Meeting a girl in a bar is considered quaint in the age of online dating. There’s a nostalgic and even rebellious quality to it now, as if you and her are subverting the dominant digital culture in a desperate act of Philistine defiance.
Bar girls get a bad rap, some of it deserved, most of it not, but the bar girl is elevated in stature compared to the damaged goods that swarm the vast thirst expanse of online dating. Now it’s fair to say that a girl willing to go out to a bar and meet men in person and risk the possible social awkwardness and judgment that entails — when most girls log on to have their id-clits diddled in a sanitized small screen environment under their complete control — is the kind of nonconformist girl who’s demonstrating real depth of character and a willingness to be vulnerable in an age when vulnerability before men is a capital crime.
The bar girl is the new church girl.
Deter Naturalist comments,
We’re screwed if the only place to find women is bars, clubs and workplaces. I admit to absolute zero experience in the “dating market” such as it is, but if a man actually would like to find a woman with whom to share this life, all observation informs me that fishing in a bar, lounge or club is akin to fishing in a septic tank. Neither bar nor cesspool has even carp to hook.
Maybe I’m always missing the point. Maybe the West is already a headless chicken running and all that matters is a man getting his pole greased. But from my perspective, if my descendants have a 0.00001% chance of avoiding a descent-of-Man retrogression from tall/blond/blue-eyed to short/black/brown prehistory, the boys and girls better develop a venue to find actual MATES (neither of whom are short/black/brown) and do so before the communicable disease called Popular Culture causes them all to ruin themselves with embedded memories.
I guess it’s time to start a real church, or prepare to do so when the Poz Police fall apart enough to stop murdering any such in its infancy.
Retrogression to the bleak.
Deter has a point. The duty of any Chad should be first and foremost to #resist the retrogression himself, then to convince his women to resist it for their own good.
The (theoretical) downside of bars in the coming majority-minority Blight America is that they are liable to be filled with Retrogressives who by sheer force of number will drag some part of evolved America into prehistory. Their very presence in public mate markets can alter the pH balance of eons of evolutionary courtship preferences of the Transcended, and poison relations between the advanced sexes.
But that is a warning for a problem that has been, so far, self-correcting. Bars are the last frontier of de facto segregation. The Eloi have their bars, and the Morlocks theirs, and everyone knows which are which. The few mixed bars are notable, and people who go there are of a particular type. Easy enough to avoid them if retrogression is on your mind.
It’s been remarked that the most important job of parents is peer group oversight. That is, parents have the biggest influence over kids’ futures by locating the family in a neighborhood with well-mannered peers who would make good friends to their kids.
Likewise, men should join solid, respectable social circles with the kinds of friends who will take them to the…culturally compatible…bars and other meeting places where the Ascent-of-Man women go.
Instead of asking kids “what do you want to be when you grow up?” perhaps we might as them, before puberty nudges them toward deal-breaker behavior, what kind of life they wish to lead? Selling kids on the “common life” early, rather than waiting for the girls to be ruined by Pop Cult and the boys to learn to orbit them, might make more sense than waiting until the girls have Done Dallas and the boys think wearing pussy hats will land them a wife-to-be-mother worth having.
That’s a pretty good paragraph with a gem of advice for parents worried about the baneful influence of the Poz.
PA adds,
I’ve been out of the dating market for a decade and a half but going by observation, the scene is not good. My office is in a premium nightlife district and the revelers come out on Thursday and Friday evenings. The average early-twenties girl, if she’s not otherwise an upper class superficially assimilated brown or yellow, is a 5. As someone observed, the guys don’t even look for a pretty face any more; her merely not-being-chunky lights up everyone’s radar.
On the other hand, girls in middle school and high school are no different than they were three decades ago, across all (White) social classes. Too young for the single adult man to go after, but that’s where a teenage boy has to stake his claim: until we again have the social structures for healthy pairing and marriage, the 17-year-old boy is best advised to knock up and wed his high school girlfriend if he has a good one, and have both sets of parents help financially.
— avoiding a descent-of-Man retrogression from tall/blond/blue-eyed to short/black/brown prehistory
Preventing that retrogression is the material purpose of man on this Earth.
You had ONE job…
Let these people inspire you to fight for the upward genetic path:
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Ah, blessed Latvia. I may return to you soon.
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We all need to find a girl that is Lativian orthodox.
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Most Latvians are Lutherans, followed by Roman Catholics, with Orthodox Christians in 3rd place – and most of these Orthodox believers are Russians. Orthodox Latvians exist but there aren’t that many of them (source: https://ipfs.io/ipfs/QmXoypizjW3WknFiJnKLwHCnL72vedxjQkDDP1mXWo6uco/wiki/Religion_in_Latvia.html ).
