all beauty fades. Better to have a few ugly children among your brood than fewer children altogether, all other things equal.

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        I agree with tteclod: Mercy-f*ck the he11 outta the b!tch, and if you get some bast@rd spawn out of her, well, it strengthens your bloodline’s long-term chances for success in The Great Darwinian Petri Dish Wars.

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  8. Ratko Spankman says:

    And to think there are so many beautiful women who get swooped up eagerly…yet have souls dirtier than a hobo’s boot. Such is the irony of the sexual marketplace tapestry.

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  9. […] The Woe Of The Ugly Woman […]

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  10. oink says:

    opens beer

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  11. Sentient says:

    CH mod is strong today…

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  12. I would say that being a less attractive woman is not as bad as being an ordinary single middle class man in his 50s or above who is in all essence invisible to women below the age of 40. At least unattractive women will occasionally get men who are interested in them should they socialise often and go out a lot.

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    • Sentient says:

      Set about becoming extraordinary Ollie. It doesn’t take much.

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    • Seems that self loathing beta males even prefer plain and ugly women. Jeb! for instance. They’re low self esteem won’t allow them to seek better quality.

      A bunch of internet beta boys have celebrity crushes on plain jane Emma Watson. Same thing at work IMO.

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      • Njguy73 says:

        Regarding the lanky-but-ugly woman CH described in the post:

        If she played Hermione Granger, she’d be on the Maxim 100.

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      • 88 says:

        yep. as long as someone in charge says she’s hot, the masses will believe it.

        funny you should mention maxim. have had a subscription for years but have been noticing how they are becoming a sell out like all the rest. politically correct articles and pushing us to accept all the fat and uglies as hot and whatnot.

        recently saw a post of theirs with kristen stewart and a shaved head. it was titled.. KRISTEN STEWART SHAVED HER HEAD, STILL LOOKS HOT AS HELL

        nasty as hell is more like it
        sad times

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      • haunted trilobite says:

        Also 88, in one edition lying in the barbers (july 2016,if memory serves), a feminist manifesto pushing abortion, endorsed by tom hanks and emma watsin.

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      • Oleaginous Outrager says:

        Good ol’ Emma and her strange inability to muster an actual smile. I understand some people don’t know what to do with their hands in social situations, but to not know what to do with your face?

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      • Random Guy says:

        So Post-Trump getting elected Kristin Stewart Decides to dye her hair blonde and go all “skinhead”?

        Hamster showing what she really wants?

        Does Kristin Stewart really wish she were a racist Aryan Goddess?

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    • Captain Obvious says:

      > “being an ordinary single middle class man in his 50s or above who is in all essence invisible to women below the age of 40” ——— Went to a funeral recently, and saw a dude like that, whom I hadn’t seen in several decades, and who had been a total stud [physically] as an undergrad. But now he’s dead in the water. Face all withered. Dies his hair black. Spoke like a woman [even inflected his voice like a woman]. The sight of him was gut-wrenching, and bothered me for several days.

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      • stevetirone says:

        That’s almost entirely his own f#cking fault. No pity for him. We’re actually talking about this on the operating instructions on how not to be like that.

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        I agree that ultimately we’re all responsible for our own fates, but that doesn’t mean that we can’t feel heartache for dudes whose lives unravelled and fell apart and they’re completely broken and it’s probably way too late now for them to pick up the pieces and turn it all around.

        I’m starting to get that gut-wrenching feeling again. I gotta stop thinking about this.

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      • Diversity Is Good says:

        Why didn’t you go and talk to him, find out what happened, and point him in the right direction —> here? He’s not dead. He can still get something better going in his life, with encouragement. WTF?

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      • stevetirone says:

        You know what, Capt’n, I get your point and now I’m overcome by a wave of remorse.

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    • MKKBY says:

      You are SO WRONG, Oliver. I just saw a fat ugly 60 YO, no money, low paying service job… with his 25 YO live in GF. She’s only a 6, but very sweet and feminine. A good catch for a young beta, but they can’t compete.

      My grandfather has a GF 20 years his junior. My brother in law has a GF 30 years his junior. Neither are handsome, rich or famous.

      Man up, dude

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    • kuchak says:

      I think being an ordinary single middle class woman in her ’50s or above is worse.

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    • Ces says:

      To be honest I have had much much more success with women much younger than myself during my 50s. I have never…. a woman older than 39..Take care of your self physically and it’s not difficult at all to get younger women.
      .

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  13. dosaaf says:

    A tearful story.

    I was even expecting a photo with a “That’s why we need feminism” sign at the end.

    World is a cruel place. Beautiful women start on the top of the pile, slowly sliding down with every year, to join the ugliest one somewhere at the bottom at their 70s. Men start at the bottom, and slowly go all the way up, Sisyphus style.

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    • safespaceplaypen says:

      “Men start at the bottom, and slowly go all the way up, Sisyphus style.”

      nah lol I wouldn’t be that optimistic. more like: 80% stay at teh bottom, 15% go up a little bit, 4% go up a lot, and 1% go up all the way baby

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      • dosaaf says:

        Never sad each one of us will reach the top, only that we all can put effort toward it. Women can only word hard to slide slower.

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    • How about saying that men are in their prime between 22-35 and then it is a more gradual descent to the wall in late 40s early 50s.

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      • Laguna Beach Fogey says:

        Life only gets better for men. Stay fit. Be interesting. Take care of yourself. Dress well. I’ve known, and see, many older men in their 40s-60s with younger wives or GFs, and even kids in some cases. It can be done.

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      • dosaaf says:

        A man never hits a wall. But he cat quit and call it a life.

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      • Sentient says:

        Fuck off Ollie… Trust us, at 50 life is grander than you can imagine… you are at a peak – mature, wise, fit, status, money, abundance – and mad game. I feel sorry for the 27YO “bros” who have literally half (or an 1/8th) of what I have. They cannot compete.

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      • Tarl says:

        A man will only hit the wall if he lets himself. Sure, most of them do, and that’s why there are so many broken down flabby fucks in their 40s and 50s. A man in his 50s who dresses well, is fit, and has game will certainly stand out from this lame crowd.

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      • Greg Eliot says:

        What Sentient said… if you stay fit and have your health… and haven’t pissed your money-earning years away on not having a solid occupation…, life is pretty damn good after 40 and well onward.

        That whole “hope I die before I get old” bollocks is just wet-behind-the-ears punkspeak… hell, even Townshend admitted it. 😉

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      • bolg says:

        or, in the wise words of a 29 yo m@rried chick i currently associate with:

        don’t you have at least one nice thing to say to me? my husband is such a GOOD MAN, why am I doing this? we should stop. yes, yes, yes, don’t stop.

        i’m 46, so no, not an age thing.

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      • Vanamee says:

        “Life doesn’t begin for a man until he’s 30.”
        – Roosh

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        dosaaf
        A man never hits a wall. But he cat quit and call it a life.””””””’

        yea i met a lot of dudes over 60 who completely started their lives over from nothing but pain

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        but those a biased example they went to war to change there lives that ain’t most
        just found out 52 year old (one of) boyfriend of my ex ex’s mom who she basically stopped seeing died
        yesterday
        which is wierd cause the movie i was told to watch the mom of the dudes girlfriend died
        dude told my ex ex he loved her on facebook she lived there a few days
        always death around the ex ex
        getting a bit freaky bodies just stacking up
        ex ex’s husband dad died his brother died
        chick she stopped cleaning for died
        wtf

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        in the movie the mom of the dudes girlfriends boyfriend died

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        guess got to be careful reaching for stars if ya don’t get it could just die i guess

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        i think guys die from straight up neglect have nothing
        whereas chicks like my ex ex mom still got dudes after em

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        new info he was with a young girl i guess at bar said he couldn’t breath and died at the bar

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        “new info he was with a young girl i guess at bar said he couldn’t breath and died at the bar” ——— Probably just about exactly how he would have wanted to depart this life. Sippin’ on an adult beverage with a nice young piece of trim on his arm. Life [and Death] could be a whole heckuva lot worse than that.

        “getting a bit freaky bodies just stacking up” ——— Make sure your body isn’t one of them.

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        yea doesn’t seem to bad a way to go
        and yea it seems i’ll be alive as long as whatever looking out for me keeps doing it

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        ex had dude die like that too allthough after sex guess he was having some probs
        she left he died of stroke

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  14. Vice says:

    Sometimes they lash out though. Conversation I had with a not so attractive girl after I (a studly military aviation officer) added a bunch of people in the next area for my training for purposes of gathering intel for going out:

    Girl: Hi do I know you? 🙂

    Me: Nope! moving to [city] in a few months and added a bunch of people from [local university] pages I found with the intention of asking them about the area (places to go, hangout spots, avoiding the hood, etc.). Don’t have time to ask the questions now but feel free to ignore the request, I might already have enough people 🙂

    Girl: Well, aren’t you just a douchey ray of sunshine.

    Me: no need to be rude, hope things get better for you.

    She wasn’t that attractive and I genuinely wanted to get a few ideas on where to go out so I woudn’t waste time when I got there. I’m not used to people being rude to me but then again I tend to avoid interactions with losers.

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    • Bon says:

      Poor cunt. What kind of animal would snark at such a sincere message? This creature is low. Pity it.

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    • 88 says:

      some of them are just nasty no matter what you say. sounds you handled it well. even if you don’t hear from her again, she needed to hear that. no chance of them ever improving their behavior if no one calls them out on that shiz.

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    • haunted trilobite says:

      Technically it was an online communication, rather than a conversation. A hot girl is as wont to be snippy online as a bargoyle with a face like a blistered pisspot.

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    • Greg Eliot says:

      You didn’t kiss her ass immediately and acted like it was a complete matter of indifference to you whether she hung around or not.

