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Beta Males In The Wild

This is a photo of a first wedding anniversary.

Humans are naturally repulsed by certain objects in the state of nature. Rotting carcasses. Fetid water. Leprosy victims. Feminists. Manboobs. A steaming pile of poop triggers our disgust reflex. This reflex likely evolved to protect us from ingesting poops and then dying from infection during a time when modern medicine was a schizophrenic witch doctor.

Like fresh turds, we are instinctively repulsed by the above photo. It violates our preinstalled norms of sexual polarity. Men, and women too, have evolved limbic systems and higher order cerebrum that are groomed to respond positively to couples where the man looks to be in charge and self-possessed and the woman looks in his thrall and in need of his protection. When we see the opposite — like in this pic — we recoil as if we had just accidentally stepped in a mound of dog shit.

The masculinization of Western women and the feminization of Western men continues apace, with no bottom to the depths to which this depravity will sink. Point by repugnant point, let’s examine the bizarro world inversion illustrated in the photo:

– Lap sitting, male on female. INVERSION
– Smothering neck vise, male on female. INVERSION
– Cross-legged male, open-legged female. INVERSION
– Stupidly grinning male, grimacing female trying hard to hide it. INVERSION
– Wraparound koala bear hug, male on female. INVERSION
– Closed body language and clenched fist, female on male. INVERSION
– Micropenis, male. Acromegalic clit, female. (speculative) INVERSION
– Being OK with having this picture taken and the moment memorialized for all time, male over female objection. INVERSION

The question, as always: What does this have to do with game? Gentlemen, you will have no success with game if you first don’t exorcise the sin of anti-game from your mortal soul. This means not behaving like a woman would behave when she is in the company of an exciting alpha male.

The good news is that recognizing, and discarding, bad anti-game habits is easier than learning pro-game techniques, especially if you are a natural introvert for whom cold approaches and crutch-like helpful scripts give you the hives. You’re 50% of the way there once you’ve stopped acting in ways that make girls feel like they just stepped in dog shit.

184 Responses to “Beta Males In The Wild”

  1. Invictus III says:

    “You’re 50% of the way there once you’ve stopped acting in ways that make girls feel like they just stepped in dog shit.”

    You sir are a master with words.

  2. That picture’s fake, right?

  3. Tartarus says:

    “The good news is that recognizing, and discarding, bad anti-game habits is easier than learning pro-game techniques, especially if you are a natural introvert for whom cold approaches and crutch-like helpful scripts give you the hives. You’re 50% of the way there once you’ve stopped acting in ways that make girls feel like they just stepped in dog shit.”

    Introverts should have fewer of those bad habits by default. I’m 100% introvert and I could never act like that, especially in public. The guys with the worst habits are excitable, highly extroverted beta and omega males.

    • Anonymous says:

      >extroverted
      >beta

      Can such a thing exist?

    • Ripp says:

      “Introverts should have fewer of those bad habits by default. I’m 100% introvert and I could never act like that, especially in public. The guys with the worst habits are excitable, highly extroverted beta and omega males.”

      Assumption, mental masturbation.

      Anti game habits and beta non-verbal have more to do with lack of experience in the field and the unwillingness to recognize and work on correcting those habits. Extrovert/introvert is simply one underlying characterisitic of personality that should be addressed when understanding what cues to prioritize and work on.

      Because one is more introverted doesn’t indicate less anti-game behavior; or that extroverts have more.

  4. itsme says:

    i guess he deserves a few points for not having hoverhands.

  5. Tartarus says:

    Anyone else notice the chick’s face is an exact replica of Trollface?

  6. hey heartistes! dids dis is what beta gamma game gets ya! lzozlzozozoz

    • corvinus says:

      The only thing that cow can get is a skinny Indian midget? We’re okay in this one case.

  7. Neecy says:

    Humans are naturally repulsed by certain objects in the state of nature. Rotting carcasses. Fetid water. Leprosy victims. Feminists. Manboobs. A steaming pile of poop triggers our disgust reflex. This reflex likely evolved to protect us from ingesting poops and then dying from infection during a time when modern medicine was a schizophrenic witch doctor.

    Like fresh turds, we are instinctively repulsed by the above photo.

    LMFAO! Heartsiste you are crazy

    Re photo: Oh dear God. Not even *I* can defend this.

    Oh boy. he has it baaaaad. Whew!

  8. Aurini says:

    Dollars to donuts, this guy has an adult-diaper fetish.

  9. That Guy says:

    Believe it or not, I’ve actually seen a guy sit almost like that!