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True. But most Latvians don’go to church and don’t believe in Christianity. They are pretty areligious, like the rest of W Europe. It is the Orthodox churches that are active and full of life there.
St. John of Riga was, forgive my language Lord, a badass. Read his short biography.
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“What do you want?” is the most asinine, insane, and narcissist-inducing question you could ask. And you’re asking pre-teens, teens, and horny young adults this question? If you are a real adult, YOU ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER to that question.
Boys want a girl for sex, and then a mission and goals to work hard for, without worrying about where they’ll get the sex from next. Girls want sex from a man who can provide shelter and some strong seed for healthy children, which will get them attention from the other men and women in the tribe, respect and honor, then they need work and cook food for their man who will come back, feast, and fuck them good.
Otherwise, men want meaningful work, intellectual or physical, guided by older men, for Beauty, Tribe, and God. Women don’t care so much about these abstract things. They do care that their men seem to care about such things though, so they can ‘care’ and ‘know’ about them by proxy.
Those are the basics. Without those, people go insane, unless they are monastics and choose to take that path. This is a different battle, but one that leads to Sanity when done correctly, in the Orthodox manner.
That Boomers still question these basic life facts is unbelievable.
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Nice p0ast, especially the bit about women only knowing/caring about interests of the men with whom they are acquainted.
We’ve all seen or heard of them at some point. The chicks that love video games, watches football every weekend, is into kayaking, knows how to fence, knows the B-Side tracks of an independent a nu-metal f@g band, loves the cult movies, or even likes to drink faurking Amstel Light.
You guessed it, The HUGEST sluts on Earth.
Women don’t have any real interests outside of the most vapid, veneer, basic b00llshit.
Muh Starbucks! Muh snapchat! Muh scented bath-bomb! Muh phone!
They all have this ‘baseline’ of attention outlets, consumption patterns, and things they make the slightest butt-sliver of effort to learn about. So if you come across a woman with a unique taste in something out of the norm, you can bet the house that she had that awareness fu cked into her by a Chad (s). Women take interest in the interest(s) of the top tier cawk in which they choose to ride with enthusiasm. They are like water and take the shape of their desires containers, which is why she is attracted to men that lead and have a mission in life.
This is a simply part of her sexual strategy, and the more it fails in locking down Chad, the easier it will be for you to identify these red flags that are manifested in her ever-growing portfolio of unusual tastes acquired from belching up the latest Alpha’s €um bubble. It’s also important to note that the fact that these kinds of women have to resort to such character molding demonstrates that they weren’t attractive enough in the first place to secure a high SMV man, so they have to become his shadow in hopes that her ‘personality’ and liking to his interests would be enough to keep him from straying and destroying the sweet sugar walls of younger, tighter pussy while she cries at home with a bucket of Ben and Jerry’s while staying plugged into the happy-juice pump (instagram) to dupe herself into believing she still has value in life.
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Amen. I’d like to nominate this for COTW. Well said, Man.
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Grade A 100% fantastic post
Great comments you quoted too.
I know I need to be amongst a strong peer group. It’s part of my overall mission
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Who knows, you could always get a professional lady looking to step out.
https://153news.net/watch_video.php?v=7DMH8RBSYK47&play_list=127
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Finally made a Tinder account yesterday, for sh1ts and giggles. To echo PA, I was shocked by the lack of quality. I mean, most chicks, even the young ones, are so fat, black, tatted, or otherwise repulsive that I’m pleasantly surprised when I see a 6. This is not how averages and standard deviations are supposed to work.
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You get given a “score” based on your profile pictures, and then you get shown profiles that Tinder thinks are in your league.
If you’re being shown mostly ugs it’s because you’re no oil painting yourself.
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That would explain much. Half my pictures are of non human things. They already removed my photo of the lifted truck that said “I identify as a Prius”
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Game saves (Whyte) CIVILIZATIONS. (?)
if not so, let’s make it so.
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CH, more game poasts plz. It’s like an oasis in the blackpill political desert.
Even the lowliest among us can lean and implement game.
And for those who snark about “doing something RIGHT NOW”. Then lament about how nothing can be done and (((TPTB))) have us in a stranglehold…
Well…maybe you can’t influence Drumpf to get rid of kushner. But you CAN improve your game and put some white bunzZzz——>Ovens.
The future belongs to those who show up. Do your part.
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Pro comment sir. I like your style.
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I use to get satisfaction from “gaming” snarky, sarcastic girls (common in Australia). It was like a sport to me, I’d get immense satisfaction when they were in my bed with their knees behind their ears, conquered.
I did bang a lot attractive girls I otherwise wouldn’t have, but honestly, this course of action became exhausting after a while.