      Rude? Brother, you ain’t heard nuthin’ yet from the go-grrl crowd.

      I’m surprised at her marked restraint. 😉

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  15. I keep FB just to keep in touch with all mu far flung military buddies… and to watch a few train wrecks in real time, out of morbid fascination. There’s one, a turbo slut, who was an 8 but is now hitting the wall at 31, slowly but surely. It’s sad that she squanderd her best years and is now an alpha widow. She posted somwthing today about how strong women don’t settle. Sorry hun, you’ll probably have to at this point. Would it be white knighting to say we’ve failed women like this in the sense that we haven’t provided the patriarchal framework to shepherd them properly? It’s almost as if you can’t blame women for their actions because they’re not the complete humans that men are.

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    • Captain Obvious says:

      > “Would it be white knighting to say we’ve failed women like this in the sense that we haven’t provided the patriarchal framework to shepherd them properly?” ——— Certainly, now that we know (((what we’re up against))), moving forward from here, we’re failing them. At this point, any Red-Pilled dude who lets a sister/cousin/daughter/grand-daughter be poisoned like this is a dude who has FAILED.

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  16. Adolf Herzl says:

    Cheer up. Think of all the compatible SMV men she spurned along the genetic dead end road.

    We stand in the way of our own happiness.

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    • -A says:

      Even when they are nice, women can be amazingly self centered. The nice ones only take you aback when you get to know them (unless you know women). While she perhaps did turn many down, I wonder if it is because of one simple lacking: masculine men. I wonder if ONLY thirsty lanky betas went after her and no dock workers, construction workers, gang members whateves. Would she have settled then?

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  17. -A says:

    The reason pretty women are cunts is because their place is constantly being criticized by contemporary anti-culture. Women are more traditionalist and elitist than they will ever admit to themselves. They have biological imperatives just like men and they have more at their disposal to secure the natural hierarchy among their sex. At the same time, they are numbed and blinded to their own natures by following their instincts. Just a half century ago, fit-but-ugly would be a chamber maid to the pretty wife, partially out of pity for her gutter life. If they focus on how well things turn out for them, they don’t have to focus on a problem they can’t fix (which is an eternal feedback loop to women) and can focus on their own lives. For once. Instead of everybody else’s as women are wont to do.

    As long as you have a woman’s loyalty, her cuntiness is not your concern. There is nothing more cruel, vicious, callous, dank or animalistic than a woman’s id. Actually, ever play Dishonored 2? White Women remind me of the Blood Flies. A beautiful force of nature, dangerous in swarms, can birth an army quickly if nested by the right warm bodies, turn your blood into jewelry if you fall by their claw. Makes taming them clear that Alpha is Godliness.

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    • Carlos Danger says:

      Pretty women are only cunts in nations where they are in short supply. There are nations where you differentiate them from others based on character and personality. No shit.

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  18. Enfant Terrible says:

    Ugly can be mitigated by having a healthy, fit body, plus nice teeth and hair.

    A healthy, young body signals fertility, and subconsciously, men will be attracted to it. Unless it’s a total hideous, deformed face, that is repellent to look at.

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    • Matamoros says:

      I guess that’s where the saying, “put a flag on her face and do it for Old Glory”, originated.

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  19. jsolbakken says:

    Great post and great comments. I would just like to add that one of the reasons that less attractive women might be finding it harder to get a mate is because all women have too much rights and too much power. I myself am totally MGTOW and will not subjugate my self for any woman, no matter how beautiful or otherwise wonderfully good. But other men might be willing to accept a less than beautiful woman if they weren’t so corrupt with power and rights. That’s what us MGTOW mean when we say that the juice ain’t worth the squeeze.

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    • oink says:

      no

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      • Vagina dominator says:

        “That’s what us MGTOW mean when we say that the juice ain’t worth the squeeze.”

        Then you’re squeezing too hard. There’s just a certain amount of juice and squeezing harder doesn’t help.

        Squeeze it. Drink the juice. Move on.

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  20. martin says:

    I can’t say I have much pity for her oddly. It’s not as if we here pity men who are in a similar circumstance. You can go on all you like about women being worth more in the sexual market but a person is still a person after all.

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  21. Wilson says:

    trapped by the “just be yourself” like beta males, plastic surgery could make a difference, top bitches don’t hesitate to go under the knife, but they are past the point of diminishing returns

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  22. Hans Gruber says:

    This explains the genius of the Convent. It is not good for man – or woman – to be alone.

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  23. The phsycial reprimands that men used to give women (excluding the truly abusive ones of course) were actually acts of love. Few understand this

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    • Captain Obvious says:

      And the ultimate “reprimand” [act of l0ve] was the exquisite pain and infinite ecstasy of pushing out a natural ch!ldbirth [no epidural, no caesarean]. Women are a seething cauldron of conflicting hormones and they need a nice hard [metaphorical or actual] slap upside the head from time to time.

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  24. cognoscitur says:

    Like it or not, social media has ruined women to the point where they are their own worst enemies.

    For example. I was recently out at a business dinner. One of my associates, she’s 30s, Dartmouth-educated, reasonably successful in her field. Her tragedy is that she’s short and pear-shaped and many refer to her as “The Oompa-Loompa.”

    O-L is perennially single. It’s not that she doesn’t Tinder and Bumble, but I’ve seen her profiles and they are, to be kind, dishonest. Favorable camera angles and all can do amazing things.

    Another associate, Faux Alpha Lawyerette is an early-40s butterface who once spread her thighs for an NBA player in the late 90s and has yet to get over it. F-A-L is a brassy, obnoxious contract lawyer in sports but at 5’10” and probably close to 200, she’s reminiscent of Kathleen Turner’s character in “Californication.”

    Anyway. Business dinner with O-L and few other friendly colleagues. After dinner, we retire to the lobby bar. It’s about eight in the evening and our group of six has whittled down to three — O-L, F-A-L and myself.

    We catch up over Negonis. O-L and F-A-L both confess that now in their *early* 30s, they are ready to open themselves up to meeting someone. They were committed to not immediately discounting any interested male if he didn’t meet their exacting standards.

    After the third round, the crowd around is us younger, professional, upmarket types and eventually a well-kept 30-something gent comes up and attempts to strike up a conversation with F-A-L who looks him up and down and snorts, “Not interested” as she seamlessly returned to her monologue about her commitment to being more open to suitors. When he segued to O-L for an open, she simply rolled her eyes.

    The intruder fled and for my part, I couldn’t blame him though as he slunk off back to the bar, I congratulated the two of them on this brave new direction and wished them well with it. I signalled for the bill and left them to their own misery.

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    • vfm#7634 says:

      Women know at a primal level if they’re bottom-of-the-barrel, which is why not-babes will rudely reject interloping males, unless they have baby-rabies or something. “He’s hitting on me? What a loser!”

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      • Bon says:

        Wow. An extremely profound point buried here. CH should make this a post on its own.

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      • plumpjack says:

        yep. I’ve actually heard women say, verbatim, that if a guy is genuinely interested in them for an LTR then he MUST be a loser.

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      • Greg Eliot says:

        Wow. An extremely profound point buried here. CH should make this a post on its own.

        An interesting field report with a lesson… for a change. 😉

        I’d be curious as to what the guy said to the two girls that got him such a curt dismissal… the narrator tells us he was “well-kept” and about the same age, so I’m assuming looks alone wasn’t the deal-breaker.

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      • Random Guy says:

        Probably because of the “most be a loser to ask me out” aspect.

        Well kept; well groomed guy in his early 30’s, probably somewhat successful, economically well off and educated asking out a woman in her early forties whose a butterface on top of that?

        Somewhat resembling Kathleen Turner’s character in Californication?

        That and unless he’s got no kids or lacks the ability to reproduce, a woman in her forties might not be that far from going menopausal herself.

        So going to be even harder for him to stay faithful.

        And than he tries to hit on an oompa-loompa? Basically cemented his “loser” status.

        It’s even worse when you seem to have all the good features but still go for the low end gals and feel kind of nervous about it.

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    • wolfie65 says:

      TONS of those everywhere.
      3s-6s looking forever for SoapStud McBillionaire.

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        The infantilization of the culture, from “Princess Barbie” to “Hannah Montana” to “Seinfeld” and “Friends”, but, for women, especially “Sex & the City”: This idea that a chick can be 42-going-on-12 and sitting at the kool kidz table in the junior high cafeteria and Mr Big is about to walk through the door for the first time and sweep her off her feet and re-energize her shrivelled 0varies and her barren w0mb and carry her off with him to Valhalla to make b@beez with him well into her 60s.

        It’s Anti-Reality insanity.

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      • Heinrich says:

        They are looking for a Billionaire Werewolf/Vampire who likes anal sex. 50 shades of dark…
        Cultural Marxism must be wiped out. The Zio-Matrix must be destroyed.

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        A Billionaire Werewolf/Vampire who likes sex with perimenopausal chicks whose 0varies are all shrivelled up like prunes and whose w0mbs are as hard as granite.

        Yeah, that’s exactly what a Billionaire Werewolf/Vampire is gonna m@rry, and sign 50% of his fortune over to.

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      • wolfie65 says:

        Make that 80%.
        She deserves nothing less, she is, after all, a G0dde$$.

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    • Sentient says:

      This is what I mean… these guys have zero game… Now imagine if the dude came up and talked to you, and ignored the “women”, then sushed them if they interrupted “excuse me, men are speaking” and made them qualify themselves instead of bull rushing them like they were the prize?

      Please learn some game guys – and Putin.

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      • Greg Eliot says:

        This… especially the “men are speaking” gambit… but make sure you say it with a knowing and mischievous Jack Nicholson grin.