    I was at a party and this chick had a kid on her knee, and her husband had gone to the buffet and gotten a plate of food, and couldn’t find a place to sit. So the chick say to the kid, “Get up so Daddy can sit on my knee”. The guy then proceeded to take the child’s place, sitting on her knee and eating his food. Then the chick pats him on the back of the head, like a baby?! I was horrified and yet couldn’t look away from the spectacle.

    Later I find out that the guy is an only child, his Mom is a feminist and divorced his Dad when he was 3 or 4 yo, and then moved across country. He grew up with his feminist Mom, never seeing much/any of his father again… so, terribly sad…

    • collapseofman says:

      …but with big dreams and a little hard work, that man went on to become our nation’s first African American president.

  10. Big Pimp says:

    theres a guy at the gym dating a younger chick with a kid that does this…every time i see them i lmfao….

  11. peckerwood says:

    Since the host frequents the young end of the dating pool, here’s something I noticed about the future, I mean the kids these days. You’re in their social circles. Aren’t the guys getting kind of tiny? Maybe it’s a dc thing.

  12. Alpha Traits says:

    and that’s only after 1 year.

  13. I hope she punched him in the jaw.

  14. Spiralina says:

    Heh, are you sure this isn’t just a joke photo out of a series?

    On another note, my husband does that exact goofy jumping-in-my-lap thing while making loud smoochy noises to gross me out. And then he smacks my ass and asks for a beer a few minutes later. I actually find the unpredictable behavior wildly attractive!

  15. All is forgiven if he is farting as the camera clicks.

  16. Maya says:

    “Science confirms it: You older men are morally justified chasing after younger women. You help extend human lifespan.”

    Yes, and not only that! Older men have more children if they have a young wife! <3

  17. Uradyke says:

    This is my experience. Youre 80% there once you wipe out stupid behavior that turns girls off. That combined with smooth escalation skills…youre on your way. Same reason why its always better to err on being too reserved. Women project postive qualities onto those guys. A quote i love “always time to add a word, never time to subtract”. A miss counts more than a hundred strikes.

  18. GeishaKate says:

    He found someone to carry him home! Toni-i-i-i-i-i-i-i-ight..:) This does look like a joke picture since if you look closely at her face you can see she’s holding back laughter. If not, this paper anniversary might not see the light of cotton :)

    • Yes, that’s it. That has to be it. They were clowning around, and the photographer took the picture, and it wasn’t ever supposed to see the light of day. Right? Tell me that’s it, so I can go on believing in the natural order of the universe.

      Or maybe it’s one of those green-card marriages and the guy is gay. I have a gay friend who cuddles with me like that.

      • GeishaKate says:

        Never fear! I’m sure he just read “Drive-By Teases” and he’s actually a ca(r)d :)

        • Ed the Department Head says:

          This is what I suspected. I thought this was some sort of joke by a player. By acting like a beta bitch jokingly he is subconsciously letting her know that she is conquered. He is passively/aggressively abusing her to let her know she is his and also making her laugh. If this pic is actually real though, CH is right, it is pretty pathetic.

          • GeishaKate says:

            Re conquering her: yes, he does appear to be squishing her in what I can only assume is an uncomfortable way :) Getting both disgust and a laugh at the same time is the kind of push/pull-up players do five times before breakfast, right?

            There are links below that destroy my argument, but as a snapshot in time, I’m sticking with my theory:) Best two out of three, Heartiste?

    • Art Vandelay says:

      her holding back laughter doesn’t really make compelling evidence though. On the contrary.

      • GeishaKate says:

        In my mind, its more alpha to be able to momentarily break scene than to be so concerned with how every little thing looks that a person can’t have a little bit of fun.

  19. aspic says:

    ” Your movements are slowed, your speech is terse, your brow furrowed, and you’re nonreactive. Sexy!”

    LOL. chicks are dumb.

  20. Days of Broken Arrows says:

    Under normal circumstances, this pic would be embarrassing. But after yesterday’s post about that Omega email, this seems positively Alpha by comparison. I can’t get over what I read yesterday!

  21. Anonymous says:

    Your use of the phrase “schizophrenic witch doctor” leads me to believe that you’ve been reading the blog: The West’s Darkest Hour. Very subversive stuff, indeed.

  22. PA says:

    What started it all — the infamous naked photo of fetal-position John Lennon curling up to Yoko Ono.

    • Kay says:

      I remember looking at that photo as a kid and feeling almost scared. So yes, there appears to be some sort of deeply instinctual rejection of this kind of thing.

    • Sarcasticus says:

      True but JL was alpha enough to pull that shit off. Once.

      • a girl says:

        agreed. and anybody worthy of an assassination would have enough alpha qualities to balance the rest off. but, still it was totally odd looking.

        btw, on a related note, i read somewhere (perhaps the star magazine) lady gaga is on a baby food diet.