These days, I’m older, and wiser, and at the *slightest* hint of cuntery, I’m out. I don’t try and game women like this anymore.
I’m not a game denialist. Game works. Game will enable you to bang hotter chicks consistently.
The problem is that some girls just don’t *deserve* to be gamed, and gaming cunts into your bed is, in some weird way, rewarding them. And therein lies the catch 22.
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Too much pussy for you? You’re that good, eh?
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The Jaded Pussyist
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Hypergamy is a no lose system Meaner…
Beta bux or Alfa fux said the GBFM. Note the “or”…
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I know one dude who met a ltr in a rowing club and then his w1fe in same club.
I know another dude who did an evening language class and met his w1fe.
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Das ist gut!!
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That is great, because they met IRL, and they obviously share a similar, healthy hobby. Opposites may attract, but similarity bonds relationships with very sweet glue.
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I firmly believe that the clown world we believe in is down to the ’empowerment’ of women
Case in point…one example of their stupidity I see
A coworker for a week had a really nasty cough.
After a week of listening to this I asked her if she saw a doctor.
Nope.
So next day…out of concern and annoyance I drove her to her doctor(another woman God help us)
So she was given pills and I asked what she had.
Really nasty cough…could be flu, bronchitis, TB…
‘I dont know’ she replied.
‘Did you ask the doctor?’
‘No ‘
‘Did the doctor not tell you?’
‘No’
‘What did you guys talk about?’
‘Vacation ideas. She is looking to go somewhere in August ‘
The cough is still there.
They’re all hopeless
Giving them the keys to power was a joke
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holy shit
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I’m betting the pills were valium or xanax…probably had nothing to do with her cough…just something for coping.
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That says it all, eh?
Reminds mildly of shit I see/deal with daily
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Off-topic but you want to be subversive? Learn to cut your own hair. After yet another stupid hassle trying to get my signature executive hairdo I finally bought a pair of $50 clippers and started doing it myself. Should have done it years ago. 40 years of pointless drama from haircutters, not to mention getting butchered like a french poodle half the time. Clippers paid for themselves after 2 cuts. It’s been a year now and the freedom is empowering. Women also notice my resultant rebel bad-boy attitude. Lots of videos on youtube of guys sharing their pro tips, just find one who has hair like you and do it.
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I needed to hear this.
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fast-forward to 2:18 if you’re the impatient type
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That’s what I am talking about. Say what you will about Tom Cruise, the man is an accomplished skydiver. Of course he can afford the best rigs and associated costs. I used a tattered Papillon and a surplus Navy reserve back in the day. Even then I still stupidly went to the hair salon to get coiffed.
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Lolzozozozozozz
CH please break it down.
https://www-m.cnn.com/2019/04/06/us/hart-family-crash-inquest-searches/index.html
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“In my opinion, Sarah and Jennifer succumbed to a lot of pressure,” said Lt. Shannon Barney of the Mendocino County Sheriff’s Office.
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Sounds like there were some fellow bu11dykes in Child Protective Services who were running cover for them.
Ph@gs & bu11dykes are psych0paths & s@t@nists.
And the Frankfurt School is all too happy to empower them.
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That’s what (((Sandusky))) was doing out of Penn State – running the gr0idish boys all up and down the East Coast to service (((a very wealthy sanhedrin clientele))).
So the uber-sanhedrin sent in (((Louis Freeh))) to cover up the sanhedrin presence and to blame it all on poar deceased stalwart GOP Joe-Pa instead.
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You mean the average girl rates halfway between a 1 and a 10? Shocking revelation.
Still more troubling, I’ve come to find out in my experience that half of all women, HALF, fall BELOW this AVERAGE.
What is this world coming to?
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Average healthy young women should be 7s. Sixes if plain janes and eights if higher tier. No excuse for any of them to be below a 5 unless they are genetically unlucky. Watch that Latvia video before you spaz again.
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“It’s not just IQ. Young people look fundamentally different today from when I was younger. There are still good looking young people, but far fewer of them. It is almost like there has been some kind of genetic collapse.”
Freeper “rbg81”; 2018-06-14; 9:38:37AM; http://freerepublic.com/focus/f-chat/3663075/posts?page=25#25
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Women have always needed boundaries. Those boundaries have been lifted and now we have a whored out clown world nanny state with women of all kinds going to extremes. The boundaries need to go back up. It starts with fathers.
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“A real church” demands territorial exclusivity for its congregations to protect their strongly held faiths about human ecology — particularly as it pertains to the environment in which children develop. Since Facebook is now explicitly targeting “white nationalists” I would advise retreat into “fair religionists”.
https://fairchurch.org/
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Separation of Church and State is just a code word for “this ain’t your land.”
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