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      • Lichthof says:

        I did this once at a bank.
        I was opening an account…so I was in an office with a hot Russian girl solid 8 maybe 8.5 who was new.
        She was being trained in by an asian omega male who was being totally over the top with her.
        So I started talking to him…ignoring her.
        Talking about where he was from and discussed travel experiences.
        We ignored the Russian..and she eventually loses patience ‘oh I’ve been there’. I continue to ignore her while her omega is smothering her.

        I then neg with a mild frown at her ineptitude..’is this your first day’
        She replies ‘no’ and looks at the Omega in a GTFO way.
        She then asks me my address…marital status…then asks me if I have a mortgage…salary…all good intel for her/my application.
        When she asks do I have a mortgage…I look at her in a ‘what kind of stupid question is that?’
        Then when omega leaves to go to the printer she tells me about the joys of credit card points which leads into a story about how she had her card stolen at a bar ….’a gay bar’.
        Checking to see if my coldness at her was because she thimks i’m maybe gay.
        I remained numb. Indifferent.
        Then back to the credit card points and she says ‘you should buy me dinner’.
        I replied ‘maybe’
        I was seeing someone else so just left it but she was fuming when I left.

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      • Lichthof says:

        Long God FR in mod about gaming a Russian…

        One other thing this week… this Greek girl solid 8..ex coworker…. I don’t care for her so decided a ZFG text. She texted me asking about a new girl at work …I replied with an image of a van.
        She replies- is that the special bus?
        I reply ‘knife +van = rape…… too strong?”

        Now she wants to meet me this weekend.. Freddie West game!

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      • Greg Eliot says:

        She replies- is that the special bus?
        I reply ‘knife +van = rape…… too strong?”

        Now she wants to meet me this weekend.. Freddie West game!

        Heh… you can’t make this stuff up. Brings a tear of reminiscence to me eye!

        A long, long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away… before “game” was formally named and codified… me and a few fellow stalwarts used to swap tales amid a beverage or two about the (((shakin’ our haids))) shocking discoveries of what girls would put up with…

        Ya see, being a decent fellow, if I really wasn’t interested in a particular girl, but she was sort of insinuating herself into my circle, I figured if I did or said something mean or uncouth enough, she’d hit the pike.

        I learned quickly that it often had the opposite effect, and caused commensurate additional discomfort at the increased attraction that, then, had to be somehow dissuaded.

        Ah, good times… good times. kekekekekek

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    • plumpjack says:

      pride before the wall.

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    • Oleaginous Outrager says:

      “social media has ruined women”

      Often they even talk like FB posts now: “ready to open themselves up to meeting someone. They were committed to not immediately discounting any interested male if he didn’t meet their exacting standards” sound like something that would be written across a picture of a sunny meadow with flowers in the foreground, getting tons of likes and shares even though it’s obviously a complete lie.

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    • Greg Eliot says:

      You shouldn’t have paid for their drinks, kid.

      Extra points for handing the cocky one the bill… although Oompa Loompa probably would have taken it with less drama.

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  25. Cloudswrest says:

    Janis Ian “Seventeen”

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    • haunted trilobite says:

      How dull was music back then? Now where muh rood boiz hit meh hit meh up, hit meh wid ur lazer hit meh wid ur lazer

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  26. Squib says:

    The god of biomechanics has his reasons.

    Sadness and rejection are powerful stimuli. Many (most?) of the great achievements of science, art, music, and literature came in the aftermath of profound personal sorrow. Melancholy people are less prone to judgmental errors, are more resistant to deception, and sometimes simply more “tuned in” to existence. None of this makes them pleasant to be around.

    Needless to say, the proceeds of sadness are irregular and rare but, once in a while, a dejected person hits the intellectual long ball. And, it happens often enough to have evolutionary value.

    We should feel sorry for these sad cases, with the understanding that despair is comparable to a mind altering super substance. It will often devastate the host but, nature cares only for the health of the herd.

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  27. Do you even know anything about her life, or whether she had a boyfriend or husband?

    [CH: i knew enough from what i saw. very few women job-hop through soulkilling low paying service jobs year after year once they get married and think about having kids. pretty girls do crap jobs for short stints during college, but soon after college they either hit the HR circuit and get in a sterile office where alpha men grease their careerist ambitions, or they get married to a man who makes enough to whisk the girl away from her crap job. this woman was older (mid to late 30s i’d guess) and still doing that crap work. it was obvious what was going on, and it was more obvious from the ugliness of her face.]

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  28. robpaxton says:

    I’d feel sorry for her if it wasn’t a stone cold fact that, given physical beauty, she would probably become a worthless fucking slut at first opportunity. Ugly on the outside and on the inside.

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    • some guy says:

      I’d feel sorry for her if it wasn’t a stone cold fact that, given physical beauty, she would probably become a worthless fucking slut at first opportunity.

      Dude, she already is. In her younger days, she was riding the carousel just as hard as any other bitch, only she had to hook up with the alphas who had beer goggles on to do it. Fuck her.

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  29. Some are not pitiable.
    Like this one:

    This mutant is a member of Canadian Parliament from the unthreateningly named New Democratic Party (translation: radical lefties who are big supporters of taking in rapefugees from mudworld).

    Anyway zie posted some Beyoncé lyrics in a Twatter post and BLM scolded her for “cultural appropriation” which is “not intersectional feminism”. Zie took down the twatpost in record time, with an apology for the unspeakable crime of a white person committing appropriation.

    In response, about half the twatfollowers praised hir, about half scolded hir for giving in.

    With enemies this weak and disorganized, with enemies that can’t do anything without checking privilege and making sure they don’t give their own putative allies tha bad feelzzz, why is anyone afraid of them?

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  30. Laguna Beach Fogey says:

    “Without beauty a girl is unhappy because she has missed her chance to be loved. People do not jeer at her, they are not cruel to her, but it is as if she were invisible, no eyes follow her as she walks. People feel uncomfortable when they are with her. They find it easier to ignore her.”

    The Elementary Particles, Houellebecq

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  31. welcomerain says:

    Your sentiments do you credit, CH. Life is not fair. But at least it’s life, at least for a while.

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  32. The Judge says:

    Black men love ugly white women. Even skinny ones. Fret not!

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  33. Johnny Redux says:

    “In the final abacus, sometimes all the difference between hell and heaven is a few millimeters of facial bone structure.” Very true, but more often than not the difference is 20 pounds.

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    • Heinrich says:

      reducing weight is much easier than changing bone structure. Don’t get fat!
      Get a husband and kids as long as you are young (<22 years).

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  34. Chuck Steak says:

    She could have settled for an uglier guy. The male psyche has evolved to pity the fairer sex more. And that’s okay. But sometimes you have to take a step back and realize even uglier women often have more options than Omega males.

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    • plumpjack says:

      it’s not the guys’ looks she won’t settle for. it’s the spineless obsequiousness of the guys who approach her that tells her hindbrain she’s better off alone. is she wrong?

      I know a few butterfaces who settled with beaners who would be alphas in their own country. and this is where the rubber hits the ho on low-smv womens’ support for immigration: for a woman with few options, a brown alpha beats a white beta.

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      • 88 says:

        yep. not saying it wouldn’t be better if they fell for a non-beaner. of course it would be. but they can’t help who they are attracted to.

        asking them to settle for a man who doesn’t do it for them, is the same as telling us we should be attracted to masculine feminists, uggos, and fatties. can’t force attraction just because you wish it were so.

        the solution isn’t for women to settle for men they will eventually want to leave. solution is men learning and overcoming all the negative conditioning they have gotten over the past 50 years so they can become the kind of men women want.

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      • Chuck Steak says:

        Whatever you want to call it. My point is she doesn’t have to actually be alone.

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      • Chuck Steak says:

        It’s not like women in the past were all paired up with super commanding alpha males that made them swoon. Today there is just no greater cultural force pressuring some of these women to settle for something actually in their league prior to them having a couple mixed bastards in tow.

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      • Chuck Steak says:

        The idea that the solution (at least from a cultural perspective) is for all men to become men that women want is gynocentric and unrealistic (and probably rationalized male degeneracy on a certain level). Fair enough to instill in other guys how to attract women. But supposing this as some sort of elixir to the overall problem is wishful thinking. Women are hypergamous. A man’s value/desirability is always relative to where he stands within the herd. We can’t all be lear-jet flyin’, limousine-ridin’ dudes with attitudes that exude utter sex appeal to women. The world needs garbage collectors and ditch diggers too.

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      • haunted trilobite says:

        Chuck, an `83 song come to mind. ‘let’s hear it for the boy’. Written by 2 men, and produced by a great jazz pianist. It extolls the virtues of a seemingly awkward, penny pinching schlub, with a heart of gold. Surely the music of yesteryear that encouraged women to cultivate the gems hidden in all men, was better for society than the endless barrage of ‘ain’t no (wyte) mayne good enuff 4 dis herpetic cooze’ that’s heard nowadays.

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      • 88 says:

        no one said anything about ‘every man being a lear-jet flyin’, limousine-ridin’ dudes with attitudes that exude utter sex appeal to women.”

        most men don’t need all that to get a quality girl. an average job with the right attitude and you can get any girl around.

        what i’m saying is that we need our men to stop being weak pussies who spoil and cowtow to their women and put them on pedestals.

        that is what our boys and men have been taught to do for the past couple generations and it needs to stop if we are ever to gain back control of things.

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      • Chuck Steak says:

        “Surely the music of yesteryear that encouraged women to cultivate the gems hidden in all men, was better for society than the endless barrage of ‘ain’t no (wyte) mayne good enuff 4 dis herpetic cooze’ that’s heard nowadays.”

        Right. That’s what I’m getting at. The men of the past, though more masculine, had a helping hand from the greater culture.