    • I was disgusted by that sickly pic.

    • Mexican Pete says:

      PA,

      I’m not going to dispute Lennon’s alpha status, but Yoko was one ugly beast. She must have had “oriental tricks”.

      [heartiste: lennon reputedly had a steady stream of hot blonde mistresses he banged on the regular the whole time he was with yoko.]

      • Lara says:

        I read a book once about John Lennon, where he wanted to film himself getting an erection. Yoko took her clothes off and was unable to make it happen. He had to look at pictures of other naked women.

        [heartiste: the boner doesn’t lie.]

        • Days of Broken Arrows says:

          First of all, that photo of John curled up with Yoko was staged by feminist photographer Annie Lebovitz. IMO it didn’t reflect Lennon’s “Alpha status” so much as it did his willingness to do the unexpected and piss people off (and extension of the long hair and bed-ins, if you will).

          Second, as one who has spoken with Yoko and a few in her inner circle, I can tell you that 1). That erection rumor is just that — they had a sex life so voracious it freaked out McCartney, who was no slouch in this dept.; and 2). Her looks may not be a-level, but she’s actually sexy as hell to talk to. I immediately got why Lennon fell for her within five minutes of give-and-take.

          Also, let’s leave celebrities out of these discussions since their public images are manipulated by slews of gatekeepers. You want to talk Alpha, bring up your uncle or someone like that.

          • Lara says:

            It was just a weird story I remember reading somewhere. I’m sure John Lennon was very attracted to Yoko, otherwise he wouldn’t have been with her. I’m guessing it was just a case of sexual attraction fizzling over time, which happens to all couples, no matter how hot it was at one time.

          • Convict Moll says:

            Sounds unlikely about the pics.

          • The Whammer says:

            You want to talk Alpha, bring up your uncle or someone like that.

            OK. My bachelor uncle lived in that building they call the Dakota and I’d stay there when I was in NY, especially when he was away and I had the place to myself :) I wasn’t impressed with Yoko when I’d see her but of course when you’re young a female pushing 40 seems like an old lady to you. I recall that Yoko had like a secretary/assistant, a younger good looking Japanese or Chinese girl. I would have tried something with her but I’m pretty sure that Lennon was shagging her.
            I don’t know if my uncle was alpha but he certainly got a lot of calls from females.He designed movie sets and so he knew a lot of well known actresses of the time (’72) I recall once when I answered the phone at 11pm that it was Sophia Loren and then he said he had to go out because she needed some assistance on something. She lived about a 15 min.walk away in the Hampshire House on Central Park S. and was married to some geezer who I never once saw so who knows what was going on. This would happen all the time with various actresses who would call at night and then he’d have to go out on business for some reason. Even at the dumb naive age of 19 I finally figured out that it was all bullshit and that he was shagging them.I think he was even shagging the manager of the Hampshire House (it ‘was actually a hotel at that
            time with the top floors where Loren lived as private co-ops)
            Now, I never really thought of him as an alpha ladies man or even that he was very interested in women but apparently there was something in his personality that attracted them.
            btw, that story about Lennon filming his erection I had never heard but he did pose full frotal nude with Yoko for an album cover for some crap they had recorded together. I don’t know ifit was actually sold in stores at the time due to the nudity and I only saw it because some girl I knew had it and showed it to me.She was American and said his dick looked funny (he wasn’t circumcised)

      • Mexican Pete says:

        Figures. The fellow wasn’t the monogamous type. I always reckoned he took up with Yoko for shock value: The Dog’s Dinner or a Pig Party as a fraternity would call it.

        Ringo did the best wifewise.

      • peterike says:

        I think Yoko tended to take very bad pictures. And we mostly remember her as an older, haggier Yoko. Back in the day she could be pretty hot.

        Check out the 60s and 70s shots.

        http://www.a-i-u.net/photos.html

      • whorefinder says:

        When I see alpha or good-looking males with uglier wives, I call it the Disparity Principle. Basically, these guys deliberately choose wives lower down on the totem pole, so that they are allowed to carouse/cheat and be more callow while enjoying a more worshipful wife/stable home.

        Every chick will view her options to leave/divorce/cheat. A hot chick or deluded chick might think she can do better. An uglier chick might look around, see that she could never rationally do better, and put up with philandering. Yoko Ono realized that she could never do better than the most praised pop musician of his generation and an international, wealthy cultural icon—so she put up with it. Heck, to save their relationship, Yoko picked out some of his mistresses!

