This is a little trick I picked up over the years hound-dogging my way into women’s heart-shaped boxes. First, oftentimes even moreso second, and sometimes third dates, can fall victim to the dreaded conversational lull. Women I have noticed are less revealing than are men in the early going. Likely, this too is an evolved predisposition to protect women from themselves: unsavory blurts about their sexual histories or motor-mouthing that might betray a little more eagerness than should be acceptable for a coy woman measuring up a bevy of suitors.
Anyhow, drawing a woman into conversation isn’t so hard once you know a few verbal tricks to lube their larynxes and spike their curiosity for you (a feeling which in women is handmaiden to self-doubt).
I will ask some anodyne question, like “What do you like to do for fun?”
She will get that glaze in her eyes that women always get when a man asks them to describe themselves in a generalized, ill-defined way (chicks prefer details). “Oh, here comes the interview”, she’ll thought bubble.
And just as she’s starting to speak through blank eyes and blanker lips, I’ll interject,
“It’s ok, I know everything about you anyway.”
aaaaaand……TINGLE STORM.
She’ll suddenly perk right up, lean forward, and naturally wonder aloud “And what’s that?”
At which point, I’ll call upon my powers of id-stripping observation and like Shercock Bones deliver an ASSessment of her peculiarities. If I’m not feeling so keen, I’ll just make up some shit on the spot. If I’m wrong, at least it revs the banter and opens avenues for humor and sexual innuendo.
Try it, you’ll find you (and her) like it.
And you should know that drawing a woman into conversation is a great example of FLIPPING THE SCRIPT and MAKING THE WOMAN CHASE YOU. When a woman is invested in what you have to say about her, she’s in effect assumed the role of the suitor, the chaser, the eager beaver who wants your validation. She’ll qualify herself to you, over and over, enthusiastically, a bit desperately, like a beta male, and her head space and vaj place will effloresce with anticipation of hosting your arrival.
I used that question and line on one girl a while back, worded slightly different of course. She asked “what do you know about me then huh?”. I replied “I know you like being spanked”. Cheesy as hell I know, but she went along with it.
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It may get cheesy here in the near future, with 50 Shades of Grayer & Grayest the Neverending Sequels, but back in they day, it woulda been hitting it outta the park.
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My guess is 50 shades is for an older crowd of women than I fuck with. Any chick over 25 has pretty much hit the wall these days. I had like maybe two conversations on it that I can remember that went anywhere and those were both over a year ago. Younger women are not really into pop culture like that anymore. They have their niches of weird shit that I just don’t have the patience for. Most of the edgier chicks that I fuck with are either country girls or are far right. I also am fucking with one normie but she is easy to dominate. Normies must have it tough I guess. They don’t act all slutty and don’t have any edgy activist beliefs, so they get passed over a lot. But she is my secret, because she has almost unlimited sexual energy. It’s like she saved it all for just that. So I basically have two that I fuck and the one country girl whom I am talking to. But I need to get the fuck out of here.
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I guess the most identical recent conversation I have had that had anything to do with that was to ask her if she wanted to be dominated or to be loved. She told me both.
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Really nice contrast-line, Reb. Well done.
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“Hi, I’m Rich…as in loaded.” That makes them wet.
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[…] How To Draw A Woman Into Sensual Conversation […]
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Get the conversation focused around broader topics….movies is always one they love. Ask “What was your favorite part of 50 Shades of Grey?”
That always gets a tingle. Often they’ll become full of bravado: “That was sooooo vanilla!” or “I haven’t seen it….” or something.
Take it from there.
The other is to ask: “Have you ever had a lover who was a little older?”
I always substitute the word “lover” for any topic about “boyfriend….”
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I dunno, WW, I have a blanket policy to NEVER engage in any conversation which even obliquely references another man’s d!ck.
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— women’s heart-shaped boxes
The conversation about Kurt Cobain… is not finished.
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Can someone give me a URL? When I go to twatter, I see a bunch of extraneous garbage. How do get rid of all the replies, so that you see just what originated with the user [Chateau Emissary]? Thanks.
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There wasn’t a specific recent literal conversation on Cobain. I’ve commented about him on and off for years, others have too.
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There is a lot lot be uncovered on damaged Aryans. Cobain was once described as a Viking who reached the end of the world and then didn’t know what to do. A more contemporary case is one “Father John Misty,” whose gammaesque posturing is a facade for his insight and talent. Check out his “Now I’m Learning to Love The War” for vocals, or “I Love You Honeybear” for shitlib resignation to global markets’ collapse.
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Everything was too easy for him. He made things difficult on himself to challenge himself in a way. As an artist, I wish I could have seen him mature. His music was genius, his lyrics where convoluted but they had meaning, to him at least. I wish he could have gotten off the drugs and reached his potential.
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“And what’s that?”
“You’re completely unable to satisfy me.”
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There you go again with another Cobain reference
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“I never really date [her hair color], as they tend to be too [selfish] [rough] [masculine][argumentative][etc.].” As to the last one, argumentative, if she retorts, “Oh, so you don’t like a woman who has her own mind and opinions?”
“Yes, that’s exactly what was talking about! You nailed it!” (Yes, but you might lose the sale, Johnny! Who cares after she says that comment. It means she’s a straight up pussy-hat femtard bitch.)
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Screening for femtards. This has become my first objective on the poon hunt. We live in troubled times. My woman need not be trouble to me.
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smart man
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Upon saying you know everything about her already, she will naturally ask for your view. Before revealing it a simple “just cuz I know it doesn’t mean I’ll tell you” will build the tension slightly more and generate the tingletastic approval seeking that much more. Been an effective technique for be before delivering the generic Miss Cleo cold read boilerplate
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This works well for day game. Throw her an easy one like, “I know you are bored with the boys you meet,” followed by “some of this is not appropriate conversation for here.” “Maybe later, if you play your cards right.”
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>> She will get that glaze in her eyes that women always get when a man asks them to describe themselves in a generalized, ill-defined way (chicks prefer details). “Oh, here comes the interview”, she’ll thought bubble.
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>>And just as she’s starting to speak through blank eyes and blanker lips, I’ll interject,
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>>“It’s ok, I know everything about you anyway.”
Beautiful 2 punch combo. That first line primes her… not only gets her off balance, but also gives her false confidence, and the second line rips her “where it counts.”
I love that.
And love when you write about girls. More please. I need these lessons.
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