        “no one said anything about ‘every man being a lear-jet flyin’, limousine-ridin’ dudes with attitudes that exude utter sex appeal to women.”

        “the solution isn’t for women to settle for men they will eventually want to leave. solution is men learning and overcoming all the negative conditioning they have gotten over the past 50 years so they can become the kind of men women want.”

        That’s what I’m objecting to. You can take issue with my hyperbole all you want, but your prescription isn’t a wide-ranging solution and you’re kidding yourself if you think otherwise.

        “most men don’t need all that to get a quality girl. an average job with the right attitude and you can get any girl around.”

        Well, that’s the problem. What you say is easier said than done. I agree if you’re talking about a guy with potential. But not every guy has “the right attitude.” What’s your answer to those guys? Should have learned game? Please. I’m all for trying to enable all men with these tools, don’t get me wrong. But some men–who are quality in their own right–simply don’t have it.

        “what i’m saying is that we need our men to stop being weak pussies who spoil and cowtow to their women and put them on pedestals.”

        I certainly agree. But when do you suppose this will all happen? Men have been putting women on pedestals since the beginning of time.

        “that is what our boys and men have been taught to do for the past couple generations and it needs to stop if we are ever to gain back control of things.”

        What I’m saying is I think there’s a reason that this persists that may say more about men at large (and their weaknesses towards the opposite sex) than a lot of men are comfortable admitting.

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  35. “She *can’t* find a man.” TL;DR Don’t buy it.

    Does Heartiste know anything about this woman beyond his observations of her lacking some physical attractiveness and seeing her actually having to work (boo-hoo, service industry jobs most Americans find themselves increasingly doing)?

    Women these days have a super massive net to cast to select the best cock-DNA provider and/or nest provider, nationwide if they want, or beyond, with the Internet. Never been easier for a broad.

    No woman, even the uglier bitches, has to go without a good man. Same with the fatties -which as we soul crushingly witness are so common as to indicate being a lard-ass bitch isn’t a major obstacle to matting and romance for today’s entitlement bloated woman.

    It can be said the mediocre bitch is suffering not from her inferior physical form, but from feminist and female entitlement propaganda in a society of unleashed female hypergamy.

    Anyways the Chateau knows all this, so this is a weird tale, isn’t it? Almost like it’s supposed to make the guys reading this site to feel less negatively about the misandry of the meat market.

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  36. These biomechanical truths have long been observed and known. Here’s clever ditty from the 1850s from great American composer Stephen Foster …

    PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA
    A lady tossed her curls
    At all who came to woo
    She laughed to scorn the vows,

    From heart though false or true,
    While merrily she sang,
    And cared all day for naught
    There are plenty of fish in the sea
    As good as ever were caught

    Upon the lightning wings
    The merry years did glide,
    A careless life she led
    And was not yet a bride
    Still as of old she sang
    Though few to win her sought
    There are plenty of fish in the sea
    As good as ever were caught

    At length the lady few exceedingly alarmed
    For beaux had grown quite shy
    Her face no longer charmed
    And now she sadly sings
    The lesson time has taught

    There are plenty of fish in the sea
    As good as ever were caught

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  37. Major Styles says:

    Sometimes one of these unlucky women is tall and “big-boned” in the truest sense of the word – not the PC manipulated use. She is 6’2, for instance. I have seen several of these women go empty in the lottery of love.

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    • Oliver Elkington says:

      I find tall women can be very attractive, there is more of her to love for a start

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    • Captain Obvious says:

      As a very general rule of thumb:

      1) Chicks will NOT procr3ate with dudes who have lesser IQs than they, and

      2) Chicks will NOT procr3ate with dudes who are shorter than they.

      There are always exceptions, but that describes a good 95%+ of all chicks throughout history.

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      • Oliver Elkington says:

        They cant be too fussy if they are 6 ft 2 stacks of plates though, a 5 ft 8 woman can afford to be choosier than a 6 ft 2 one regarding height.

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      • Passer by says:

        By the way there is correlation between height and IQ, although it is only modest.

        As far as IQ is concerned, it appears that IQ is more important trait in men, than in women, as smart men have more children than smart women, therefore intelligence increases the reproductive fitness of men, and decreases it in women.

        There is a study showing than men will prefer pretty women over intelligent/high status women.

        http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886909001196

        https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23915041

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        > “They cant be too fussy if they are 6 ft 2 stacks of plates though, a 5 ft 8 woman can afford to be choosier than a 6 ft 2 one regarding height.” ——— And my point is that HUGE NUMBERS of 6ft 2in chicks NEVER M@RRY.

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      • Les Saunders, Protestant says:

        *them

        The chicks are the object of the preposition “than”. Only “they” if they are the subject.

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      • Anonymous says:

        …and Bruce Jenner wanted to be a 6’2″ woman.

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      • plumpjack says:

        “Chicks will NOT procr3ate with dudes who have lesser IQs than they”

        then how do we explain all that divorce rape?

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      • Days of Broken Arrows says:

        “As a very general rule of thumb: 1) Chicks will NOT procr3ate with dudes who have lesser IQs than they…”

        Maybe this was true 20 or 30 years ago or maybe it’s true in the upper class. But in the middle and lower classes, there are countless bright, personable girls who breed with minorities who have way, way lower IQs. Years ago it was one minority in particular, but these days, it’s a certain breed of, ahem, illegals these girls have a fetish for. When you see a single mother with a mixed-r*ce baby, odds are she’s dumpster diving, IQ-wise.

        I don’t know (or care) what studies say. I’ve seen this too many times with my own eyes to discount it. The area in which I live is upper middle class, but has a lot of Section 8 on the outskirts. This is where these girls end up and I watch them go from high schoolers with prospects to broken girls working at the Food Lion.

        What’s scary is that they’re almost robot-like in their fetish. No matter how many adults or friends tell them “You’re gonna end up in poverty,” these girls seem to have an almost pre-programmed mission to breed with these types. I’ve even seen people calling them out on social media (“So you want to date criminals”); they just ignore it.

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      • some guy says:

        these girls seem to have an almost pre-programmed mission to breed with these types. I’ve even seen people calling them out on social media (“So you want to date criminals”); they just ignore it.

        Exactly. And it’s impossible to shiv them, because they have no shame. They’re actually proud of toting around some mulatto bastard. When you give them a look of disgust they just beam back at you kinda like an anal expulsive two year-old during toilet training, like they’re intimating, “Ha ha, I just shit all over the place and there’s nothing you or anyone else can do about it!”

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      • Greg Eliot says:

        That’ because for every rare meatworld encounter where someone give them a mere look of displeasure, they get 1000 likes daily on FB telling them how cute their baby is, and open-armed acceptance and a feeling of belonging from the dregs and their famblies.

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      • vfm#7634 says:

        As a very general rule of thumb:

        1) Chicks will NOT procr3ate with dudes who have lesser IQs than they, and

        The major exceptions: coalburners. Well, some coalburners.

        2) Chicks will NOT procr3ate with dudes who are shorter than they.

        The main exception to that rule is if the woman is slender and/or the shorter man is jacked. What I call a “rock-and-flower” couple.

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      • Trumpette says:

        “Than” isn’t a preposition…

        “They” is correct.

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      • haunted trilobite says:

        Make America Mexico again!

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      • haunted trilobite says:

        Forgot to add *rubs hands*

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    • Anonymous says:

      Chicks want a taller man… even when that’s not a working proposition, too often. (My grandmother was 5’10” and my grandfather, 5’6″– much to be said for having sense.)

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  38. Alpha says:

    Her problem is not the look. EVERY woman, no matter how ugly, was hit at least once by a good man. He may be much older than her but in the sex market like any market, every product can be sold if being offered in the right context to the right buyer at the right price. Her problem is WAY to much ego (or actually believing the BS in media). I have seen older man making amazing offers to girls like her many times in my life (and they didnt look really bad, just older but well off and well maintained as only good money can do) and they turned it down, only to reach 30 and then 40 and be done like used cars.
    A beautiful woman has more offers but it doesnt mean her selection or decision making is better. Most divorce woman I know, are unhappy and always in financial troubles even when well paid off by ex husbands.
    It was Bill Maher who said “I will respect woman more if they will show better taste in man” hear hear !!!!

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  39. Theresa Powers says:

    Ugliness. NOTHING can compare to the ugly, beta males on chateau heartiste who couldn’t get it up if they tried viagara.

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  40. Kent says:

    Gosh I read these posts and get more and more depressed. As a short male in it’s been impossible to even date a fattie. Women will not accept shorter guys. Getting laid is does not happen no matter how hard I try. And I really try. It’s totally discouraging.

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    • Go Dark. Really nasty. Brutal nukular Negs for openers. ZFG like a friggin psychopath. No more Mr Nice Guy. No polite chit-chat. Lose everything you were ever taught about good manners. Be a rude, blunt, intrepid, fearless, jerkboy whom they suspect might be a Cartel Drug Dealer or Ass@ssin. SRSLY.

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    • AlmostAnonymous says:

      Kent,

      yes, being short can is a handicap, which means your game has to be that much better.

      or consider ex-patting to another part of the world where your height won’t be such an issue. In many places, being an available, healthy, white male is like going through life on easy/god mode.

      white privilege ftw!

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    • How short are you?

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    • Reb says:

      Hitler was short. Putin is short af. So be a dicktator.

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    • Reb says:

      Get em hooked on ice and beat the fuck out of them.

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    • oink says:

      The natural I knew who came to usa and slayed off the bat is 168cm

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    • Les Saunders, Protestant says:

      Get a motorcycle and become a total dick.

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    • Corvo says:

      Yeah – how short are you? There are some cute little 5’1″ girls out there. Also, lift – if you lack height make sure you’re strong. And yeah be more of a cocky SOB.