        That’s one reason why Tiger Woods’ marriage was doomed to fail. Pussy was thrown at the guy night and day. But his wife was far too attractive and young to think she couldn’t get another alpha guy and therefore put up with Woods’ behavior.

        No, whomever she got in exchange wouldn’t be the world’s greatest golfer, or have as much money or be as famous, but he could be better looking (Woods is a plain looking guy) and be more masculine (Woods, by his own texts messages and golf behavior, is a womanish and extra-sensitive) and more socially adroit/dominant (Woods would be a computer nerd if not for his golf abilities, and is famously for going to bed around 8pm, and again, the text messages reveal very little game). And her new man most likely would be wealthy, successful, and famous in some way (at least she thought she could get someone in these categories) because she was still relatively young and hot.

        In short, marrying a hot young wife during the his career was a very bad idea for Woods financially, or for any pro athlete. About the only attractive women who try to stick out with philandering athletes are 1) childhood sweethearts who think that God/family/true love will conquer his heart; or 2) black women, who, given that most non-black men won’t look their way for a serious relationship, and given the paucity of rich, successful black men, will put up with a lot more cheating so long as they can remain “basketball wives.”

  23. DJDamage says:

    I think the guy in the picture is a jokester and he was just fooling around for the camera, because it is not a natural pose you can hold for more then a few seconds without feeling physically uncomfortable.

    On the other hand a picture like this is all too common:

    http://love242.deviantart.com/art/couple-in-love-2-128460494

    The big thing about this photo is the fact that the man is looking for the woman’s reaction and that makes him happy, you can tell he really cares for her. The woman on the other hand doesn’t look at the man for his reaction, all she cares about is looking good for the picture and that brings her joy.

  24. Shawn says:

    The guy may be a beta but he has my admiration for getting a girl that hot; so, he must be doing something right.

  25. Dan Fletcher says:

    The innate revulsion towards weak male behavior makes sense. Weak men in the tribe were a liability. They were dead weight in a fight or a hunt. Another mouth to feed and another body to protect.

  26. aspic says:

    The true nature of the dark triad:

    ============D
    ()()

    Do you understand?

    Penis + L testiclate + R testiclate = Dark Triad.

  27. Mexican Pete says:

    It might be an alpha taking a mock-beta pose, not expecting the picture to be disseminated.

    Sometimes, I pretend to be “Mr. Sensitivo” to piss off my lady. Call her a goddess in a lisping voice, tell her that I don’t deserve her and claim that we’re going to have a Twilight Marathon while she can gorge on Ben and Jerrys, because “real women have triple chins”.

    It reminds her of the kind of guy she might have wound up with.

    Or else, this guy is the lady’s “special” brother.

  28. People often say that only money matters; the following article proves that being beta negates any positive qualities one might have.:

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2153789/Rothschild-heiresss-marriage-Goldsmith-scion–falls-rapper-called-Jay-Electronica.html

    Look at the completely beta mannerisms of the Goldsmith husband, and the forced, uncomfortable smile of the Rothschild wife. You KNOW that this was a forced marriage, and being born into such a wealth family molded the Goldsmith guy into a beta because he probably never had to fight for anything in his life. Compare this with the alpha attitude of Jay Electronica; raised in the ghettos of New Orleans where women are treat like meat and one has to put on an alpha demeanor 24/7 in order to not get your ass kicked.

    • corvinus says:

      The Goldsmiths and Rothschilds obviously thought they could have arranged marriages like in the 1800s or in Pakistan without there being problems, uh, arising. Being rich and insulated from the real world also makes you arrogant.

      It would be interesting to see how common cuckoldry is among people who 1) are in arranged-marriages, and 2) are living in Western countries.

    • Money obviously won’t count for much when she has as much of it as you do, because then she isn’t dependent on it. But had he followed the lead of a smarter man like Kelsey Grammar and got himself a girl working for minimum wage, there is little chance she would step out of line. He is her means of escape from a life of cleaning tables to earn just enough money to cover the bills.

      I don’t know if the marriage is “forced” exactly. I’d say they both would be happy with each other’s gene input. She knew his genes would help create a kid smart enough to run their catrillion-dollar empire, which is something she might not have gotten from Jay Electronics (or what the name of this great musical master is). I doubt either of them entered the marriage expecting excitment, though.

      • Hans says:

        >But had he followed the lead of a smarter man like Kelsey Grammar and got himself a girl working for minimum wage, there is little chance she would step out of line.

        Negative – no rational thoughts matter. Beta husbands get cheated on given circumstances where a wife can spend time alone with an alpha male. Happens every day.

        • Rape happens every day, too, but it is not the norm.

          Rationality doesn’t govern our desires, but it has a massive influence on our behaviour. When I and 20 other men standing in line to buy something see a beautiful woman with big tits, 19 of us will feel the desire to fondle them. None of us will do it, however, as we realise the negative consequences it will incur. Men who do fondle women in strange places do exist, but they are in the minority.

          People have urges to engage in revenge, violence, destructive behaviour, and sexual infidelity day-in and day-out, but rarely act on them. Even the majority of people who cheat are acting on the minority of their urges.

      • DonaldMcRonald says:

        They both got married in their early twenties to connect two of the richest families in England… I’m positive it was arranged.

        Even if it wasn’t arranged, the you can just tell the guy was painfully beta. Look at the first pic, she is practically hover-handing her own husband.Every picture of this couple on the internet is of his wife looking uncomfortable and he timidly smiling with closed lips.

    • Art Vandelay says:

      Just seeing the pictures it’s reinforces the meme that black men have low standards when it comes to white women.

  29. gig says:

    btw, on a related note, i read somewhere (perhaps the star magazine) lady gaga is on a baby food diet.

    Cool. Her songs have already contributed a lot to the party scene throughout the world, so she can do Mankind another favor and drastically shorten her own lifespan

  30. gig says:

    The guy may be a beta but he has my admiration for getting a girl that hot; so, he must be doing something right.

    That’s only one pic, and both her face and body are far from clear in it. Which does not deny the points made in the comment below yours.

  31. peckerwood says:

    Sadly, the picture would be less gruesome, repulsive if they did the gender switcheroo pic with him in a dress and her in a suit

  32. deref says:

    i tipped CH off to this pic without linking the original source, sorry..

    posted with title “I count myself very lucky that she ended up marrying me…”
    http://www.reddit.com/r/pics/comments/uw54v/i_count_myself_very_lucky_that_she_ended_up/

    someone posted a “i hope she divorces you and bleeds your assets dry” comment, he replied:
    “Wow. Just wow. I genuinely didn’t realise that a simple photo could incite such much bile and hatred… Seriously, you really need a hug.”

    [heartiste: i see that the beta male subject of this post is a member in good standing of the wowjustwowsers degenerate freak mafia.]

    • Dan Fletcher says:

      Oh for Christ’s sake, Reddit strikes again.

    • corvinus says:

      “Wow. Just wow. I genuinely didn’t realise that a simple photo could incite such much bile and hatred… Seriously, you really need a hug.”

      Watson, we got proof he isn’t an alpha putting on a mock-beta act

      [heartiste: we also have proof he’s one of those mincing “wowjustwow”sers who seem to have infiltrated all strata of society lately.]

      • Mr. Pointyface says:

        Ha. Maybe he’s married and this choir of internets bullies piling on just fuck herpetic sluts while checking out your abs in the mirror like Bateman in American Psycho.

        I think I’d rather hang out with a guy who doesn’t care about his image, he won’t stand there trying to look like a wood post. Haha, he even said someone needs a hug. That’s so openly non-masculine it’s alpha.

        You gossip like a bunch of jealous middle school girls.

  33. gunslingergregi says:

    that shit pretty funny

  34. Jack says:

    A little off-topic, but look at how these obese landwhales try to convince themselves that being disgustingly overweight does not equal ugly — which it most certainly does. Fat is ugly. Period.

    http://www.shakesville.com/2012/06/fatsronauts-101_12.html

    Fatsronauts. Beyond fucking stupid. In fact seems to me that entire website is in defense of being a fat, lazy fuck. Well, keep on trying to justify that which you know is false. Keep lying to yourselves, whales. And here’s a clue: eat less calories in a day than you burn. Lose some weight you lazy fucks.

    Now if only the United States would institute weight maximums for health insurance, us healthy people wouldn’t have to carry the freight for these chronically diseased mammoths, costing every American billions and billions of tax dollars each year.

    • Ripp says:

      Another symptom of feminist doctrine: it’s ok to be fat, lazy and stupid and it’s still attractive.

      It’s time for Final Solution measures for the morbidly obese. Start in texas with black vans, abduct fat people and melt them down and convert the matter into energy. Time to turn this thing around into positive GDP.

    • Art Vandelay says:

      The only reason we don’t shoot fat chicks to the moon is because the more poundage you move the more expensive it gets…

  35. Shoot Me says:

    I see photos like that and I just wish an asteroid would hit the earth and get it all over with.

    Been thinking about alpha attitude – Stiv Bators jumped into my brain. The guy was 5 foot nothing and probably weighed 120 pounds. Still, he got laid more than anyone posting on this board – I know because I witnessed some of his shenanigans in person. A legend, and I learned a lot about girls just watching him operate.