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    • bolg says:

      dude, i have a colleague who’s literally 1.55 meters tall. has a cute wife and a cute kid. and i’ve seen him pull a hot girl during smoke break. get out of your head.

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    • volaremecum says:

      Kent…
      it’s (mostly) true. But there are mitigating strategies. Get a pair of cowboy boots. Put a 1/2 inch lift in them. Buys you 2 inches…. May not sound like much, but the female attraction to stature is very sensitive, changing significantly even over a couple of inches. Try it. As a bonus, women LOVE cowboy boots on men. Try it.

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      • Anonymous says:

        Yeah I have done that already. Makes me about 5’7″ area but that even is to too short for acceptance unless it’s a 1 or 2 with 7 children. Even those chicks are discriminate. I hear guys say “oh it’s in your head or go after really short girls” but even the really short ones want taller (6ft area) or they just don’t date or share guys with other chicks. It’s a real problem. Its really depressing.

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    • vfm#7634 says:

      Move to the Philippines.

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      • Anonymous says:

        Yeah don’t go MGTOW, go TMFW (the matt forney way)

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      • driveallnight says:

        Yeah don’t go MGTOW, go TMFW (the matt forney way)

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      • Lord of the Gulf Stream says:

        My mentor as a boat captain when I was young was a dick, and only 5’2″ and he used to slay pussy like mad. He ONLY went for tall chicks, and would often say, “I like em right at eye level” as he motorboated the girl.

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      • vfm#7634 says:

        @Lord of the Gulf Stream

        I hear ya… but somehow I doubt this Kent fellow will be exhibiting that sort of badass behavior any time soon. It would be cool if he did, though.

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    • Captain Obvious says:

      Lord of the Gulf Stream: “My mentor as a boat captain when I was young was a dick, and only 5’2″ and he used to slay pussy like mad.”

      As above, the key words there are “A DICK”. Lose the good manners, the niceties, the thoughtfulness, the biting of your tongue and the suppression of belly laughs, the opening of doors, the paying of cheques, etc etc etc.

      Go nukular on their asses. No moar “honey” or “baby” or “doll”; instead, start givin’ em all nicknames: “Wide Load”, “Hooknose”, “Itty Bitty Titties”.

      Order them around as though they were friggin cleaning ladies scrubbing the toilet in the men’s room.

      ZFG. No remorse. Full-on Dark Triad.

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  41. rpg says:

    There is ugly and there is busted. An ugly woman can clean herself up and find just the right look with practice. A busted woman has stretch marks from 6 kids and c section scars to boot. Tits pointing straight down and roots of her teeth showing. Tats across her chest, back, arms and legs. No hope for the busted women except to find religion and cover up.

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    • Captain Obvious says:

      > “No hope for the busted women” ——— Well except for all the grandk!ds & great-grandk!ds she’ll get from having bothered to push out six of her own.

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    • haunted trilobite says:

      A literal wtf?, rpg. Haven’t you ever heard of the phrase ‘better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all’? The pity in this thread is being reserved for the latter. Widows have it rough, often re-engaging with the market in their washed-up middle-age, through no fault of their own. But at least they loved, right?

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    • Greg Eliot says:

      Tis better to have loved a short girl, than never to have loved a tall.

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  42. Koanic says:

    > I can never stop forgetting this banal, gutter-bound ugly truth, which is why, even in my sincerest moments of heavenward yearning, I’m compelled to scoff at anything greater than this dirty muck which shackles us.

    You can’t believe in God because ugly girls?

    And here I thought you were tough-minded.

    90 years of hard time isn’t too much to ask for character to out.

    The heavenly frat has one helluva hazing ritual.

    This sort of theological incredulity from unimaginativeness may be summarized as the Scheisskopf argument:

    “I don’t believe in God, but the God I don’t believe in would never allow such terrible things!”

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    • haunted trilobite says:

      Heh, that’s a nice rejoinder

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    • Greg Eliot says:

      In the beginning there was nothing… and then it exploded.

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      • Carlos Danger says:

        The common Interpretation of the Big Bang is a bastardization of a priest’s attempt to place a scientific wording to the Story or Creation.

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      • jsolbakken says:

        In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth, and the earth was without form and void, and darkness was upon the face of the deep. And the spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters. And God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light. And God saw the light, that it was good.

        Ever since then, demon infested shit stains with shit brains have tried to tell us that light is bad, when God says it is good. I say, fuck the shitty shit stains with shit for brains. Light is good, and the people who want to live in darkness are assholes.

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    • tomjones says:

      He’s agnostic. Every sane man is agnostic. Some say there is not God. Others say there is a God. In practice, everyone act as if Protagoras was right. Every Christian, Muslim, Hindu and Shinto has doubts. They don’t believe the tenants of their own religion. They proclaim their loyalty to a group. It’s just an identity.

      The only true believers are in lunatic asylums, convents, terrorist organizations, cults, and communist parties.

      “Concerning the gods, I have no means of knowing whether they exist or not or of what sort they may be. Many things prevent knowledge including the obscurity of the subject and the brevity of human life.” It’s futile to debate religion.

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      • jsolbakken says:

        It is true that the typical pattern is for children to believe what they are told about their culture’s religion and then when they get older they doubt it and even reject it. But not all people are typical. I was sent to Roman Catholic school but from the 2nd grade I considered my self one of those “agnostics” that I had heard about. Then when I was 21 years old I had a sudden spiritual epiphany that I cannot explain or even describe in a blog comment and as a result I became a Protestant. The funny part is I didn’t know what a Protestant at the time. Turns out the Catholics were quite scrupulous in not explaining Protestantism to us. I will say that besides the biased catechism the Catholics are pretty good at teaching obnoxious and unruly brats like I was. Public school would have been a disaster for a rambunctious and rebellious kid like me. My dad was right, I needed basic discipline. In spite of the discipline I still had the ability to listen to my own conscience where religion and spirituality was concerned, and make up my own mind.

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      • Carlos Danger says:

        Your not doing it right.

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      • Koanic says:

        Anyone who’s read a sci fi book can become an agnostic.

        After that comes actually researching the world’s religions to determine which, if any, are true.

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  43. radagast says:

    A very kind and feminine but extremely unnattractive woman is a creature to be pitied no doubt. Never taken the shiv to one of those before.

    I will also refrain from shiving or negging a kind pretty woman. Gentle women like these are best teased more lightly instead of straight up put in their place.

    Christ though, I can’t remember the last time I met a young attractive woman who wasn’t a stuck up bitch in some way.

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    • Hitfan says:

      I myself have rejected unattractive women before. I feel bad insofar that they feel hurt and rejected, but considering the realities of the singles dating market (young single men outnumber young single women), men face far more rejection.

      Heck, the media is pushing plus size women now so the Butterbods will be able to find some love — not that they haven’t been able to before. I once created a fake online dating account of a very unattractive woman (a butter “everything”) and “she” still received hundreds of messages from desperate thirsty men hoping for any semblance of positive female attention.

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  44. Anonymous says:

    In a picture:

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  45. Passer by says:

    i remember when an ugly woman (skinny, though) was asking for advice in some men’s forum. She wanted to know if men are going to prefer a pretty woman that rarely makes sex over her, that can offer great sex. The men told her that they will prefer an ugly woman (with good looking body), if she can make great sex, over a pretty women, that rarely makes sex.

    So you could give that advice to such women. Sex up!

    [CH: the men in that forum are lying.]

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    • Tarl says:

      If you are so ugly that no man will ever climb in bed with you, then your ability to “make great sex” is irrelevant.

      [CH: true, and it’s a false dichotomy anyway. an unrealistic hypothetical. the “dead fish in bed hottie” is another one of those dumb feminist myths that has no bearing in reality. hot chicks are actually more passionate in bed because they know their beauty is a turn-on for men and they get turned on by watching their men lose control.]

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      • Reb says:

        A beautiful woman can be the worst in every category and some idiot will still sell his last drop of blood to cum in her mouth. An ugly woman won’t get the provisions. Free sex is all she gets. It’s funny watching a landwhale turn down sex. It’s like giving a black eye to a dead nigger.

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    • Anonymous says:

      “make great sex,” IMHO, has diametrically opposed meanings for men and women.

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    • vfm#7634 says:

      Her best bet is to take good care of her body and learn some mad eyeliner/makeup skillz.

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    • Carlos Danger says:

      Your face is probably better than you think and not plain. IMHO it is true, a seven with a nice personality gets a 1 to 2 point bonus. How do you dress or wear your hair and make up? I think the way they stated it is the problem here.

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  46. YOU White people have not given Googles the proper motivation! So, from now on, whenever a Google fucks up, I will not punish him! I will punish all of YOU!

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  47. Tarl says:

    [CH: i wouldn’t say that she hit on me as much as that she behaved in a way that revealed desirous feelings.]

    And now you know what it’s like being a hot chick when a beta reveals his desirous feelings — creeped out, “how do I get away from this person as fast as possible”…

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  48. Two Rockville High students arrested for allegedly raping classmate at school (illegals) http://freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/3535819/posts

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    • Captain Obvious says:

      Police arrested two NINTH-GRADERS, Henry E. Sanchez, 18, and Jose O. Montano, 17, who appeared in court Friday and were ordered held without bond… Sanchez, a native of Guatemala who arrived in the United States about seven months ago, has a pending “alien removal” case against him, court officials said Friday…

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    • Reb says:

      Doing the rapes American White boys are unwilling to do.

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    • Greg Eliot says:

      A 17 and 18 year old in 9th grade? On top of this rape, I can imagine the sort of bullying they’ve been doing to boys 3 and 4 years younger.

      Fuck this ghey country.