    Girls ate up this attitude and he was happy to act it out for them:

    Listen and learn: “I Need Lunch”

    I-I don’t need your company
    Girls like you all come for free
    I-I don’t wantcha to hang around
    Girl I don’t need ya to drag me down
    Well I-I don’t really wanna dance
    Girl, I just wanna get in your pants

    Now listen girl

    You try and try
    You want we’re just more than friends
    You cry and cry
    You know i’ll prick ya’in the end
    Look at me that way, bitch
    Your face is gonna getta punch
    I said I don’t need no cook girl
    I need lunch

    Now listen to me baby

    I-you go find yourself a factory man
    Girl-you were born with dishpan hands
    Well I, baby, I don’t need romance
    You know, girl, I just wanna get in your pants

    I said-I need lunch

    Feed me!!

  36. gunslingergregi says:

    yea like the gov spent the social security nest egg there is no cost savings in gov

  37. Anonymous says:

    *the only anniversary

  38. wizardcorpse says:

    completely the reverse of the pic in this post by uman
    http://www.theuniversityofman.com/blog/your-endgame-guest-post.html
    it how it has been years ago, now its like that????????

  39. Ripp says:

    “The good news is that recognizing, and discarding, bad anti-game habits is easier than learning pro-game techniques…”

    Critically important to successful game execution- especially in the presence of higher SMV subjects.

    Next time you are observing couples sitting next to eachother: watch how most men (BETAs) are turned toward their girl with their torso facing her while she is sitting straight forward…

    fucking weak. beta.

  40. Nom says:

    “a schizophrenic witch doctor”

    There is no connection between schizophrenia and going into trance. If you want me to be more detailed, just ask, after all we were all ignorant babes at one point I suppose.

    Others with a huge blind spot re paranormal phenomena might want to educate themselves:

    http://www.amazon.com/Explaining-Unexplained-Hans-J-Eysenck/dp/1853752533/

  41. Rum says:

    J. Lennon was in the upper-reaches of alphadom, while he lived. He was the undisputed leader of the Beatles on stage from the days of playing on the Grosse Freiheit-zone of the Rebberbaun until Sir Paul met Linda Eastman in 1970. Think about that for a minute. There were four guys with more ego validation than anyone else in their time, or in all of history, and he was always the one in front controlling the act.
    The list of hot, famous babes (of his time) who did not fuck him at one time or the other is really very short. J. Baez merely complained, that after a routine Thursday night orgy, he could not get it up for her…

    • wizardcorpse says:

      beatles, mars, and other stars who sang quite beta songs will never run out. the shitty lyrics become different when sang with a catchy beat and with a guitar. Acting femminized is different from merely performing femminized-lyric songs. Sing any song on stage and play a cool riff from a guitar in any high school prom and you instantly become a sensation. the popular culture get hurt when they aply what’s sung in the song in real life with knighting like living in the beat of “i am the man who will fight for your honnor”. the guy who sang that on stage gets a lot of pussy, but the guy who lives to its message will be treated like a pussy.

      • Canada says:

        It’s anti-game. These guys are so alpha that they overgame girls with their very presence. Beta lyrics make them more attainable and thus more attractive.

        Not such a good play without the celebrity to back it.

  42. Bill Brasky says:

    Good points about losing the anti-game. I think that’s been the biggest gain for me. Not that I would ever behave like this fag.

    Got a quibble though. These hardwired revulsion instincts, particularly for feces, have been around alot longer than homo sapiens. Probably since we were some kind of furry little creature at least. Maybe reptiles even.

    You are under stating the non blankness of the slate.

  43. Rum says:

    If you have the nerve, go to Youtube and watch the Beatles at Shea Stadium August 15, 1965. If your eyes are open ,you will
    see some 10 thousands of pubescent American girls having their first emo-orgasms, and seat -soaking vaginal effusions. It was all good. But it only happened because the fab 4 were ultra extreme alphas.

  44. wizardcorpse says:

    beatles, mars, and other stars who sang quite beta songs will never run out. the shitty lyrics become different when sang with a catchy beat and with a guitar. Acting femminized is different from merely performing femminized-lyric songs. Sing any song on stage and play a cool riff from a guitar in any high school prom and you instantly become a sensation. the popular culture get hurt when they aply what’s sung in the song in real life with knighting like living in the beat of “i am the man who will fight for your honnor”. the guy who sang that on stage gets a lot of pussy, but the guy who lives to its message will be treated like a pussy. , understood?

  45. JC says:

    I have a question for all those out there better suited in game than me. Perhaps there is no satisfactory answer. I met a girl yesterday from Jdate for coffee; we had about an hour long conversation and she was giving me looks throughout the meal like she was really into me. I walked her to her car and we had a nice, long makeout session, with a good amount of chemistry. Here are the texts from today:

    Me: It was great meeting you yesterday. Id’ like to see you again – I’d like to take you for a hike on sunday if you’re down. We could meet at (cafe) and go from there.
    Her: Hey! Last night was nice. I’m actually go to be in (out of town) for the weekend with some family.
    Me: Okay. The rest of my week is pretty busy, except for tonight if you’d like to grab drinks in (blank). Otherwise we could figure something out for next week.
    Her (much later): Sorry I just saw this! I can’t tonight. I’m going to dinner with a friend after work.

    I didn’t respond after that, and I saw her sitting on JDate for awhile tonight. How would you guys handle this? She’s obviously brushing me off, not responding with counteroffers to meet up. I could next her or (what I’m thinking) text her maybe Sunday and see if she’s down for meeting up. It’s puzzling, though, based off the IOI’s she gave me and our long makeout session. What are your thoughts?

    • TB says:

      She regrets making out with you.

      • JC says:

        Gee, how helpful.

        • TB says:

          I’m sorry I hurt your feelings. Want me to hold your hand or something?

          • JC says:

            What you’re saying is true, but it doesn’t answer the underlying question of why a girl would make out for a long time with a guy, give lots of IOIs, but then do the brush off the next day.

            But sure, let’s hold hands…we can even make out.

          • Canada says:

            You text like a needy beta with backed-up blue balls. Keep it short.

            Jesus invented the three day rule.

        • TB says:

          OK, seriously though. Her texts indicate she’s written you off as a serious sexual prospect, with 95% certainty. This probably really does indicate regret at the necking, of the embarrassment sort, for reasons unknown. Maybe she likes older guys and you’re her age; that happened to me a few times when I was young. No reflection on you.

          Anyway, if you were any sort of priority to her, she’d have at least proposed an alternative time for one of your dates. The bland “last night was nice” combined with the blank “I can’t, sorry” says she isn’t interested but is trying to preserve her “sweet” self-image.

          IF you have any chance, it’s by ignoring her for a good while and then “stumbling” into her later in circumstances that make her take a hard second look at you. Easier said than done.

          • JC says:

            Credited response, thanks. She kissed quite softly, which was interesting to me. Preserving the sweet self-image is probably right (it’s not an age thing; 28 vs 23). I did thrust my bulging erection into her as I was kissing her, but I think that’s to be expected.

          • Canada says:

            Dude, girls leave guys for all kinds of reasons. It’s not like they’re short of options.

            Still, they don’t leave alpha guys. Give less of a fuck. The fact that you’re asking about it on here says she’s all up in your head.

      • Mr. Pointyface says:

        Mr Pointyface, the bringer of bad news for all these arrogant smeg-alphas here, has to agree on this one– ANYTYHING BUT YES IS NO. Women are surrealistically able to make up fake, total-lie excuses for not smegma-. There is always a female implied event she is going to ( not fucking another guy to spare you) as she did here with the “family” event and the dinner with a “friend”.

        All total, total lies if you saw her even for a minute logged into dating site. ..POsitive: You made out with her right away, so you had balls.

        She’s a hypergamous slut, useless to you. ..Get out of the country if you’re under 6 feet, over 40, and not a medical doctor and you don’t want asinine treatment like this.

        ANYTHING BUT YES IS NO. MAKE THE HO SAY NO.

    • Makeout with another girl or do what my grandpa taght me: Never show yourself to her again until she requests your presence herself but the problem with that is that only works with girls with whom you are already in relationship with.
      Speaking about what you texted, I just find it was so long and complete to be effective, you could have texted that you are going hiking in X day and she can come along if she wants (impies that you are going with or without her) saying that you will take her on hiking puts her on the spotlight, meaning that you are showing her she is the reason.

      • anyways I dont know what the conditions were besides your text, and we dont know your body language and stuff. but the same advice goes:
        “She regrets making out with you.”
        makes alot of sense and you should treat this one as a lost cause . and if she doesnt really regret making out with you which means that her damn excuses are genuine (1% of the time), she will initiate another conversation with you or ven a meeting. just do what you do and don’t text her again. of you can make out with her, you can probably do it with another better yet pretend that your phone run out of battery and text her on another phone (of a friend) saying that you appologize but you cannot show up later tonight (considering she knows that you haven’t seen her excuse) becasue you were invited by jesica, one of your high school best friends, tell her not to worry since you two are only FRIENDS

  46. shiva1008 says:

    I think this will become a trend in the future, to shame sycophantic behavior among men towards their significant others (like it used to be). Then you will see less guys doing dumb shit like marrying ex carousel-riders 7 years older than them. And women will start to realize that men are taking less shit from them, thus causing a market correction. The PUA fad is the cutting edge of this movement. The 20-something generation is starting to wake up. They’re either that or doubling down on sycophantic behavior. But over time, the self-respecting men will become more prominent. We are at or near the peak of spineless behavior from men.