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  49. cortesar says:

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  50. I know exactly what you mean. There are women who just simply aren’t desirable sexually, and it’s not their fault. Christ, it’s heartbreaking. People vastly underestimate the importance of beauty. A 10 doesn’t have twice the quality of life as a 5. More like a thousand times. I’m a good-looking guy and I’ve even had existential angst over this fact. Our world really is shit.

    Posts like this are where you can separate the posers from rest. Keyboard alphas show their true incel colors when in their bitterness they can’t manage to muster sympathy for those cursed by the God of Biomechanics. Guys who are actually able to experience some success navigating the SMP can see what it’s like out there for women who were dealt a bad hand be genetics.

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    • theasdgamer says:

      All women can find a man who will do them. Men will go SMV -4. There are men who are SMV 4 & 5. I see fatties get validation all the time.

      Life ain’t fair. Make lemonade. Even ugly girls can get pregnant and have families. They can even leverage their ugliness in business, if they are smart. Many women academics are ugly. HRC is ugly and powerful. Lots of feminists are ugly. Feel sorry for Lena Dunham? Please!

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      • plumpjack says:

        good points. women benefit from game too.

        exhibit a:

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      • Greg Eliot says:

        Heh… looks like she hit the jackpot and got herself a pretty decent-looking guy, given what she brings to the table.

        And yet, even in this semi-romantic setting, when her picture is being taken with her loved one… SHE CAN’T PUT THAT FUCKING PHONE DOWN!!!

        I would have slapped it out of her hand, and the minute she looked at me crooked for doing it, I would have back-handed her.

        /Gotta take a stand rape!

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      • bolg says:

        is it soup yet?

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      • Greg, she’s the on taking the picture 😛

        Do you think her manly man knows how to gut a fish or skin game? Clean a 1911? I highly doubt it.

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      • What she bring to the table? LOLZ, 3000 calories per plate apparently 🙂

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      • cortesar says:

        Jeez I thought you were joking
        Selfie have you ever heard about it?
        Have you ever had a phone with a camera or at least seen one?

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      • Greg Eliot says:

        Well DUH on me for forgetting about mirrors… I didn’t think she’s have one that clean in the house.

        And she STILL could have looked up, amirite?

        Do you think her manly man knows how to gut a fish or skin game? Clean a 1911? I highly doubt it.

        He might be a New England whaler, out for a Nantucket sleigh ride.

        (those unfamiliar with the term, look it up… it’s worth the kekekekek)

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      • Lord of the Gulf Stream says:

        Whaddaya mean? He looks like a regular Viking lumberjack.

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      • Vagina dominator says:

        Okay, I understand the impulse to be fashionable but everything about him says “follower”.

        Doesn’t he know that? How can “follower” be a cool role?

        And check out their tats. His is some ditzy cartoon dame and hers is, yes, it’s true, Miss Piggy!

        They are mocking and humiliating themselves. This is utterly beyond my comprehension.

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      • Vagina dominator says:

        I suppose they believe they are getting points for using “agree and amplify” to mock traditional gender expectations.

        So it’s the sour grapes lifestyle? I kind of understand it. Whatever gets you through the day.

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      • plumpjack says:

        vd, this is the famous Nimitz class literal super-sized model Tess Holiday.. if you’d like to further your non-comprehension of this incomprehensible fat fucking anti-everything-decent-and-good-about-humanity-assaulr-on-your-senses fucking attention-whoring slob then you should search some of her other photos. you won’t be disappointed, as far as utterly incomprehensible incomprehensibility goes.

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      • haunted trilobite says:

        It’s not so much what she brings to the table that’s the issue – it’s the likelihood that you’ll get your hands on any of it.

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    • Days of Broken Arrows says:

      This is dependent on the inner quality of the woman. I know it’s not trendy to say that, but I know of too many cases of 10s and 9s who were difficult or awful women who now have awful lives,

      Off the top of my head: There is the gorgeous blonde who gave multiple guys VD and is now fat and selling used clothes in Arizona; the annoying-as-hell former model (and major druggie) who failed in NYC and now lives with her parents; and one of my exes who now doesn’t return calls because another of her “business ventures” crashed and burned (no man could stand her long enough to support her — including me).

      Then there’s the Reese Witherspoon lookalike (with bigger boobs) I used to date who is now talking about having to live in Section 8.

      The idea that men will lay themselves on the ground for beauty has some truth. Men will do that. But if the woman is unbearable, some will only do it for a week, some for a month, but very few will tolerate it beyond that. Especially if the guy has something on the ball. When you have to put up with someone who is impossible on a day-to-day basis, even the prettiest women start to seem like monsters….and you actually start to long for a 6 or a 7 who will be agreeable and pleasant. Trust me, that can be sexy.

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      • Lord of the Gulf Stream says:

        Remember, no matter how hot that babe is, somewhere there is some guy that’s sick of her shit.

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  51. Reb says:

    An ugly woman can always make up for it by getting in good shape and becoming the biggest freak ever. I enjoy seeing women lick each other’s pussies dry.

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  52. Carlos Danger says:

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  54. Les Saunders, Protestant says:

    A white girl who is in her 20s, with a nice body, nicely dressed, makeup, without serious acne has gotta be exceedingly homely for men not to be attractive. In general, there should be very few who fit this description.

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    • Les Saunders, Protestant says:

      *arttracted

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    • tomjones says:

      “In general, there should be very few who fit this description.” 97% of young white girls are attractive enough to pass the “boner test”. It takes a major flaw -warts, serious acne, halitosis, birth defect, gigantic nose, thinning hair -for a white female to be unbangable. Very few. Very very few.

      Of course, there are 3 billion nonwhite men on Earth. They will fuck ANY white girl. But even in this fucked-up world, miscegenation is infrequent in North America and Europe.

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      • melmoth says:

        97% in general, or 97% fitting Les Saunders description?

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      • tomjones says:

        97% of white girls between 16 and 31, sane, nicely dressed and not tatted up.**

        **Fatties excluded from the calculation.

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      • melmoth says:

        So, 80% excluded from the calculation due to being fat then.

        20% left, of which 70 percent are tatted.

        6% left, half are insane,

        3 percent left, half dress like shit.

        So 97% of the remaining 1.5% of white girls are attractive.

        I agree.

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        HAPA velly velly good at maffermatics. Getta pelfect 4.0 glade point avelage. Ancestols velly velly ploud of HAPA.

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      • melmoth says:

        Your insults are as weak as you stand up. Maybe online banter is just not for you? You’re just not good at it. Also, I’m as white as it gets.

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  55. NEWFTEA says:

    There are two important things needed to wife up a chick–1. attraction and 2. compatibility. Scoff at the second one, if you like but it’s true. Far less chance of divorce r@pe if you have both.

    As for “ugly” women who can’t get wifed, it’s not their looks, per se. Lust, as the old saying goes, doesn’t give a d@mn, and chances are someone compatible would be involuntarily b*nerized by her. Law of nature.

    [CH: no it’s definitely her looks. ugly women do have a lot of trouble finding men to fuck them. a man’s LUST depends almost entirely on how a woman looks. the very ugly woman will inspire lust in vanishingly few men, and that will negatively redound to her romantic fate. THAT is the law of nature.]

    No, it’s often something subtle, making her look “off” or “lop-sided,” or even something about her scent that signals “GENETIC DANGER, Will Robinson!” to the hind-brain.

    The underlying theme is, “Not a bad body, and someone conceivably should find her face sorta OK, but she’s alone.” Heed the “but!” It’s genetic programming flipping into active mode, telling you that the house has invisible rot in the rafters, likely to be passed on to the next generation.

    HEED your INSTINCTS. They are a gift to humanity to keep us out of trouble.

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  56. martin says:

    has anyone here ever tried talking to what I assume are chinese women with rich daddies that tend to always be outside of art schools and hanging around luxury fashion boutiques? Often can be seen with canada goose jackets which are completely unnecessary but expensive so they get them. not sure if they speak english. A lot of chinese came to london to get property and because of downton abbey when they decided to buy their way into a western lifestyle. obviously I have never approved of them coming to pilfer the society but I can’t deny that they are a bit attractive.

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    • The language barrier could be huge here. If they were born in an Engrish-speaking country, then you could tease them mercilessly about having a Tiger Mom and Laundry/G00k-food jokes and “China gurr no getta B-Prus in Cacurus, China gurr mussa getta A-Prus in Cacurus! Maintain Pelfect 4.0 Glade Point Avelage!!! China gurr bling gleat dishonol and sadness to ancestols. When it lains [point to the clouds] dat is china gurr’s ancestols clying in Heaven for china gurr getta B-Prus on Cacurus exam. Gleat shame & dishonol. Bad, bad, bad china gurr. Mussa getta spanking now.”

      But it they don’t really speak Engrish, then you’ve gotta go with Kino Game.

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      • martin says:

        heh. i was thinking about asking them if they could keep it down because they are very loud. fwiw, this whole pickup thing is imo very much not a part of our society but you do what you must. i reckon they must like something about this place to be here. on the topic of the other thread btw i tried to respond earlier yes and no respectively to your questions.

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        Well if their Engrish is any good, then you can go with “Hey hey dis is Riblaly, china gurr no talky talky in Riblaly, no getta pelfect 4.0 glade point avelage. Shutta da fuq up china gurr. Giva-a da phone numbel. Now!”

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        Also, you need to squint your eyes and stick your front teeth way out when you’re teasing them.

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      • plumpjack says:

        “are you guys new to America?”

        “yeah, why?”

        “oh…I can tell…”

        “how??”

        proceed with teasing negs. a bit chubbier then the Asian girls here. your fashion is a little off. how much do you charge to fold laundry? I speak Chinese, “ching chang chow, me hung row”. “what do you call a one legged Asian girl? Irene” etc.

        friendly. no supplicating, yellow fever, or beta predator vibe.