  47. whorefinder says:

    Most people forget that when men counsel men to “act like a man,” it’s not so much about changing the man’s feelings internally, but urging him not to show weakness and hurt his family/tribe. Stoicism goes a long way to preventing sensitive people from being re-injured by those probing for weakness.

  48. Anonymous says:

    we are all repulsed by beta males and masculine females. ergo, less beta male bashing (too easy) and more intricate game techniques for us rAFCs/lesser alphas.

  49. anon says:

    Meanwhile, he’s happy in a stable marriage and you’re all wasting night after night trying to fuck interchangeable, forgettable women you don’t respect (or even really give a shit about). Sad.

    Face it: you wouldn’t fuck her– so what’s it to you if she and some some weak-ass giggling beta shacked up and settled down? She could have dyed her hair, toned up, got implants, nose job, hit the clubs, slutted it up and ridden the cock carousel till she’s 40+ with predatory men out to dump a fuck in a random hole, etc. But why bother? I don’t know why anyone would wish that kind of degrading life on her.

    Is it really so galling that they’re not playing your game?

  50. […] won’t mind a little fistfight with any motherfucker otherwise, it will just look stupid (have a nerd or a softie wear some thug clothes, he won’t be able to carry it). If a shirt is too loose don’t use it. […]

  51. Paladin says:

    I am still staggered by the fact that “men” like this manage to find any girls at all, even for a short period of time before breakup or divorce. When I was at my most Beta, I was not even close to the abyss of this photo, yet I was completely ignored.

  52. gig says:

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2155810/Woman-killed-dismembered-cheating-husband-scattered-body-parts-city.html

    Beta tales again.

    http://www1.folha.uol.com.br/cotidiano/1103576-em-site-de-acompanhantes-elize-dizia-ser-lorinha-carinhosa.shtml

    The picture of the wife in the escort site, from 6/7 years ago, or so they say.

    The dude had already found another lover, from the same site, and gave her a Pajero Full plus 27k BRL monthly (12k USD ate the current exchange rate) so that she may leave her escort life

  53. walawala says:

    This photo is a guy in the FriendZone…

    I used to take photos like this before I understood game.

    Part of the learning here is that by being a “fun” guy you get tagged with the non-sexual vibe.

    Smiling too much…smiling is ok…as long as you’re not grinning like you just got handed a giant cheque.

  54. Take a good look at the stuffed animal in this picture. He represents the male ideal that Aunt Giggles and her HUSies would have you believe is the truest expression of Alpha – yet would vomit back out like too rich a dessert.

    • That Guy says:

      @Chris,

      That a good article.

      In the terms of Psychology, the “asshole” consists of the following traits:
      High Extraversion
      Low Neuroticism (perhaps)
      Low Conscientiousness
      Low Agreeableness
      High Openness to Experience
      A bit of a dip into the dark triad traits (those with an extreme dark triad profile aren’t considered sexually attractive).

      Nailed it!

  55. Nyk says:

    LOL, I didn’t look closely at the image and I thought at first that the guy is actually David deAngelo turned beta after marriage.

  56. Timmy Gunn says:

    I’ve actually seen a picture that’s worse than the one posted. I had this ultra-beta nerd in a marketing class that I had the pleasure of getting stuck with in a group project. He missed several deadlines and once showed up to class to discover that we were going to have our midterm. And what was his excuse? He had stayed up the nights before writing a 10 page paper for his girlfriend. Needless to say he failed the midterm. On an interesting, but unsurprising note: he was an econ major.

    I digress, the picture, right. Same as the one you posted, same disgusted look on the girl’s face, except he was giving her a kiss on the cheek. Here’s what made it worse: this motherfucker actually had the balls to make it his wallpaper on his computer! Now the world can see his DLV. I really hope she was cheating on him.

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  58. what says:

    Hey…if it works! Who are we to judge! To each his own. ha!

  59. geo says:

    Watching George Bush I documentary:
    He does not seem to be an alpha male at all: married young to butt ugly headstrong female,concave chest, no muscle definition, played first base (probably only because he was tall) and came across as wimp in election. His smarts were adequate for managerial roles, but he gained power based on the connections his father and grandfather built at elite clubs at Yale and related social circles. Only in America can a beta become president. Obama wasn’t the first one.

  60. Whitehall says:

    Three words – Pee Wee Herman

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