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      • martin says:

        beta predator vibe… ugh fuck’s sake

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      • melmoth says:

        Asian “L” an “R” pronunciation humor. Scorching hot, fresh new material there. You should write for Schumer.

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        You a HAPA or a pure blood?

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      • thanks for the Eddie Murphy. So great. Two things stand out: 1) Would not be allowed today … WAY too un-PC. 2) Still too raw though for today.

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      • haunted trilobite says:

        Man, he was one sentence away from being a ‘shitlord alpha’ ™. He had them in the palm of his hands, and just needed to add something with a slight edge, eg ‘could you prease have your ovaly tantlum ereswhele’ he’d be a worldwide internet meme. But it may very well be his reserve that’s the coveted trait where he’s from.

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    • Chinese girls are disgustingly materialistic. China is just on a whole other level of materialism. Conspicuous consumption, like spending 500k on a Bentley, is still considered kind of tacky in the US. Among the people who can afford Bentley’s, only rappers and celebrities buy them. Because to most Americans it’s retarded to spend 500k on a car, even if you can afford to. Not so in China.

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        China gurr hava Cash Legistel fo sourl.

        [That’s a really good line for teasing them – Chinese girls have cash registers for souls.]

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  57. RS says:

    just the same as every other animal on this planet….nothing different

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  58. ModifiedLiving says:

    So, did you pity-fuck her?

    Brighten her day at least.

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  59. So Heartiste, what makes this woman any sadder to you than say a woman now chained to some sorry excuse for a man, used up, spent, now left to mope about in sweats all day, wondering why in the world she allowed someone to drain all the life out of her?

    Somewhat tragic, but amusing too, I’m not even that attractive and yet I was only about 14 when I first began to pray, “please Lord, make me ugly, make me undesirable, make me a bit of chuck roast and not something labeled USDA choice.”

    I don’t grieve for your scrawny woman, I grieve for those who look at all those shiny cellophane, wrapped packages, perceiving their own selves as nothing more than consumers and the whole world just a giant butcher shop.

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  60. This poor woman should’ve saved her money and gotten plastic surgery for face, body, and all the other areas that “need work”. It’s better than doing nothing and growing old and lonely.

    Had she done these things, her life would’ve been great. What a shame.

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  61. Being an HB10 must be like winning the lottery 3x. Imagine being some billionaire’s trophy.

    I’ve been a pampered boy toy before. Vacations, free gifts, free weed, etc. Even promised to help me get an acting career.

    lol

    I was suicidal when I got abruptly kicked to the curb.

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  62. Not seeing the insight here. An ugly girl has to settle – so what? Nobody is tormenting her (except our culture).

    The one thing that sets me on a rage is mocking people for things they can’t control. I was once in a 7/11 in Richmond, when a guy who looked liked the elephant man walked in (with a cane; he was obviously blind as well as deformed).

    The two black female clerks couldn’t stop joking and laughing about him the entire time he was there… stumbling around the market (they made no effort to help of course).

    When the man left and the girls broke out laughing, I had never felt more like murdering someone.

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  63. JenkPac Shakur says:

    The sad irony of this post is that if this woman had been born beautiful she’d very likely just end up a mean cunt like all the other highly physically attractive women out there are.

    Seriously there are very few incredibly attractive women on this little blue ball of dirt who fit men’s fantasies of the noble princess or as Mike Tyson might put it: “The lady in the streets and the hoe in between the sheets”.

    Most are again just plain mean and viscious spiteful whores all around be it in public or private life.

    Pigs to put it quite honestly.

    Yet what can one expect to find in a Jewish sewer of a society we live in?

    Such is what this filthy petri dish foments the growth of.

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  64. cortesar says:

    Well good luck with that Euripides
    God bless your tormented soul and damaged eardrums but let me comfort you
    Nothing changed since

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  65. Andrew Claus says:

    “I can never stop forgetting this banal, gutter-bound ugly truth, which is why, even in my sincerest moments of heavenward yearning, I’m compelled to scoff at anything greater than this dirty muck which shackles us.”

    ..and on that surgically injected bone-deep pang of Nordic melancholy, we conclude today’s advance-term instruction at the Chateau where a lie that perished was pretty and a truth we now ponder is cold, harsh, and immutable.

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  66. A touching essay on the unfairness of life.

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  67. “She *can’t* find a man.” TL;DR Don’t buy it.

    Does Heartiste know anything about this woman beyond his observations of her lacking some physical attractiveness and seeing her actually having to work (boo-hoo, service industry jobs most Americans find themselves increasingly doing)?

    Women these days have a super massive net to cast to select the best DNA provider and/or nest provider, nationwide if they want, or beyond, with the Internet. Never been easier for a broad.

    No woman, even the uglies, has to go without a good man. Same with the fatties -which as we soul crushingly witness are so common as to indicate being a lard-butt isn’t a major obstacle to matting and romance for today’s entitlement bloated woman.

    It can be said the mediocre bitch is suffering not from her inferior physical form, but from feminist and female entitlement propaganda in a society of unleashed female hypergamy.

    Anyways the Chateau knows all this, so this is a weird tale, isn’t it? Almost like it’s supposed to make the guys reading this site to feel less negatively about the misandry of the meat market.

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  68. martin says:

    So we know the reasons an ugly woman might have a hard time, however sad. So we can then say that pretty women won’t have a hard time finding partners as being attractive is a necessary trait for this to occur. So if there is an attractive woman who has difficulty finding a partner, it must not be because of how she looks. It must instead be something else. Combining that with the previous posts about riding the carousel into spinsterhood from the comment of the week about it, I want to show that an attractive woman who is having difficulty finding a partner must therefore be slutty. Can you speak in such absolutes with people? probably not, but I suspect it might be a good rule of thumb and it’s useful as it runs contrary to the ‘soul mate’ idea of finding a partner and the ‘good woman’ projection men place on women they see.

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  69. scientivore says:

    In a better era she might have taken vows — and while the vows of celibacy and poverty may have been redundant, the vow of obedience would have given her purpose in a life of service to her community, or at least sisterly companionship if she chose a more withdrawn society.

    You can disbelieve in (or even hate) God, traditional Christian society is still the kindest ever invented. Every modification from it only decreases the mental and physical health of the nation — and since postmodernist Christianity is the worst (see Dalrock), that tells us which noun’s modifications matter most.

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    • tomjones says:

      You can disbelieve in (or even hate) God, traditional Christian society is still the kindest ever invented.

      Correction: You can disbelieve in (or even hate) any God or any Supreme Being, white people are still the kindest race ever.

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    • JenkPac Shakur says:

      No, John. Tom is right and remember not everyone defines “god” as being the imaginary Jew psychopath that you worship named Yahweh.

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  70. Democritus says:

    CH à la French naturalist mode? It’s nothing short of depressingly accurate Émile Zola rape!

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  71. Stuart says:

    The glamorization of society is such that beta men wont settle for fugly women because they think they deserve better, because thats all they see on TV. I can tell you by attending a a Patrick’s Day parade recently, the white “looks”-stock is not that good. Don’t judge white looks standards of what you see at the club. A St. Pat’s parade (which in our town brings out every nationality of white person) is a truer mix of everybody..

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  72. Heartisian says:

    Need a little help from the dark lord and his acolytes. I’m a young guy, new to success with da hoes. I’ve landed a solid 8, and she’s really into me. I’ve denied hanging out with her a few times which has only intensified her interest. Problem is, I’m only in the faking it til I make it stage. I’m rather inexperienced in the bed. I’ve only been with two other girls. My game is tight. How do I bang like a champ?

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    • Heartisian says:

      I’m pretty sure she’s been with many dudes and I’m lacking in the meat department.

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    • Reb says:

      Experience is a teacher. How do you want to fuck her? Love her or dominate her or both.

      Me? I like banging out quickies during the day or a long night of rough intercoarseness.

      If you like working her up first, notice that her face and lips love being kissed and touched. Kiss her ear lobes. Bite her places, not too hard. Grab hair. Slap ass.

      Whatever works you up man. Fuck her good as a reward.

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  73. like my ex though face aint that great but the body rocks
    and she knows how to use it
    but yea she also said she has a certain amount of years left to ride the carosel
    before settling down

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    • gunslingergregi says:

      she gets enough attention to come to my house with her knees all fucked up
      little bitch

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    • jOHN MOSBY says:

      Don’t take her back, gunny. She sounds as she is on the toxic side, and I bet she thinks you will always be there for her on the rebound.

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        no she doesn’t think that lol
        i didn’t take her back she keeps trying

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        every chick she ever brought to my house fell in love with me lol
        she used to be like it happened again he he he
        but thats back when i would walk outside last year to find a chick that looked like they were praying on my porch to get in and it kind of freaked me out so slowed it down and then yea shit got more normal which yea when that happens its just normal

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        ex is a fucking handfull for sure
        took her to my counselor she told my counselor i needed to rape her lol
        wtf
        like the 2nd chick that ever told me no to sex
        but only told me no so i’d take it
        but i’m just not really like that hahaha
        and her default setting when really mad is murder or telling me she gonna have someone kill me
        but i never beat the fuck out of her like i did with ex ex
        with her permission
        me and ex ex yea i gave myself more fully i think
        the ex it has been more blaze
        i guess if willing to go full throttle then might be interesting
        i guess another bitch i’ll know for life in the ex and allways will come when i don’t have a bitch

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        it is diferent when a bitch knows another bitch is waiting for her ass to fuck up
        ex ex having bad day like i’m gonna find new place to stay you can have the ex here
        cause she know the ex will be trying to get in 5 minutes after she leaves like she did 5 minutes after ex was gone
        i did kind of say i’d move em both in he he he
        if the ex got off drugs
        whatever i do though seems to work on getting a bitch to quit drugs though
        so i guess at some point ex will quit
        but yea i mean we didn’t click in the way i usually click with woman i love
        watching that movie
        its like just can’t compare to me and a bitch in love it owns
        people see it people want it
        i need more of it and yea not the same with the ex ex or ex and prob nevr will be
        but maybe we can have a diferent kind of love which is what me and ex ex have now

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        me and ex ex though god dang we have had some moments
        i might feel bad a little taming the ex for real
        its happening though
        whether i like it or not
        its life for a chick

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        guess did tame ex allready she had never lived with a boyfriend for a year so i got props for that she got the wild heart i guess
        her usual game is make the dude jealous by getting with other dudes
        i guess i allways play that game on chicks is who it really really works on

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        might be time to give up internet again playing games and being on blogs all day ain’t condusive to living real life

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        most time me and ex together no internet

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        “might be time to give up internet again playing games and being on blogs all day ain’t condusive to living real life”

        BUNZ -> OVENZEZES

        We need moar little Gunslingers.

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        jesus told the ex ex to blow me last night
        there goes the neighborhood

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      • Reb says:

        Shoot for quality not quantity.

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        takes quantity to know and find quality

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  74. joel says:

    I don’t feel sorry at all for ugly women just because they are ugly.

    They have the same row to hoe (no pun) as an average man. Anything in life a man has, he has almost certainly gotten for himself. Men must work hard to get sex and they have to have money to get a decent wife.

    If the ugly woman in this discussion works at a variety of low paid jobs, that suggests she never had the mindset that she would have to support herself like a man. Whose fault is that? Not mind.

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  75. Trainspotter says:

    Am I missing something? Any comment of substance that I make is lost in mod.

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    • cortesar says:

      if you use firefox switch to something else
      Firefox has a well known animosity towards substance

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    • F*ck me. I got caught in mod. Let’s try it again.

      Break the thought down into 140 character “tweet” segments. No URLs [and especially no URLs which circle back around to he@rtiste DOT w0rdpress DOT c0m]. No weird mathematical symbols which look like computer code. And make d@mned certain that words like m@rry m@rries m@rried w3dding w3ddings h0ly m@trimony are not spelled like you’d find them in the dictionary.

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    • PA says:

      That’s a shame, your long comments are always excellent.

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    • Heinrich says:

      I have the same problem.

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  76. cortesar says:

    what is this cries and whispers, hedda gabler
    no it is just a cuckmertial coming from Swerige
    There even the agitprop has bergman-esque fill
    It is called Män på internet which in Swedish means
    black dickz galore

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  77. Anonymous says:

    CH why do men care so much about breasts? I ask because I’m a plain jane girl who may very well have ended up like the woman in this post. I guess I am a 5. I’m not ugly or pretty, was not chaste or slutty, my butt is mediocre, I’m not charming or intelligent or interesting or sexually experimental, and all I’ve ever had going for me are my very large and nicely shaped breasts. And I owe my whole life to men being so kind to me, doing everything for me, doing my homework for me in school and everything, I always wondered why?

    My friends were all so superior to me with beautiful faces, shapely behinds, but getting pumped and dumped, sad lonely and crying, while I never got pumped and dumped and only had relationships with charismatic, socially popular, charming, athletic waspy men. Now as my friends and I are entering our 30s I am the only one with a HSMV man for a husband even though my friends are and were always superior to me in every way besides boobs! They are all either still on the carousel, with careers lonely and bitter, or settled and are miserable with beta guys. I have never worked a day in my life and stay home to cook and clean and look after my children. My husband is an ex hockey star who partied hard and had and could have much higher SMV women than me, but gave up that life for family life with me just because of boobs? Why? Is there something in the male brain that makes him want to commit to women with great boobs even if she is plain and boring otherwise? Do boobs create love even if pretty faces and shapely butts create more lust?

    My gorgeous and popular friend with A-cups (who is superior to me in every way) was having a hard go of it, she even got breast implants, and now her life is better in every way. Men instantly began to treat her so much more kindly and see her as a relationship prospect. She is now even engaged to a man who is charming, alpha, and professionally successful.

    [CH: this reads like butthurt feminist fanfic. E for effort.]

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    • Anonymous says:

      What do you mean butthurt feminist fanfic?

      [CH: i mean you’re lying.]

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      • Anonymous says:

        I’m not! It’s an honest question! Why do you think it is lies do you think it would be strange for a plain girl 5 with nothing nice but breasts to be well liked by men?

        [CH: your comment reads like an attempted parody utilizing a loose pastiche of catchwords you read here but clearly did not understand.
        as for your question, mediocre girls with nice racks can’t compete with less endowed hot girls and they certainly can’t compete with well-endowed hot girls. nice tits are arousing but a beautiful face is hypnotic.]

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        If there’s any seriousness to the question, the obvious EvoPsych answer would be that a man’s hindbrain is looking for a m@te who can FEED THE DADGUM NEWB0RNS. These chicks with flat chests are gonna need a wet-nurse for the newborns to survive, and I can’t imagine that the tradition of the wet nurse is much more than maybe 3000 years old, and, even then, only for the very wealthiest of royalty.

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      • gunslingergregi says:

        Captain Obvious
        If there’s any seriousness to the question, the obvious EvoPsych answer would be that a man’s hindbrain is looking for a m@te who can FEED THE DADGUM NEWB0RNS. These chicks with flat chests are gonna need a wet-nurse for the newborns to survive, and I can’t imagine that the tradition of the wet nurse is much more than maybe 3000 years old, and, even then, only for the very wealthiest of royalty.”””””””””

        chicks get the bigger tits after they breastfeed normally
        tit size is definetly not stagnent
        it also changes in woman with weight
        can go from a to d no prob

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    • Anonymous says:

      If that is true then what explains my experience? Because it is honest true and I’m not lying. It is an honest question that I too have been confused about most of my life.

      [CH: fake commenter.]

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      • Anonymous says:

        Why would I make up something just to lie?

        [CH: because you love tautologies.]

        What could I possibly get from it?

        [ego salvation]

        I don’t understand.

        [the first honest thing you’ve written.]

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    • Anonymous says:

      Yes I do understand that faces and even butts are more arousing to men, but I hypthosized and wondered if there is something about breasts that makes men want to offer commitment? I know for instance that women from my husband’s past aroused him/arouse him more than I do. I never really felt like an object of instant lust for men. But men have always been kind to me and never tried to “use me.” And all of my relationships have been with awesome and popular guys. My friend who is pretty but small chested was “used” by men a lot, and got an almost insta LTR with a high value man after getting implants.

      [CH: what encourages men to commit is the full package — hot body, beautiful face, feminine demeanor. a plain jane with good tits will be better off than a plain jane with no tits, but she still won’t be in the same league as a hottie. most likely the men you date are not as great as you claim, and you are just lamely attempting to score weirdo femcunt points here because this post in particular chafed your flat assed hide.]

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      • Captain Obvious says:

        Implants are revolting.

        Can the breasts even make any milk post-implant?

        How’s the poor baby gonna survive?

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      • Anonymous says:

        Weird your explanation, because I dated men (and wed one) who pumped and dumped women who were hotter than me besides this one feature.

        [CH: no you didn’t.]

        And I do not understand the “weirdo femcunt points” because I am not a feminist, not even close, actually the exact opposite! And the post didn’t upset me, it just made me wonder.

        [you got called out and you don’t like it. your reaction since has been predictable.]

        I read the post of Captain Obvious and think maybe it is that?

        [you sound like an even more disingenuous spirit within.]

        My babies grew super fast and big.

        [and by babies you mean “cats”.]

        They were 98th percentile for height.

        [whisker to tail?]

        Is it my breasts that made them big from breastfeeding?

        [no to your question, and multiple no’s to the implied premises behind your question.]

        Is that why my husband wanted me subconsciously because he wanted large babies?

        [if a man wants to maximize the odds of having large babies he should a. be large himself and b. knock up a tall, large-framed woman. the mother’s breast size has nothing to do with the eventual adult size of her babies.]

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      • Greg Eliot says:

        Okay, darling, I’ll play.

        All other important things to any given man being equal, the gal with the bigger tits wins.

        Said important things being basically the same to most men, but vary as to “deal breakers” among individuals, and could sway the balance of what it required to sustain that “love feeling” that lust requires to keep a relationship alive and continuous..

        So, a guy could want a nice face and shapely butt and big tits, but maybe only one is absolutely necessary if the woman buries the meter on the feminine, supportive nature scale.

        But if she doesn’t hit on all cylinders on the nature, she might have all the physical attributes he wants but still doesn’t meet that “put a ring on it” standard.

        So if your hubby, like me, is a tit man… and you are what you say you are, a loving and supportive wife and mother, and happy to stay at home and keep the hearth fires burning, as it were, that would explain why he chose you over other seemingly hotter women.

        Don’t question it, just enjoy it.

        Some snarky fems might say “Well, he just loves you for those big tits” to make you doubt him and yourself, but let me tell you what an old girlfriend of mine once replied, when her mom, of all people, said such a thing.

        “Well, they’re me too!”

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    • gunslingergregi says:

      my guess asian

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  78. Bo jangles says:

    Women can still hit the gym and learn a little personal charm or fuck a man till his eyes roll back in his head. This woman is clearly lazy too

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  79. Robert What? says:

    In the old days when the Patriarchy still ruled, even a homely woman could dream of home, family and love, as long as she was kind, had a pleasant disposition and was skilled in the domestic arts. However now that feminism has declared these attributes as “subservience” and “oppresssion” young women no longer aspire to them. This has hit homely women the hardest since they have nothing left to bring to the table.

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  80. Vincent says:

    “She was thin, but ugly. At the time…”

    Pillowcases have multiple uses. And to steal from Howard Stern, was she a buttaface?

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